In one of the most popular podcast episodes ever published by Evidence Based Birth®, Dr. Rebecca Dekker sits down with Dr. Alyssa Berlin, a clinical psychologist specializing in pregnancy, postpartum, and parenting, to discuss ways to make the transition to postpartum smoother, healthier, and more joyful for families.

Together, they unpack why two-thirds of couples report a drop in relationship satisfaction after childbirth, what factors contribute to emotional struggles in the postpartum period, and how social media myths can set parents up for disappointment.

Through relatable stories and evidence-based strategies, Dr. Berlin explains why preparation during pregnancy matters and shares guidance on protecting mental health, building support, and keeping relationships strong.

(06:21) Parenting Expectations vs Reality

(10:04) Perinatal Anxiety and Identity Struggles

(13:33) Strengthening Bonds Before Parenthood

(15:22) Parenting Lessons: The Humbling "Baby Vortex"

(19:15) Postpartum Challenges and Parental Leave

(23:08) Postpartum Doula Support Research Needed

(25:47) Creative "Date Moment" Ideas for Couples

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Follow Dr. Alyssa Berlin on Instagram: @dralyssaberlin

Learn about the AfterBirth Plan Workshop here.

Connect with the Berlin Wellness Group.

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For more information about Evidence Based Birth® and a crash course on evidence based care, visit www.ebbirth.com. Follow us on Instagram and YouTube! Ready to learn more? Grab an EBB Podcast Listening Guide or read Dr. Dekker's book, "Babies Are Not Pizzas: They're Born, Not Delivered!" If you want to get involved at EBB, join our Professional membership (scholarship options available) and get on the wait list for our EBB Instructor program. Find an EBB Instructor here, and click here to learn more about the EBB Childbirth Class.