Podcast Summary: Extra Dirty with Hallie Batchelder
Episode: Blocking Exes, Slut Breaks & 2025 Fashion Trends
Release Date: June 26, 2025
Introduction to the Episode
In this vibrant episode of "Extra Dirty with Hallie Batchelder," host Hallie Batchelder delves deep into the tumultuous world of modern relationships, social media etiquette, and the ever-evolving landscape of fashion trends for 2025. With her trademark humor and candidness, Hallie navigates through personal anecdotes, insightful discussions, and interactive segments that resonate with her audience.
Unfollowing and Blocking Exes: Navigating Social Media Post-Breakup
[00:57 - 17:11]
Hallie opens the episode by addressing the sensitive topic of unfollowing and blocking exes on social media platforms. She shares her personal experiences of mass unfollowing, revealing that she recently unfollowed around 40 people on Instagram to maintain a healthy digital environment. Hallie emphasizes the importance of curating one's social media feed to reflect genuine connections.
Key Points:
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Rules of Unfollowing:
- Future Encounters: If there's no intention of running into someone, they deserve an unfollow.
- Recent Activity: Those who haven't been active in the past five years are candidates for unfollowing.
- Consistency: Inconsistent posters, especially from college, are easy to write off.
- Personal Wrongs: Individuals who have wronged her in any way get the block button.
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Blocking vs. Muting:
Hallie differentiates between blocking and muting, highlighting that blocking is reserved for those who actively disrespect her or her circle, while muting is a strategic move to maintain peace without severing ties completely.
Notable Quote:
"Reject toxic energy, and protect your peace. If you're shit-talking someone in my orbit, you're getting the block button."
— Hallie Batchelder [05:30]
Fashion Segment: 2025 Trends – What's In and What’s Out
[17:11 - 36:22]
Transitioning seamlessly, Hallie introduces her fashion segment, where she critiques and commends various trends projected for 2025. Her insights are both analytical and personal, offering listeners a blend of style advice and relatable commentary.
Fashion Trends Discussed:
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Doc Martens:
*Chic in the right seasons, but not suitable for beach outings.
"Doc Martens are trendy and edgy but not timeless."
— Hallie [18:00] -
Bows:
*Considered timeless but personally disliked.
"Bows have been around forever; they'll stay, but you'll never catch me wearing one."
— Hallie [19:45] -
Baguette Bags:
*A staple that remains timeless.
"Baguette bags, like my sister's Prada, are always going to be in some shape or form."
— Hallie [20:10] -
Sheer Clothing:
*Chic when styled correctly, though not universally preferred.
"Sheer outfits are chic for the right audience but not my go-to."
— Hallie [21:30] -
Low Rise Denim:
Trendy and chic for some, but not timeless.
"Low rise denim is so cunty and chic, but I don't think it’s timeless."
— Hallie [22:15] -
Pearl Necklaces:
Timeless when styled edgily but traditionally seen as prim.
"With the right combo, pearl necklaces can be edgy, but alone, they're too prim for me."
— Hallie [23:00]
Notable Quote:
"White tank tops are my uniform. They’re casual, elevated, and absolutely chic."
— Hallie Batchelder [25:00]
Am I the Asshole? – Relationship Dilemmas and Honest Advice
[29:11 - 44:20]
One of the episode's highlights is the "Am I the Asshole?" segment, where Hallie addresses listener-submitted relationship questions with her unfiltered perspective. This interactive portion underscores her commitment to honesty and empowerment.
Listener Questions and Hallie's Take:
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Needing a Break in a Relationship:
Listener lies about needing a break to pursue personal desires.
Hallie's Advice:
"Slut breaks are good for the soul. Allow yourself that space without guilt."
— Hallie [30:45] -
Informing Ex's New Girlfriend About Cheating:
Listener warns ex's new girlfriend about his infidelity.
Hallie's Advice:
"Let her find out on her own. Your intentions might not be pure, and karma will take its course."
— Hallie [34:10] -
Criticizing Boyfriend's Moaning During Sex:
Listener confronts boyfriend about his unnatural-sounding moans.
Hallie's Advice:
"You're not the asshole. He’s impacting your sexual experience negatively."
— Hallie [35:50] -
Keeping Dating Apps Active During Vacation:
Listener keeps Grindr active while on vacation with boyfriend.
Hallie's Advice:
"If you're in an exclusive relationship, delete those apps. Transparency is key."
— Hallie [36:22] -
Acting Out at Friend’s Wedding After Breakup:
Listener hooks up during a friend's wedding to cope with ex's presence.
Hallie's Advice:
"You’re not the asshole. Your friend needs to enjoy her day without judgment."
— Hallie [40:30]
Notable Quote:
"If you're feeling the need to explore with other guys, maybe you're not with the right guy for now."
— Hallie Batchelder [32:15]
Closing Thoughts and Upcoming Adventures
[44:21 - End]
As the episode wraps up, Hallie shares her excitement for an upcoming trip to Mykonos, promising a debrief and insights from her experiences there. She encourages listeners to engage on various platforms and participate in future segments, maintaining her signature enthusiasm and connection with her audience.
Notable Quote:
"When you hear this episode, I will be freshly back from Mykonos, ready to do a debrief and let you know what I found there."
— Hallie Batchelder [42:00]
Conclusion
This episode of "Extra Dirty with Hallie Batchelder" masterfully blends personal storytelling with practical advice, all while keeping the tone light and humorous. Hallie's honest take on social media management, relationship dynamics, and fashion trends provides listeners with both entertainment and valuable insights. Whether you're navigating post-breakup social media clean-ups or staying ahead of fashion curves, Hallie's candid discussions offer relatable guidance and a hearty dose of NYC flair.
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