Extra Dirty with Hallie Batchelder

Episode: Hallie’s BDE & Graydon’s Love Language

Date: October 2, 2025
Guests: Graydon Cutler

Episode Overview

In this hilariously unfiltered episode, Hallie and her bestie Graydon reunite in NYC to recap their latest escapades, discuss what it means to have “big dick energy,” and dive deep into their love languages, sex lives, and disastrous nights out in the city. As always, the conversation is brutally honest and full of spicy, laugh-out-loud moments—think bedroom confessions, behind-the-scenes drama from the club, and raunchy Truth or Drink questions. The episode paints an intimate (and often ridiculous) snapshot of modern dating, friendship, and NYC debauchery, echoing the raw sleepover energy fans adore.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Reunited: Hallie & Graydon’s NYC Catch-Up

[02:19] The duo are thrilled to see each other again after a while apart (“I haven’t seen you since Nantucket.” – Graydon, 02:40).
- Hallie jokes about being called Graydon’s “little boy,” and they riff on their playful friendship dynamic.
[03:08] Graydon admits New York “overwhelms” him, especially the lack of driving and the sky-high cost of parking.
- “In my building specifically to own a parking spot... north of $350 grand.” – Hallie, 03:24
- Graydon’s choice to get a hotel rather than crash at Hallie’s for “alone time” sparks a comedic detour about boundaries and potential orgies (“Would you have an orgy with me?” – Hallie, 05:37).

2. NYC Nightlife: Club Hopping and Door Drama

[07:49] Hallie introduces Graydon to her current obsession, membership club Shea Margaux, describing it as swanky with “mistress vibes.”
- “If I were, like, a hedge fund guy cheating on my wife... I’d bring the mistress to Shay Margot.” – Hallie, 07:57
[09:09] Getting into other clubs is a challenge. Hallie describes NYC bouncers as obsessed with gender ratios and recounts being turned away even as a semi-celebrity. She once “made out with the bouncer” but still can’t get in reliably.
- Humorous moment: An old man tries to reclaim his artwork from Gospel club while yelling, “Do you know who the fuck I am?” – Hallie, 10:05
- Graydon shares Boston’s less exclusive, cash-bribe bouncer culture.
- Hallie reflects on appearance-based rejection: “Rejection is redirection.” (11:34) Graydon quips, “Redirection with an erection.” (11:36)

3. Raw Confessions: Sex, Orgies, and Sexual Real-Talk

[12:15] They candidly share stories about sexual positions, topping and bottoming, “bareback” riding, and who’s “tighter” based on sex frequency.
- “I am a top.” – Hallie, 12:21
- “You would be a bottom verse.” – Graydon, 12:30
[14:00] Hallie boasts about her recent sexual exploits; Graydon bemoans a dry spell.
- “I would just be lucky if I could even touch a dick.” – Graydon, 13:04
- Hallie shares the awkwardness of a partner’s one-minute performance, but shrugs it off.
[14:38] Truth or Drink Game
- Popping Cherries While Horseback Riding: They debate the myth that riding horses bareback can “pop your cherry.”
  - “I don’t have a cherry. I understand that, but obviously I was the only boy at my barn and girls would ride bareback without a saddle.” – Graydon, 15:20
  - Hallie reads the clinical explanation after consulting ChatGPT.
- Sex Sentiments: Revealing questions about nudes (“Have I ever sent nudes? 100%, like this morning.” – Graydon, 20:02), wild sex locations (pickup truck on highway, club bathrooms), and how Grindr features in Graydon’s love life.
- On Body Image and “Tightness”: Who’s “tighter” – someone having sex all week, or someone in a dry spell?
  - “The human body is very forgiving, you should know that.” – Hallie, 24:47

4. Exploring Fantasies & Taboo Desires

[27:56] What sexual thing have you never tried but wish you could?
- Graydon: Wishes he knew what it felt like to have a vagina ("A lot of boys feel this way... not in the ass, just… a vagina." – 27:56)
- Hilarious talk about Hallie’s “big dick energy.”
  - “You kind of give like dick energy.” – Graydon, 29:16
  - “If I had a dick, it'd be a massive piece.” – Hallie, 29:32
[29:46] Recurrent fantasies: Graydon admits, “I really miss my babysitter. I think about him a lot. I think he’s married. Hoping his family doesn’t see this.” Hallie shares her fantasy of a “fake robbery” (“I would love to get robbed… if we can’t fuck.” – 30:35)
[31:06] Dream talk leads weirdly to new vitamin-induced nightmares and the hazards of melatonin and Lemmy Sleep gummies.

5. Love Languages, Relationships & Single Life

[38:04] Hallie and Graydon dissect their own and each other’s love languages:
- Graydon: “I would give clean laundry… acts of service.” (38:38)
- Hallie: “A blowjob. It’s all of them into one.” (39:02)
- Both seem to crave physical touch but reflect on how affirmation is more abundant (from followers or themselves) than real intimacy.
- Graydon’s self-soothing: “Before I go to bed I give myself pats on the back. Have you ever done that? It’s like the ultimate self-love.” (41:01)

6. Gushing Over Justin Bieber

[42:20] Hallie and Graydon detour into Bieb-mania—the news Justin Bieber is headlining Coachella.
- Graydon reveals he cried in a TikTok about maybe not going (“If I don’t get invited to Coachella... people yell at me because I block their view... that’s why I said artist pass.” – 43:01)
- Graydon’s dream interaction: “I’m so proud of you.” (43:49)
- Both rave about Bieber and Hailey, sharing empathy for internet hate and the pressure of Hollywood.

7. Odds and Ends: Tennis, French, and Playing “Who Would Play Us in a Movie?”

[34:43] Plans for dinner and reminiscing about failed tennis attempts (“My mom’s a great tennis player.” – Graydon)
[36:18] Language skills: Hallie boasts about her family’s linguistic ability; Graydon’s “Bonjia” in Portuguese.
[47:45] Casting themselves in movies: Dan Levy for Graydon (“Everybody would say Dan Levy.”) and Anna Faris for Hallie, leading to a wish to rewatch “Scary Movie.”

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

On NYC nightlife:
"If I were, like, a hedge fund guy cheating on my wife...I’d bring the mistress to Shay Margot."
— Hallie, 07:57
On sex, confidence, and insults:
"Those insults made me reflect. And honestly, I'm thankful for them because I would have never been clocked by anyone else."
— Hallie, 11:41
Love languages, single life & self-soothing:
"Before I go to bed, I give myself pats on the back. Have you ever done that? It's like the ultimate form of self love.”
— Graydon, 41:01
Big Dick Energy:
"You kind of give like dick energy."
– Graydon, 29:16
"If I had a dick, it'd be a massive piece."
— Hallie, 29:32
On Justin Bieber:
"I like, don't even want to talk about, like, it's hard for me to talk about because I'm just, like, so proud of him."
— Graydon, 42:43
Comedic Self-Reflection:
"I'm a professional sleeper."
— Graydon, 32:57
"I'm a professional sleeping arounder."
— Hallie, 33:03

Key Timestamps

[02:19] – Hallie and Graydon catch up / NYC gripes
[07:49] – Nightlife: drama and club culture
[11:34] – “Rejection is redirection… with an erection.”
[12:15] – Sex confessions, top/bottom talk
[14:38] – Truth or Drink: wildest sex stories, nudes, riding “bareback”
[27:56] – Untried sexual fantasies
[29:16] – Graydon: “You give dick energy.” Hallie accepts her BDE
[38:04]–[41:45] – Love languages, single life, self-love rituals
[42:20] – Bieber mania
[47:45] – “Who would play us in a movie?”
[49:11] – Final recap and chaotic wrap-up

Tone & Style

This episode embodies loose, slumber-party banter: Hallie’s brash, self-assured, and quick-witted; Graydon is affable, candid, and self-deprecating. The tone is irreverent (NSFW), intimate, and full of inside jokes, with moments of surprisingly sweet vulnerability mixed with playful raunch.

Conclusion

“Hallie’s BDE & Graydon’s Love Language” is the essence of Extra Dirty: confessional, outrageous, and full of raw (sometimes explicit) humor. Listeners gain insights into Hallie and Graydon’s friendship, their secrets and insecurities, and get an honest, wild look at NYC influencer life and the unpredictable landscape of dating, sex, and self-love in your 20s.

For full show, follow Hallie Batchelder and Graydon Cutler on socials — and tune in next week for even more chaos!

Extra Dirty with Hallie Batchelder

Episode: Hallie’s BDE & Graydon’s Love Language

Date: October 2, 2025
Guests: Graydon Cutler

Episode Overview

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Reunited: Hallie & Graydon’s NYC Catch-Up

[02:19] The duo are thrilled to see each other again after a while apart (“I haven’t seen you since Nantucket.” – Graydon, 02:40).
- Hallie jokes about being called Graydon’s “little boy,” and they riff on their playful friendship dynamic.
[03:08] Graydon admits New York “overwhelms” him, especially the lack of driving and the sky-high cost of parking.
- “In my building specifically to own a parking spot... north of $350 grand.” – Hallie, 03:24
- Graydon’s choice to get a hotel rather than crash at Hallie’s for “alone time” sparks a comedic detour about boundaries and potential orgies (“Would you have an orgy with me?” – Hallie, 05:37).

2. NYC Nightlife: Club Hopping and Door Drama

[07:49] Hallie introduces Graydon to her current obsession, membership club Shea Margaux, describing it as swanky with “mistress vibes.”
- “If I were, like, a hedge fund guy cheating on my wife... I’d bring the mistress to Shay Margot.” – Hallie, 07:57
[09:09] Getting into other clubs is a challenge. Hallie describes NYC bouncers as obsessed with gender ratios and recounts being turned away even as a semi-celebrity. She once “made out with the bouncer” but still can’t get in reliably.
- Humorous moment: An old man tries to reclaim his artwork from Gospel club while yelling, “Do you know who the fuck I am?” – Hallie, 10:05
- Graydon shares Boston’s less exclusive, cash-bribe bouncer culture.
- Hallie reflects on appearance-based rejection: “Rejection is redirection.” (11:34) Graydon quips, “Redirection with an erection.” (11:36)

3. Raw Confessions: Sex, Orgies, and Sexual Real-Talk

[12:15] They candidly share stories about sexual positions, topping and bottoming, “bareback” riding, and who’s “tighter” based on sex frequency.
- “I am a top.” – Hallie, 12:21
- “You would be a bottom verse.” – Graydon, 12:30
[14:00] Hallie boasts about her recent sexual exploits; Graydon bemoans a dry spell.
- “I would just be lucky if I could even touch a dick.” – Graydon, 13:04
- Hallie shares the awkwardness of a partner’s one-minute performance, but shrugs it off.
[14:38] Truth or Drink Game
- Popping Cherries While Horseback Riding: They debate the myth that riding horses bareback can “pop your cherry.”
  - “I don’t have a cherry. I understand that, but obviously I was the only boy at my barn and girls would ride bareback without a saddle.” – Graydon, 15:20
  - Hallie reads the clinical explanation after consulting ChatGPT.
- Sex Sentiments: Revealing questions about nudes (“Have I ever sent nudes? 100%, like this morning.” – Graydon, 20:02), wild sex locations (pickup truck on highway, club bathrooms), and how Grindr features in Graydon’s love life.
- On Body Image and “Tightness”: Who’s “tighter” – someone having sex all week, or someone in a dry spell?
  - “The human body is very forgiving, you should know that.” – Hallie, 24:47

4. Exploring Fantasies & Taboo Desires

[27:56] What sexual thing have you never tried but wish you could?
- Graydon: Wishes he knew what it felt like to have a vagina ("A lot of boys feel this way... not in the ass, just… a vagina." – 27:56)
- Hilarious talk about Hallie’s “big dick energy.”
  - “You kind of give like dick energy.” – Graydon, 29:16
  - “If I had a dick, it'd be a massive piece.” – Hallie, 29:32
[29:46] Recurrent fantasies: Graydon admits, “I really miss my babysitter. I think about him a lot. I think he’s married. Hoping his family doesn’t see this.” Hallie shares her fantasy of a “fake robbery” (“I would love to get robbed… if we can’t fuck.” – 30:35)
[31:06] Dream talk leads weirdly to new vitamin-induced nightmares and the hazards of melatonin and Lemmy Sleep gummies.

5. Love Languages, Relationships & Single Life

[38:04] Hallie and Graydon dissect their own and each other’s love languages:
- Graydon: “I would give clean laundry… acts of service.” (38:38)
- Hallie: “A blowjob. It’s all of them into one.” (39:02)
- Both seem to crave physical touch but reflect on how affirmation is more abundant (from followers or themselves) than real intimacy.
- Graydon’s self-soothing: “Before I go to bed I give myself pats on the back. Have you ever done that? It’s like the ultimate self-love.” (41:01)

6. Gushing Over Justin Bieber

[42:20] Hallie and Graydon detour into Bieb-mania—the news Justin Bieber is headlining Coachella.
- Graydon reveals he cried in a TikTok about maybe not going (“If I don’t get invited to Coachella... people yell at me because I block their view... that’s why I said artist pass.” – 43:01)
- Graydon’s dream interaction: “I’m so proud of you.” (43:49)
- Both rave about Bieber and Hailey, sharing empathy for internet hate and the pressure of Hollywood.

7. Odds and Ends: Tennis, French, and Playing “Who Would Play Us in a Movie?”

[34:43] Plans for dinner and reminiscing about failed tennis attempts (“My mom’s a great tennis player.” – Graydon)
[36:18] Language skills: Hallie boasts about her family’s linguistic ability; Graydon’s “Bonjia” in Portuguese.
[47:45] Casting themselves in movies: Dan Levy for Graydon (“Everybody would say Dan Levy.”) and Anna Faris for Hallie, leading to a wish to rewatch “Scary Movie.”

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

On NYC nightlife:
"If I were, like, a hedge fund guy cheating on my wife...I’d bring the mistress to Shay Margot."
— Hallie, 07:57
On sex, confidence, and insults:
"Those insults made me reflect. And honestly, I'm thankful for them because I would have never been clocked by anyone else."
— Hallie, 11:41
Love languages, single life & self-soothing:
"Before I go to bed, I give myself pats on the back. Have you ever done that? It's like the ultimate form of self love.”
— Graydon, 41:01
Big Dick Energy:
"You kind of give like dick energy."
– Graydon, 29:16
"If I had a dick, it'd be a massive piece."
— Hallie, 29:32
On Justin Bieber:
"I like, don't even want to talk about, like, it's hard for me to talk about because I'm just, like, so proud of him."
— Graydon, 42:43
Comedic Self-Reflection:
"I'm a professional sleeper."
— Graydon, 32:57
"I'm a professional sleeping arounder."
— Hallie, 33:03

Key Timestamps

[02:19] – Hallie and Graydon catch up / NYC gripes
[07:49] – Nightlife: drama and club culture
[11:34] – “Rejection is redirection… with an erection.”
[12:15] – Sex confessions, top/bottom talk
[14:38] – Truth or Drink: wildest sex stories, nudes, riding “bareback”
[27:56] – Untried sexual fantasies
[29:16] – Graydon: “You give dick energy.” Hallie accepts her BDE
[38:04]–[41:45] – Love languages, single life, self-love rituals
[42:20] – Bieber mania
[47:45] – “Who would play us in a movie?”
[49:11] – Final recap and chaotic wrap-up

Tone & Style

Conclusion

For full show, follow Hallie Batchelder and Graydon Cutler on socials — and tune in next week for even more chaos!

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Summary

Extra Dirty with Hallie Batchelder

Episode: Hallie’s BDE & Graydon’s Love Language

Episode Overview

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Reunited: Hallie & Graydon’s NYC Catch-Up

2. NYC Nightlife: Club Hopping and Door Drama

3. Raw Confessions: Sex, Orgies, and Sexual Real-Talk

4. Exploring Fantasies & Taboo Desires

5. Love Languages, Relationships & Single Life

6. Gushing Over Justin Bieber

7. Odds and Ends: Tennis, French, and Playing “Who Would Play Us in a Movie?”

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

Key Timestamps

Tone & Style

Conclusion

Summary

Extra Dirty with Hallie Batchelder

Episode: Hallie’s BDE & Graydon’s Love Language

Episode Overview

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Reunited: Hallie & Graydon’s NYC Catch-Up

2. NYC Nightlife: Club Hopping and Door Drama

3. Raw Confessions: Sex, Orgies, and Sexual Real-Talk

4. Exploring Fantasies & Taboo Desires

5. Love Languages, Relationships & Single Life

6. Gushing Over Justin Bieber

7. Odds and Ends: Tennis, French, and Playing “Who Would Play Us in a Movie?”

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

Key Timestamps

Tone & Style

Conclusion