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Extra Dirty with Hallie Batchelder
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Welcome back cookies! 🤸♀️ This week, Hallie discusses what ANNOYED her with New York Fashion Week, the new boy that is scaring her currently, and how badly she needs a tan. Then Hallie reviews the street style TRENDS spotted during NYFW, giving her takes on suede, FAUX, ballet flats, "utility" and more! Then, Hallie exposes herself again, addressing what she FAKES being chill about, if she hate stalks people, how much money she spends on a night out, and more. Enjoy the epiiii! 💋
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Where did we leave off? I feel like last week was a really fun episode. I. It's been, like, a whirlwind of the past few days, just dealing with Fashion Week and whatnot. I feel like someone compared the February Fashion Week to, like, a cello weekend, too, and I couldn't get that out of my head all week. It literally just felt like a lot of parties, but just, like, why am I here? Kind of vibes. The thing is, with the week that is Fashion Week, there's just, like, a lot of, like, comparison in a lot of, like, you know, people want to go to, like, all the good shows, and there's, like. It just feels very exclusive for no reason. And, like, I feel like the brands just get super picky pickier each and every year. Like, there's shows that I were. That I was invited to last year that I wasn't invited to this year, but that just, like, happens. It is. It is what it is. It's fine. I guess if you're, like, not getting your Feelings hurt or whatever. But, like, I just kind of felt annoyed the whole week. But it is fine. I just think it was just too much. It was too much, and I didn't want to do any of it. And I told people I didn't want to do any of it. But I still do it every year. Anyways, enough about that. What else happened to me last week? Oh, I went to Shea Margot on Thursday night, and they have DJs. Sometimes. Like, we're like. It's a ticketed event. The tables, like, stared at, like, 20K. Somehow we got ourselves on the list without having to spend money, which is always the goal. But there was obviously a lot. A lot of, like, rich men there, which I loved. And I met a boy, we fell in love. But he's kind of really scaring me. He's being too much. He's French. And it just. I feel like Frenchmen kind of wear their hearts. What's it called? What's the saying? They wear their hearts on their sleeves. And it's just feeling a bit suffocating to me because that's not really my vibe. I don't wear my heart on my sleeve at all. Like, it just coming off a little bit too strong. It's giving, like, kind of desperate. It's g. Having a lot. He's very, very sweet. He sent me flowers the next day. Like, a massive bouquet of beautiful flowers. And it was just, like, a little bit much, but I thought it was really sweet and kind of him. He also sent me soup because I haven't been feeling well. I've been dealing with a UTI for two weeks now, like. And I was like, okay. UTIs are not something to be with. Like, if that gets backed up into your kidneys, it can be a real issue. That took a lot of old men. That's how they d from utis. Fun fact, because once you're like, kidneys are. You're so I've been on antibiotics for the past week, and I haven't been taking them. Probably, like, I should be. There's probably, like, rules when it comes to antibiotics. You're probably not supposed to, like, you know, drink on them. I stayed up for 48 hours one night this week, and I just never went to sleep. I, like, probably those things didn't mesh well with the antibiotics. Very good. But alas, I'm still standing here. So, yeah, it's just been one of those weeks. And now I go to Miami tomorrow and then the Bahamas this weekend for a brand trip, which I'm actually really excited about because I feel like all I need is some vitamin D to, like, clear my head. Although it's technically a work trip, it is just gonna be nice to get out of New York. I just feel like a little bit New Yorked out right now and we need to take a break. It's like a toxic relationship. Like, I need just some space, some time to, like, reflect and think and then I'll come back a better person for it. But for now, I just need a tan. Honestly, that was like one of my ends for 2026 is to never be pale. And I don't think I've ever been more pale in my whole entire life. Like, I feel like you can see through me. I'm not even kidding. So hopefully, like, it'll be really nice weather there. I don't know what the Bahamas looks like this time of year, but I feel like it'll be nice and warm. I need a UV above an 8 and I'll be happy. But I need to take a break from drinking this week because this week was just all too much I bruises all over my body. And while we're on the topic of Fashion Week, I thought we'd just go over some of the best New York City Fashion Week trends that we saw this week. I feel like particularly street style stuff because I feel like that's a little bit more interesting. And I've been like, trying to like, make an effort this year to like, be wearing real clothes when I go outside, opposed to just wearing like sweats, which is what I want to be doing. But I'm just trying to be like, a bit more intentional. So let's rate these outfits and let's go through them. The best New York City Fashion Week street style looks are a master class in winter dressing suede in overdrive. You know, I like suede. I like, love the matching of suede. Suede's really expensive. Actually. It's like the most expensive thing. I think it's more expensive than leather. During my birthday week, you know, my parents always come out here and we go shopping. We go to Bergdorf and Saks, and we just like, have a time uptown. And then we drink martinis and it's like we do every year and it's amazing. So we were shopping in Burgdorf, we went to the floor that has like the really high end brands like Mew Mew and like all those other brands, whatever. So I picked out this like, cute Mew Mew suede skirt. And we didn't look at the price Tag. And that was a. I've never had my dad, like, look at me and be like, you need to go back and return that. But he looked at me and said, you need to go back and return it. I never did, but, like, he wanted me to. It was like six grand or something for a skirt. It was ridiculous. So I know suede's expensive, and I like the matching of suede with, like, a brown boot. This is how she's wearing it right here. I'm not mad at it. With a shearling collar. That's really cute, actually. I like this outfit. The modern girl outfit. A gray outfit in full monochrome continues to be the power move, starting with a faux fur jacket styled over a simple charcoal turtleneck. I've been wearing a lot of turtlenecks and sweaters this year. I feel like this outfit in particular that she's wearing right now, I hate. Honestly. I also don't like ballet flats. I know people are, like, really into that right now, and it's, like, very quirky and edgy and quirky, but I don't like it at all. Like, you're never going to catch me in ballet flats, I think. And I don't know why you'd be wearing, like, an open ankle with a ballet flat while there's, like, snowbanks in the background. That makes no sense at all to me. But, like, no hate or no shade to her. Although I just completely threw a lot of shade and hate towards her. But, yeah, this will be a no for me. But I do like her pants. I guess I'll give her that. And, like, I love the turtleneck. It's, like, very classy, very chic, but, like, still, like, accentuates the tits. We like all those things. Okay, the next one is mixed motifs. I don't even know what a motif was. I'm not an English major. What's a motif? Like a theme? Like, if someone was like, I'm wearing a mixed motif outfit, I would be like, shut the up. Like, what does that even mean? I'd be like, all right, babe. So fair isle and snakeskin, two patterns you might not instantly think of mixing together. However, this showgoer proves that they can be worn in tandem. Just keep to a similar color palette. Okay, I kind of get it, but this just, like, sounds like a word salad to me. Like, just say you're not matching without saying it. That's kind of what the vibe it's giving here. I do like this sweater, but, like, I don't like long skirts. Like, Vince Straight Leather long skirt. Like, I don't think I would ever wear that. It's cute. It's chic, but I would only wear this if, like, someone was styling me in it. I don't know. Like, I don't think I could. I'm bad at, like, I have, like, a lot of good pieces. Pieces. But when I go shopping, I kind of just, like, grab at things. I really like that catch my eye. But I'm bad at, like, looking at something and being like, oh, like, I need that in my wardrobe. I'm about piecing things together in my head. But I'm very impulsive, and I'll just, like, buy it if I like it and see it in front of me, and then I'll end up not wearing it ever. But. Okay, pops. The texture. Winter outfitting is all about blending contrasting fabrics. A seemingly neutral look feels fresh and alive where there are additional tactile elements. Here, a faux fur. Here we go with the faux again. Calf hair Midi skirt and smooth leather boots result in a master class for layering. While a pop of purple knitwear adds an element of surprise around the neck. Yeah, I hate this outfit. No offense to this chick, but, like, I don't like the color purple. Really. I don't like the skirt here. These boots look like something Shakespeare would probably wear. And I don't like wearing colors that much. I'm trying to be better about that because I wear a lot of neutral tones and, like, darker colors, but I just feel like the purple's, like, a lot. The faux jacket, again, I'm just not vibing with it. February is the month of romanticizing your life, and that includes romanticizing your business. Whether it's a spark of an idea or a love affair with an entrepreneurship you've been waiting to explore, Shopify gives you the tools. Tools to turn that passion into something real. This is the perfect month to invest back into yourself, your creativity, and your next big thing. Shopify is, hands down, the best place to start and grow a business. And if you're building solo, iconic, Shopify basically becomes your entire back office. 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Yeah, I mean I think that's cute. I've definitely worn a cardigan as a jacket. I think that's okay to do in like April. I think it's still way too fucking cold to be doing this now. I don't hate it. I'm not mad at it. I'm not mad at her. I think it's fine. I like the trouser pants. Another outfit I really don't like. I don't like animal prints though. Let me get into this one. This next trend is called the leopard topper. It says it's no secret animal prints are everywhere and the leopard coat is the hero item of New York Fashion Week this season. I don't agree with that at all. But okay, play with it as wardrobe neutral styling with a knit skirt set and camel for easy everyday day wear. Add accessories for extra polish such as a mixed metal belt and knee high leather boots. I mean the jacket's not terrible. Like I love a trench. It's like, the long skirt that's throwing me off. Maybe it's because it's too, like, conservative, something I wouldn't really wear. But I don't really like wearing skirts. I wear, like, pants most of the time. I've been trying to be better about wearing more dresses, but, like, I would wear a dress over a skirt. I don't know. I don't love skirts, especially ones that make you look like. I don't know. The long skirt just, like, kind of reminds me of, like, Catholic school, and I don't like that. It's like, PTSD almost. I mean, so far, reading through this article, I really. Maybe I'm completely missing the mark here, but I. I haven't agreed with much that I've seen here, and I feel bad even saying that, but that's just my honest truth, and I have to be true to myself on here. Let's go to the next one. Maybe we can redeem ourselves. But. Okay. Utility standards. Start working utility. Like, what does that mean, working utility? Like a corporate job. What does utility mean? Is that, like, what is working utility mean? Marshall? It kind of feels. Utility kind of feels like you work in, like, a factory. Why would. Why would I want to dress like I worked in a factory? No. Yeah. It's like, I could get on board with the utility pant, but I. The utility jacket seems like you're working, like, on an oil rig. Yeah, like, I don't. Nothing about my outfit wants to scream manual labor. Like, I don't subscribe to that. I don't hate it. It's kind of giving barber jacket, but, like, more like, not. I don't know. So a big trend. Blah, blah, blah, blah. It adds an element of downtown cool. A top wardrobe staple, such as a black trouser pant. We're with the black trouser pant in leather ankle boots. The cozy triangle scarf tiger print handbag ensures this one truly stands out with on tread finishes. Oh, my God. That sounds like a word. Like, I don't. Maybe I just like, Okay, I don't want my outfit to scream like, I just came from work. I don't know, maybe that's me, but I don't want to be screaming manual labor. And that's just a personal preference. The faux fur in denim formula. All right, this one's cute, but, like, maybe they have to say faux for the article, but I just feel like faux kind of looks cheap. This doesn't look like a faux fur jacket, though. It looks like real fur. Yeah, I feel like this is, like, Giving elevated, but, like, also, like, effortless in a way. Like, it's so easy to just, like, throw on a pant, get your nice little Prada baguette bag, and, like, put on a cute fur coat like I did that Saturday when I went to brunch. Like, it's an easy outfit. It doesn't take much time, and you look, like, dressed up. It's cute. Okay. I prove with that high implant. Oh, I read I was a Freudian. Slipped, high impact leather. What? All right. Leather is always a sleek choice, but rendered in burgundy. I do like the color burgundy for this season. I feel like it's been popping. A streamlined coat becomes the focal point, while printed boots and tactile accessories, like a leather scarf and gloves inject personality without overwhelming the look. I get what they're we trying to do here, but I don't like the finishes of this jacket, to be honest. And what is this leather scarf? I'm confused. Like, I don't like the hidden buttons. It's not horrible, but it's just, like, not something I would pick out. All right, the next one's caped and draped. Okay. I like a cape. I feel like capes are in. It's like a scarf coat. It offsets the dramatic proportion with slouchy denim and muted accessories to let the silhouette shine without feeling overworked. Yeah, I feel like this is cool. I'm into this. It's easy to throw on, like, a nice pair of denim pants and. Yeah, chic. I feel like Lauren wears a lot of capes. Like, that's how I know it's chic. The oversized bomber effect is the next one. I actually do love an oversized bomber. This is more my style, and I feel like it's just, like, good for the winter. Like, I think the oversized look is very New York. It's very cool, girl. It's very, like, chic, and I feel like you can find different ways to, like, add personality to it. I don't. Anyone that can pull off anything oversized is doing something correct, in my opinion, but that's just me. Okay, what's next? The ladylike leather. I'm into this whole outfit heads to leather. Can read ladylike when you pair separates. Like a collarless jacket and a full midi skirt. Here we go with the midi skirt. I feel like midi skirts would only work if they were leather, though. Like, I feel like that would be the only situation where I'd be like, all right. That would be a really cool look. Yeah. But leather on leather. I feel like it's very like feminine, but also like kind of like sexy, like dominatrix vibes. So I think it's hot. I think it's a good vibe. Kind of feel like I just clocked every single one of those outfits. Hopefully bizarre. Doesn't like, come from my neck. All right, that was fun. I feel like I was kind of harsh, but you know, fashion is subjective and that's okay. I wasn't clocking anyone that was wearing the clothes. I was just clocking the outfits. But like, maybe I need to get on. Like, I need to fix my. I don't know. I feel like as long as you feel confident, it works for you, you know. All right, next segment. Last episode or a couple episodes ago, I did a sipper spill kind of like segment where I was kind of exposing myself in my life. And I thought that was really fun and was received pretty well. So I thought we'd just like get into that again. So like, if I don't answer it, I'll just sit, I guess. I wish I had a martini, but a diet coke will be sufficient enough. Okay. What's the most embarrassing thing you've done to get a guy's attention? I don't really have to work that hard to get guys attention. I feel like I just like, I'm just like kind of loud and like in their faces about. I like. And I don't really get embarrassed by it. Like if he. I don't know, I just. I think the embarrassing part is really having to work that hard for it, which we've all been there but I don't know the most embarrassing thing I've done. I post on my story, like where I am when I like want to get a guy's attention depending on what city I'm in. So like, if Miami, I'll like. The first thing I do when I land is like geotag them in Miami and I'll hope like Joe Schmo text me about, oh my God, let's link up later. Usually works, honestly, but I don't even know if I would call that embarrassing. I just feel like that's just part of girlhood at the end of the day. Have you ever faked being chill about something that actually ruined your week? All the time. All the time. But like, as I've gotten older I've like lost patience. So like I faking chill is just a lot more energy than to just like have like a freak out and like, I'd rather just freak out. I guess it's more fun, like. Yeah, I guess like when you're like in a situation with a guy and he does something, as he probably will, you want to pretend like you're coy about it and that it's like not that big of a deal. But obviously, you know, you gotta play cool sometimes. It's just how you play the game, I guess. Let's take a very exciting commercial break to talk about our flirty friend, Tinder. If you're the type of person that literally doesn't do anything without your best friend. Errands, bathroom trips, Sunday scaries extravaganzas. Tinder's new double date feature is about to change your dating life in a massive way. Because now you can literally do any social activity together, even go on dates. Double date turns a potential nerve wracking situation into just like a fun chill hangout with your bestie where you can actually showcase your personality instead of pretending that you're mysterious and not weird at all. Overall, double date leads to better vibes afterward. And maybe this is the best part. 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Have you ever checked a man's falling list before going out with him? I always check a man's falling list before I even follow them. Back just because, like, if they follow, like, certain people, it's a red flag. To me, those people are usually like, like, you can just tell if someone's like a clout chaser based off of, like, who they follow. So, like, if they, like, follow, like, you know, Graydon and like, Alex and like, Paige, I'm like, okay, so, like, what is this man's intentions? Like, you follow, like, everyone I know and work with. I just feel like to me that's a red flag, but, like, I don't know. You know what I mean? Does that make sense? Am I making sense over here? Okay, so what's the longest you've gone without sex in the last five years? Like sex sex? Like oral sex? Anything sex sex? I think I've gone like nine months, eight months in the past year, six months between six, eight months, which I feel like it's like a long time for me. I feel like people just based off the way I talk, especially on this show or on Tick Tock, I think people think I'm getting railed like, every day. I'm not. I go through phases where we all have, like, a dry spell. Although I hooked up with someone this weekend, but, like, I'm not in a dry spell right now. Usually during the winter, I go through a dry spell. Last summer was a dry spell. It just ebbs and flows. But I think six to eight months, that's okay. It's not bad, but it's not great. Have you ever doubled back to someone you swore off? Oh, I do that literally every week. I do that all the time. I mean, it happens to the best of us. I feel like those are like the most famous last words. Like, I'm never gonn and you. And then you're like, with them the following night. Like, I do that all the time, but I don't feel really that bad about that. Have you ever compared a guy's performances in bed to another guys? Have you ever compared a guy's performances in bed to another guy, parentheses to him, question mark? Yeah, I have, but, like, they probably are doing the same to me, so. But like, comparison is the thief of joy. So I try to just really lock him in the moment and ignore, like, act like he's the only guy I've ever gone with ever. But it's hard not to compare, especially if you are trying to get over someone that you like having sex with and then you hook up with another guy and he has a micro penis and it's like a whole thing. So, yeah, I've done That before. When was the last time you hate stalk someone? Why? I guess I'll sip. I don't, like, love to hate stock people. Some people, like, follow people just to, like, hate them. Which I'm sure in a lot of cases people do that with me. But, like, if I hate someone or I hate seeing someone pop up my free page, I don't want to see them. So I block them or mute them. Like, some people get a rise out of hate stalking people. I, like, get annoyed with the person on my screen, and I feel like I'm giving them, like, engagement and screen time. So I try not to do it. There's definitely people have, like, stock being like, this is crazy. Maybe Ashtravino. I don't hate her, but, like, I'm just, like, in awe of her. Do you guys know that is Astrovino? It's like watching a car accident. Like, you can't look away. It's. It's so entertaining, though. But, like, is she probably a bad person? Yeah, she should be in jail, but, like, entertaining as fuck. I guess I'm. I'm cool with answering Asha. You know, she won't come for me. What makes you feel instantly competitive? I don't know. I'm not a super competitive person with. This will unfold in a few weeks after that secret project that I did in Park City. You can tell, like, I'm just kind of like, lackadaisical. Is that a word? Yeah, lackadaisical. And I kind of just like, lollyag. And I'm like, I don't really like to exert myself and my energy and I get, like, you know, like, I'm not super competitive. I was never a competitive sport player growing up either, so I don't really have that instilled in me. But I could say men make me pretty competitive. Like, if there's, like, two girls, if there's other girls interested in one guy. I feel like I was recently in the situation where, like, you're kind of just, like, fighting over that person's attention, which you don't want to be in a position where you're doing that. But, like, it happens sometimes and, like, is annoying, but I don't know. I'm trying to think what else makes me feel competitive. I'm very competitive with myself. Like, I always am trying to, like, level up in some sort of way, and I'm hard on myself when I don't. So I guess, you know, that's a competitive side of me. But, like, with other people, not so much. Have you ever Pretended not to know who someone was when you absolutely did. Yeah. I do this with most celebrities. I mean, not to, like, knock them down a notch just because it's just like. I feel like it's kind of, like, not rude, but, like, when you're meeting someone, like, I feel like the polite thing to do is, like, introduce yourself and ask their name. Like, that's a normal human interaction. And I feel like a lot of celebrities kind of crave that out of people instead of just, like, getting. Getting fangirls. Like, I would. I'm never gonna, like, fangirl anyone. Maybe, like, say, like, I love their work, but I would never, like, really toot their horn that much. Maybe that's. I don't know. I'm just like. I wouldn't want to be. I don't know. I'm just, like, cautious of overstepping in that way. So I just treat everyone the same, which I think is a good thing. What's something you think you deserve that you haven't gotten yet? Like a. Like, a plane. Like, when someone gonna get me a plane, I want a plane. Or, like, a nice bag, you know? Respect, love. These are all things I think I deserve. Maybe not today. I don't feel that well today. But, like, in general, in the grand scheme of things, a plain respect, love, and gifts, period. Do you believe women can propose to men? No. I hate to. Like, I know that's, like, a very. I don't want to even say it's trendy. I've only seen a couple people do it, and whenever I see it, I'm like, this is really weird. That's just my opinion, though. Like, do whatever the fuck you want. I don't really actually give a shit what you do in your own house. But, like, no, this is, like, one of the things where I feel like we should keep it. I. I don't even. No, I'm just gonna go with no. That's just my opinion, though. How much money do you spend on a night out in New York City? The goal is none and just to gather a bunch of men and buy me drinks and food. But if I'm going out to dinner with my girlfriends, I'll. It depends. Like, if we're ordering nice wine. Like, I went out to dinner the other night with my friend Dylan, and we got two nice bottles of wine. I think I paid, like, 1200 bucks at dinner. It was, like, a whole thing. But I try not to do that that much. I just. It just happens sometimes when I get excited. But an average Night. I don't know, like, 100, 200 bucks? Uggs, maybe. If there's no hot men around, what's a brand deal you'd kill to get? It's a good question. I really want to work with Uggs. I feel like Uggs is, like, a cool one for some reason. I've been so hyper fixated on Uggs for, like, a hot minute now. I wear a lot of bugs, and I think they're cozy and chic, so I would love to work with them. I feel like it'd be like a seamless brand partnership. So, Uggs, if you're watching, like, hit me up, please. But I think Uggs would be a good one to work with. What's something you've deleted offline because you were scared of the reaction? I don't really delete things because I'm scared of a reaction. I usually delete things after I get a negative reaction, which happens to me often. Although sometimes I don't really care. Like, I've gotten in a lot of trouble before for, you know, things I've said and I post about it, and I've doubled down on it and gotten completely canceled for it. So, you know, and I. I never deleted that video. I just kept it up because, you know, that was just my opinion at the time. So it just really depends what kind of mood I'm in. But I don't think I like. I'm pretty bold when it comes to what I post online and like what I say, so I just get a little nervous. If I'm getting a big general negative reaction and I still have time to delete something, then I'll delete it. But for the most part, I feel like I don't do that.
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Name someone you've muted on your Instagram. You have muted on your Instagram right now. I have. Any. Any guy I've ever hooked up with is muted on my Instagram. It's weird though, because I have every guy that I've hooked up with muted on Instagram, but they're also all my close friends because I want to make sure they're watching my. It's kind of brilliant if you ask me. But yeah, every guy I've ever gone with and some, like, New York City influencers, just. Yeah, I don't know. But I'm not gonna name those people. I'd rather not get my head chopped off by them. Okay, next. Would you rather fall in love with a broke creative or a boring millionaire? I don't know. Probably the bro Creative. Because we can like. I don't know. This is like, I'd rather put a gun in my mouth. It just like, sounds like I'd rather be single because I don't even think I would like, like a creative broke guy either, but boring millionaire. And I couldn't cheat on him with the bro Creative. I don't know. There's definitely a loophole in here somewhere. Okay, would you rather. Would you rather your ex write a tell all about your you or your best friend? I mean, probably me. It'd be really interesting. New York's best bestseller. I feel like it'd be a great tell all to write about, you know, our antics. But I don't know. Why would he write about my best friend? That would be kind of mean. What does he have against my best friend? Like, what would he say about me that was that bad? And who's to say anyone would read it? Like, what if he's a shitty writer? Like, I don't think my either of maxes, like, can really string a sentence together. So I don't know. That's an interesting one. Okay, next, open your Instagram search history and read the first three names that pop up. No, I'm good on that. I'll sit my Diet Coke. Show a video or photo in your drafts that you were too scared to actually post. I post everything. I post too much. I have one draft and it is just me absolutely devouring a selfie. But I think I put this in a dump. I don't even know why it's drafted, to be honest. Delete draft have you ever paid for one of the apps that tracks who unfollows you? Yeah, in college I would do this, but so many people, like, unfollow me now. It's just like, why even do that to myself? Like, self inflicting pain. But I would love, like, you know how, like, on Tick Tock, you can see if it says follow back or follow? Like, I wish you would get notified when people you follow unfollow you. You know what I mean? Like, I wish there was, like, a friends folder, but usually I look, I'm like an avid looker to see if people still follow me, but I don't know. What's the shortest amount of time you. You've waited after a breakup to sleep with someone else? Six hours, I guess. Maybe less. I don't know. I'm like, pretty bad about, like, going through breakups because I feel like I'm like. I immediately try to distract myself with someone else, which is like, you know, putting a band aid on, like, an open wound and just, like, doesn't really do anything and you just feel like more the next day. But I've definitely felt. I've definitely fell victim to hooking up with someone pretty quickly. But that's okay. If you had to cut one person out of your inner Circle for $250,000, who would it be? I'm not answering that. I don't even know how I would answer that. We'll sit, you know, getting you on that one. That would be crazy for me to answer. I don't even know if I have an answer to that because, like, I wouldn't cut anyone out. Have to do a lot more than 250k, but. Okay, that was really fun. I don't think I sipped much, but I definitely exposed myself. But you win some, you lose some. Next, let's do a quick segment of Q and A before we wrap the episode. And I like these because it's something new every time we do it. So. All right, let's start with this queen. Okay, this isn't for the pod, but you should really try the app field. Having the time of my life. Hot sexual daddies of all shapes and sizes and net worths. Okay. Hot single daddies. That kind of sounds like seeking arrangements, but I'm going to have to look into that because who doesn't love a hot daddy? All shapes and sizes and net worth. That's beautiful and poetic. I'll look into it. I'm, like, so scared to go on dating apps like that now. Like, do they Even vet these guys. Like when I did seeking arrangements back in the day when I thought I was getting kicked out of my house and taken out of the will because I threw a house party and she threw up all over the carpet. The men definitely were predators. Like, some of them, like, it's just like really sketchy, those kind of apps. I never went on any dates, but I once sent feet pics for like 500 bucks. That was a quick cash grab. But. But I. I look into it. I'll look into it. Okay, next. How do you regain confidence now? Lost? It's a good question. It's a deep question. I feel like confidence just kind of ebbs and flows. I mean, I go through phases where I'm super confident and then like the next week I'll be super not. It's really seasonal for me. I get really bad seasonal depression and then I kind of spiral, which I feel like I'm in the middle of right now. And it all depends how pale I am. Like, the uv. Like, there's a lot of things that go into confidence for me specifically, but I feel like if a good. You got it, like a good beat on and a good outfit on, that's a quick and easy way to like boost your confidence a little bit. I also like, you know, go through Raya, see who I've matched with. That also kind of strokes my ego. But the confidence thing I feel like is kind of a person to person thing. But those be my quick fixes. Sun, moon rising. I'm a double Libra. Wait, let me look at my co star. I'm a Libra. I've also recently really gotten into this. I'm a Libra. Virgo. Virgo, Libro. Wait, whoa. My son's in Libra, my moon's in Virgo, and my ascendant is in Library, which is kind of interesting. I don't really know much about Virgo though. It says your moon is. Is in Virgo, meaning your emotional self is analytical, responsible, and pacifying a bundle of nerves. You struggle with a need to be pure. That may come out in self sacrificing or nitpicking tendencies. Okay, that came for me. Yeah. I mean, astrology is so crazy. Like, I don't really. I was kind of skeptical about it for a while, but like, after I downloaded Costar and I like read all of it, it like, is really interesting. Like, it's interesting stuff. Okay, next. Is it bad? At this point, I don't even know my body count. I mean, it's over 50 under 100 same. And that's okay. I do keep track, though, in the notes app. And I don't know, recently I just stopped keeping track because I just, I don't. I don't want to know. Also, like, what if I get hacked one day and, like, it's just like my whole list in there, it's like a burn book. Some of these people on here, if I pass them in the street, like, I say this all the time. If I pass some of these guys in my notes app on the street, I wouldn't be able to, like, pick them out and line up, which is really scary. And. But like, that was college. I was a nutcase in college. No, the answer is I don't think that's bad. But, like, I'm the one telling you that, so I don't even know what that means. How do you feel about having sex with friends? I mean, mentally, I think if you can, like, handle it, then it's fine if you're like, very clear about your boundaries. But, you know, once, like, you get sex and involved, it can be, like, kind of confusing. You, like, have like the pillow talk and like, the feelings can get there. But if it's just pure sex and then friendship, then that sounds like a great relationship, honestly. But do I. I do this? Probably more than I'd like to admit. But, like, for some reason recently I feel like emotionally I've been just like so closed off. I can make. I feel like I'm okay with just like having very casual, no strings things at this point in my life right now, which is. I don't know if that's good or bad because I feel like I should be going in the other direction of like, wanting to, like, find something more serious. But I feel like if anything, I want, like the least serious thing things ever. What do I do? I hooked up with two roommates by accident. Sounds like you're just in college having fun. I've done this. There was this hall called Davidson in my college back in the day, and there was a guy that had a room in the basement level, and then there was a guy that had a room in the second floor. And I remember I used to, like, bounce between those two rooms, and they were like in the same frat and everything. And it took like the months to find out about each other, but they did. But I think it's okay. I mean, who cares? Like, they're probably doing it, so not that big of a deal. Okay, guys, as always, I love you all and I will see you next week you can watch me on YouTube. You're not doing that. Listen to me on any other platform like comment, subscribe, tell your friends, etc I appreciate you all and I will see you next time week. Love ya.
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