
The newest Unwell fam member Kendall Vertes joins the Extra Dirty hot seat! They start at the very beginning, what a full day looked like for Kendall on Dance Moms, how they were forced to stir a pot, and her relationship with former dance coach Abby Lee Miller. They discuss Kendall's first heart break with the viral Michigan football player, her 'normal' college experience and how she balanced academics with her influencing. Hallie and Kendall break down their filler eras, what they look for in dating, & Kendall's hot takes on 2025 trends. BESOS BABE!
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Kendall Vertez
It doesn't sit right with me.
Hallie
Sometimes they're super camera forward. It's like, okay, diva, relax.
Kendall Vertez
No, literally, you know, like, let me hand you my lip gloss.
Hallie
Like, if you have like. Like, let me. Do you want to borrow my octo body? Like, why are we. What are we doing here? Okay, guys, I'm doing something really stupid right now. We have an emergency debrief situation. Hi, this is Hallie from the streets of New York. Guys, I had every intention of staying in last night. Okay, guys, welcome back to Extra Dirty. We have the beautiful, the gorgeous, the talented, the newest Unwell family member, Kendall Vertez.
Kendall Vertez
It's okay.
Hallie
We just went over that 30 times. Kendall Vertez.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah. It's whatever you want it to be.
Hallie
It's whatever you want. I had a doll spit on it. How are we? How are we doing this morning?
Kendall Vertez
We're good. I'm so happy to be here. We've never, like, caught up. I feel like we've gone to events together, but we've never been able to just like, sit and chill because we've always been drinking.
Hallie
I know. It's always like drinking or drunk. It's always so chaotic at those events. Seriously, we've never had a time to like, just sit down and like, get to know one another.
Kendall Vertez
No.
Hallie
And now we're in the chairs. We're gonna get code in the hot seat. You're in the hot. So tell me, like, where are you from? Like, we like let's go down to the basics. Like, where did you grow up?
Kendall Vertez
So I was born and raised in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania.
Hallie
Okay.
Kendall Vertez
Nothing exciting. Then we shot a few seasons of Dance Moms in California. So I lived out there for like four years with my mom. Then I came back home, tried to be. Tried to be a normal person, go to high school, meet new friends, have a life.
Hallie
Okay.
Kendall Vertez
Then my mom was like, you need to go to college. And at first I really fought her on it. I'm like, no, I'm not going to college. Like, I'm gonna move out to LA and be an influe influencer. Which wasn't really popular at the time.
Hallie
Yeah.
Kendall Vertez
And she was like, no, no, you're gonna get a degree and then you can do whatever you want. So then I went to James Madison University in Virginia. Then I moved back home.
Hallie
What was your major?
Kendall Vertez
Political science and pre law.
Hallie
Okay. Wow. So you're like, what am I gonna do with this? Like, did. Was there anything else that you wanted to do or did you want to do something with that major?
Kendall Vertez
I mean, no, it was. Honestly, I didn't want to go to college. That's the thing. Like, that's the main thing. I didn't want to go to college. So when it got came to the time to even find a college, find a major, I was like, I don't know. So my parents were like, well, why don't you study politics? Like, you're two hours from D.C. if you want to do something in politics, it's right there. Also, politics is, like, integrated in everything nowadays. So I wanted to push myself because it would make sense if I did marketing. Like, let's just be real. I've been marketing. We've been marketing ourselves for years.
Hallie
You're like an OG influence.
Kendall Vertez
So I feel like I would have been really good at that major, but I was like, I want to learn something new.
Hallie
Yeah, I mean, political science, that's. I mean, I took a couple of those classes in college because I went to a liberal arts school.
Kendall Vertez
So, like, wait, where did you go?
Hallie
I went to Union College in upstate.
Kendall Vertez
No way.
Hallie
Yeah. So it's fun.
Kendall Vertez
I never knew that.
Hallie
Yeah. It's like a very small school.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah.
Hallie
And you take classes like that to, like, you know, test out the waters, literally everything. And I remember taking a poli sci class and I was like, it's awful. Holy hell. I don't know what's going on.
Kendall Vertez
No, I know.
Hallie
And then I took a bunch of history classes and I was like, I still don't Know, like, this is too much for me. It's like a lot of memorizing.
Kendall Vertez
It's a lot of memorizing. And for finals or even like exams or grades, it's all just writing papers. Like, I never had like a, A multiple choice exam. It was always you come in and you write like seven essays.
Hallie
Yeah.
Kendall Vertez
And that's that. So you also have to be a really good writer to be in political science. Yeah, I. I barely graduated. I'm gonna say I barely. Like, did you have ChatGPT?
Hallie
When you're in college, you're like that age.
Kendall Vertez
We had chat. We. I found out about CHAT my sophomore year.
Hallie
Oh, my God. You have a nickname for it? Chat.
Kendall Vertez
I just call it Chat.
Hallie
I have to say the full person last name.
Kendall Vertez
A lot of the professors got really smart with it and started using tools to like, detect chat gbt. And like, that's one of the reasons why.
Hallie
Have you seen any of those tick tocks where like, the professors are like, crashing out in front of the whole class?
Kendall Vertez
Wait, yeah. And I can't tell if that's real or not.
Hallie
AI, stop.
Kendall Vertez
But like, okay, I see it from both sides. Like, those are gonna be our future doctors using chat gbt.
Hallie
I know, but like, our future doctors just know to like, press play in a robot probably. That's.
Kendall Vertez
That's the other thing. We don't even doctors anymore. It's literally robots doing surgeries.
Hallie
Like, AI is going to take over a lot of jobs. This is not what this show is about.
Kendall Vertez
I would have AI do my boobs.
Hallie
No, Like, AI probably could do your tits, like, if they really wanted to. It's going to like, replace a bunch of jobs. Also, her hair, like, takes up a lot of water. This is not what the show is about.
Kendall Vertez
Wait, yeah, it is. But anyways, next question.
Hallie
But yeah, okay. So you started. You were on Dance Moms.
Kendall Vertez
Yep.
Hallie
So how old were you when you started that? Eight. Eight, okay. And you were just like, thrown into it. How did you even, like, audition for something like that?
Kendall Vertez
I was at a studio dancing. We were pretty well known. We won a lot. I still to this day don't know how they really found my mom and I, but they reached out to my mom and said, hey, we have an open spot on this team. Would you mind, like, sending in a few tapes of your daughter dancing? A little home audition tape, just introducing yourselves. We sent that in and then we met with Abby, our dance teacher. She was like, I want you to be a part of our team. You obviously are going to be in some weird situations, like, you just need to be able to handle that. We auditioned and then we signed a contract for, like, seven years.
Hallie
So you were there from the age of eight to, like, 14, 15. Okay. Wow. So those are, like, very formative years.
Kendall Vertez
Very formative year.
Hallie
And did the show, like, blow up after the first season, like, right away and you were just, like, kind of thrown into it, or did it kind of take a while for it to, like, pick up speed a bit?
Kendall Vertez
I remember watching the first season. I remember this so vividly. I'm like, I was sitting with my best friend who was also my dance partner. I'm like, I would never be on the show because it was so traumatizing for those little girls. And, like, I was the same age as them. And knowing that they went through that, I'm not kidding you. Two months later, we got the call of, like, hey, would you want to be on the show? But it wasn't really popular. It was taking place in Pittsburgh. Not a popular city at all.
Hallie
No.
Kendall Vertez
Nobody knew of us beforehand. We didn't have social media. We weren't on Tick Tock. Like, they kind of just, like, put it out there and wanted to see how it would do. I want to say, like, season two, season three is really when it took off, which is great because that's what I enjoy.
Hallie
You're like, I'm actually the reason. Was it weird? Like, were you going to school during this time? Like, Like a normal.
Kendall Vertez
Like, we tried to, but.
Hallie
And then you couldn't do it, I think.
Kendall Vertez
How old are you? What grade are you in when you're eight?
Hallie
Like, is that third grade? Third or fourth or fifth?
Kendall Vertez
Wait, guys, wait.
Hallie
No.
Kendall Vertez
Anyways, I would. I really tried to go to school. Like, my mom was like, if there's one thing I'm gonna stick up for you for, it's gonna be school. Like, they can't. They can't mess around with that. I eventually had to get pulled out at, like, noon every day because of filming purposes. And this is kind of T K plus 8. Have you ever heard of that show?
Hallie
Oh, yeah.
Kendall Vertez
That crazy is the whole reason child labor laws are even a thing. When she came out with child labor laws, we were like, wait a second. If your kids can't work 12 hour days, our kids can't work 12 hour days. And so she really saved us all of our educate. Like, the education took a full 180. They actually let us do school for more than an hour a day. They let us take an hour lunch break. Like, we would Literally eat in, like, a closet for 15 minutes and then go back.
Hallie
What?
Kendall Vertez
It's like the child labor laws actually saved our mental health and, like, physical health tremendously. But that also took place in, like, season three or four.
Hallie
What was like a full day. What did it look like from start to finish?
Kendall Vertez
I mean, we would get to the studio I guess around like, 11 or 12. They would prep each mom individually and be like, hey, this is what you need to do today. This is who you need to talk to to stir the pot. Blah, blah, blah, blah.
Hallie
They would force you to stir the pot.
Kendall Vertez
I mean, it's a. It's a reality. Yeah. Like, that's what people need to understand. You would be so I'd be like.
Hallie
Hey, in the corner. You're. No, literally, okay, do your splits.
Kendall Vertez
I honestly hope you're a dance on one day. You would be so here.
Hallie
No, like, goals.
Kendall Vertez
I mean, we were eights. Like, there's really nothing you can make us do. We were already terrified to even be there, let alone, like, yeah, have to do it on camera. We would be at the studio from, like, 12 to 5 on camera. And then at 5 o', clock, her real studio would open where, like, other students actually come to take classes. And then we would take classes from, like, five to 10. And we couldn't go home, like, after a whole day of filming, if we went home, like, she would berate you on National.
Hallie
Was she actually as insane as she's portrayed on tv?
Kendall Vertez
I. A lot of us say that they actually made her look really nice on tv. Compared to what actually went down, that is, which, like, people don't believe because she still looked crazy. But, yeah, they really hit her worst moments.
Hallie
Oh, wow. Yeah, like, she could have gotten some.
Kendall Vertez
It's just like, the show got so popular. She got so popular. She started making a lot of money. It went all to her head and, like, she just thought she was untouchable.
Hallie
So you were thrown into, like, this whole crazy scene at such a young age. How did that, like, affect, like, your relationships? Like, what was your first boy like? Were you able, like, do you have, like, time to date? Like, I mean, or did those 13 not overlap?
Kendall Vertez
Not really. Not yet.
Hallie
So, like, between the ages of 14, when you were done with the show.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah.
Hallie
And you're a senior in high school, so what, 18? Yeah, I should. That I should know that. But what do those years look like? Because you're famous now.
Kendall Vertez
I mean, so I went back home and, like, my sisters went to the high school that I went to. So everybody Kind of knew of me and like, what I just did. It was really hard making friends. Like, I didn't know who wanted to be my friend for the right reasons or like, if they just wanted the clout. I was literally just there to go to Friday night football games, go to homecoming, like, have a house party. I literally just needed to be a normal person. And I will say, like, I was really crazy. Like, boy crazy.
Hallie
Yeah.
Kendall Vertez
Because I never was around boys. I was around dancers and I was around the producers who were all gay. And, like, we were traveling every single week. I didn't go to school, I didn't have any interaction. Yeah, my crush was Cameron Dallas. And like, I would literally post like, edits of us on my Instagram pretending like we were dating. Like, that's how we'd like. That was like, embarrassing.
Hallie
That was like kind of the similar situation with me. I was extremely boy crazy in college because I went to an all girls Catholic school for eight years.
Kendall Vertez
It's like it's a canon event. It's seriously, it's a canon cage in a wild animal.
Hallie
Literally getting them out into the wild.
Kendall Vertez
And look at us. We're just semi normal.
Hallie
Yeah, we're just semi normal now. So you, like, so was your first boyfriend, like, you were like, what senior in high school? Like, what was your first heartbreak? Paint the picture for me.
Kendall Vertez
I think my first true heartbreak. Do you ever. Do you remember the guy who went famous for dancing to Justin Bieber in the locker room? He was like, labeled as number seven.
Hallie
Wait, I'm screaming, you dated him.
Kendall Vertez
So my friends were like, wait, this would be kind of funny. Like, DM him and just like, see if he answers. So I DM'd him and we literally started dating. But he's from Michigan, so I would drive to Michigan to see him. He was a football player. Like, he was famous on TikTok. I'm like, this is great. We started dating. And then I'm like, wait, I don't know if I want a boyfriend right now. Like, I kind of rushed into this. Senior prom comes up, it's over Mother's Day. He's like, hey, I don't think I can make it to your prom. I'm like, okay, that's fine. I'll just go with my gay best friend the night before. I'm like, getting my hair done, I'm getting my nails done, I'm getting my eyelashes done. Like, I have a huge busy day the week before prom. I'm like, I just, like, don't know if I want to be in a relationship. But we haven't really talked about it. And I get home from all of my appointments. My mom's like, oh, you have a package upstairs. Like, go upstairs and get it. And I'm just so annoyed because I'm gonna break up with him. And, like, I'm stressed.
Hallie
Yeah.
Kendall Vertez
Because it's prom. The next day, she's like, go upstairs, like, you have a package waiting for you. I go upstairs, he's in my bedroom. He literally drove to Pennsylvania to surprise me. Meanwhile, I texted him an hour ago, being like, we need to talk. And he got the text while he was in the car. It was so awkward. And my awkward ass invited all my friends over that night. Because I'm like, I can't be alone with this man. Like, can my friends come over?
Hallie
Oh, no.
Kendall Vertez
Prom was the next day. He slept over, obviously, because it's like a five hour drive. He slept in, like, my sister's room. Oh, I wake up, he's gone. He's gone. Didn't even say goodbye. Like, that was it. Then I would get Venmo requests from him, being like, can you pay me for, like, mental health?
Hallie
For therapy?
Kendall Vertez
It was. And I felt so bad because he broke his heart. I. I really did break. Break his heart.
Hallie
You're 22. Okay, so I'm ancient compared to you.
Kendall Vertez
How old are you?
Hallie
I'm 25.
Kendall Vertez
28.
Hallie
28 down.
Kendall Vertez
You're not.
Hallie
I was born in 97.
Kendall Vertez
Wow. Really?
Hallie
I mean, don't say it like that.
Kendall Vertez
No, I really thought you were, like, 25, 26. I mean, I get to say after.
Hallie
A certain age, I feel like, what's the difference between, like, 28 and 25?
Kendall Vertez
No, literally.
Hallie
I mean, that's my. The propaganda I'm spreading, at least just being like, what's.
Kendall Vertez
No, I feel like I see that. Are you excited for your 30s?
Hallie
Yes, I am.
Kendall Vertez
I keep hearing a lot more people say, like, yeah, your 20s are fun, but, like, your 30s are.
Hallie
I think I'll be, like, my best peak looks my, like, when I hit the age of 30. Because you have, like, your makeup figured out. You have your style figured.
Kendall Vertez
Okay, I can see that.
Hallie
You have, like, kind of your life more figured out. Yeah, you probably think I'm 25 because I literally act and go out like.
Kendall Vertez
One, but, like, that's how everybody is. I feel like nowadays, like, nobody cares anymore. Like, nobody's trying to act like something they're not. Like, like, you're just yourself.
Hallie
Well, what was college like? Did you like to go to Frat parties. Like, what was that experience for you? I want to hear like your whole lore in college.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah, college was very eye opening for me as well. My best friends went to Penn State. Have you ever been to Penn State?
Hallie
Yes.
Kendall Vertez
So you know what Penn State, like, you don't. You go one person, you come back a completely different person. I will say that. But my college experience, I was really excited to just meet new friends. I went to a college, I didn't know a single person. I'm like, clean slate, I'm gonna start fresh. Four hours from home. Like, it's the perfect distance. And I ended up joining the dance team, which was really awesome because then that was like kind of like a sorority to me. I didn't join a sorority because I also didn't really want to be in that vibe. But the dance team, they were like a built in family. I had amazing roommates and frat parties. We're a big frat school, we're not a big bar school, which is the only thing I wish was different. But yeah, I learned a lot about myself. I learned how to be independent for once. And also that's kind of when like my influencing really took off. So I was traveling a lot and it was a lot to balance academics, life, social life, dance, and work. Like, it taught me how to prioritize my time, how to be smart about, like, how much time I give. What. So.
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Kendall Vertez
Yeah. Not a lot of traveling, obviously, because. Yeah, my closest airport was two hours from my college, so, like, it was really difficult for me to travel. And with dance team, I had practice every day in a game every weekend.
Hallie
Okay.
Kendall Vertez
So now that I'm out of college, I'm everywhere.
Hallie
I know. It's like, I. I feel like I'm never in the same place. Same place. Like, why do I even have an apartment here? It's basically just a closet.
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Kendall Vertez
That's literally. I say. I can't even say I'm from Pittsburgh because I don't live there.
Hallie
Where do you live right now? Pittsburgh. Okay. With your parents?
Kendall Vertez
With my parents.
Hallie
Okay. Do you have plans to move anywhere?
Kendall Vertez
That's, like, literally as we speak, what I'm figuring out. I.
Hallie
Well, what are you leaning towards?
Kendall Vertez
There's, like, three places. I love Boston. I love the East Coast. I love being. Yes, I love the East Coast. I went to the Unwell game or the Red Sox game. It was the first time I was ever in Boston, though. I absolutely fell in love with it. And I'm not a city person. Like, I need to be able to get into my car and go on a joyride if I'm, like, getting canceled.
Hallie
Yeah.
Kendall Vertez
So Boston was definitely a top contender. And then Arizona, which I know is west coast, but I have a sister that lives There. A lot of my girlfriends live there, so I have family and friends. So, like, I wouldn't feel out of pocket if I went there.
Hallie
Arizona?
Kendall Vertez
Yeah, Like Phoenix. Scottsdale.
Hallie
Scottsdale's really fun.
Kendall Vertez
I could see you in Scottsdale.
Hallie
I mean, I went once with this really old guy a couple years ago and it was a time and a half. They great Nobu there.
Kendall Vertez
They have a great, like, social scene there.
Hallie
It's like a party.
Kendall Vertez
It really is. It never stops.
Hallie
Yeah, I didn't know that. I thought it was like all like, golf courses.
Kendall Vertez
You would think it's very, like pristine. Like some parts are very. Like there's a lot of money. But it's so fun being surrounded by that. Like, I love going to dinner and it's like old men sitting with four, like 20 year olds.
Hallie
That was probably me. That was probably me.
Kendall Vertez
And that, like, that's so normal there too. Like, it's not frowned upon at all. If anything, if you're not doing that, you're weird. Like, get out.
Hallie
Yeah. I felt like this is where I could live, honestly. Maybe I'll move to Scottsdale. We can be right.
Kendall Vertez
I'm thinking about doing it for at least a year. I mean, I'm 22. Like, I know you could bounce around. Yeah, I kind of want to bounce around. I also thought Dallas, Texas, for the Dallas Cowboy cheerleaders, but I don't know.
Hallie
So that's. Those places. None of them were going to be. What I thought you were going to say.
Kendall Vertez
Wait, what did you think?
Hallie
I thought you were going to either say Miami, New York or la, which would be like. I feel like a clear answer for someone in this.
Kendall Vertez
I feel like that's a cliche. Yeah.
Hallie
Yeah, cliche.
Kendall Vertez
I like California only to visit. I could never live there again. I love. I hate Florida. Anything that involves Florida, I hate Florida. I don't know why I hate Florida.
Hallie
I mean, I just couldn't live there because I would.
Kendall Vertez
It's so humid.
Hallie
Get liver failure or something.
Kendall Vertez
Oh.
Hallie
Or that I associate warm weather with, like, partying.
Kendall Vertez
Oh, yeah.
Hallie
So like, you know, you go on vacation.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah.
Hallie
But you're like. And then it's like you. I can't.
Kendall Vertez
You don't get anything done.
Hallie
No.
Kendall Vertez
And then. Wait, what's that? Oh, did you say New York?
Hallie
Yeah.
Kendall Vertez
I love the city, but not this city. I just like. Yeah, it's too congested.
Hallie
Over stimulating.
Kendall Vertez
I'm such a homebody. I need to be able to like, like, touch grass every day.
Hallie
And you need a car.
Kendall Vertez
I need a car. That's it. And I can move in together.
Hallie
No, Graydon won't move here.
Kendall Vertez
He's like that because he needs to.
Hallie
Be able to drive in his car, listen to music. Kim Petras, Nicki Minaj and just like going a little joyride.
Kendall Vertez
He would love Kim Petras.
Hallie
It's his. Her, like, she's like his favorite artist ever. It's amazing. What is your family think about what you do now?
Kendall Vertez
They honestly, I love asking, like, I love talking about this around my dad because he's so proud of me. Like, he's a girl. Dad. I have all sisters and are you one of three? I'm the youngest of three, yeah.
Hallie
Oh, nice. Okay.
Kendall Vertez
Everybody always thinks I'm an only child, but just because I'm the coolest.
Hallie
Yeah.
Kendall Vertez
Sisters are in the shadows. I'm kidding. My dad, he's like, I'm just so proud of you for everything that you've built. You are so mature. Like, it's so cool watching you do all these things and meeting all these people. You have a great connection. They support it a lot also, because I can support myself. Like, they don't have to support me with money.
Hallie
Thank God.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah, I know.
Hallie
Literally rushing it, girl.
Kendall Vertez
Literally. He's like, thank God the last child can actually afford herself and I don't have to pay for it. But it also fell into my lap. Like, I started Instagram when I was like 10 during Dance Moms. Then after Dance Moms, we all grew big followings and then influencing and social media, like, really started to take off. And I'm like, okay, I'll emphasize on that.
Hallie
And you work your ass off.
Kendall Vertez
I think we all do. Yeah, I think we can all sing.
Hallie
We can all say, I mean, I'm not dancing and stuff like that. I wasn't doing that at the age of. I was doing karate yet.
Kendall Vertez
What? Wait.
Hallie
Actually, I was one of those. Pick me. That was like, couldn't. I was like a deer on ice.
Kendall Vertez
I kind of like that karate.
Hallie
But I went to an all girls Catholic school where you had to play a sport every season. So I was like the field hockey goalie because I couldn't play on the field. And I was the ice hockey goalie because I couldn't play on the field. And then I was a little cross goalie because I couldn't play on the field. So I constantly had balls being thrown at me. And I got to college and basically the same thing.
Kendall Vertez
Wait, that is so funny.
Hallie
That's my life.
Kendall Vertez
You are a goalie final boss.
Hallie
Like, you know, like, imagine Me in like all the goalie gear.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah. It's probably swallowed you whole. Yeah, that is big.
Hallie
There was like these D1 athlete slang and ballsy were basically going through me.
Kendall Vertez
When did you start social media?
Hallie
I started when I actually remember, like, loving.
Kendall Vertez
Like, I loved when you would sit down.
Hallie
I.
Kendall Vertez
And you did your martinis.
Hallie
Yeah. I had to kind of switch it up because people, like, were coming out my throat for that. But I used to just like chug nips. I don't know if you ever saw that era of mine.
Kendall Vertez
Was that like, really early on when.
Hallie
You first really, like 2022? Yeah, I would just like, like down a nip and have no reaction.
Kendall Vertez
I was going to say you wouldn't even speak sometimes. You literally would sit down, not say a single word. Drink your drink. And then the video was over.
Hallie
Yeah. And it would be like 7 million views.
Kendall Vertez
And I was going to say, and people ate that up.
Hallie
You're like, you're so sick.
Kendall Vertez
And I was like, thanks.
Hallie
I need to like, figure out what else to do on this app. But yeah, I basically started. So I never had, like, a real job, was never a corporate baddie, just kind of hostessed it in the summer. And then I was like, I need to move to New York. So I was like, signed with the modeling agency.
Kendall Vertez
Wait, I didn't know that.
Hallie
Yeah. EMG models.
Kendall Vertez
That's great.
Hallie
But then I had the eyelashes and I was injecting so much filler in my face, it just like didn't work out. And I was like, they're like, either dissolve the filler or you can continue to model. And I was like, I choose filler. Filler.
Kendall Vertez
I actually love that for you.
Hallie
I was like, it just suits my personality in this era. I am in life.
Kendall Vertez
So you like, feel your most self. Like, yeah, obviously you want to feel your most self.
Hallie
At one point in time, I really wanted to look like a yassified blow up doll. Like, my lips were so big.
Kendall Vertez
Do you have filler now in your lips?
Hallie
No, I dissolved most of it.
Kendall Vertez
Wait, what? Yeah, your lips are naturally that big.
Hallie
Well, because when you put so much.
Kendall Vertez
Into it, they like expanse.
Hallie
Yeah. Like, makes the surface area bigger. So they're bigger than what they used to be, but they're. You can see. I'll show you pictures.
Kendall Vertez
I have terrible filler migration too. I actually. People would come after me for my filler and I'm like, it could be a lot worse. Like, I could actually have full plastic surgery. You're picking on me because of my lip filler. Okay.
Hallie
I mean, lip filler migrates.
Kendall Vertez
It migrates. I also drink out of straws. Yeah, which you're really not supposed to.
Hallie
I, like, gave a blow job, like, 20 minutes after I got my lips filled.
Kendall Vertez
Wait, also, Hallie did just say she got her boobs done and went out the same night.
Hallie
Yeah, I did.
Kendall Vertez
Your pain tolerance is actually so high.
Hallie
No, it's insane. But trust me, when you get your tits done, you're gonna realize when you wake up, you feel amazing and great. Like, literally, you don't feel anything.
Kendall Vertez
Well, isn't it, like, because I've never been under anesthesia. Like, I still have to get my wisdom teeth out, and I am putting it off because I'm so scared of anesthesia. Isn't it, like, you literally close your eyes and then you open them? Like, is that what it feels like?
Hallie
You were out for two seconds. You don't remember falling asleep, and you just kind of wake up, but they give you, like, a sedative before you go under. Okay, so, like, you kind of just feel like you don't care. Like, you could, like, punch me in the face. I won't even care right now. Like, you just feel very. Like, it's like a Xanax.
Kendall Vertez
Okay, so you're making me. You're making me excited for this, but.
Hallie
I will say not to make you less excited.
Kendall Vertez
Oh, great.
Hallie
Wisdom teeth surgery was a lot worse than.
Kendall Vertez
Thank you. Yeah, I'm, like, Now I'm debating, what do I get done first? Okay, I'm getting my boobs done in January. Like, I have to.
Hallie
Yeah, teeth can wait. I'll give you a doctor rack.
Kendall Vertez
I actually was looking at one in New York. Yeah, but I need. I'll take your wreck.
Hallie
Yeah. Dr. Anna. Steve, shout out. She did my tits twice.
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Kendall Vertez
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Hallie
Yeah, okay. Sorry. What are we talking about? I get distracted by tits.
Kendall Vertez
We were talking about soda St. So many turns. Chat. Dbt to tits.
Hallie
The karate. This is what I was saying. I was a karate kid. I got at my brown belt.
Kendall Vertez
Did you have two brothers? Three brothers, yeah.
Hallie
I'm one of four. I have two brothers and older sister Sammy did football.
Kendall Vertez
We know that. Everybody tells me you're gonna hate this. Everybody tells me. Oh, my God. You and Sammy would be so cute. I'm like. I literally. Like, I met him.
Hallie
Like, you should date my brother.
Kendall Vertez
He is cute.
Hallie
He's such a. And he's so nice.
Kendall Vertez
Sam, if you're watching this.
Hallie
Sam, if you're watching this, hit up Kendall Right now I have so many people hit me up. Like, about Sammy.
Kendall Vertez
Like, he'd be a really good bachelor. How old is he?
Hallie
And Will should have their own bachelor.
Kendall Vertez
Wait, he would be such a good bachelor.
Hallie
Yeah, he would. He's just like such a nice, like, boy.
Kendall Vertez
And they don't make those anymore. Like, it's really hard to find.
Hallie
Well, he's the youngest too, so you guys have something in common.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah.
Hallie
Me and Chad, the middle, he.
Kendall Vertez
Was also there, but I didn't really get to talk to him. He was at the.
Hallie
We're like the devious ones.
Kendall Vertez
Okay.
Hallie
That kind of like got in trouble a lot. And then my older sister is.
Kendall Vertez
You have an older sister?
Hallie
Yeah, she's a sober Pilates instructor. I don't. That sounded weird description. She is. I meant to say she's the complete opposite of me. She's sober and she's a potty instructor.
Kendall Vertez
Oh, God.
Hallie
She's not like a sober.
Kendall Vertez
She's sober guys.
Hallie
Okay, so tell me about situation chips. What do you think about them?
Kendall Vertez
I'm kind of in the era of situationships right now.
Hallie
Do you have a roster?
Kendall Vertez
I like my roster changes. Like two weeks ago asked me about my roster. Would have been a whole different group.
Hallie
Of people that's kind of like me.
Kendall Vertez
I. I travel so much, so I love just like meeting new people, having a little fling for a little bit, and then, like, moving on. But I have really bad attachment issues.
Hallie
What is your attachment style?
Kendall Vertez
If I hang out with you and then like, you can't reply to me the next day, like, I'm done. Like, that's weird.
Hallie
So you're done? You're not like, harassing them?
Kendall Vertez
No, I used to harass, but I'm like, wait, what am I doing? Why am I chasing after a man that literally is a 4?
Hallie
We don't chase, we attract.
Kendall Vertez
And that's honestly the lesson I'm teaching myself every day.
Hallie
It'll take a couple years for that to really set in. I feel like that's a frontal loop develop.
Kendall Vertez
It really is. And I still have a. About three years.
Hallie
Yeah.
Kendall Vertez
But the biggest problem is that I really love athletes, which is the first red flag. Like, I love an athlete because. Yeah, unfortunately, because I've never met. Unfortunately, I've never met, like a good finance guy. I've never met, like, a good, normal man.
Hallie
Do you like a toxic guy?
Kendall Vertez
Yeah, I go after those because. But toxic and toxic, like, sometimes they cancel out, you know, like a positive and a negative. But a negative and a negative sometimes can make a Positive.
Hallie
No. That's how I look at it, too. That's. I knew I liked you. It's just like finance guys, especially at your age, I always say this. They should be. They should have no time for you. They should be working 100 hours a week in the office. So when they're 40 and more established.
Kendall Vertez
With my name on it, they can.
Hallie
Hit up you and have a billion dollars, and then you're sad. But I don't think finance guys at this age should really have any time to date. And they're kind of, like, dull when they do.
Kendall Vertez
When they do, like, they'll literally hit you up, you'll have a great week together, and then ghost you. And it's like, what?
Hallie
I just, like, like, no, we make more than finance guys.
Kendall Vertez
No, literally, I'm like, dude, I'm not even trying to go after you for your freaking money. Like, I honestly just wanted a nice man not in the public eye. Like, likes to work, good family morals, and you ruin it.
Hallie
Do you not want to date someone in the public eye? Is that important to you?
Kendall Vertez
I honestly don't care. I. I was actually thinking about this this morning. This is a shower thought. I kind of like them being in the public eye because they go through what we go through. Like, they get it when we get backlash. Like, they go through backlash, and, like, they know how to handle themselves when they're.
Hallie
Yeah, I.
Kendall Vertez
Just in public and, like. Yeah.
Hallie
There's something about girls being in the public eye versus a man being in the public eye that kind of like. Like, almost gives me the egg.
Kendall Vertez
Doesn't sit right with me.
Hallie
Sometimes they're super camera forward. It's like, okay, diva, relax.
Kendall Vertez
No, literally, you know, like, let me hand you my lip gloss.
Hallie
Like, if you have like. Like, let me. Do you want to borrow my octo body? Like, why are we. What are we doing here?
Kendall Vertez
No. And it's really hard to pick those out because it's easy to hide. And then you start to see, and it's like, wait, are you more fame hungry than I thought you were?
Hallie
No, like, a man that's a cloud chaser. Literally, my clip will go back into my.
Kendall Vertez
I was just talking about this. I could never date a man that's on Tick Tock.
Hallie
Or, like, Tick Tock is like, a rare breed of man, but I have. I slept with those guys.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah, absolutely. And will I do it again? Yeah, absolutely.
Hallie
Absolutely. That is not our husband.
Kendall Vertez
No. And that's also what I'm telling myself. I'm like, okay, we can have a One night stand. I'm not gonna marry you.
Hallie
It like I think athlete would be a good camera forward person.
Kendall Vertez
I just could be a wag.
Hallie
All my friends are wags.
Kendall Vertez
Isn't it like, like do you want that?
Hallie
I mean I would be a wag, but like you'd be, you'd be a good my. I mean I'm just thinking of like two of my best friends off the top of my head. Like Emma Pritchard.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah. Oh yeah, yeah.
Hallie
You're friends with her and Paige Lorenz, right?
Kendall Vertez
Oh my God. Those are like ultimate, ultimate wags.
Hallie
Like the waggies of the Wags and. But they lucked out. Like they have really good partners.
Kendall Vertez
I was gonna say I but I.
Hallie
Get a little scared with just like athletes.
Kendall Vertez
Well, yeah, it's really scary. They travel so much. It's so easy for them to cheat and it's so easy for them to just be like, okay then bye. Like you call me cheating. Okay, see ya. Like they don't care.
Hallie
But like if you find the right guy, I guess it works. And I feel like they have.
Kendall Vertez
They definitely hit the jacket with them.
Hallie
They're like awesome. But that's the only issue I have with athletes. But like will I would I still be a WAG? Yes. 100.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah. But I really like that era.
Hallie
What sport do you have a sport that you lean towards?
Kendall Vertez
I used to be hockey. Now I'm football.
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My last boyfriend. I dated him from freshman year up until senior year of college.
Hallie
Oh, wow.
Kendall Vertez
Like my whole college life.
Hallie
Yeah. I mean, I had a boyfriend in college too.
Kendall Vertez
It's fun. But we also didn't go to the same college. It was still.
Hallie
How did you meet him?
Kendall Vertez
He was two hours away from me. He went to Georgetown.
Hallie
Did he play football?
Kendall Vertez
He played baseball. He was a really good baseball player. He's at Georgetown, which is a really hard school to get into. He was a great guy. Guy super smart.
Hallie
Yeah.
Kendall Vertez
Athletic, Very handsome. Good family. Started dating. Everything was great. Senior year comes around. I quit the dance team because I wanted to just like be a normal college student and not wake up and have dance on my mind because, yeah, it was too much. I think he took that as okay. Okay. He was two years older than me. He ended up doing his grad year at Clemson. So we went from being two hours to eight hours away from each other.
Hallie
Okay.
Kendall Vertez
Long distance to the mattress. Max. When I quit dance team, he took that as okay, now you can come see me every weekend and come to all my games. I'm like, no, I'm gonna like go out with my roommates. I'm gonna enjoy college and like be able to finally travel on brand trips. And so then I started going out more and he either texted me or called me and was like, I don't even recognize you anymore. You're going crazy. You're drinking too much. I don't know if I can be with you. And I'm like, it just Sounds like you're insecure and you don't trust me. And that's, like, not what a relationship should be built on.
Hallie
Yeah.
Kendall Vertez
So I said we should take a break.
Hallie
Break.
Kendall Vertez
Our main thing was like, we don't do breaks. We either break up or we stay together. I was like, no, let's take a break. Let's see what happens. Like, we took a break for, like, two weeks. I called him. I'm like, hey, let's try this again. We tried it again. Communication was just like, eh. Then he officially, like, ripped the band aid off and was like, let's just break up. We went like, cold turkey. No talking for like, three months. And then I started reaching out. How's your season going? Miss you. Let's FaceTime. We would FaceTime like, once a week for hours. And then all of a sudden, he has a girlfriend and is living in Dallas with her.
Hallie
I love that for you. Wait, okay, so tell me about your podcast. I want to hear about it. What's it about? And tell me everything.
Kendall Vertez
So it's called not so Little, My nickname from the show. My mom would call me my little Kendall all the time. And I'm like, now that I'm going through adulthood things, let's turn it into something a little more mature. Not so little. It was perfect. Doesn't really, like, put me in a box to a specific title or whatever to talk about. And it's kind of just me in my 20s figuring out where I'm gonna go, what do I want to do, Am I gonna do something with my degree? Talking about friendships, relationships. Obviously I have some cool friends that I want to have on and guests, but it's more of like a vlog style podcast. So every episode I'm either traveling somewhere or I'm at home. Figuring out life and living with your parents.
Hallie
I mean, I feel like this era is of. Of your life, like, right after you graduate. College hasn't, like, a show like this hasn't been really put out there. It's like, so important because it's such a confusing time.
Kendall Vertez
It so is.
Hallie
You don't know what you want to do. Where do you want to live? Like, what if I make a mistake doing that? And it's like you're playing chess with your life almost.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah.
Hallie
And there's also just like, being thrown into the real world. Like, there's like a lot of, like. Like your frontal lobe really starts to build.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah. I also think it's hard with Tick Tock. Everybody's always posting, like, this glam, like, the glamorous side of their lives of, like, oh, I just got my new nine to five. Like, I'm working at the J.P. morgan building.
Hallie
Oh, my God, they hate their lives, all of them.
Kendall Vertez
And I'm like, am I doing something wrong? It's so easy to compare yourself to, like, people you see your age on Tick Tock because they look like they're living this glamorous life. It's like, wait. I also tend to post a glamorous life, but, like, I'm really going through it. I'm in the trenches, right?
Hallie
No, it's.
Kendall Vertez
It's single living with your parents. My brother's doing double homicide right there.
Hallie
Sammy. Not to bring him up again. He's literally in the exact same spot.
Kendall Vertez
We can bring him up again.
Hallie
He's like, I'm. All my friends have, like, corporate jobs, and I'm still living with my parents. That's why he's, like, so confused. He, like, tried to join a modeling agency. He's posting on Tick Tock.
Kendall Vertez
As you should.
Hallie
And I was deserves.
Kendall Vertez
That man belongs in a magazine. Wait, you know who else is really cute?
Hallie
Who?
Kendall Vertez
Junior.
Hallie
Junior.
Kendall Vertez
I think Junior is cute, too.
Hallie
Junior, his best friend.
Kendall Vertez
Okay.
Hallie
Kendall. And he plays football. Well, they both do. Great.
Kendall Vertez
This is great.
Hallie
Don't worry. Things are already looking up.
Kendall Vertez
I'm excited again.
Hallie
But I just think that, like, for me, all my friends had jobs right out of college.
Kendall Vertez
It's so hard.
Hallie
I was a classics major and was like, what the. I don't want to work at a museum.
Kendall Vertez
Wait, what was your major?
Hallie
A classics major.
Kendall Vertez
I've never heard of that.
Hallie
In our art history minor.
Kendall Vertez
What?
Hallie
My thesis was the emotional manipulation of Helen Architecture during that period.
Kendall Vertez
Holly, that is.
Hallie
And how it evoked emotion.
Kendall Vertez
I got an A. Craziest lore drop I've ever heard.
Hallie
I know. I love dropping that when I can.
Kendall Vertez
I honestly feel like that would get a lot of guys if you tell them that at a bar.
Hallie
I bring it up way too much online.
Kendall Vertez
No, I would. That's a flex.
Hallie
I'll be talking about the weather, and I'll be like, this reminds me about that time in the holonistic era.
Kendall Vertez
Well, because I never would have pictured you being, like, studying that. Like, that's such a.
Hallie
Because people think I'm a dumb, but I try to like. Like, make people.
Kendall Vertez
I kind of love that, though. People think you're dumb, and then you open your mouth and they're like, wait, she actually knows what she's talking.
Hallie
No, I like, I online when I post a Tick Tock. I really stretch like the vocal fry and it's like kind of like this whole character I portray. But I love that I didn't have a real job until 25.
Kendall Vertez
Really?
Hallie
When I started making money on online, I was a hostess.
Kendall Vertez
That gives me Hope with 16 year olds. Yeah.
Hallie
When I was 24 years old.
Kendall Vertez
It's also just.
Hallie
It was a weird time.
Kendall Vertez
Nobody, I feel like everybody that graduates college, a lot of them don't go get a job that they studied. Like, yeah, you can have a degree in political science and pre law and literally go work for a marketing agency.
Hallie
Like, yeah.
Kendall Vertez
That's another thing that I was kind of giving myself grace is like, I don't have to go into politics if I study politics. I would never go into politics. It is a dog eat dog world. I already get so much hate if I went into politics. Yeah, my life would be ruined.
Hallie
But I mean, that is such a good message though. Like, literally give yourself grace.
Kendall Vertez
I just. Yeah, you just have to tell yourself, like, everything is gonna work out. You're 22. Stop comparing yourself. It's gonna be okay.
Hallie
There's gonna be like a really comforting element of your show because I feel like a lot of people are probably in your position, like figuring it out and I think that'll be really fun. I love it. I mean, for me, I do the same kind of thing. Don't always post. I don't glamorize my life.
Kendall Vertez
I can't too much.
Hallie
I like to like always just like also share what I'm going through, like my mental health. And if you show, you know, the ups and downs. Yeah. My eye rash right now. If you showed the ups and downs, I feel like it makes you a more tangible, relatable person.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah. And that's literally all I want to be. I just want to be like, as relatable as possible because I may look like I have it all together and live this glamorous life. Like, people think reality TV pays well. We made like.
Hallie
No. Yeah. It's also a lot like the public. Screw getting public. Publicly scrutinize at such a young age that with your head.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah.
Hallie
I can only imagine.
Kendall Vertez
But I just want to be like that person that you can come to for comfort if you're going through it in your 20s. I'm right there with you.
Hallie
Well, I'm excited to see.
Kendall Vertez
Thank you.
Hallie
It's gonna be fun.
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Kendall Vertez
Okay.
Hallie
Let's do some rapid fire hot takes looks on some fashion and 2025 trends.
Kendall Vertez
Okay.
Hallie
Ballet flats. Replacing sneakers.
Kendall Vertez
Placing sneakers.
Hallie
Replacing sneakers.
Kendall Vertez
I have big feet, so I. You will never. You'll never find me in a ballet flat.
Hallie
You'll never.
Kendall Vertez
I look like a clown.
Hallie
It's funny that you say that as a dancer.
Kendall Vertez
Oh, yeah, yeah.
Hallie
But like, I. I can't hop on that trend either.
Kendall Vertez
I just. I think they're. They're cute if you have petite ass feet. I don't. Don't. So, no.
Hallie
Yeah, I'm like an eight and a half clean girl aesthetic.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah, I like it.
Hallie
I like, like to follow it.
Kendall Vertez
I like to portray like I'm a clean girl.
Hallie
Oh, I know, but I'm.
Kendall Vertez
I'm not, obviously. But I like to give that aesthetic.
Hallie
With the Ralph Lauren shirt.
Kendall Vertez
I really tried to.
Hallie
You're giving clean girl to me.
Kendall Vertez
Thank you.
Hallie
I have like this crazy rash around my eyes. It looks like I just did math before this. So I don't know if I'm giving that today with my Tesla. Uggs.
Kendall Vertez
With your Tesla.
Hallie
Wearing headphones as accessories also.
Kendall Vertez
Pick me.
Hallie
Pick me because I walk in like that today.
Kendall Vertez
No, no, no, no, no. Okay, but you also like traveling. Like, people will just like, put headphones on to just like post a photo. Wired headphones making a comeback. I don't know how to feel about that. Like, do people think it's like, cool to have wires again?
Hallie
Oh, I thought that's what it said. Wearing. Oh, but you're right. Wearing just headphones as accessories, that's pick me. Yeah, you're right.
Kendall Vertez
I think like, people wearing the wired headphones now, it's like, oh, look at me. Like I'm not spending 800 on a pair of headphones. I.
Hallie
But I love it right now. Y. Losing my AirPods. No, I can't buy another.
Kendall Vertez
Also, you don't have to charge them.
Hallie
Yeah.
Kendall Vertez
Like, you just plug them in. But I don't like the people that wear them to, like, be cool, look.
Hallie
Like, very, like, artsy. Like. Yeah, yeah, I get what you're saying.
Kendall Vertez
I think I'm giving mean girl right now.
Hallie
No, you're not. I. I like your answers, and I like that you're being honest with me. 2016 King Kylie makeup.
Kendall Vertez
Oh, my God, it's so awesome.
Hallie
Yeah.
Kendall Vertez
I honestly loved that for her.
Hallie
Yeah.
Kendall Vertez
King Kylie, like, really was a transformative year for me.
Hallie
How old were you? When? In 2016? Because I was, like, a sophomore in college. You're probably in elementary school.
Kendall Vertez
I think I was either in high, middle school or high. I was definitely in high school.
Hallie
Okay.
Kendall Vertez
I would always wait online for the lip kids to come out.
Hallie
Like, I mean, they're still in airports.
Kendall Vertez
I know. The little vending machine.
Hallie
And I'm like, who's funding this?
Kendall Vertez
They have billions.
Hallie
Yeah. Okay. Micro bag bags.
Kendall Vertez
I like them because they're easy. I like them when I go out. Like, I don't like a big ass bag hanging on my arm. Like a.
Hallie
What do they fit?
Kendall Vertez
Oh. Oh, those?
Hallie
Yeah.
Kendall Vertez
Hate it.
Hallie
Like a Judith Leiber.
Kendall Vertez
Also, like, why are we. Why are we paying a thousand dollars for a Jacques Jack Moose? Yeah, that.
Hallie
That's my jacket. Jackmoos.
Kendall Vertez
Like, why are we paying a thousand dollars for something that literally could fit a quarter?
Hallie
No, I agree with this. It's not like you can't.
Kendall Vertez
I just think it's. It just. It ruins the vibe.
Hallie
Jorts.
Kendall Vertez
Hell no. I have dancer legs, though.
Hallie
I love Jors.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah, you have great legs for Jors. I have the fattest quad muscles on this planet. Earth. You will never catch me. Enjoy. I put jorts on, and it looked like I cut skinny jeans. Like, they were literally wrapped around my thighs.
Hallie
I only like edgy jorts, though. Like, not, like, through, like, the frayed.
Kendall Vertez
I like the frayed.
Hallie
Like, mar. Like, like, good patchwork.
Kendall Vertez
You wore jorts in Vegas, and it was so awesome with, like, a white tank. You're off at 8. I literally have it engraved in my memory. You had a black top on with a white Hanes tank and Jors. And it was like, who is this? Like, she's so cool.
Hallie
I worked with the stylist, though, for that one.
Kendall Vertez
No. But as you should have.
Hallie
I was. That was Great about Vegas.
Kendall Vertez
That was really awesome.
Hallie
Okay, what is the best accessory? That's a question.
Kendall Vertez
I think for fall, a really good scarf. Like, right now for New York, I love, like, a big, thick scarf.
Hallie
What's a good place to get a scarf?
Kendall Vertez
I'm a classic, and I just go with Burberry.
Hallie
Burberry.
Kendall Vertez
I like Burberry. Or Acne Studios has good scars. Yeah, they're just expensive.
Hallie
Acne Studios has really good scarves.
Kendall Vertez
We're not giving a good budget right now.
Hallie
Are you into.
Kendall Vertez
Oh, Aritzia is good too. Yeah.
Hallie
Are you into mixing metals?
Kendall Vertez
Yes. Yes, I am into mixing metals.
Hallie
I feel like that's fun, but I.
Kendall Vertez
I used to be a gold girl, then I started mixing.
Hallie
You know, I think silver works with my skin tone.
Kendall Vertez
But I really like your hand tats.
Hallie
Thank you. Aren't they fun?
Kendall Vertez
Those are really fun.
Hallie
I went through, like, a really weird era earlier this fall, and I was like, I need to get some hands.
Kendall Vertez
I like it.
Hallie
Yeah. They're, like, dainty and fun.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah.
Hallie
But what is your everyday outfit staple?
Kendall Vertez
I just like a good pair of baggy jeans.
Hallie
Same. Like, what's your favorite brand of jean?
Kendall Vertez
I love a Goldie. A Goldie.
Hallie
A Goldie.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah.
Hallie
The equality is good. I've been loving EB Oh, EB Denim.
Kendall Vertez
Citizens of Humanity has really good jeans because it's so soft. It literally feels like you're wearing sweatpants.
Hallie
And rag and bone. It's good jeans, too.
Kendall Vertez
All expensive, but all worth it. I will say, like, invest in a.
Hallie
Good pair of jeans.
Kendall Vertez
I'm starting to like my clean girl aesthetic is buying. Good staple.
Hallie
Like, capsule.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah.
Hallie
Wardrobe capsule. Yeah. I need to get better about that. What is your hot take on sorority recruitment?
Kendall Vertez
I just think, all in all, it's just so toxic. Like, they.
Hallie
It's, like, really.
Kendall Vertez
It's just really toxic. And I feel bad for the girls that don't get the sororities they want because it's like, at the end of the day, it's a literal sorority at a college. Like, it's not that deep.
Hallie
Yeah. I was never supposed to be a.
Kendall Vertez
Sisterhood, and you're literally turning people down for, like, a minor flaw, like, their hair color. What?
Hallie
Like, also, I'd be damned if a were to tell me what to do, like, at one of those sororities.
Kendall Vertez
It's so crazy that people pay, like, thousands of dollars to be a part of, like, that social.
Hallie
It's like, a social status.
Kendall Vertez
It's a social experiment, I think.
Hallie
Yeah. It's really odd to Me.
Kendall Vertez
To be honest, someone said aloe is a social experiment, and now I cannot un like that.
Hallie
That's so real, being in a relationship. In college, we kind of already went over this. But what do you think about it?
Kendall Vertez
It. I think if it's stable, it's fine. If it's unstable, get out.
Hallie
Situationships lasting longer than a year.
Kendall Vertez
Oh, my God.
Hallie
That's a relationship.
Kendall Vertez
You would literally never see me outside of the house if that ever happened.
Hallie
Like, I mean, like, what does that even mean? You're in a situationship for over a year.
Kendall Vertez
Okay, what do you think a sit. Like, how long do you think a situationship should last?
Hallie
Max. Three months?
Kendall Vertez
I. I was gonna say three months too.
Hallie
Yeah.
Kendall Vertez
Max facts after that. Like, if I like you, I know within two hours. I'm sorry.
Hallie
Yeah, like, but, like, after a month, I think it's okay to, like, have a conversation.
Kendall Vertez
Oh, what are we, a thousand percent.
Hallie
After, like, a month? A month and a half.
Kendall Vertez
Like, men can't comprehend that, but, like, the women can.
Hallie
Like, if you, like, what are we doing? Like, don't waste my time.
Kendall Vertez
No, seriously.
Hallie
Yeah.
Kendall Vertez
I'll literally replace you within 24 hours.
Hallie
Period. I'm putting that in my bio. Okay. What's the best night to go out in college?
Kendall Vertez
I love a good Thursday night.
Hallie
Mine was Wednesday.
Kendall Vertez
Really?
Hallie
Yeah. Thursday.
Kendall Vertez
Wine Wednesdays, or just, like, going out? I would rip it at Union College.
Hallie
Yeah, it was really fun.
Kendall Vertez
Honestly. I could see that. Yeah, I like a Thursday night. I mean, Friday is also fun. Hate Saturdays because then you have one day left of the weekend. Like, you wake up Saturdays feeling like on Sunday you have to, like, reset, do your sheets, do homework.
Hallie
What do you think about day drinking?
Kendall Vertez
I loved a good day drink. Like, a dirty.
Hallie
My friends used to, like, love to go out all during the day on Saturday and, like, go better early. But, like, I'm a night person.
Kendall Vertez
I am a night person. Like, if I were to day drink, I couldn't. You wouldn't see me out that night.
Hallie
See, I can do both. And I'm blacked out.
Kendall Vertez
It is. It's. It's a lot. I've done it maybe twice, and I will never do it again because I didn't survive. But I love a dirty.
Hallie
Should people do long distance during car? During college?
Kendall Vertez
I mean, I did long distance and it was fine. It just takes a certain breed. Like, not everybody is built for long distance. I'll say that.
Hallie
I think it's better if you're, like, a busier person.
Kendall Vertez
I also think long distance people have such a bad stigma about it. I honestly liked it because I had my own time to do whatever I wanted. I wasn't seeing him every day. We would FaceTime for, like, an hour, and that's all I needed.
Hallie
Yeah.
Kendall Vertez
But then it started to get a little repetitive, and it's like, okay, you're.
Hallie
Like, all right, I'm over this.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah, exactly.
Hallie
Senior year. Burnout. Did you have it?
Kendall Vertez
Honestly? Not really. Yeah, I was. I mean, I was excited to get out, but I also was really sad to be leaving that stage of my life. I loved my roommates. Roommates also depends on your college experience. Like, if you have terrible roommates, that already just sets your mood and attitude really low. But did you have shitty roommates?
Hallie
I.
Kendall Vertez
My freshman year was awful.
Hallie
I mean, everyone has shitty freshman year.
Kendall Vertez
But, yeah, like, that.
Hallie
I was the shitty freshman year mate to these poor small girls.
Kendall Vertez
If you were my freshman year roommate.
Hallie
I would bring guys back.
Kendall Vertez
Wait, that is so funny.
Hallie
And they were like, we have practice at, like, 5am and I was like, I don't give a. I would steal all their snacks. Snacks too.
Kendall Vertez
Okay. But that's not terrible. Like, that's not like a roommate from hell stealing snacks. Gone.
Hallie
No, I wouldn't, like, put a cat in, like, the microwave situation, but, like, I was definitely, like, an annoying roommate.
Kendall Vertez
In fact, that's the first thing you thought of. Of being a bad for me.
Hallie
I mean, have you seen that. That movie?
Kendall Vertez
There is a show. I didn't watch it.
Hallie
And did you watch the Cat in the Laundry? It's like a movie where it's, like, about, like, a really scary roommate and she, like, kills people. She was obsessed. I'll send you a link.
Kendall Vertez
Okay.
Hallie
I mean, I was like that to that extent, so I comparatively, was a great roommate. Great. Okay. Are boyfriends allowed to come to the pre game for girls night?
Kendall Vertez
If it's a girl's night, it's a girl. Did I hear a boy in there? It's a girl's night.
Hallie
Is it ever a good idea to live with your best friend in college?
Kendall Vertez
I mean, it just. Yeah, if it's your best friend and you guys, like, know each other through the good and the bad, like, yeah, do it.
Hallie
Why would that be a bad idea? I'm kind of.
Kendall Vertez
Well, because sometimes, like, I, like, I do get into tiffs with my best friends, and I do have friends that I'm like, I could never live with them, but I love them. There are just some people that, like, physically, you just, like, cannot live with them. It would not work out men who.
Hallie
Say they don't have social media. What do we think about those guys?
Kendall Vertez
I think there's two types. I think there's one that's trying to be really pick me and being like, like, this will get her in my pants. And then there's ones that genuinely just like, do not give two shits about.
Hallie
Social media that those kind of men would like. I like those type of men.
Kendall Vertez
I want that type of man. But it. It doesn't really come around often.
Hallie
Yeah, if your man travel for work three days a week, every single week, that's fine.
Kendall Vertez
Cuz then I'll be traveling three days a week too.
Hallie
Like, period.
Kendall Vertez
Or I'll come with you.
Hallie
Hooking up with someone who follows a thousand Instagram models.
Kendall Vertez
Oh, my God, absolutely.
Hallie
I'm cracking up. Marshall, dating apps. What do you think about them?
Kendall Vertez
I actually. I tried to apply for Raya and got turned away and that was it. I said, okay, I'm not meant to be on. He said, no, I literally. I didn't have referrals.
Hallie
Oh, my God. All of a sudden you were.
Kendall Vertez
But I didn't think I needed one. If I have 11 million followers, I just spit into the camera. If I have 11 million followers on Instagram, I did not think I needed referrals. But.
Hallie
But wait, that's insane.
Kendall Vertez
Not trying to like.
Hallie
No, but that's insane.
Kendall Vertez
Be that person. But like, come.
Hallie
Raya, what are you doing?
Kendall Vertez
It's okay. I just travel so much, so I wanted to see, like, who are the new fish in the sea?
Hallie
You know, Doula is. I don't know how their algorithm works either.
Kendall Vertez
Like, my friends from home, who not to sound mean, like, have a following, but they're on Raya.
Hallie
No, I know. I. I don't understand how they choose people, to be honest. Girls proposing to men. I actually saw one of these recently. You saw Bella Thorne proposed to her man. She got down on one knee.
Kendall Vertez
It's Bella Thorne, though.
Hallie
I know. She's kind of a baddie. I just don't think I'd want to see a bunch of, like, normal people proposing to men. Yeah, like, if my best girlfriends from college started, like, getting down on one knee with a ring in hand, I'd be like, babe, get up.
Kendall Vertez
Like, is this a skit? Am I getting pranked?
Hallie
Yeah, no. I'd be like, what? All right. Getting a voice note from a guy you're newly seeing.
Kendall Vertez
Hot.
Hallie
Hot.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah. I love a voice.
Hallie
We need more of that.
Kendall Vertez
Also, I've never received one.
Hallie
One.
Kendall Vertez
But from a Guy Sammy.
Hallie
Would you let him be friends with his ex girlfriend?
Kendall Vertez
I think that's really cutting it close.
Hallie
I think it's inappropriate.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah, I don't think that should fly.
Hallie
Do you have an ick?
Kendall Vertez
Yes. And I've been saying this for a while. 30 year old men using Snapchat as communication.
Hallie
Yeah, that's gotta go.
Kendall Vertez
I think after the age of like 26, 27, you need to literally delete the app. Yeah, I have it for memories. Yeah, that's it. I don't even Snapchat people when I'm 22. I literally have one streak. It's my best friend.
Hallie
I mean I feel like Instagram's like the mode of like that should be the mode of like communication texting.
Kendall Vertez
Hey, what about a hey, hi. Hello. Not a. Let me see.
Hallie
If you don't know the person, it's like instead of like, can I have your number? I think can I have your Instagram is okay. Because sometimes I don't want to like give all these random men my number.
Kendall Vertez
I support that. 100 Snapchat. Get me out.
Hallie
Yeah, I agree with that. Sharing locations with your boyfriend.
Kendall Vertez
Oh yeah, for sure. Not in like in like the least weird way. Like a very innocent. Sharing locations.
Hallie
Yeah, I mean it's a safety thing. At the end of the day, I also like for them, I need to know where the they're at, obviously.
Kendall Vertez
But I think just like I share my location with everyone and they should.
Hallie
Probably know where the I'm at.
Kendall Vertez
Yeah.
Hallie
Because sometimes they don't know where I'm at.
Kendall Vertez
You should keep an eye out for the Selena over here.
Hallie
Okay. Two more. How much do you stock before our first date?
Kendall Vertez
I go pretty hard.
Hallie
I go pretty hard. I know their address and then I'll like Zillow their house. What year did it get?
Kendall Vertez
I honestly, I have zillowed a few times just to see the price range of what their like their family.
Hallie
That's exactly what I do and that's exactly why I do it.
Kendall Vertez
But then again, since I only go after athletes, like I go to their interviews, I go to their huddles, I go to like, I search their names on Tik Tok and I see who they go. I go, oh, tagged also guys, girls. I know I sound like a weirdo. Recent following dot com.
Hallie
I. I don't even. Ignorance is blessed, baby.
Kendall Vertez
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Hallie
Have you ever walked out on a first date?
Kendall Vertez
No. I also don't really go on a lot of first dates. I usually just go to their house.
Hallie
Me, me, me. That's so me.
Kendall Vertez
And then when someone's like, let me take you out to dinner, I'm like, like, it's the nicest thing ever. And it's like, the bear.
Hallie
No, I do everything backwards. I, like, usually, like, hook up with a guy and then, like, if I like them through that, I'll be like, oh, maybe we go on a date.
Kendall Vertez
I see if they see my future. And it's very bright.
Hallie
Oh, my God. It was so much fun.
Kendall Vertez
This was. We've done this forever. I know. I was gonna say that's it, you.
Hallie
Know, like, that was amazing. You're amazing. Your show is gonna be be amazing. Thank you, everyone. Make sure you watch your show. And yeah, thanks for coming on. You're like a big sister. I know. We have so much fun.
Kendall Vertez
Love you.
Hallie
Love you so much. And guys, always. You can watch on YouTube and listen to me on any other platform, like comment, share with your friends. Everyone. Have a great week and I'll see you next Thursday.
Kendall Vertez
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Episode: Kendall Vertes is Not So Little Anymore
Date: November 27, 2025
Host: Hallie Batchelder
Guest: Kendall Vertes
This episode dives into the real and raw experiences of growing up in the limelight through the lens of Kendall Vertes, a former Dance Moms star who's now coming into her own as an influencer and podcast host. With Hallie Batchelder's signature unfiltered, comedic tone, the two discuss childhood fame, college chaos, evolving relationships, influencer culture, and the anxiety of your early 20s. The episode is packed with candid storytelling, hot takes on dating and fashion, and relatable insights for anyone transitioning out of school into adult life—all with a girls' sleepover vibe.
Growing Up On TV
Transition to ‘Normalcy’
[43:41] Hallie and Kendall do rapid-fire reactions:
This episode gives a behind-the-scenes, honest take on growing up on reality TV, dealing with young adulthood, and navigating the pressures of social media and relationships. Hallie and Kendall’s friendship chemistry shines through as they dish out advice, share embarrassing stories, and reassure everyone that it’s normal to be a little lost post-college.
Definitely worth a listen if you want:
Best enjoyed with a martini—just like you’re at the pregame with the girls.