
OLIVIA ATTWOOD DROPS INTO THE BAR! 🤸♀️Hallie and Olivia talk about going out in NYC vs London, the unexpected firmness of fake t*ts, their recent thoughts on the fashion scene, feeling liberated after her breakup, NOT being into athletes anymore, and even opens up about the painful parts of her divorce... They dive into the dating app scene, the shocking content going down on OF, strip club cuisine, and then answer YOUR questions: dating rich men, beauty products, destination weddings and more! MUAHZ! 💋
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Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
No, like wine makes me really, like, loose.
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Like, that's the word, loose.
Olivia Atwood
Like I'm taking my top off at the table. I'm loose.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Honestly, we should go out and drink some wine together. I feel like it'd be like a nightmare duo in the best way possible.
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Let's get extra dirty.
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This week I have a beautiful guest from London. Everyone, welcome Olivia Atwood.
Olivia Atwood
Hey, girl.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
How are you?
Olivia Atwood
I'm good. How are you?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
I miss you. I haven't seen you in so long.
Olivia Atwood
I miss you. And I'm so gutted that we, like, didn't manage to go out this weekend.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
I know.
Olivia Atwood
Next time I'm gonna message you and make sure you're actually here.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
No, next time I need to get to London too.
Olivia Atwood
Yes, you need to come to London. So I've had, like. You've had a heavy weekend. I've had a heavy weekend, but I've had a heavy weekend here.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Should we talk about your happy weekend first?
Olivia Atwood
Okay.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
What'd you get up to?
Olivia Atwood
So we were out here with a group of girls from the uk. Actually, I didn't even plan it to be like this, but they were all love islanders.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
And most of them were single apart from one. And then. And I'm obviously, like, newly single. And we were celebrating my river island collection and just took it too far.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
You took it too far.
Olivia Atwood
Went for dinner. Came in at 6am did you?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
That always happens. I feel like I never. I always take dinner plans way too far. There's, like, no such thing as casual dinner.
Olivia Atwood
I don't know how to casually drink.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
No, I don't either.
Olivia Atwood
I don't know what, like how people have like a glass of wine.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. There's no such thing. Did you like go out out to like a club?
Olivia Atwood
So we went is the Living room at the. At the. It's the lounge and then to a club. But I couldn't tell you the name of it if like in my head, yeah, it was crap. But like. Yeah, it was like chasing the night. But we were like, to be fair, watching the videos back and we were laughing, we were having fun.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
It was just a dumb.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Do you like the going out scene better in London or New York?
Olivia Atwood
I think people can have more fun with themselves in New York. I think London. I think a lot of people London still take themselves a bit too seriously. I'm not sure why, because they've got nothing to be serious about. But yeah, I think people are a little bit more fun in New York. Yeah.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
I feel like. Is there like curfews and stuff in London?
Olivia Atwood
I think our like liquor license is like not as late as yours. Is it? It's like 2 or 3 and then strip clubs are like till 6am so that's like people was like, why'd you just go to strip clubs? I'm like, not for the strippers.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. Like the thing about New York is like that's like the only thing where you don't have like a really thing. I feel like there's no good strip clubs.
Olivia Atwood
Okay. There's a lot in London, to be fair. And they're fun. They're a vibe.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
We have the box here and you guys had the box. London, right?
Olivia Atwood
Yeah.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
You know, I've never been to London.
Olivia Atwood
Have you? Never? Never. You would like it.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
And everyone's like, it's like the closest
Olivia Atwood
thing to New York and like you would like it. I think this like east coast to London is like. This is similar vibe as you're going to get in America. They have the same sense of humor.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
The weather, like it just feels like a kind of. And it's. The flight's not that long. It's only seven hours.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Do you get like seasons there? Is that a super question?
Olivia Atwood
We just have. It's just to be fair, you guys actually get a summer. We're just. It's just miserable all the time.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
And then we might get a week which we call summer where it's like as hot as the back of a television.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Ye.
Olivia Atwood
And we have obviously no aircon because we're British. So yes, it's fun. But when it does, when the sun does come out, it's like the whole city is like on crack.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. Because everyone's out.
Olivia Atwood
Oh, my God. People are like taking all their holiday in one week just because it's like the sun's out. No wonder it becomes like a national holiday.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. If it's warm, I feel like it's just like everyone wants to be outside drinking, like having a nice cold beer and like all that, like.
Olivia Atwood
And Pub Gardens, which is a very like English pub.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
And it is a vibe to be. To be fair.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
What's like your go to drink order?
Olivia Atwood
I'm a vodka soda through and through.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Like, that's just like a skinny queen drink.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah. With like a wedge of lime. No cordial. But like, my favorite drink would be a wine or rose, but it just doesn't agree with me.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Why is that?
Olivia Atwood
They call it juice when I drink it. I'm. I think I'm a vibe, but I. It's. I don't know. What do I get? Like grace, just sloppy.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
No, like, wine makes me really, like, loose. Like, that's the word.
Olivia Atwood
Like I'm taking my top off at the table. Like I'm loose.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Honestly, we should go out and drink some wine together. I feel like would be like a nightmare duo in the best way possible.
Olivia Atwood
We would have drink.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Drink gin.
Olivia Atwood
No. And I don't like the taste of it. I.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
It's too much.
Olivia Atwood
I don't want gin and ton easier
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
to get down in a way. But they're selling about like, you know, Jy reacts differently with everyone's body and
Olivia Atwood
it makes some people sad.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
It makes some people sad. But, like, for me and my mom, like my side of the family, it makes us like, really angry and fishy. Like, stay away from me. If I'm drinking a gin martini, what's your drink? My drink of choice is an extra dirty martini or those kind of get redundant, like, too much. So sometimes I'll switch it up to like a Cosmopolitan.
Olivia Atwood
My cocktail will be a Moscow Mule.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
A Moscow Mule?
Olivia Atwood
Yeah. It's vodka, ginger ale and lime. Yeah. That would be if I was going to drink cocktail, to be honest. Anything vodka based. I do. I do like a Cosmo now and again.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. If they're made right.
Olivia Atwood
If they're made right. If they're made badly, they can taste like, like soap.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
So you have Olivia's House, your podcast, which I've been on. It was so much fun. How are like the. What's the difference between, like, your UK guests and like, the guest you were having?
Olivia Atwood
That's a good question. I feel like I'VE I've been really lucky and like, I'm. I obviously, you know, it's like you, you try and pick the guests that you think you're going to like, align with and like have a conversation with. And I. All my guests so far have been really great. I think maybe that maybe in London they're a little bit more unfiltered. You think you were unfiltered, but you're always unfiltered. Yeah. I mean, that was fun when I filmed that week in New York. I want to do it again.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. And how many guests did you have on that week?
Olivia Atwood
We did like five. My brain.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
That's a lot. Yeah, that's a lot. And you come out with an episode every week, right?
Olivia Atwood
Come out once a week.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
And I've started. I do the odd solo episode which I actually quite enjoy because I just like talk.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
It's kind of. I do a ton of solo episodes.
Olivia Atwood
I'm like leaning to that more this series because it's nice, like not having to put pressure on yourself, wanting to get a guest and just get a guest, the sake of it. And it's a nice way to like catch up with your audience and like update them.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. It's kind of therapeutic too.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
And just like talk through your week. But I don't think people understand like how much of a skill it is to like sit there, talk to no one for an hour and a half without getting anything back to bounce things off. Like, am I being funny? Is the message getting across? Like, that's what makes it hard for
Olivia Atwood
me because like, like you say it's like, like can. Is it going to land? Right. But I, I want to do more of them. And it's also nice just to sort of like just have verbal diarrhea for 45 minutes.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. And you've kind of delved into the fashion scene a bit too, Right.
Olivia Atwood
Take my. To him.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
I mean, you, you're dressed amazing right now. Tell everyone what you're wearing.
Olivia Atwood
You just told me how to say this.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Courage, courage, courage.
Olivia Atwood
Just like you. I think it's a faux leather little zip up thing. I actually, this is a funny story. I had this shirt I wanted to wear this morning with these jeans and it's like a tight shirt with no bra underneath. Like long, like nice cuffs. Put it on. As I'm about to go out the door, like the three middle patterns just popped off. It was like the start of a porno and I was like, well, at least that happened here.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
So then I had to grab this. I was like, luckily I had something spare ready to go. I was like, okay. I was like. That was like a cartoon. Like, you know, like when cartoon looks at someone's shirt and, like, buttons pop.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
And that's happened to me many times because of the fake tits. They just pop.
Olivia Atwood
This was trying to explain someone. Like, fake tits, like, they don't. You can't compress them. They are what? They are, like, solid.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
So fake boobs, right?
Olivia Atwood
Yeah. Come on.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
I mean, they look really cute. I mean, I love a cosmetic procedure.
Olivia Atwood
So do I. So. Yes. That I had to go back in the room and just change into this and then these. Saint Laurent. And the same with the shoes.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
The jeans are Saint Laurent. Yeah. Okay. So you're just to the nine.
Olivia Atwood
I like a label. I love a label. Same a label haul.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
What do you think about mixing labels?
Olivia Atwood
So I don't mind it as long as I. I don't. You don't see the labels. Yeah. So this on the bottom has no labeling. So it's like, it's fine. But. Yeah. Hate it. Pet hate is, like, mixing sportswear like Nike and Adidas.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
Disgusting. Like, or somewhere like Adidas.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Like Adidas.
Olivia Atwood
We say Adidas.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Adidas. I'm obsessed with that.
Olivia Atwood
Adidas. Adidas. But you're making it sound really German. It is German, isn't it? Is it? Yeah, Adidas. That sounds cool. Okay, I'm gonna start saying that. Adidas. And then if they had, like, maybe a night. Well, we say Nike. What do you say?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Nike.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah,
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Nike.
Olivia Atwood
Like trainer.
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I'm screaming
Olivia Atwood
Matcha. Yeah.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Where do you think people dress better in New York or London?
Olivia Atwood
New York. Certain neighborhoods have different styles.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
So, like, it's nice.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
People watch.
Olivia Atwood
Like, if you go into different neighborhoods. And I think, you know, if you're going to Soho and you see the way people dress, I think what's really hard maybe here a little bit.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
I think here, like. Like you were kind of saying people just kind of, like, you can get away with so much here.
Olivia Atwood
Like, you.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Whatever you have, as long as you're, like, strutting it. Confident. I feel like the streets in New York are kind of like a Runway in that sense. Like. But a lot of it's very personal style.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah. I think. And, like, London's different if you go north to south, like, how people dress. So. But I think London and New York are good for, like, street style because people are, like, walking everywhere, like, getting the tube, the subway. So you can see a lot of fashion, which you don't get in la. It's like I don't like LA fashion.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. It's very like everyone's like wearing aloe and like cute little sets and walking and hiking.
Olivia Atwood
How do you think?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
I think LA is just like so boring to me. And it's very like healthy. Lots of Matcha. Like just very matcha. Like, I just feel like everyone there is just like in a slower pace
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and you have to drive.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yes. And it doesn't feel that safe to me really either. For some reason. I feel safer in New York.
Olivia Atwood
I feel safe in New York. I feel safer at the moment in New York. New York than I do in London. But that wouldn't take much.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
You don't really. People don't really walk around in la. You don't have a car, you're kind of. Yeah, but I don't mind visiting la. I mean, but.
Olivia Atwood
And also it's not great for going out.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
No, no, no.
Olivia Atwood
Unless you get. You go to a party at someone's house.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
I think like covered changed that a
Olivia Atwood
lot last time I was there for like they shut bars. Shut like one.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. I mean that's kind of the same. I'm from Boston.
Olivia Atwood
Okay.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
And like the liquor laws and stuff there, like very strict and everything ends at like midnight, one o', clock, which is like. What do you mean? That's what.
Olivia Atwood
I'm just starting to get warmed up. Yeah. No, you can't cut me off in my prime.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
No, you can't cut me off my prime. What's like your ideal? Going out, you're newly single. What's been vibes? Are you liking it?
Olivia Atwood
Yeah, I'm liking it.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. It's like freedom, right?
Olivia Atwood
Freedom. It's. Yeah, it feels. I feel like liberated. But I actually have to be honest, I have not lent into my singleness at all really. Yet. I've done a lot of going out. I need to stop. Like I said to my. Literally was texting my friend Mark before and I was like, and you can't on Friday if we go out. I can't go to another gay bar because I need to actually meet a man that wants as I can't just be going and like working the pole in freedom every weekend because I'm not going to get shagged. So I was like, yeah. So I need to lean into my actual singleness.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
More and stay out of the gay bars just for a minute. Like they always have my heart. But I'm not going to meet my man in there.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
No. That's kind of me. I'm like I feel the safest with the gay man, but, like, not going to get me laid at all. Build your dream, man.
Olivia Atwood
Okay, so if you've got all my exes in a room. God, just imagine in that room. Sorry. They're all really different, but things I like is, they're like, like a. Like a guy that's got a cool sense of style. Like he has a sense of self style. I like tattoos, I like a beard, I like hair. Like, I want like something I can like, get my hands into.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Oh, yeah. Oh.
Olivia Atwood
Like confidence. But like, I. I don't. I'm yapping enough for both of us, so I don't need to hear, like, you don't need to be talking all the time. But also confident enough to like, accept the fact that I don't shut the up.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
And then also that they enjoy that because I do believe. I mean, I found a couple that enjoy it. And then what else?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Do you think you would prefer a guy that would be like, more like lay low instead of like a camera forward? Like.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah, I don't think.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Do you care?
Olivia Atwood
If I met someone and they were in like this industry, then fine. And maybe they'd be pros to that because they might understand better, but it's not what I'd look for.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
I'd rather they like, do their own things separately because I think that can create its own issues in itself.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
And also I kind of think like, guy. I mean, I can't. Can you imagine, like, I don't know, I don't want to be horrible, but can you imagine a guy like, and he's doing his, like, get readies with me?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
No, because I have this problem where I hook up with a lot of influencers and I'm like, babe, if you have an octo body, do you know like the. The sticky thing where you put it? I'm like, if you have a ring light. Yeah, like that. I'm dry immediately.
Olivia Atwood
I know. That's the thing. And that sounds so out of order to say that. Imagine like, imagine your man being like, can you take some, like, photos of me as I cross the street?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
And I. I always see guys thirst traps and you look at them and you're scrolling and you're like, oh, y. It's really hot. And then you think about the fact of they film someone had to fill. And then you're like, no, it's.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
It's too much. And I have this problem where I. Because that's like the circles I hang out with are a lot of These, you know, influencer guys. Like once I woke up with a guy in my bed and he was like, I have so much work to do today. I have to do a voiceover. And I was like, get out of here. Yo, what are we doing? Imagine I have to do a voiceover. No, run for the hills.
Olivia Atwood
And then I like. I've always liked footballers, but we kick it. Yeah, let's kick it.
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Because here it's.
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You throw the football.
Olivia Atwood
No, no, it's way less contact. It's in fact if they make contact with each other, they like start crying.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Really?
Olivia Atwood
Yeah. It's like. That's so bitchy.
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What's like the wags you were like A wag.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah. Kind of like of a type. But. And. But I always was attracted to footballers because of, like, the sportiness or the way they look. But I think athletes across the board, I'm going to try and, like, hard ban myself from.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
Because I think they're like. Like it's not all of the mixed sections, but they're pampered in a way that you have to kind of like, live for them.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
And that their whole, like, you know, people that are proper wax. I thought that's their whole life. It's just like supporting this guy.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
You have no identity, really.
Olivia Atwood
I couldn't spend every weekend again in a stadium.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
No.
Olivia Atwood
No.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
And, like, they have too much access to other people.
Olivia Atwood
They're on a pedestal when they know it.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
It's a lot of, like, narcissism that goes on to that. Have you feel like a lot of people have been weighing in on, like,
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the breakup and stuff?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Like, how do you shut that?
Olivia Atwood
No, it was like. It was an onslaught. Like, I don't know how much, you know about the British media, but they go hardcore. Like, while, like, we have, like, tabloid press that, like, it's a slightly different culture to the States, from what I understand. But it was pretty heavy the first few weeks. And then obviously people wanting to know, but, like, you know what it is, like, where I normally run my mouth constantly. I was, like, really conscious of, like, not saying too much too soon because I actually was trying to work out. I'm still trying to work out exactly how I feel about everything and what I want to say. And I. I haven't officially spoken about it on record because I'm like. I don't want to. Once I say something's out there and I can't take it back, and I'm just kind of figuring out what I want to say. But it was tough. But at the same time, this is like, my part of my job.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
And it's like I always knew, you know, when other things have gone on in my life, people, you know, are used to a certain level of access to you. And that's why I provided that, like through reality tv, like through my socials. Like, people have always had that access. Of course they're curious. I don't. When people break up that I follow. I'm like, tell us what happened now. You're the guy. Respect. Respect our privacy. I'm like you. I've watched all your YouTube videos. What privacy?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Literally, especially so I get it. Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
Do you know what I mean?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. Especially in the you're in like the reality TV verse and I feel like you've had a million different products like that.
Olivia Atwood
Brad and I filmed our wedding. We had a show about it. So it's like, can't exactly then be like, please, I'm shy, but please leave me alone. So it's, you know, I, I get it. But also I'm, I'm. I'm sort of standing my ground. That like when I, when I figured out, when I've kind of processed everything that's happened and I want to talk about it, I will, but I'm just like, biding my time.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Do you think people are being like, harder on you or harder on him?
Olivia Atwood
Harder on me?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. They're always harder on the girl. Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
Oh, my God. I've had like. Well, I mean, I don't know. Actually, to be fair, that's probably a bit unfair for me to say. I don't know what, how people have been towards him. I can only see what I've had because people just like, like to give women a hard time. And you know, someone wrote me on my tick tock yesterday when I was like, with the girls in New York having fun and she's like, I really hope someone screws you over so badly. Like, you're such a cold, like, calculated. And I thought, do you know what it is? It's like, because I'm open.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
I talk about all kinds of things, but I'm not going to video myself crying and put on the Internet. I'm just not. Doesn't mean I don't cry.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
I have cried. I've cried so hard, like during this breakup support. I feel like I'm gonna pass out. Yeah. And then I will, like, slap myself around the face and go to work. But these people, they want to see you, like, suffering. I'm like, I'm not like, literally, literally suffering and picking myself off the floor and going, oh, wait, hold on. Yeah, I'm just not. They want, they're used to that from some creators and they want that. And that's just not who I am
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
when creators do that. No shade, no hate. But I just feel super inauthentic and like for click sometimes.
Olivia Atwood
It's just not like me and my sister always have. This is not being like shaming to anyone because being emotional is healthy. My sister always, like, to each other, cry inside like a winner.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
Like, I don't need to be crying on the Internet. Like, I just. Yeah. I don't think that people, you know, professionally are going to respect me and book me to host their TV shows when I'm videoing myself lying on the floor crying.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah, I just kind of. Yeah. No, it just seems like the vibe that I'm trying to give to yourself.
Olivia Atwood
I can also, like, be candid with people and tell them I'm having a good time. A good time. I'm having a bad time. But I. Yeah. And also, it's like, sometimes, like, this is my job. Like, I. You know, this stuff I've had to do. I had to promote, you know, TV shows. I had to promote, like, collections all in the weeks of that breakup when it was literally happening in real time. There's so many other people that affects. If I decide to not go and turn up to the screening of a TV show, like, it's only me. That's the host. There's, like, a 200 crew that worked on that show. There's, like, the Cars. Everything's. So what am I going to do? Go, oh, I can't come and do my end of the deal because I've had a breakup. It's not fair.
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Yeah. Like, life continues to move on.
Olivia Atwood
Life goes on.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. And honestly, I feel like the busier are. This is how I am in breakups. Honestly, like, the busier I keep myself and distracted, like, the more I can just, like, put those feelings. I put them in a box. I'm like, all right, I'll get to the box later. And then that box seems to, like, shrink over time. I don't know if that's, like, the healthy way to deal with your feelings, but that's. That's how I do it, and it works for me.
Olivia Atwood
Usually I'm the same. And when I was out working all day, I felt okay. And then when I got home and I was on my own, I'd be like, oh, like, now it's hitting me a little bit. Yeah. And then. Yeah. I don't think. I don't think there's a right or wrong way, because I think when you're in, like, a real trenches of, like, a proper breakup, I always think you're just surviving. Yeah. So, like, whatever you need to do to get yourself through the other side of the tunnel, I don't think there's a right or wrong answer.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Do you think this has been your toughest breakup today?
Olivia Atwood
Yeah. Because this relationship's, like, you know, spans over a decade on and off. So it's like, it's such a big area of my life. And I think that when, you know, you tried. We both tried so many things. To make it work. Of course. It's just so sad. It's sad. And also, it's like, this is why I've not rushed to say anything, because it's like, you can. I can still acknowledge the fact that I like him and I love him as a person. Like, those things can still be true while knowing that. That it's ran its course. I think it'd be easier if I hated him, which I don't. I think the breakups where I've just, like, I. You know, they haven't been so. Such serious relationships. They are easier.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. And I feel like when you're going through, like, a public breakup, people just, like, want to pick a side. They want to get, like, every side of the story. And you're right. I just.
Olivia Atwood
They want to do, like, you don't want the. The human. That experience of, like, you know, they used to watch people get hung in, like, a square. I feel that's what they want.
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They want public humiliation.
Olivia Atwood
They want to watch, like, the gory details.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
It's really up. Are you, like, a comment reader? Like, a DM reader?
Olivia Atwood
Like, I sometimes dive in. No, no. I. I miss quite a lot. I mean, on the whole, I'd say my, like, pages are, like, positive. I have the best people on my account. And, like, I, on the whole. Yeah. Feel like I don't have that many, but of course, like, some will slip through the cracks. Yeah. I also think I just kind of, like, let them go for it as well. I don't really have that much of an issue with. Of hate comments. I actually sometimes think they're really funny. Sometimes I read a hate comment and think that was actually so beautifully written that you're actually wasted on being a troll. Because, like, you could do stand up.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
You're, like, kind of smart.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah, that's actually kind of. Wait, that kind of eight. No, I'm like, kind of want that on a T shirt.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
No, like, for me, like, when I first started social media, like, people used to clock me for, like, the way it looks. Like, they would call me, like, Handsome Squidward, and I would be like, all these comments.
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But they also kind of, like, helped me look in the mirror and be like, wait, I should get this done and this done. And now I feel like I'm a hotter person because of those trolls. Yeah, that's kind of how I see it.
Olivia Atwood
You're like, you called out, like, my filler, and you're right.
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Yeah. I got it dissolved. Like.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah, you do look really fresh. I have to say when I came in here earlier, I was like, you look so like you fresh. Yeah, you do look gorge.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Especially after my bender weekend.
Olivia Atwood
You don't feel like you've had a bender? Really?
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Cuz I'm like sore every part of my body.
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Olivia Atwood
And wait, how bad? How bad?
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Like,
Olivia Atwood
like you enjoy being single bad?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
I enjoyed being single with a couple people and I'm scared about that.
Olivia Atwood
Why was I not in Texas?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
We really need to have a proper night out together.
Olivia Atwood
No. Okay.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
We're in London. I'll come to London next time.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
What would be like your ideal night out?
Olivia Atwood
We start like. I always like to try and start like a little bit early because like you said, I thought the nights go so quick. It's like start at one of the hotel bars. Like. Like one sort of like we start trying to civilize somewhere that's like got a good vibe. Kind of like I like to get a little bit dressed up for going out. Not like anything crazy. People in London don't get overly dressed up anymore. It's a bit boring. And then go for dinner somewhere in the West End, Mayfair. Like a big group dinner. And then I like this are a handful of clubs I like now. Like I'm leaning back into my clubbing area and then we go strip club.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
So is this like next era of your life gonna be like a lot more like going out and stuff?
Olivia Atwood
To be honest, I don't know how it could be anymore. I was going out a lot the last year.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
I know, but like you're not gonna. I always tell people that, tell me I go out too much, that I'm like, I'm not gonna meet anyone sitting inside.
Olivia Atwood
No, I know. And also, do you do dating apps?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah, but like the fake ones like Raya.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Are you on Raya?
Olivia Atwood
No, I'm not on any yet.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
What one are you gonna go back on one?
Olivia Atwood
I've never. Wait, I've never been on a dating app. This is like buyable.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
We need to make you a profile.
Olivia Atwood
Because I've never. So. Cause I think like if I think about what the single times I had, I was. I dated Brad. This is great. Like 10 years ago, dated Brad. Then I went on Love Island. Then I was like with the guy from Love island for like a hot minute. And then I got back with Brad. And I think that like that was when it was like people would go. All the apps were like popping off and I just. So I've never had a period of time where like I was gonna go on a nap. When I was in New York over the weekend, one of the girls was like, I'm gonna download Hinge. Is that. I don't know if that's a good one.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Hinge is like one of the better ones.
Olivia Atwood
And then she was like, we should make you one. I was like. And then I was gonna. And then someone else like, no, don't. Because it always gets screenshotted and put in the press straight away. I'd be like, you've just left the UK so that we didn't. So. But I wanna, I would like to experience it.
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I honestly think that I see people's
Olivia Atwood
like, what's on there? And it's slim pickings.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
They all kind of look gay. Especially Raya. They look like AI or not straight.
Olivia Atwood
And I feel like if someone really likes like clapped, like tried to message me, I'd be insulting.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
I think that, yeah, I sometimes like, you really thought. But like I honestly think Instagram is the best eating app.
Olivia Atwood
That's what I would. That's how I think that someone would slide into my DMs and I'd probably be like, okay, I.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Do you get a lot of DM slides?
Olivia Atwood
Do you know what? That's the only thing with having like an active profile. So I feel like I'm missing a lot of the good ones. But I've had DM slides. There have been blue ticks, but there's been no one.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Well, now that you can buy the blue tech, it's like, I don't even know what we're doing.
Olivia Atwood
I look and I'm like, yeah,
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Olivia Atwood
Wait.
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Tell me about bad boyfriends.
Olivia Atwood
Okay, so like the concept?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah, like I want to hear it. I want to like also. Did it like affect your dating life at all? Like looking at all these guys with red flags?
Olivia Atwood
No. I tell you what affected my day. So basically I do like a bunch of shows in the UK and I do a show called Getting Filthy Rich which is a. Is basically like a factual entertainment documentary where I meet girls who are on only fans. Like I meet escort strippers. Anyone that's making bank for the sex industry. I go and meet them, interview them, been Vegas, Louisiana. Like anyone that's making the big bucks. And when I spoke to them like all these different women from all around the world that started to peck with my head when I'd leave filming and go home because they would just be like the guys on their profiles are spending sometimes like £10,000 on them a month. $10,000. They have wife, they have kids, they have these like insane fetishes that their partner knows nothing about. And I kind of came to this conclusion and we was actually having this conversation yesterday at dinner that I say to I will generalize it. I think it is more of a straight man thing that so many straight men have like completely hidden size their lives. Yeah, they're like their partner like just never knows about. Whereas I thought women are a lot more. We're a lot more open like whether we love somewhere dating them like, what you see is what you get. Like, women aren't going off to, like, higher escorts. Like, very rarely do, you know, even behind their husband's back, or, like, have insane festures that they, like, keep a secret, whereas a lot of straight men do. And it's kind of like, how well do you ever really know the person you're, like, lying next to? And I speak to these girls, and I'd be like, that's nuts. That someone's, like, actual husband is, like, doing this, and they have no idea.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
It's, like, really scary. Scary that. And on the flip side of it, a lot of these married men being on Grindr too. Have you heard about this? Do you know what Grindr is?
Olivia Atwood
I know what Grindr is. And do they grind their new friends Grindr? My gay friends tell me stories about Grindr hookups that actually, like, make some chills. Like, I have gay friends that have, like, been invited around for, like, a quickie. And then they go in to this guy's lounge, and it's like, the family portrait up on the. The, like, the wall. Like, the perfect family. And, like, a suburban area. And then he's, like, getting bent over, like, the couch, and then bye.
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No, it's insane.
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And, you know, like, grinders by proximity. So it's like, my best friend Gren, who's gay, we'll go out in Nantucket, and, like, one of our favorite things to do is, like, we'll, like, go to restaurant. There's all these, like, family sitting around, whatever, and he'll open Grindr and, like, recognize all these men with wives and children in the room. Like, a majority of them. Honestly, it's really, really crazy.
Olivia Atwood
No, it's a lot. It's scary.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
It's really scary.
Olivia Atwood
So, yeah, just straight men, and they're like, secret lives.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. So did you interview anyone fun for that?
Olivia Atwood
So the girls were amazing.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Like, is it, like, anonymous? Or, like, you would just sit down with them?
Olivia Atwood
So that's. I meet the content creators, like, and I meet the girls, have the only fans platforms. And then sometimes I'd meet, like, the old subscriber or, like, someone in a strip club who's like, you know, like a customer. But it's so hard to get people on camera.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Obviously, the other side, like a Bonnie Blue.
Olivia Atwood
I met Lily Phillips and interviews her, and so she's like, you know, kind of similar to Bonnie Bloom, what they've created. I mean, and Lily's really, like. She's really sweet. Like, when you meet her, like, she's not like, she's a nice girl, but. What. The stuff she does is crazy.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
The stuff. Bonnie was on a run. Like, she was on a tear.
Olivia Atwood
Lily told. When I saw the other week, she'd just done, like, a hundred anal in a row.
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She did 100 anal in a row.
Olivia Atwood
Oh, my God.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
That would create a tunnel on my ass.
Olivia Atwood
I'm, like, the most constipated girl. Like, that'd probably help clear me out.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
I'm like, I've been in three days in New York and I haven't even had a. I'm like, can you imagine? It'd be a very short queue.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
No, it's.
Olivia Atwood
Because when the first one can't get it in.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. Like, why would you sign up for that? Is she getting paid to do that?
Olivia Atwood
Yeah, I mean, well, she creates the content and then she. Yeah, she puts it out on these, like, sites, and then that's how she gets the money. And then I guess, like, by doing, they kind of of. It's like rage bait, isn't it? The more shocking the content is, they put out. Then, obviously, she gets more known. More people come to her only fans. More people, like, look her up on pornhub. Like. Yeah, it's like a whole, like, cycle of. Of basically getting people's attention, but. It's crazy.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
I know, but just for money or for.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah, no, like, well, she. Lily's like. She says she enjoys sex, obviously, and she's like, you know, But I think you can. Yeah, it's for. It's money, isn't it? So. Yeah, the money.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
With like, a thousand guys in one day, there's no way, like, it felt okay after number five.
Olivia Atwood
Horrendous, actually. I couldn't be, like, a sex worker because I just. I. I just don't really enjoy seeing men happy.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
I know. Like, why are we giving them the satisfaction?
Olivia Atwood
Like, if I was a stripper and I just saw a guy having the best time, I'd be like, I'm done.
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Give me money. I'm done.
Olivia Atwood
Like, wipe that fucking smile off your face.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
You love the strip club?
Olivia Atwood
So much love strip club.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Have you been to Miami?
Olivia Atwood
Yes.
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Do you have, like, 11?
Olivia Atwood
I love. Yeah. Have you been to Vegas a lot, Sapphire?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Have you gone to Whitehorse or. What's your Rhino, right?
Olivia Atwood
Spearmint Rhino is actually shut, I think, last time I was there. Cause I just went and filmed for the show, and one of the Spearmint Rhinos is shut. So we've been to Sapphire.
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I've been to Sapphire, yeah.
Olivia Atwood
Like, it's the biggest one in the world, apparently.
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I think I have one in New York, but it's not as good here.
Olivia Atwood
It was. They're so. So.
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Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
Just. Yeah.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
I just, like, love strippers. Like, talking about love strippers.
Olivia Atwood
They're so fun. They're always, like, actually the coolest girls.
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Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
And you can drink all night, and sometimes the food actually slaps the food stakes.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Like, there's, like, the strip. There's one on 13th here, and it's like a really good steakhouse, but also. Strip club.
Olivia Atwood
Exactly. Like, what would you want?
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Once I was in Vegas and I was getting a lap dance, and she was. While she was giving me a lap dance, she was telling me how she wanted to get into real estate and all this, and my dad's in real estate, so I gave her my dad's email, and I was, like, networking for this girl.
Olivia Atwood
I bet your mom was so grateful.
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That was like, my bad. Like, I. I don't even know if she reached out.
Olivia Atwood
You're like, by the way, the stripper's going to call you tomorrow.
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Yeah. Jessica might be hitting you up for a job on Monday. Thank you. Okay. Want to get into some listener questions from the girls? These are just fun and cheeky and, like, people say really absurd sometimes. And then we can just, like, chat
Olivia Atwood
about them, I guess, see what they say.
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Okay. I'm in a happy, healthy, loyal, loving relationship, but my man isn't as rich as I'd hope. What do I do?
Olivia Atwood
Oh, God.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
I mean, if you care about money that much in a man.
Olivia Atwood
Which.
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I'm not cheating anyone that does.
Olivia Atwood
No.
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This is not the right man for you.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah. I think you need to make a decision of, like. Yeah. What's more important? Because it sounds like. I think if she was that in love, she wouldn't be. I'd be thinking, like, how can we just get richer together?
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Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
Like.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
But I think if that's what she's thinking, then she probably. Probably isn't. For her.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. I. I think work ethic is more important than, like, actually. Yeah. Hustle and drive and, like, hunger, ambition.
Olivia Atwood
Then, like, because how many people. How many people become successful later in life? But, like, has he got. Has he got it in him?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. And I just feel like there's so many men out there that probably do. So, like, why waste your time? Like, I don't have.
Olivia Atwood
There'll be other nice guys.
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What's a beauty and health product you swear by? Oh, I've been using this, like, in beauty product moisturizer that Just like makes my skin look like glass.
Olivia Atwood
Your skin, does it gorge? I never sleep in my makeup.
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I try not to. But sometimes I have a messy night, I wake up with a full beat.
Olivia Atwood
I wake up that sometimes it might even be one half of my face. The face wipes might like be on the pillow. I try not to sleep in my makeup. It's so boring. But spf.
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Spf.
Olivia Atwood
Especially if you're getting your Botox and fillers.
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I got sun poisoning the other day or the other week in Miami.
Olivia Atwood
Like sunstroke? Is that what you call it? Some poison?
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Like sun? Yeah, sunstroke, Same thing.
Olivia Atwood
When did you burn it?
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I was. I'll show you my chest. I'll pull it down.
Olivia Atwood
Oh my God. No, you're gonna upset me. That's like a third degree burn.
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Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
How did you not feel that?
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I was on antibiotics for a year because of that.
Olivia Atwood
Oh, no.
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And they said whatever you do, don't go in the sun. And the next day went to Miami and I was on a yacht. So I peeled. And on the fifth day I peeled and it was fresh skin. And then I was out in the sun with no spf. I say it like I'm proud. I don't know why I'm saying it like I'm most proud of it. I know now my mom, I probably have skincare cancer.
Olivia Atwood
No, no, but don't do that anymore, cuz you are going to like, tempt it.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. Okay. Do you get overwhelmed when talking to more than one guy at a time?
Olivia Atwood
No, like that's when I'm in my flow state.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
No, cuz you can't like, you can't like give it all to like one guy. You have to. Can't put all your eggs in one basket.
Olivia Atwood
It. No, I, I like, I like to have a couple. Like I haven't been single for ages, but this is how I was when I was single. And this is how I hope, I imagine I'll be. I like to have like a couple on the bench. Do you know why it is? Because then if one starts to disappoint you a little bit or kind of like, I don't know, it's not giving you what you need. You're kind of like, nah, I've got like, you know, other guys that will do it. Yeah, I like to have a little, little roster. Yeah.
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As long as they're not in the same friend group.
Olivia Atwood
I feel like, no, they need to be very far. They need to be like 3 to 4, like state like phase of life removed. So they could never possibly.
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Do you care about age?
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No. Well, I think you need like someone that's a little bit older than me.
Olivia Atwood
Okay. So I've never. This is like, I think this could be like a bit of a sign for me. I've never dated anyone older than me. Always younger.
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Oh, babe, that's what we're doing wrong.
Olivia Atwood
Like I said to my team, I said, if you even catch me like, like fluttering my eyelashes at a 25 year old, smack me in the face. Because I am actually all. How can it? Does this sound weird? So you're drawn to younger guys but not like young.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
They're more energy.
Olivia Atwood
I just like the, like, I don't know, I guess I just like the, the fun aspect. Like, and I get drawn in young in a way. Kind of like I feel like I'm very young in my, how I feel in my head. Like when I'm, you know, know people who work in my team who are like 20, 21, I'm like, we're the same age. No, like, no, we're not. But yeah. So like I get drawn. But yeah, I, I would like to this time look a little bit older.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. Like, I don't know how old is
Olivia Atwood
the oldest you've had like mid-50s. Really?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah, but like I do that regularly.
Olivia Atwood
Are the balls saggy?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Aren't they always though? Just like, it's like in your face. Like, get out of here. But yeah, I don't want, like, I wouldn't see a future with someone that's in their 50s because no, I have kids.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
I don't want them to be like,
Olivia Atwood
no, I think for me, like, I'm in my early 30s. I feel like someone early 40s would be good.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
And like that's when guys are the hottest.
Olivia Atwood
And also apparently they. That's when they actually reach emotional maturity.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. I think that's when their frontal lobe fully developed.
Olivia Atwood
Like 40. Yeah. Yes. See that's like what we even doing, trying to settle down with men in their 20s. Like, that's actually like funny.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Well, I always say that men are emotionally seven years younger.
Olivia Atwood
Okay.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
So like if you're dating someone the exact same age as you, just they're seven years younger.
Olivia Atwood
Seven years younger. Yeah.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
So you have to go older and then hopefully they'll like land at maybe
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Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
That's what I, that's what I think.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah.
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Okay. Tips to not be too much in your head when he's going down on you. I don't care. I don't care what people think.
Olivia Atwood
Like, I know, okay, I'm not really in my head ever about anything. Not me either. I am. I think me and you are the same, so we're probably like the worst people to try and relate to that. But like, you know, when I speak to people and they're like, I was dating this guy and I didn't like shit for like a month. I'm like, I would just literally get up at a guy's house next day and have a shit.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. Like, I don't think they care really either.
Olivia Atwood
I don't care. Like, I.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
No.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah. I've always been very kind, comfortable in myself. I just think they just don't. If you're thinking like that, just, he's so excited to have his head between your legs. Like he can't believe, like, he's won the fucking lottery.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
So it's like, so happy to be there.
Olivia Atwood
Just. Yeah, I don't even worry about it if he didn't Also, if he doesn't want to be down there, he's gonna come back up.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
And then maybe you need to do a ph check,
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
And then you might have bd.
Olivia Atwood
If he's sticking around down there, like, for a while, you're good.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Okay. Who is your celeb crush at the moment? We can both answer that. Like, I don't really get celeb crushes, but I think, like, celebs are hot.
Olivia Atwood
Like, Theo James married you. She won't know who he is. You're gonna die. When I say this, I think this is because I'm trying to think about the kind of guy that I'm gonna go for.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
Do you know who Eddie Hearn is?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Eddie Hearn.
Olivia Atwood
He's a boxing promoter.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
He's a boxing promoter?
Olivia Atwood
Yeah. From the UK. I think he's.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Ooh, he's.
Olivia Atwood
It's his personality.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
He's 46.
Olivia Atwood
Perfect.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Oh, wait, this is the kind of guy I see you with.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah. And he's, like, got confidence, but it's not like. It's not like this is what she needs. Oh, shit. I didn't see those ones. Fuck. Hey, daddy.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Wait. He's hot.
Olivia Atwood
This is gonna be so fucking viral in the uk. Yeah. So that. See, that's the kind of of, like, age, sort of like he's got, like, you know, established.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Look how hard he is. Oh, thank you.
Olivia Atwood
Get it. Thank you.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
So this is like. I think we're the same type now that I'm looking.
Olivia Atwood
And then I also have this other side of me that sees, like. Like, shy. Should you say Shayla birth or Shia LaBeouf?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Shia LaBeouf.
Olivia Atwood
And I kind of have this thing where I look at someone like that and think, I can save you.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
I have that complex too, where I'm like. I'm exception to whatever you're.
Olivia Atwood
Did you see him running around in, like. Where was he recently?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
New Orleans.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah. And I was like, oh, my God. Vibe.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. He was having a moment. His publicist probably doesn't, like, love him right now.
Olivia Atwood
I read it something that he walked, like, like 10 kilometers the next day to a coffee shop.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Is that a lot? How much is 10 kilometers?
Olivia Atwood
Yeah. That would take you, like, two hours.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
That would take us to take us two hours.
Olivia Atwood
No, my lungs would cave. Yeah. After the first two.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
No, I would pass out. What's your goals? Work, romance, routines, etc? That's a kind of a loaded question.
Olivia Atwood
Jesus. Just my mum.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
Work, I'm really happy with. Everything's going the way that I want it to I mean, I guess now I'm just like. I wanna. I wanna like, enjoy being just me on my own for a bit. Like, have the best summer, like. And right now my focus is summer. Yeah, it's about to be.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Do you have summer plans?
Olivia Atwood
I have so many summer plans.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Leon. Can I come?
Olivia Atwood
Ibiza, Saint Chope, Cannes, what else? We booked Vegas, Miami in May.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Miami, May. I'll be in Miami.
Olivia Atwood
I'll send you to roster and you come.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Are you going to F1? Yes, I'll be there.
Olivia Atwood
I'm scared for us.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
No. That was really scary. We're having an 11 night together.
Olivia Atwood
Okay, done.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
And we have Sea Spice and Kiki on the river.
Olivia Atwood
This is gonna be good.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
It'll be really good for us, I think. Would you rather Sophie's like having a
Olivia Atwood
publicist in the corner is having, like. She's just checking her own polls. She's like, is it hot in here?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
She's like, I don't know who to tell to stop talking. Would you rather have a three second with two guys or a guy and another girl? Have you had a threesome ever?
Olivia Atwood
No.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Really?
Olivia Atwood
No.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
That shocks me from you.
Olivia Atwood
I know I've come like very close when I say I've never had like full sex threesome, but if I do, you know what? They're not my thing at all. But I think, I don't know, maybe two. Maybe two guys.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Really?
Olivia Atwood
I don't know. Actually. No. A girl and a guy.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah, I think a girl and a guy.
Olivia Atwood
I'd feel ganged up on. One of my straight male friends, he always like. He tells me stories about stuff and he's like, he had a threesome the other week and the girl was in the middle. And then him and his guy friend, like locked eyes overhead. And then they both just started laughing because obviously, like looked at each other and then obviously I was like, imagine being her. Yeah. Oh. And they're like. They both start cracking up. No. Okay. Yeah.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
I feel like it's also like a bit over stimulating because if you're getting like Eiffel Tower, like, have you done both? No, I've only had girls.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Because it's just like less over stimulating for me.
Olivia Atwood
There's pieces.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
There's a lot of pieces. Like, there's. You're like kind of like a hole. If two guys are there. You're like a connecting tunnel.
Olivia Atwood
Be getting like stuffed like a turkey
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
then like, you're not giving good head. If you're getting stuffed like a turkey from behind.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah. No. Yeah. I don't know why I even hesitated on that.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
My friend kicked me off her bat cuz she wanted us to pay for everything. And I asked why.
Olivia Atwood
Okay, I. We could do a whole episode on like wedding and. And like Hindu bachelor culture. Because obviously I've done it and I have. I have such mixed feelings on it. I paid for almost. I paid for everything on my Hindu. Apart from maybe flights. But I think it depends the financial situation you're in. But then I think also if you can't financially contribute to the hendo, you need to be like conscious of what you're asking of your bridesmaids or your friends. Like, don't be like, you know, some people say all year to go on holiday or they have limited time of work. Don't be like asking your friends to fly. Fly to Thailand. Do you know I mean like b. Don't be a selfish, like.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
You know, and I think, I don't think you can. People fall out of this all the time. And don't get me started on destination weddings. Yeah, I don't want to fly 10 hours to watch you get married.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
I'll do a destination bachelorette party. But like a destination like you have money.
Olivia Atwood
So it's like for like, you know, if you think like people that don't, it's like they might not want to spend their money to go on someone else's hand and been told you have to wear a blue bikini today and go to this crap restaurant and you
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
have to pigeon for the boat and you have to pitch for the house. Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
So I feel like I. I wanted to cover as much as I. Yeah. As much as I could. But I think it's messy.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
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Olivia Atwood
I'm gonna elope next time in London in the Bulgari Hotel. Oh, it's gorgeous. Actually.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Would you get married again to that guy?
Olivia Atwood
Daddy.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Daddy. Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
Teddy, I'm so sorry. I think he has a wife and we apologize. Does he boarding school?
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
You kill me. Oh, okay, wait. This is kind of a rogue one. Have you ever not because you haven't shaved. I already know the answer to this for you. I feel like I hope you have still done it. I feel like I don't care.
Olivia Atwood
I don't care. I would avoid having sex with like full hairy growler, but yeah, a little bit of rewind.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. Full bush is great.
Olivia Atwood
It depends how long you are into dating someone. If it's the first time, you want to make a bit more of a good impression.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
But also some men do like hair. It's coming back in fashion.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah. Do you care if a guy is like a full bush?
Olivia Atwood
I would rather it's trimmed.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah.
Olivia Atwood
I like shoes down there but not wet. Shaved bald. Because that knocks me out. Yes. Like why don't you have a single pube? Like, I think I want it to be like shaved, like short. Nothing. I don't want anything stuck in my teeth. But I don't want like. I don't want you to be shaved.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah, that's.
Olivia Atwood
Oh yeah.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
It's just like too soft and you can see like I like, I like
Olivia Atwood
a bit of hair. Yeah.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Like a hairy chest.
Olivia Atwood
Yeah. Okay. But like trimmed.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah, I feel that. Okay. This girl goes in love with one of my best friends. Is there a way of moving on without ending the friendship?
Olivia Atwood
She's in love with him.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Yeah, I think just create some space. Honestly, I'd love to have you on. You should just become a permanent co host.
Olivia Atwood
Oh, I'd love that. I'm gonna come back to new up more and then we're gonna have the summer now.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
And now we're gonna have Miami in May.
Olivia Atwood
I'm scared.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
But thank you so much for coming on.
Olivia Atwood
Thank you for having me. This is a buy.
Host (possibly a podcast or show host)
Alright, guys, love you all and I'll see you next week. Bye.
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Episode: Olivia Attwood on Divorce, Dating Older & Plastic Surgery
Date: April 9, 2026
In this candid and playful episode of Extra Dirty, Hallie Batchelder welcomes British media personality Olivia Attwood. Together, they dive deep into Olivia’s recent divorce, her experience re-entering single life, preferences in dating (especially around age and industry), plastic surgery, stories from the UK’s tabloid circus, and raw takes on self-care and sexuality. Filled with trademark British wit and Hallie’s extra-dirty flair, this episode is a whirlwind of laughter, vulnerability, and no-holds-barred real talk.
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On breakups in the public eye:
"It was an onslaught... you know, where I normally run my mouth constantly, I was really conscious of not saying too much too soon because I actually was trying to work out exactly how I feel about everything and what I want to say." – Olivia [18:06]
On the scrutiny women face:
"People just like to give women a hard time." – Olivia [19:57]
On true colors after divorce:
"I'm just biding my time. When I've processed everything, I’ll talk about it. Until then, I’m standing my ground." – Olivia [19:29]
On secret lives of men:
"So many straight men have completely hidden sides their wives never know about... How well do you ever really know the person you're lying next to?" – Olivia [31:09]
On handling trolls:
"Sometimes I read a hate comment and think that was so beautifully written you could do stand up." – Olivia [24:39]
On being 'too much':
"If you're thinking like that... he's so excited to have his head between your legs. He can't believe he's won the fucking lottery." – Olivia [45:00]
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The tone is saucy, flirty, and refreshingly honest, blending British sarcasm with New York sharpness. Both women volley between raunchy humor, heartfelt admissions, and frank advice, making the episode feel like a cheeky girls’ night out—unfiltered and downright fun.