Extra Dirty with Hallie Batchelder

Episode: Tana Mongeau!! Remaking our lost Cancelled episode
Date: November 6, 2025
Guest: Tana Mongeau

Episode Overview

This raucous, unfiltered episode features Hallie Batchelder in conversation with internet sensation Tana Mongeau. Together, they recreate their infamously lost “Cancelled” podcast episode, diving deep into wild party lore, sobriety, friendship, sex, the chaos of public life, and—above all—the messy, hilarious, and vulnerable complexities of being young women in the limelight. The conversation swings freely between raunchy confessions and genuine moments about mental health, transformation, and the "duality of women"—a theme both hosts embrace and champion throughout.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

Reunited and Recreating the Lost “Cancelled” Episode

• [02:01–02:44] The two reminisce on Hallie's legendary appearance on Tana’s “Cancelled” pod, with both lavishing each other in profane adoration:

  "You are the funniest bitch out... Everything you do, I am consuming it."
  —Tana Mongeau ([02:11])

• Hallie and Tana joke about the notorious chapstick/vial mix-up, setting the raunchy, relatable tone for the episode.

Rumors, Party Lore, and Sobriety

• [03:16–07:13]
  • The girls talk about being subjects of celebrity “blind items” and club rumors, sharing how Tana’s online presence has made hiding anything impossible:

    "If I could have ever hid the fact I was on coke, I would probably still be on coke."
    —Tana ([03:51])

  • They recall the last night Tana drank ("a bender insane night out" with Hallie in NYC) and how it led to Tana’s path to sobriety.
  • Reflecting on meeting in various states of debauchery:

    "That is my last...memory on cocaine ever: me and you on the bathroom floor." —Tana ([06:30])

Sober Era and Changing Social Lives

• [07:31–08:11]
  • Tana shares that she only goes out sober when she has to, and being sober has made her realize she genuinely likes fewer people.
  • They discuss the massive stash of secrets (“tea”) they’re sitting on and how in the influencer world, everyone confides in everyone.

Sex, Kinks, and The "Ass" Talk

• [08:42–10:54]
  • They gleefully discuss men’s secret anal preferences ("They all gay," jokes Hallie); Hallie shares a viral story about fisting her ex, sparking Tana to riff about “post-peg clarity.”
  • Hilariously, Tana reflects:

    "The grass isn’t always greener on the pegging side." ([11:03])

  • Discussion of the logistics and “clarity” that follows wild sexcapades.

NY vs. LA, Party Culture, and Influencer Life

• [13:51–16:08]
  • Tana chose LA over NY because it was necessary for her early YouTube career, but admits NYC would have been “dangerous” for her at the time.
  • They riff on the cultural differences:

    "In LA everyone gives so much of a f*** about how you look...in New York, no one gives a f*** if you live or die."
    —Tana ([15:03])

Monogamy, Love, and the “Rock Star” Relationship Dynamic

• [16:53–18:45]
  • Hallie and Tana open up about their skepticism toward monogamy, rooted in never having reciprocated, healthy love before.
  • Tana credits her current relationship with Makoa for helping her learn about unconditional love and breaking her "earn love" pattern.

Embracing Past, Chaos, and Maturity

• [21:13–22:44]
  • Tana looks back with respect—and a bit of horror—on earlier, more chaotic versions of herself:

    "I appreciate them so much...I did my best with the cards I was dealt."
    —Tana ([21:32])

  • Chaos made for good stories, but drama, anxiety, and regret caught up with her.
  • Hallie admits to being stuck in a party rut, hanging out with “22-year-olds until the sun comes up,” while Tana affirms it’s okay to have an era like that—if it’s on your own terms.

“Fun for the Plot”—Content, Self-Acceptance & Accountability

• [22:52–24:56]
  • Both discuss turning wild, even negative, life events into good content and "lore." Tana says she’s glad to now be known as a "bitch with lore."
  • Hallie confides about dealing with the anxiety that came with her own party benders.

On Music Eras, COVID-19 Era, and Internet Infamy

• [24:56–27:36]
  • Tana admits her foray into music was mostly about being “diplomatized” by musicians she dated, rapping and performing onstage while “on Valium.”
  • Both recall the insanity of COVID lockdowns, with Tana living next to the Hype House, throwing parties, and being “awful,” while the pandemic radically changed their online culture and relationships.

Sex, Threesomes, and the “Human Centipede” Analogy

• [32:46–37:46]
  • Hallie shares a wild, blow-fueled COVID-era threesome story, and the two riff with disarming honesty about awkward, coked-out sex:

    "The amount of times I was doing a line, thinking 'I’m gonna give a blowjob,'…your makeup’s bleeding, your mouth’s dry as sandpaper, you’re wiping your snot, he’s not coming—"
    —Tana ([36:53])

  • Both laugh at how their sexual styles have changed:

    "So you, like, make love?"
    —Hallie ([37:53])
    "Yes—I’m like a missionary starfish now..."
    —Tana ([37:55])

Performance, Vulnerability, and Mental Health Advocacy

• [39:28–42:03]
  • The pair talk earnestly about public vulnerability, courage online, and dealing with mental health and eating disorders under scrutiny.
  • Tana:

    "It is so brave to sit there and film something and know the second I hit post, I’m going to receive hate..." ([39:28])

  • Hallie reflects on using her platform to help others—even if it invites criticism.

Handling Hate, Longevity in the Influencer World, and True Friendship

• [42:51–50:03]
  • Both discuss reading hate comments and learning to “divorce your self-worth from either love or hate online.”
  • Tana:

    "Someone right now is calling you Jesus, and someone else is telling you to kill yourself. Neither is true." ([47:43])

  • They celebrate their long-term friends—Tana’s besties from Vegas, Hallie’s close-knit group—and reflect on how real friendship grounds them amidst chaos.

Sketchy Listener Confessions – “Sketchy September”

• [68:17–73:47]
  • Hallie and Tana react to wild listener-submitted stories:
    • Sleeping with multiple people in a day ([68:27–70:56])
    • Hooking up with a best friend's dad ([71:16])
    • Epic peeing-while-blackout episodes
    • Revenge plotting on exes and breakups
    • STDs, “chlamydia for special girls,” and the abysmally low bar for men
  • The girls pepper these segments with brutally honest advice—and equally blunt “don’t do that” takes.

Final Reflections: "Duality of Women"

• [76:48–77:04]
  • Tana sums up the joy of straddling silliness and seriousness, growth and regression, shame and pride:

    "I enjoy the funny, silly, sexual—and I think that is the takeaway of today's episode: the duality of women." ([76:48])

Notable Quotes & Moments (with Timestamps)

• On Outgrowing Chaos:

  “I’m happy now to be a b*tch with lore…All those girls got me here.”
  —Tana ([21:32])

• On Getting Sober:

  “If I could have ever hid the fact I was on coke, I would probably still be on coke.”
  —Tana ([03:51])

• On Friendship:

  “Friends showed me what family is. I didn’t know what it was until my friends.”
  —Tana ([50:19])

• On Online Hate:

  "Someone right now is calling you Jesus, and someone else is telling you to kill yourself. Neither is true."
  —Tana ([47:43])

• On Sexual Experimentation:

  “The clarity is so fierce…The grass isn’t always greener on the pegging side.”
  —Tana ([10:49–11:03])

• On Vulnerability Online:

  “It is so brave to sit there and film something and know...I’m going to receive hate.”
  —Tana ([39:28])

• On Sex & The Bar for Men:

  “The bar is in hell…”
  —Tana ([76:09])

Structured Segment Guide (Timestamps)

• [02:01–03:04] — Meeting & The "Cancelled" Lore
• [03:16–07:13] — Wild Partying, Rumors, and Sobriety
• [07:31–08:42] — Secrets, Sober Friendships
• [08:43–11:18] — Men’s Sexual Preferences & Pegging
• [13:51–16:08] — LA vs. NY, Influencer Party Culture
• [16:53–18:20] — Sober Era and Relationship Patterns
• [21:13–22:44] — Accepting Past Selves & Growth
• [24:56–27:36] — Music, Pandemic Lore, and Social Media Shift
• [32:46–37:46] — Threesomes, Awkward Sex, Coked-Out Encounters
• [39:28–42:03] — Vulnerability, Mental Health, and Online Hate
• [42:51–50:03] — Handling Hate, Building Real Friendships
• [68:17–73:47] — Listener Confessions (“Sketchy September”)
• [76:48–77:04] — Closure: The Duality of Women

Tone & Style

The episode is unapologetic, intimate, and frequently explicit, with the hosts swaying between joking about sex, drugs, and fame, and offering sober, poignant insights into mental health struggles, trauma, and personal reckoning. Hallie and Tana both lean into their authentic, unfiltered voices, making the episode feel like a real, hilariously chaotic sleepover—but with the wisdom and scars only hard living (and harder growth) can provide.

Takeaway

“Duality of Women”—the freedom to be wild, vulnerable, silly, honest, and ever-evolving—stands as the episode’s message, ringing out through raunchy stories and moments of genuine heart. For anyone grappling with their “lore,” personhood, or internet infamy, Tana and Hallie prove that nothing is too dirty, too real, or too complicated for the right audience—and the right best friend—to handle.