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I never want to have sex again, George. I could care less.
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Woof. Here it is.
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Yep. This is. You know why I wrote my first book, Wanting Sex Again is because this is what I heard from people. Let's talk about this. What's going on? Welcome to the Brave Love Great sex podcast. I'm Dr. Lori Watson, licensed couple and certified sex therapist.
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And I'm George Fowler, couples therapist, EFT trainer, and retired New York City firefighter. In every relationship, love requires bravery, especially to turn towards each other when there is a lot of fighting and defensiveness.
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We want to help you stay present with each other sexually as well. Both emotional connection and erotic intimacy are the bedrock of couple security.
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Brave Love Great sex is where we help you reconnect, repair and reignite desire to help create the secure, lasting love we all deserve.
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Find our book by the same name, Brave Love Great Sex. I would just say, first of all, our book is coming out, Brave Love Great Sex, coming out in September. Please think about that. We've got a link on our website, which we're still working on as we've converted over from foreplay. But this is the same place, same great role plays. We're still doing the stuff, right, George?
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That's right. And whoever wants to buy the first thousand books, we have a special gift for you.
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That's right. Send us your email. For sure. Okay. So the withdrawer who is saying, I don't want to have sex again, it doesn't mean anything to me. Right. Oof. When you're a partner to that, it can just hit you like, like completely being deflated.
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Yeah. This is so common and so tragic for everyone involved. The person who doesn't want to have sex, the partner who's being rejected now, is destined to a life of not having sex. I mean, there's no winners in this. And yet it's so, so common. 20% of couples are not having sex. This is, this is a, an epidemic, you know, that we see as couples therapists. And I, I always want to start off with, you know, it is healthy to not want to have sex.
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Absolutely.
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You know, people not wanting to have sex comes from the byproduct of pressure and things not going right and shame and nasty things. So know, we start that. We understand. The last thing we were telling people is you, you must have sex. We're going to push you to have sex. I mean, that just adds more pressure, obligation, duty. Like that stuff doesn't work.
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Exactly. And we're not talking about just to Be clear, you know, we're not talking about people who are asexual. That. That's a whole nother category. We're talking about people who are in sexual relationships who have been sexual in the past, but find themselves like, I don't want to have sex anymore.
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I guess we often, as therapists, especially from an EFT perspective, right. We want to be so respectful of that that we can wind up avoiding some of these conversations. We don't want to put pressure. And I guess the way I try to kind of distinguish is it's okay not to want to have sex. It's not okay to not want to talk about not having sex. And this is a critical threat. It's a failure to repair in a relationship. We have to confront it. We have to deal with it. And I think there's a lot of effort. Like, the person not wanting sex is like, I wish I wanted sex if you gave me a pill, yes, again, I take it. But, you know, are they willing to do the work to actually kind of get that back online for them? There's no shortcut to doing the work, to face in it, to confront it.
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I love what you're saying, and it's so important. It's like, it's okay to not want to have sex, but if you're in a partnership where your partner wants to have sex, it's not okay to not talk about that because it's a big issue, you know, so. But I think what's tricky, if you're a couple, it's like, yeah, but if I'm the sexual pursuer and I want sex, just bringing it up and talking about it is going to create more pressure, which is going to. I know, in the cycle, going to make my partner even want to do it less so. So we're in this bind, right? We gotta talk about it. But talking about it in and of itself creates pressure. What do we do?
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G. Well, this is. I think I've shifted a little bit of my position because traditionally we see the impact to the person who's being rejected all the time, and we want to, like, coach the withdrawer on how to kind of have sex and perform for that partner a little bit more. Like, it's still. It's still. There's more the same. Like, we're trying to get them to do it right without. Like, I'm actually. I'm trying to fight for that sexual withdrawal for themselves. Like, they deserve to enjoy sex, to enjoy touch. There's so much to this that they need it for themselves. They're not doing this for their partner because they want to keep the promise to that partner. They want to keep the promise to themselves. Like, how are we okay? Losing this part of ourselves that's critically important to feeling safe and connected in the world. I mean, it's okay to have discrepancies. You don't need it as much as your partner, but you do need it. We all this I've never seen a baby that doesn't want to. And we start to see, once sex shuts down, touch all over the place shuts down, right? I want to leave my partner on. I don't want false hope. And before you know it, all touch is disappearing.
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How is that okay?
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This is a fight for self. This isn't a fight so you can do it for your partner. Just that mindset shift, I think is
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really important because we need touch. And I agree with you. You know, when you kind of give up on sex, it's like, does touch even make sense? Yeah, because if it's gonna. If touch in and of itself is gonna lead to the negative cycle because I'm gonna turn my partner on or give my partner false hope, you know, I. I don't even wanna reach out. And I, I think too, you know, if. If sex is bad or the many, many reasons people don't wanna have sex, that maybe it's not that they just don't like sex, but the many reasons. It's like, touch is very complicated. It's like, okay, what, you know, I don't know, you know, this is going to bring up longing if I even touch my partner. And maybe I've given up hope and so they, you know, giving up hope of having the sex that feels attuned. So I don't want to touch either.
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Yeah, it's avoidance of the complications that often are negative, that you're willing to give up, you know, the things that are really good and important about it, you know? But the good news to me is we do this all the time in therapy with emotional withdrawals, who don't want to do vulnerability, who don't want to have conversations with their partner, you know, and they tell us, please tell us what we can do, what book we need to read. And yeah, well, that stuff's great, but we actually need them to fight for their own vulnerability. We need them to do it for themselves. To come from a place that says there are times, maybe not as much as my partner, but I also want responsiveness and care given from my partner. That's not weakness. That's a strength. Like so we fight for those emotional matures to experience success in places where they normally don't. This is exactly what I want to do in the sexual cycle. For sexual, to fight for them not to perform better for their partner, but for themselves.
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Okay, so I think we need to really think about this though from a person who is saying look it, let's just say I used, I mean there's many stages that this happens in. Maybe the child raising stage. It's like, yeah, I used to like sex because my partner gave me the things I needed. You know, I'm caught in the cycle right now. I don't feel safe emotionally. I don't want to turn on sexually. I don't, you know, do I like sex? If I could have sex with a random person that was, you know, morally free or a robot or something and I could have an orgasm, great. But you know what, I can do that myself. It's like I don't want to connect to this person this way. It feels too intimate. But let's say their partner is the kind of person who can't feel safe and vulnerable until they have sex. I mean, what do we say to them?
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I would also like to add the, you know, menopausal woman who is not masturbating and really would never want sex again. I mean, I can't tell you how many times I put that in my office. It's like, yeah, it's be totally okay for me if we.
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Oh my gosh, again.
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Right? So this comes on a whole, whole spectrum. But what they all have in common is wanting to say no.
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Right? They want to say no.
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So to me, this is the billion dollar question, which is how do you get the buy in for that sexual withraw to say, hey, what's the cost of me saying no to me, not just my partner? Like I've lost part of me and somehow I'm just okay with it somehow. Like to avoid the pressure and the negativity and the shame. I don't want to feel those things. So I'm willing to give up a part of who I am that makes me terribly sad.
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I agree. I mean I, I always ask people when I teach to close their eyes and remember the first moment their partner touched them. The thrill. I mean, maybe it wasn't a sexual touch or a kiss. Maybe it was just they brushed their shoulder, you know, the first touch where they felt that zing of whoa, connection, you know, and how powerful that is. And people are talking about, I don't want to. I don't care if I ever feel that again. You know, it's not that important to me anymore.
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Because they're not thinking about the loss of that or the mourning of that. They're thinking about the avoiding of the negativity. And that feels like a better deal. Like, I don't have to feel all those bad things. So I'll settle with missing out on some of those good things because my brain doesn't think really too much about those good things. Yeah, there's not a lot of room for longings when your brain is focused on threat all the time. And it's really just the exposure to threat that just weighs them down to the point where they just surrender. So I love your question. We keep trying to answer this in so many podcasts. It's not an easy answer, but I always know when there is a sexual maturer who's willing to do the work and say, you know what? I want to fight for me. I want to fight for my own sex. They're all okay. All of them turn out to be okay. You know, whatever form it looks like. Some more sex, some less sex. But they do find times where they do want it again. They chase that wanting energy. They can find it again within them. Right. For a lot of people who've given up on sex, they've lost that chasing energy. They lost that love.
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But I do think that's also an important thing. Before we get into that, you know, you being a woman, pushing women to fight for this part of themselves, and this is your mission, which you're blessed at doing in a way that can be easier for you. Me as a man, as a therapist, trying to push a female to have sex with their paw. And there's just another man pressure on, you know, so I think there's a lot of reluctance that I had, but I've recognized me actually trying to respect that and not push is probably the worst thing I could do for these women, to do it in a respectful way, but to really encourage them to say, if I don't fight for you for this part, I know where that's leading, which is a loss of that life force in your lives. So we have a case. The timing has to be right. But again, not to apologize. Like, this is my way of fighting for you. You're coming to therapy because you want change. This is how change happens. We have to confront difficult places to find some better moves to do differently.
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My own sense is right, is sex is often a pressure cycle. But there is a further point that you're bringing to light, which is, you know, potentially female, because it is probably more female sexual withdrawers. But is there a piece inside that they can find that is like a motive all unto themselves? Like that this brings spice, this brings chi, the life force for me. And that is the challenge. Yeah, I can see why it doesn't seem to matter to you anymore because of the pressure. And it's like, you can't win this game when you do it. It's not enough. You didn't enter it enthusiastically enough, blah, blah, blah. That's a real bind. But really, you're ready to give up on this for your lot, for yourself? So, okay, I. I think we should role play it.
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This is, again, I just want to highlight, because when you can compare and contrast to the emotional cycle, you find that common ground. So many men, this is exactly why they don't want to have vulnerable conversations. It doesn't work for them. It usually leads to a fight. They don't feel successful. They feel like a failure. So they want to avoid that feeling. It's not that they don't care. They just don't want to feel the negativity that comes in these conversations. So, again, we respect that, we honor why they don't, and we push to do it because their Lives will be better with it doing exactly the same thing with the situation.
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You're preaching to the choir. And I get it. I will say, though, sometimes we think it's better for the emotional withdrawer to be engaged with vulnerability and feelings and know themselves. But sometimes they're like, you know, I'm not going to crave conversations and debriefs every day like my partner does. You know, do I have to do that in order to, you know, be a good partner? Because I don't really want to hear about their day every single day. I don't want the download.
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It's discrepancy is a totally cool. As long as both people at some point can tap into something for themselves that they do want.
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I think the issue with sex is we are. We are embodied souls. We live in a body and, you know, in an adult relationship. Eroticism and sexual connection is often how we get, you know, body to body. You know, how we connect body to body. And so, okay, I gotta argue the other side of it and you gotta be the therapist, George, or it's just gonna fall flat for me. Help me. Help me work through this.
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So, you know, I. I know, Maria, that for good reasons, you're here because you want to, you know, focus on communication and you're really missing each other. And we really talked about the negative cycle that you both fall into, you know, and, and, and we. You've also communicated when you're not feeling close, when it doesn't feel like Joey's interested. The last thing you want to do is have sex. You don't even want to talk about having sex because that feels like three, four steps down the road.
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Absolutely right.
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And, you know, I totally get when you don't feel close emotionally, how your body just doesn't want to engage in sex. And, you know, talking about. Even talking about it feels premature because there's so much progress that needs to be made in other areas.
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Right, right.
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And I guess I also want to open up space because I hear Joey talking about, you know, how touch is like his main way into feeling connected and, you know, not having sex or not being able to talk about having sex kind of really kind of leaves him in a bad place. So again, my job that just like emotionally in these conversations sexually, you two fall into these same similar negative patterns that where you can't repair it, you don't get on the same page. So for me, it don't matter each session which way we go. But I'm going to kind of keep addressing both of them. To see if you can make progress. Right. So, you know, I just want to start today talking about the sexual cycle. I know, I know. I don't want you to feel pressure that I'm sure saying, hey, you should be having sex. I want to, you know, I wouldn't want to be having bad sex either. Disconnected sex, so, but I was hoping we could talk about what it is like for you, you know, to not want to have sex.
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I mean, for me, if you're actually curious, yes, there is a pressure cycle that's problematic. But I never think about sex during the day. I mean, I don't really fantasize ever. And you know, there are a lot of things that pull my attention that feel very critical in my work, in my family. You know, that's my focus. Certainly my partner and I want him to be happy, but there's nothing in me that goes, oh, I really want to do it. Like when I do it, sure, I have an orgasm, but even having an orgasm doesn't make me go, oh, I want to get that tomorrow too. It's like, like, eh, I mean it was great, it was great while it lasted, but it doesn't actually motivate me to want to have more sex later. Yeah, I, I, I think you're asking and I mean, this is very complex for me, George. You know, it's, it's my body, it's my, the pressure. Sure. But even if, you know, we're getting through the pressure issue, I do get it.
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It's a good starting point. Maria, just to acknowledge you're both starting at different points. Right. Joey's coming into this turned on, aroused, thinking about it, wanting it. And you're coming in exhausted, trained, pressured. I mean, if you just do the math, you got a lot of things in the negative category that are stopping. You know, if you can overcome all those things, the sexist, you know, good, you can have an orgasm, but you don't have the same drive, the same motivation, the same, like it's not on your radar in the same way like it is for Joe.
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It's not, it's not. And when, when I come home and he thinks about it and is waiting for it, I'm just like, oops, you know, I haven't thought about it for a week.
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Right. But even that oops is again, every time sex comes up, there's an oops, there's a pressure, there's a, you know, I'm letting him down, I'm struggling. I mean, it's just, it's, it's A lot. And then when you're not feeling close, you can't even talk about these things. You're really put in a really tough spot. Your body's not online, you're feeling kind of negative. You're not feeling close. All the things you need to kind of get into it are not present. All the things you don't need are present no longer. No wonder why it's not on your radar too much.
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I mean, there are moments like when we've had maybe time together, maybe a Saturday, and we've worked in the garden and we've seen the kids and we went out to dinner and we had some time to really talk and relax and be together. And, you know, and then he sort of suggests, hey, you know, you want to do it or something. Like, I don't feel anything in my body, but my heart sort of goes, yeah, I'm willing. There's a certain set of circumstances that it's not like. I mean, I have plenty of bad sex, for sure, but our sex is not always bad. You know,
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when I hear you saying, I just felt something shift in you as you were talking about, it's like, if we could honor all the pressure and the things, then your brain looks for an exception. It says, but there are some times where the stars align. You know, when we have this time off and we're talking to each other and we have this glass of wine, like, then there's an openness that starts to happen for you. Yeah. That feels pretty important, you know, not just as something to kind of give Joey, which, you know, that's important and he feels better, but, like, that part of you that starts to feel open again. There isn't a lot of space in that. In your everyday life.
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I mean, in the right context, when I have enough time and we're a little more relaxed and we're more deeply connected, and I feel like I've got his attention on things that are our world, you know, and he's sharing, you know, about who he is and things like that. It's like, yeah, I. Within that connection, I feel warm and I feel more likely to be amenable to sex. I wouldn't say that I have desire for sex.
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Again. I appreciate how you're making space for the side of you that often doesn't get expressed, that feels relaxed, that starts to feel warm. Under certain circumstances, when it feels like you have a shared, you know, experience and you're getting his attention and you're hearing about his world, there's something about, like, that dance you start to do that really puts you in a very different place that allows us bubbling up this, this, this different part of Maria that, you know, I'm calling open. But like help me with that part of you that just finds yourself like, like enjoying the moment. Like, what is that like for you when you're in this more open state?
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I think it feels like when I'm relaxed, I feel like I'm inhabiting the present moment more. My body is relaxed. Yeah, a glass of wine helps me. I'm not saying I want to get drunk or even bust. It's just I think it's all of it. But I do feel my body. I'm like living in my body. I don't think in other times, my busy life or the pressure from Joey to feel something you should have desire that I can know who I am. And so in that moment, yes, I wouldn't say it's desire, but I feel more present to my body. Eczema is unpredictable, but you can flare less with Epglis, a once monthly treatment for moderate to severe eczema after an initial four month or longer dosing phase. About four in ten people taking Ebglis achieved itch relief and clear or almost clear skin at 16 weeks. And most of those people maintain skin that's still more clear at one year with monthly dosing.
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And you're really good at having a lot of words for the things that don't work so well and put pressure on you. I really like that you're fighting for this part of you that's trying to say, who is this relaxed Maria that all of a sudden her body becomes more present? Right. That feels pretty important to me to know how we can kind of get more of that. Or what is that side of you? Like when you are feeling, you know, in the present moment, that feels pretty cool.
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Exactly.
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So in this place, Marie, even now where you're feeling more relaxed, can you think about a time in the past where you felt the same relaxation when your body was open? Yeah.
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Yeah. We went out to celebrate our anniversary and it wasn't a great big deal, you know, the finest fancy dinner. We just kind of went to one of our favorite places. We sat at the bar, you know, we were going to have dinner afterwards. And, you know, we had spent some time basically from noon on hanging out and getting stuff done like you do on a Saturday. And I remember we were sitting at the bar and I was wearing a dress, which I don't do a lot of, but I remember feeling my skirt against my calves and I remember looking at Joey and he was giving me eye contact and I think he reached across and just like stroked my forearm, you know, as I was talking, it was like he was listening, but he was really present. And it wasn't this deliberate, I'm trying to turn her on thing. It was just like his body moved toward me and it was like, oh. I kind of felt more alive in my body and much more amenable to thinking about. I was kind of thinking, yeah, we're probably going to have sex tonight. But suddenly it went from. It went to a green light.
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Yeah. So again, you're saying so much and what a great. What a great scene. Right? It's so vivid. I can feel the cult. Like I can get the flirty part and Joey touching. But you're even saying something important before anything even happens. You can feel the back of your skirt on your own calf. Like you have an awareness of your own body. And what's that about? Help me with that. Like you can feel your own calf like this, Just a better sensation.
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You know, it's like, I think it was the time to inhabit the moment. There was not pressure, there was just. And, you know, I hear you kind of where you're going with this. Like, you know, sometimes I don't give myself that. I don't give myself this time to be present.
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Marie, I love your smile. As you say, I have great calves. I remember that in this moment, as the dress touches my calf, you know, I feel I look good. Like, I, I, I, I, I'm, I'm in my own body in a good space, and I'm not thinking about all those other things. Like, I'm, I'm enjoying my own body. And then he joins that enjoyment by reaching over in a nice subtle way with his gentle touch that says, you know, he's enjoying my body too. That's so cool.
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Yeah, I, I think that the move that he made was, was just us, you know, like, it was like the first moment of feeling, like one body, you know, when he touched me like that, it was, it was, he was interested in me and, and his body moved toward my body. I, I'm not sure I can explain it, but it really felt.
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You said charge. I mean, I felt even now, as you're replaying a scene, like, what is that charge you feel, like a tingle? Like, what do you feel that charge? You just say, like something just came online.
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It felt a little melty.
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Melty. It feels a little different and relaxing. It's, it's letting go, I mean, melty
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into him and into us. Union. Union. Like my boundaries not so separate than his boundaries.
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It's beautiful. It's beautiful. Okay, all right, let's pause here.
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Did I do a good job as a sexual withdrawer? Coming alive.
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Right? You just, again, you're fighting. We're gonna end on this. This is just a call out and encouragement, like, to fight. Maria deserves to feel that charge again. Why give up on that? Why lose it? Just to avoid the pressure we get. You want to avoid the pressure we get. You wanna, you know, things have to change, but for those things to change, you also have to fight for you again. You get those glimmers, those parts of you that your body knows and has never forgotten and will always hold onto. The only way we're going to kind of recreate that is you got to do that work.
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Yeah. And I, you know, just having lived that moment right now as the sexual with Dark, you know, coming to one moment where she felt more alive sexually, erotically, living in her body, you know, almost as we know. Role plays are very real, you know, and I felt that transition. And I just also want to say, you know, this piece, this erotic piece, is a life force. Like, don't live without it. Don't live without a girlfriend
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or boyfriend or. How have you identified? You have good reasons. But why? Why? Life is definitely blander, for sure. Black and white, for sure.
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Yeah.
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You could have low discrepancy, you know, low desire. It's all good, like, whatever you're. But you have to have something because that. That. That something is. At the end of the day, you know, we need to look forward to something. I. I love the want. I love the chase. I love the energy, even.
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Yeah.
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Another podcast.
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All right, everyone.
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Keep it brave out there and have some great sex.
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Brave Love Great Sex – Couples Therapy Podcast
Episode 535: "I Never Want to Have Sex Again"
Release Date: March 13, 2026
Hosts: Dr. Laurie Watson & George Faller
In this honest, liberating episode, Dr. Laurie Watson and George Faller confront one of the most difficult, relatable, and often taboo topics couples face: when one partner feels, “I never want to have sex again.” They explore how sexual desire can shut down—often as a protective response to pressure, emotional distance, or life stress—and the ripple effects it has on both individuals and their relationships. Using concrete therapeutic strategies, role plays, and personal insights, they provide a compassionate roadmap for reconnecting with one’s own erotic self, moving beyond duty and pressure to rekindle genuine intimacy and aliveness.
“I'm trying to fight for that sexual withdrawer for themselves. They deserve to enjoy sex, to enjoy touch... not just to keep a promise to their partner, but to themselves.” (05:32)
“How are we okay losing this part of ourselves that's critically important to feeling safe and connected in the world?” (04:24)
“Me, as a man, as a therapist, trying to push a female to have sex with their partner... I think there's a lot of reluctance that I had, but I've recognized... not to push is probably the worst thing I could do for these women.” (12:44)
“When we're a little more relaxed, when we’re more deeply connected, I feel like I've got his attention... within that connection, I feel warm and more likely to be amenable to sex. I wouldn’t say I have desire for sex.” (22:00)
“I remember feeling my skirt against my calves and looking at Joey ... he stroked my forearm... I kind of felt more alive in my body and much more amenable to thinking about... it went to a green light.” (26:24–27:42)
“It feels a little melty, into him and into us. Union. Union. Like my boundaries not so separate than his boundaries.” (29:44)
“I just also want to say, you know, this piece, this erotic piece, is a life force. Like, don't live without it.” (31:24)
"I'm actually trying to fight for that sexual withdrawer for themselves... How are we okay losing this part of ourselves that's critically important to feeling safe and connected in the world?" (04:24–05:32)
"You can't win this game... it's not enough, you didn't enter it enthusiastically enough, blah, blah, blah. That's a real bind. But really, you're ready to give up on this for yourself?" (13:49)
“In the right context... when I feel like I've got his attention... within that connection, I feel warm and I feel more likely to be amenable to sex. I wouldn't say that I have desire for sex.” (22:00)
“I remember feeling my skirt against my calves... he stroked my forearm... I kind of felt more alive in my body and... it went to a green light.” (26:24–27:42)
“Why give up on that? Why lose it just to avoid the pressure? ... That something is... At the end of the day, we need to look forward to something. I love the want. I love the chase. I love the energy.” (30:13, 31:35)
Summary by Brave Love Great Sex Podcast Summarizer – Preserving the wisdom, reassurance, and actionable hope that Dr. Laurie Watson and George Faller bring to couples everywhere.