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Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples
Hosted by Kim & Roberto @ Phoenix Rising Retreats · EN
For couples who crave more connection, passion, and truth - Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples helps you reignite the flame that date nights can’t.
Hosted by intimacy, relationship, and Tantra teacher, speaker, and coach Kimberly Phoenix (formerly Coffin) and her partner Roberto, a men's coach and sacred partnership facilitator, this show is an unfiltered, heart-led exploration of sacred sexuality, conscious communication, emotional safety, and the alchemy of modern relationships.
Together, they bring both the feminine and masculine lens - bridging trauma healing and nervous-system wisdom with the raw, playful, and deeply embodied tools of Tantra.
Whether you’re healing together, growing together, or just beginning to explore sacred intimacy, this podcast is your permission slip to show up as your full self - in and out of the bedroom.
Let’s take your relationship from functional… to phenomenal.
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When Life Gets in the Way: Stress, Hormones, and the “Death” of Desire
Jan 1400:44:26Tap to summarizeSo many couples quietly fear that desire is gone for good… that stress, aging, or hormones have somehow ruined intimacy. In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we offer a powerful reframe: desire doesn’t die. It goes offline when the body is overwhelmed.They explore how chronic stress, survival mode, and hormonal shifts shut down pleasure… and how safety, slowing down, and emotional repair bring intimacy back online in ways that feel nourishing instead of forced.This episode is for anyone who wants to stop blaming themselves or their partner and start understanding what their body is actually asking for. What You’ll Hear in This EpisodeWhy stress is one of the biggest desire killers and how survival mode overrides pleasure, connection, and libidoHow chronic nervous system activation makes intimacy feel like effort instead of restWhy does desire not disappearHow hormonal shifts in midlife alter the rules of intimacy, inviting presence over performanceWhy touch without agenda and connection without pressure are often what reignite desireHow unspoken resentment and lack of repair quietly shut down erotic alivenessDesire isn’t broken.Your body is protecting you. And when safety returns, pleasure remembers how to rise again. ✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra ABOUT US: Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com
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Why You Keep Having the Same Fight and How to Finally Stop
Jan 700:39:12Tap to summarizeIf it feels like you and your partner are stuck in the same argument on repeat… you’re not failing at communication.You’re touching something deeper.In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we unpack why certain fights keep resurfacing in long-term relationships even when the topic changes and what’s actually required to interrupt the cycle.They explore how nervous system activation, unmet needs, and missed repair keep couples looping… and how grounding, curiosity, and conscious repair can finally create safety, understanding, and real intimacy.This episode is for couples who are tired of circling the same conflict and ready for a different way forward. What You’ll Hear in This EpisodeWhy repeating the same fight isn’t about the issue at hand… but about an unmet emotional need underneath itWhat happens in your nervous system when you’re triggered, and why logic disappears the moment conflict escalatesHow avoidance, shutdown, and makeup sex delay repair instead of resolving what’s actually happeningWhat is the emotional and relational cost of unresolved conflict, and why does resentment build when repair is skippedWhy grounding must come before communication, and what helps you return to your adult self during conflictHow curiosity dissolves blame and opens the door to understanding, safety, and reconnectionWhy repair may be the most important love language couples were never taught You don’t keep having the same fight because you’re broken.You keep having it because something inside you is asking to be seen, met, and healed, and when that happens, intimacy can finally deepen. ✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra ABOUT US: Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com
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End-of-Year Ritual for Couples - Reflect, Release & Reignite
Dec 3101:15:35Tap to summarizeAs the year comes to a close, most couples rush straight into what’s next… without ever pausing to honour what they’ve lived through together.In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back for Couples), we invite you into a simple, powerful end-of-year ritual designed to help you slow down, feel, and consciously close one chapter before opening another.This isn’t about resolutions or fixing anything.It’s about reflection, compassion, emotional honesty, and intentionally choosing how you want to move forward, individually and as a couple. This episode is a gentle invitation to reconnect, soften, and reignite your bond as you step into the new year together. What You’ll Hear in This EpisodeWhy rushing into the new year without reflection keeps couples stuck carrying unprocessed emotions forward.How conscious reflection helps you honour who you’ve become without judgment, blame, or self-criticism.What is the importance of celebration, and why does acknowledging what you've survived and grown through fuel intimacy and alivenessHow to release old patterns, resentments, and beliefs with compassion rather than force.Why focusing on how you want to feel creates a deeper connection than setting rigid goals or resolutions.How turning reflection into a ritual strengthens devotion, safety, and emotional intimacy in long-term relationships. This end-of-year ritual isn’t about doing more…It’s about being more present with what already is — and choosing each other with intention as you step into what’s next. ✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra ABOUT US: Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com
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FYI We Love Men! How to Invite Your King In w/ Jenny Braxton
Feb 26, 202500:50:42Tap to summarizeThere’s a massive shift happening, and as women, we’re feeling it in every part of our lives. The frustration is real, especially when it comes to our rights, our voices, and the systems that were never built for us in the first place. But here’s the thing—it’s not about blaming men; it’s about recognizing that the old structures are crumbling, and we get to lead the way forward. That starts in our relationships. When we step fully into our feminine, owning our strengths, our desires, and our power, we create space for the masculine to rise to meet us. In this week’s episode, Jenny and I, talk about...Are women the key to deeper, more fulfilling relationships?Are you and your partner playing to your strengths or keeping score?What if personal growth changes your relationship?How do we shift from frustration to empowerment?And many more! If you would like to connect with Kim on a complimentary discovery call and see how you can work with her, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/unleash-your-unapologetic-power-now Kim will be having an in-person couples retreat soon and if you want to get more information about it, you can sign up to be part of the information waitlist and be one of the first few people who will get more details on the retreat! Sign up here: https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/phoenix-rising-retreats If you would want to work with her in other ways, you can also check out these other options, which might be what you are looking for ❤️Jade Egg Program: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sexy-back-jade-egg-program/ Sacred Pleasure Membership: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sacred-pleasure-membership/ About the guest ❤️Jenny Braxton is a self-proclaimed Pussy Queen, a Sex, Love & Relationship Coach, and the founder of the School of Pussy Centered Living and the Pussy Centered Living Podcast.Her favorite thing in the whole world is to turn a woman on to the innate power of her own pleasure, and to help her remember the truth of Who She Is.Using her own intuitive abilities + a powerful & proven methodology that combines somatic healing, psychology, & tantra-based practices, Jenny helps women & non-binary pussy-havers embody their authentic Pussy Power through healing conditioning, patriarchal programming, and past pain & trauma, so they can so they can embrace their bodies and sexualities as sources of immense power and wisdom and experience the epic sex, deep intimate love, & lasting, passionate relationships they truly desire. Get to know Jenny more through her socials...Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/pusssy.centered.living/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/jenny.braxton.3 —----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Follow Kim below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=569755109Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/ Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/
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The Whats and Whys of Incorporating Sex Magic into Your Life w/ Lona Garner
Feb 19, 202500:35:23Tap to summarizeSex magic isn’t some mystical spell—it’s the powerful practice of using pleasure as fuel for manifestation. Think of it as aligning your deepest desires with the universe's energy, using your own pleasure to amplify and send that energy out.In this week’s episode, Lona and I, talk about...What if pleasure could help you manifest your biggest desires?How does pleasure connect to energy and manifestation?Why do some things feel just out of reach?Should you ever felt guilty for wanting more?If you would like to connect with Kim on a complimentary discovery call and see how you can work with her, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/unleash-your-unapologetic-power-nowKim will be having an in-person couples retreat soon and if you want to get more information about it, you can sign up to be part of the information waitlist and be one of the first few people who will get more details on the retreat! Sign up here: https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/phoenix-rising-retreatsHere is a freebie for all of you! This is my Sex Magic Manifestation Practice that you all can use to manifest your desires through pleasure: https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/z3g3bx93q8About the guest ❤️ Lona offers a unique path to liberation. She combines the powers of ancient Tantra techniques (like breath, movement, sound, energy, and pleasure) with cutting edge somatic healing to bring you whole-life liberation through your sexuality! She offers transformative one-on-one coaching, public workshops in Seattle, and custom private workshops in Seattle or online. She works with women, men, and nonbinary people to liberate them into their most authentic expression yet!Get to know Lona more through her socials...Website - https://www.lonateachesbliss.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/lonateachesbliss—----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Follow Kim below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=569755109Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/
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ATTENTION MEN!! Why Should You Love Your Member w/ Emma Spiegler
Feb 12, 202501:09:10Tap to summarizeLet’s reframe this idea of “dysfunction,” because it’s not a dysfunction at all—it’s your body talking to you. The world has brainwashed men (and women) into thinking their performance is just mechanical—either it works, or it doesn’t—and if it doesn’t, then something must be wrong. In this week’s episode, Emma and I, discuss...How can we reframe the idea of “dysfunction” into a healthier and non-degrading ideaHow what you say to yourself and your partner can impact your intimate lifeHow stress plays a big role in a man’s erectile flexibility If you would like to connect with Kim on a complimentary discovery call and see how you can work with her, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/unleash-your-unapologetic-power-now Kim will be having an in-person couples retreat soon and if you want to get more information about it, you can sign up to be part of the information waitlist and be one of the first few people who will get more details on the retreat! Sign up here: https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/phoenix-rising-retreats About the guest ❤️ Emma Spiegler is a Certified Men’s Sex Coach who expertly guides men to overcome Performance Anxiety, Erectile Dysfunction, Premature Ejaculation, Delayed Ejaculation, and loss of Sex Drive. She’s been featured in national UK press including; The Independent, The Daily Mail, Net Doctor, and Natural Health. She is regularly invited to contribute to topics related to intimacy and relationships. Get to know Emma more through her socials...Website: www.emmaspiegler.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/emma.spieglerInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/emmaspiegler/ —----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Follow Kim below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=569755109Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/ Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/
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How to Transform Your Relationship from Routine to Romance w/ Nicola Navon
Feb 5, 202501:09:03Tap to summarizeRelationships require effort, balance, and intentional communication. Passion and attraction thrive when both partners show up authentically, create healthy friction, and balance masculine and feminine energies. By doing the inner work and speaking from the heart, you can cultivate a deeper, more magnetic connection. In this week’s episode, Nicola and I talked about...What is the difference between effort vs. ease?How powerful is the power of polarity?What is a style of heart-led communication and how to balance roles for passion? If you would like to connect with Kim on a complimentary discovery call and see how you can work with her, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/unleash-your-unapologetic-power-now Kim will soon be holding an in-person couples retreat. If you'd like to learn more about it, you can sign up for the information waitlist and be among the first to receive more details! Sign up here: https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/phoenix-rising-retreats About the guest ❤️Nicola Navon, a soulful intimacy and passion mentor, speaker, and retreat facilitator. She helps individuals and couples nurture deep connection, play, and vibrant passion for a relationship that ignites the soul. Get to know Nicola more through her socials...Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/nicolanavon/Website - https://www.nicolanavon.com/ —----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Follow Kim below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=569755109Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/ Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/
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Why Painful Sex Happens & What To Do About It w/ Elisabeth Dana
Jan 29, 202500:39:25Tap to summarizeWe weren’t really taught how to connect with our bodies or have healthy, pleasurable sex—most of what we learn comes from unrealistic movies or porn. Add in stress or trauma, and our bodies, especially the pelvis, hold so much tension. But here’s the thing: learning to relax, reconnect, and trust your body through gentle touch and self-bodywork can be a total game-changer. It’s about feeling safe, present, and in tune with your body’s wisdom. In this week’s episode, Elisabeth and I go in-depth about...What are the unrealistic myths about sex that we picked up from the mediaHow stress and trauma build up in your pelvis and what you can do to release itLearning how to make use of your pelvic area as a compass for making decisionsLastly, what are the simple and no-pressure ways on how to reconnect with your body If you would like to connect with Kim on a complimentary discovery call and see how you can work with her, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/unleash-your-unapologetic-power-now Kim will be having an in-person couples retreat soon and if you want to get more information about it, you can sign up to be part of the information waitlist and be one of the first few people who will get more details on the retreat! Sign up here: https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/phoenix-rising-retreats About the guest ❤️ Elisabeth Dana is a somatic experiencing practitioner, holistic pelvic therapist, and intimacy coach based in the Netherlands. She supports women and men at the powerful intersection of trauma, sexualit,y and pelvic health. At the heart of her work lies embodiment: guiding you to reconnect with your body, so you can embrace the wisdom, power, and joy within. You can find out more about Elisabeth and her work through her socials... Website - https://www.elisabethdana.com —----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Follow Kim below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=569755109Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/ Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/
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Embracing Menopause & Rediscovering Great Sex w/ Rosa Kelly
Jan 22, 202500:59:04Tap to summarizeMenopause doesn’t mark the end of your sexual vitality or pleasure—it’s an incredible opportunity to reconnect with yourself on a deeper level. This phase, often misunderstood and feared, is what Taoists call the "Second Spring"—a time to reclaim the life force energy that was once directed outward and channel it back into yourself. While menopause can bring changes, it doesn’t mean the end of great sex. In this week’s episode, Rosa and I talk about...How menopause can be a fresh startWhat myths about menopause and libido are wrongBeing able to reclaim your sexual alivenessThe importance of listening to your body’s boundaries If you would like to connect with Kim on a complimentary discovery call and see how you can work with her, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/unleash-your-unapologetic-power-now Kim will soon be holding an in-person couples retreat. If you'd like to learn more about it, you can sign up for the information waitlist and be among the first to receive more details! Sign up here: https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/phoenix-rising-retreats About the guest ❤️Rosa helps women and couples rediscover intimacy, love, and pleasure Get to know Rosa more through her socials...Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/rosakellyonrelationships—----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Follow Kim below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=569755109Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/ Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/
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How to Start Your Healing Process w/ Kelby Knutt
Jan 15, 202500:54:39Tap to summarizeHealing is like building a house: we start by repairing the cracks and cleaning up the clutter, laying a strong foundation of self-awareness and inner work. At first, it’s all about holding space for your inner child, mending old wounds, and facing the uncomfortable parts of yourself. But once that foundation is solid, you step into the fun, transformative stage—awakening your sensuality, deepening your relationships, and harnessing your feminine power. In this week’s episode, Kelby and I discuss...Where does healing begin?What happens after the healing work?Is healing all hard work?Who’s responsible for your happiness? If you would like to connect with Kim on a complimentary discovery call and see how you can work with her, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/unleash-your-unapologetic-power-now Kim will be having an in-person couples retreat soon and if you want to get more information about it, you can sign up to be part of the information waitlist and be one of the first few people who will get more details on the retreat! Sign up here: https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/phoenix-rising-retreats About the guest ❤️Kelby is a certified Love and Empowerment Coach based in Phoenix, Arizona. Using self-compassion as a foundation for her work, Kelby guides her clients to ease into their own innate power. She believes we all deserve to tap into the empowerment that comes with learning to truly love ourselves at a deep level. Get to know Kelby more through her socials...Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/kelbyknutt/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@kelbylknutt —----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Follow Kim below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=569755109 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/ Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/
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