EPISODE DESCRIPTION:

If you've ever found yourself tiptoeing through your own home, rehearsing conversations to avoid triggering an explosion, or even putting a lock on your bedroom door for protection—you're not alone. Today's conversation with Dina Cannizzaro, Hopestream's Director of Education, confronts the uncomfortable reality so many parents face: how profoundly we normalize dangerous situations when our child struggles with substances.

Dina brings battle-tested wisdom from parenting her son Parker through nine years of IV heroin use (now nine years sober) and coaching hundreds of families through similar chaos. She shares the exact phrases that helped her reclaim emotional safety, the incremental boundary-setting approach that actually works, and why maintaining your sanctuary matters more than keeping an artificial peace.

This episode offers concrete strategies for those moments when you realize you're living in cognitive friction—simultaneously loving someone while feeling unsafe around them. Dina's approach alchemizes tough love into something more nuanced: fierce protection of the relationship itself, not just the person.

You'll learn:

The exact phrase to use when verbal abuse erupts (and why repetition matters)
How to distinguish between privacy and safety when deciding about bedroom locks
Why leaving your home during conflict might signal defeat—and what to do instead
The incremental boundary approach that builds your confidence from dishwasher disputes to dealbreakers
Why confiscating substances from your teen's room isn't overstepping (it's parenting)
The difference between emotional safety and physical safety—and why you deserve both
How to humble yourself without sacrificing dignity after heated exchanges

As always when we get to have Dina on the podcast, it's a note-taking worthy hour you do not want to miss.

EPISODE RESOURCES:

Episode 138 with Dina: Creating Conditions For Change
The Chinese Farmer Hopestream episode 173 with Dina Cannizzaro
Partnership to End Addiction - free resources for families

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How to Stop Normalizing Dangerous Behavior When Your Child Struggles With Addiction and Mental Health, with Dina Cannizzaro

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