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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
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Yes, you can get a great girlfriend! And dating coach Connell Barrett will show you how to confidently connect with women by being authentic—no creepy pickup moves needed. On the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, Connell offers the kinds of tested dating tips he shared in his bestselling book, Dating Sucks but You Don’t, and in his TV appearances (GMA, “Today.”) In his 12 years as a coach, Connell has helped thousands of men in 17 countries find love. No wonder Psychology Today named him “America’s top dating coach for men.” Connell personally faced—and fixed—every common dating problem, from not knowing how to flirt to dating-app struggles to low self-confidence. After meeting his dream girlfriend Jess, Connell now helps nice guys and gentlemen find love by dating with “Radical Authenticity.” Ready to meet your soulmate? Join Connell and his expert guests every week for game-changing advice. Carpe date ’em. Seize the date!
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JUST. SAY. THIS. Your Cheat Sheet to Stop Freezing and Start Flirting in 7 Scary Dating Moments
Apr 3000:32:41Summary readyIf you struggle with what to say to women, this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend” is your flirting cheat sheet. Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you exact lines to use in 7 tricky dating situations. Plus, he shares his flirting philosophy (“Flirting is playing”) so you can stop freezing and start confidently attracting wonderful women.Episode Highlights:02:25: What to Say at the Gym (without Being Creepy)05:40: The Playful Dating App Opener Women Love09:20: What to Text Her When She Goes Quiet14:27: How to Ask Her Out and Get the Date17:36: The Easy Way to Never Run Out of Things to Say21:45: The Simple Sentence that Frees You from the Friend Zone26:33: Just Say This… to Get the First KissTIRED OF STRUGGLING TO FLIRT WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL:DatingTransformation.comGET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)
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You Want to Approach—But Anxiety Stops You. The 7 Steps to Confidently Meet Women Anywhere
Apr 2800:38:52Summary readyYou see quality women you’d love to meet—but anxiety gets in the way. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and author Connell Barrett lays out the 7 mileposts that take you from freezing up to confidently getting numbers and dates. Listen to learn why you’re stuck—and what it takes to meet attractive women in real life.Episode Highlights:04:15: Milepost 1: Destroy Your Limiting Belief13:13: Milepost 2: Approach Often (Reps, Baby!)16:45: Milepost 3: Reach the the 2-Minute Mark21:27: Milepost 4: Low Anxiety, High Confidence23:41: Milepost 5: Getting Numbers & Dates (Results!)28:25: Milepost 6: Confident, Fearless Approaching31:27: Milepost 7: Your Amazing Outcome: Confidence, Dates, and Meeting Your Dream GirlfriendTIRED OF FREEZING UP AROUND BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL:DatingTransformation.comGET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)
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47 Flirting Tips So You’ll Never Run Out of Things to Say with Women
Apr 1600:35:48Summary readyIf you struggle with what to say and how to flirt, help has arrived. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you 47 simple, actionable ways to spark attraction with women, without cheesy gimmicks. Learn how to be playful, authentic, and confident, so you’ll never run out of things to say—on dates, over text, or when approaching women.WANT TO BECOME AMAZING AT FLIRTING? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT HIS 1-1 COACHING: DatingTransformation.comNOT SURE HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN? GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:Email “Free Book!” to: connell@datingtransformation.com
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The “Slime Effect”: 7 Flirting Mistakes that Creep Women Out—and What to Say Instead
Apr 1400:41:37Summary readyDo you feel clueless about flirting, and worry that one wrong move might creep her out? On this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett breaks down 7 flirting mistakes that kill attraction, including one psychologists call the “Slime Effect” (11:12). You’ll also learn exactly what to say to confidently create chemistry. Listen now.DO YOU STRUGGLE WITH HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CALL TO LEARN HOW CONNELL’S 1-1 DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND: DatingTransformation.com
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You Like Her, But You’re Trapped in the Friend Zone. Flirt Like This to Escape (Live Coaching with Matt)
Apr 700:41:51Summary readyThings seem to be going well—and then she says, “You’re nice, but I don’t feel a connection.” Friend zone. In this live coaching session of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes his client Matt to work through this exact issue. Connell breaks down how flirting actually works and shares a simple fix you can make so women start seeing you as more than just a friend.BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT TO SEE HOW HIS 1-ON-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:DatingTransformation.com
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What’s Your Flirting Level? Why It’s the Secret to Less Ghosting and More Second Dates
Apr 200:26:40Summary readyThere are 6 Levels of Flirting—and if you don’t get second dates, you’re likely stuck at a lower one. So what’s your flirting level? And how do you level up? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and author Connell Barrett brings the 6 Levels of Flirting to life through real-life stories. It’s time to stop overthinking, flirt with charm, and get a lot more second dates.Episode Highlights:02:24: The Fun Role-play Approach that Sparks Instant Interest06:53: Ben’s Bold “I Want to Kiss You” First-Date Moment11:15: How Connell Finally Escaped the Friend Zone15:55: The Secret to Making Emotional Connections on Dates18:45: How Trevor Ignited Attraction with BeccaBOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND: DatingTransformation.com
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I Was That Creepy Guy: 5 Brutal Mistakes That Pushed Women Away
Mar 2400:26:51Summary readyBeing creepy is every man’s worst fear in dating. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares five moments when he accidentally creeped women out. Learn what went wrong, why it happened, and how to avoid these mistakes so you can flirt with confidence, authenticity and charm.Episode Highlights:01:45: I Tried Being a Jerk… and Got Ice Water Dumped On Me04:39: She Looked At Me and Said, “Does This Tactic Actually Work?”07:45: One Crass Joke and the Whole Table Went Silent12:05: I Handed Her a Note and Literally Ran Away19:07: She Came Over with Wine, and I Totally Blew ItBOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-ON-1 DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND: DatingTransformation.com
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The 6 Lies About Dating Apps That Cost You Quality Matches
Mar 1900:23:58Summary readyIf dating apps don’t work for you, you likely assume that you’re the problem. You’re not. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett breaks down six common lies that sabotage your results. Get ready to fix your profile, attract better matches, and finally turn swipes into dates.Episode Highlights:01:39: Lie #1: You’re Just Not Attractive Enough05:00: Lie #2: You Have to Be Really Good-Looking08:03: Lie #3: You Need Amazing Openers11:21: Lie #4: You Need to Say a Lot in Your Bio14:10: Lie #5: More Matches = More Dates20:02: Lie #6: Dating Apps Want You to Find LoveBOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW HIS 1-1 DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:DatingTransformation.com
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He Wrote WHAT On His Bio? Dating Coach Connell Barrett Roasts Cringe Online Dating Profiles
Mar 1000:28:12Summary readyOnline dating is a battlefield, and some bios are self-inflicted wounds. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett roasts a dozen of the worst online dating bios. Your profile sounds like Shakespeare compared to the guy who tells women “I want to taste the yum yum.” Plus, Connell shares a dating app strategy you can use today to stand out in your city and finally get some good matches. Listen now!EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:01:10: How to Make Your Profile a “Unicorn” in Your City for More Matches14:35: Dating Coach Connell Barrett Roasts the Worst Online Dating Bios EverBOOK A FREE CONSULTATION TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 DATING COACHING: DatingTransformation.com
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I Failed at Approaching Women… Until One Night Changed Everything
Mar 300:44:58Summary readyFifteen years ago, he was ready to quit approaching for good. He hated it. Nothing worked. Then a night in Miami changed everything. In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett talks about this fateful evening. He also shares inspiring success stories from his clients Ken, Jason, and Ray. If you freeze up around beautiful women, this episode is for you.EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS01:59: The Night in Miami that Changed Connell’s Dating Life17:01: How Ken Went from Shy Virgin to Getting His First Kiss and First Girlfriend30:08: The Moment Ray Stopped Freezing Up and Started Confidently Meeting WomenBOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL’S TEAM TO LEARN HOW HIS COACHING CAN HELP YOU APPROACH WOMEN: DatingTransformation.com
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