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Leaving an abusive or controlling relationship isn’t the end of the story—it’s the beginning of a difficult healing process. In this episode, Dr. Leslie explains why anxiety often increases after leaving, how your nervous system adapts to life after survival mode, and why grief and relief can exist at the same time.We also discuss practical safety planning, digital security, and the steps victims can take to protect themselves while rebuilding their lives. If you're navigating life after abuse—or supporting someone who is—this episode is for you.

I'm going to show you how to spot a narcissist, react to red flags and get out! I highlight how to spot a narcissist before they can manipulate you, emphasizing the importance of recognizing red flags early. Love bombing, gaslighting, minimization, cycle of tension, red flags, and how to safely leave.

Coercive control isn’t always loud, violent, or obvious. Sometimes it looks like “love,” protection, jealousy, or concern — while slowly isolating, manipulating, and psychologically trapping a victim.In this episode, Dr. Leslie breaks down the hidden signs of coercive control, why victims are so often misunderstood, and how psychological manipulation can be more dangerous than physical violence itself.Using real-world and celebrity cases, this episode explores the power dynamics, emotional conditioning, and subtle tactics that keep victims stuck — and why society still struggles to recognize it in real time.

Smear campaigns are rarely random...They are calculated psychological attacks designed to manipulate public perception, destroy credibility, and isolate a target through misinformation, outrage, and repetition.From fake accounts to strategic leaks and coordinated narratives, social media has made it easier than ever to turn suspicion into “truth” before facts ever catch up.As a forensic psychologist, I’ve seen how quickly people can be dehumanized when emotion overrides critical thinking.Stay aware.Question narratives.And remember: public opinion is often shaped long before evidence is fully understood.

Predators don’t accidentally end up in positions of power. Many actively seek them out.Why? Access. Credibility. Control. Protection from scrutiny.Teachers, coaches, religious leaders, mentors — authority can become the perfect cover for manipulation when no one is paying attention.Stop teaching blind trust in authority. Start teaching situational awareness, boundaries, and critical thinking instead.The red flags are usually there long before the headlines are.— Dr. Leslie | Intentionally Disturbing

Thank you to Annie Elise for having me back to continue our conversation on Epstein.We’re diving deeper into the unfolding investigations surrounding the newly released files—going beyond the headlines and into the details that matter. Together, we break down the latest developments, unpack the unanswered questions, and examine what these revelations could mean moving forward.This is the inside look you don’t want to miss…

This week Leslie speaks to 'Samantha,' a woman who got caught up in the dr*g trade in Mexico and was almost murd*red by her employers. Samantha tells Leslie about how she got caught up in the d*ug trade, being shot 9 times, and her hopes for the future of Mexico.

In this episode, host Annie Elise @annieelise and Dr. Leslie Dobson delve into the recently released Epstein files, exploring the dark revelations surrounding Jeffrey Epstein's network of power, influence, and alleged criminal activities. They discuss the implications of the files, the role of Ghislaine Maxwell, and the potential for accountability as investigations unfold. The conversation also touches on disturbing themes of cannib@lism, the JonBenet Ramsey connection, and the psychological manipulation at play in the Epstein saga, ultimately questioning the future of justice in this complex case.

The episode delves into the expert psychologist report on coercive control and sexual harassment involving Blake Lively, highlighting institutional betrayal and the coined term DARVO. It discusses the legal battle, the impact on women in the workplace, and the broader implications of such cases.Coercive control and sexual harassment are central themes. Institutional betrayal is a significant issue in the case. The psychologist coined the term DARVO. Blake Lively's case sets a precedent for workplace rights. The legal battle involves high-profile figures and companies. The report highlights the lack of HR support in the film industry. The case underscores the importance of addressing workplace harassment. The psychologist's insights provide a deeper understanding of the issues. The episode discusses the broader implications for women's rights. The legal proceedings continue to unfold with significant public interest.

First, Justin Baldoni.Dr. Freyd identified repeated sexual boundary violations in a workplace context. These included allegations of unconsented sexualized conduct, boundary erosion, and behavior patterns consistent with DARVO (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender) once concerns were raised. Importantly, her analysis did not rely on moral judgments but on behavioral patterns and power asymmetries.Second, Jamey Heath.He was identified as engaging in alleged sexual boundary violations and, critically, as a failure node in reporting and accountability. Dr. Freyd emphasized that harm is amplified when people in authority both participate in misconduct and fail to intervene or escalate complaints, which directly fits institutional betrayal criteria.