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Irresistible You: Lose the Emotional Weight | Body Image | Confidence | Weight Loss
Hosted by Aimee Beltran · EN
It's time to ditch the fat girl mindset and lose the emotional weight that's holding you back. Join confidence and body image coach, Aimee Beltran to learn how to love yourself by breaking down body image issues so you can lose the emotional weight and gain the confidence to look and feel irresistible...at any size or weight. Aimee keeps it real and raw because she knows exactly what it's like to be the fat girl on the yo-yo diet/body hate shame cycle. If you're ready to stop waiting for the weight, hit that subscribe button to learn how to become #IrresistibleYou! Learn more at https://irresistibleicing.com.
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286: Building an Irresistible Life, One Diamond at a Time
2w ago00:12:39Tap to summarizeHave you ever looked at your life and weight loss journey and felt like nothing is changing?Like one workout doesn't matter. One healthy meal won't make a difference. One act of self-care feels insignificant. In this episode, I'm sharing one of my favorite metaphors: diamond painting.Each tiny diamond seems insignificant on its own. You can't see the finished picture while you're placing them. But over time, those thousands of tiny pieces become something beautiful.The same is true for healing your relationship with food, building confidence, embracing your body, becoming the woman you crave to be, and creating the irresistible life you deserve. If you've been judging yourself before you've had the chance to see the full picture, this episode is your reminder to trust the process.Because you're not just placing diamonds.You're building an irresistible life—one tiny diamond at a time.Irresistible Links:Show Notes🗒Enroll in the Irresistible You self-study course here! ✉Sign up for my free action plan & get on my email list! 📸Stay connected with me on IG @IrresistibleIcing 👩💻 Follow me on TikTok @irresistibleicing🔮Join the free podcast discussion group on Facebook 🛍 Shop My Amazon Storefront
Transcribe →285: Create a Whimsical Summer
Jun 1900:46:18Tap to summarizeA few years ago, I came across a quote that said:"I think the key to a happy life as an adult woman is to channel your inner weird little girl and make her happy."It immediately resonated with me.I was the kid making potions in the yard, obsessed with magic books, fortune tellers, mood rings, crystals, and all things mystical. And the older I get, the more I realize those parts of me never disappeared—they just got buried under adulthood and responsibility.In this episode, I'm talking about whimsy—not as a trend, but as a way of reconnecting with yourself. I'm sharing what's on my whimsical summer list, why I've been intentionally making more room for wonder, and how this connects to one of the core principles of Irresistible You: Feed Your Soul.Because maybe creating a magical life isn't about becoming someone new.Maybe it's about remembering who you've been all along. ✨🩷🔮🦋Show Notes🗒Enroll in the Irresistible You self-study course here! ✉Sign up for my free action plan & get on my email list! 📸Stay connected with me on IG @IrresistibleIcing 👩💻 Follow me on TikTok @irresistibleicing🔮Join the free podcast discussion group on Facebook 🛍 Shop My Amazon Storefront🎧Subscribe to the podcast free with the Amazon Music app. Sign up here for a free 30-day trial of Prime to try it out today! ☕Want to support the podcast? Buy me a coffee!
Transcribe →284: Weight Loss Burn Out is REAL!
Jun 400:42:59Tap to summarizeIn this episode, I’m talking honestly about weight loss burnout. The mental exhaustion that comes from constantly thinking about food, planning meals, trying to “be good,” starting over, tracking, and feeling like your body is always a project that needs fixing.I also share what this experience has been like for me while being on Tirzepatide. The food noise is quieter, but now I find myself in this strange in-between space where I’m hungry, but nothing sounds good. I take a few bites and feel full… while somehow still feeling hungry at the same time. And honestly? I’m tired.This episode isn’t anti-weight loss. It’s about what happens when your entire life starts revolving around shrinking yourself, and the realization that maybe peace matters too.Because you deserve a life bigger than calorie counting.Show Notes🗒Enroll in the Irresistible You self-study course here! ✉Sign up for my free action plan & get on my email list! 📸Stay connected with me on IG @IrresistibleIcing 👩💻 Follow me on TikTok @irresistibleicing🔮Join the free podcast discussion group on Facebook 🛍 Shop My Amazon Storefront🎧Subscribe to the podcast free with the Amazon Music app. Sign up here for a free 30-day trial of Prime to try it out today! ☕Want to support the podcast? Buy me a coffee!
Transcribe →283: Life Is Happening While You Wait
May 1900:42:20Tap to summarizeThe kids are almost done with school, and I’m feeling all of it.I’ve always been painfully aware of how fleeting time is, especially as a mom. I’ve tried so hard to soak it all in—to be present for the field trips, the drop-offs, the little moments, the everyday routines. But the heartbreaking thing about time is… even when you’re fully there for it, it still moves fast.And it got me thinking about how many women spend years of their lives waiting. Waiting to lose weight. Waiting to feel confident. Waiting to like their body enough to fully be in the picture, go to the pool, wear the shorts, or stop criticizing themselves long enough to enjoy their life.Meanwhile, life is happening.In this episode, I’m talking about the bittersweetness of motherhood, the grief that comes with watching your children grow up, and the way body image can quietly steal moments we can never get back.Because one day, our kids won’t remember what size we were. They’ll remember whether we were there.And time doesn’t wait for us to finally love ourselves.Show Notes🗒Enroll in the Irresistible You self-study course here! ✉Sign up for my free action plan & get on my email list! 📸Stay connected with me on IG @IrresistibleIcing 👩💻 Follow me on TikTok @irresistibleicing🔮Join the free podcast discussion group on Facebook 🛍 Shop My Amazon Storefront🎧Subscribe to the podcast free with the Amazon Music app. Sign up here for a free 30-day trial of Prime to try it out today! ☕Want to support the podcast? Buy me a coffee!
Transcribe →282: What Kind of Life Do You Actually Want?
Apr 3000:23:08Tap to summarizeI’m just going to say it—some of the advice we’re listening to right now… we need to start considering the source.Because it’s really easy to hear someone talk about motherhood, success, or balance and start questioning yourself. Am I doing too much? Not enough? Should I want more?But not every perspective is meant for your life.In this episode, I’m talking about what it means to step back and ask: who is this advice actually for? Because the reality is, a lot of what we hear—about work, parenting, and even our bodies—is coming from people living completely different lives, with completely different priorities and support systems.And while we’re trying to keep up with all of that, we’re also trying to fix our bodies at the same time. Lose weight. Look a certain way. Feel confident. Do it all.At some point, you have to pause and ask:What do I actually want my life to look like?Not what sounds impressive.Not what works for someone else.Not what you think you should want.I’m sharing my perspective on choosing a life that fits me, why I’m okay where I’m at, and how chasing a “better body” and a “better life” at the same time can keep you stuck if you’re not careful.You don’t have to follow every piece of advice you hear. You don’t have to want more just because someone else does. And you don’t need a different body to start living your life.You just need to decide what’s actually right for you.Show Notes🗒Enroll in the Irresistible You self-study course here! ✉Sign up for my free action plan & get on my email list! 📸Stay connected with me on IG @IrresistibleIcing 👩💻 Follow me on TikTok @irresistibleicing🔮Join the free podcast discussion group on Facebook 🛍 Shop My Amazon Storefront🎧Subscribe to the podcast free with the Amazon Music app. Sign up here for a free 30-day trial of Prime to try it out today! ☕Want to support the podcast? Buy me a coffee!
Transcribe →281: A Smaller Body Won’t Fix Your Life
Apr 2100:33:08Tap to summarizeYou don’t need another diet. You need a different life.In this episode, I’m sharing some tough love about the cycle so many women stay stuck in—chasing quick fixes, starting over every Monday, and trying to “fix” their body instead of looking at what’s really going on underneath.Because here’s the truth: quick fixes don’t change your life. They just give you a smaller body in the same life that’s making you unhappy.I’m also sharing a glimpse into my recent travels and the life I’ve created—one that didn’t come from a crash diet, but from making a decision a long time ago to stop putting my life on hold.If you’ve been waiting to lose weight before you start living, this episode is your wake-up call.You don’t need a smaller body. You need a bigger life.Show Notes🗒Enroll in the Irresistible You self-study course here! ✉Sign up for my free action plan & get on my email list! 📸Stay connected with me on IG @IrresistibleIcing 👩💻 Follow me on TikTok @irresistibleicing🔮Join the free podcast discussion group on Facebook 🛍 Shop My Amazon Storefront🎧Subscribe to the podcast free with the Amazon Music app. Sign up here for a free 30-day trial of Prime to try it out today! ☕Want to support the podcast? Buy me a coffee!
Transcribe →280: Book the Trip and Wear the Shorts!
Mar 2600:20:55Tap to summarizeThis is a short episode and a little bit of tough love.I’m recording this a few hours before I get on a plane, and I kept thinking about how many women are waiting to live their lives. Waiting to lose weight. Waiting to feel confident. Waiting for the right time, the right body, the right circumstances.So this episode is your reminder: your life is happening right now.Book the trip. Wear the shorts. Go to the pool. Take the picture. Start the thing. Stop waiting for some future version of you to start living.This isn’t a dress rehearsal. This is your life.Show Notes🗒Enroll in the Irresistible You self-study course here! ✉Sign up for my free action plan & get on my email list! 📸Stay connected with me on IG @IrresistibleIcing 👩💻 Follow me on TikTok @irresistibleicing🔮Join the free podcast discussion group on Facebook 🛍 Shop My Amazon Storefront🎧Subscribe to the podcast free with the Amazon Music app. Sign up here for a free 30-day trial of Prime to try it out today! ☕Want to support the podcast? Buy me a coffee!
Transcribe →279: The “Fat Girl” Trauma of Formal Dress Shopping
Mar 1100:26:22Tap to summarizeIf the words “formal dress shopping” make your stomach drop, you’re not alone.In this episode, I’m talking about the very real emotional scars that can come from being the “fat girl” when it comes to clothes, especially formalwear. From prom dresses to bridesmaid fittings to even shopping for my own wedding gown, I share the comments, judgments, and experiences that still echo in my mind every time I walk into a dressing room.And here’s the thing: my body was different sizes in each of those moments. But the shame and anxiety followed me anyway.We’ll talk about why those experiences stick with us, how the dressing room becomes a place of judgment instead of celebration, and the truth many of us need to hear: our bodies were never the problem.If shopping for clothes still brings up old feelings, this episode is for you! Show Notes🗒Enroll in the Irresistible You self-study course here! ✉Sign up for my free action plan & get on my email list! 📸Stay connected with me on IG @IrresistibleIcing 👩💻 Follow me on TikTok @irresistibleicing🔮Join the free podcast discussion group on Facebook 🛍 Shop My Amazon Storefront🎧Subscribe to the podcast free with the Amazon Music app. Sign up here for a free 30-day trial of Prime to try it out today! ☕Want to support the podcast? Buy me a coffee!
Transcribe →278: Never Look Like What You’re Going Through
Mar 400:21:47Tap to summarizeThe other night, I was at the ER with Javi until 4 am. By the time I got home, the temptation to cancel everything and stay in bed was very real.But with just a few hours of sleep, I still got up, got ready, did my makeup, and showed up for the day.In this episode, I’m talking about the idea of “never looking like what you’re going through.” Not in a performative or toxic way, but in the sense of refusing to abandon yourself during hard moments. Sometimes the smallest acts of care, from washing your face, getting dressed, and keeping a routine, are what carry us through the chaos.Show Notes🗒Enroll in the Irresistible You self-study course here! ✉Sign up for my free action plan & get on my email list! 📸Stay connected with me on IG @IrresistibleIcing 👩💻 Follow me on TikTok @irresistibleicing🔮Join the free podcast discussion group on Facebook 🛍 Shop My Amazon Storefront🎧Subscribe to the podcast free with the Amazon Music app. Sign up here for a free 30-day trial of Prime to try it out today! ☕Want to support the podcast? Buy me a coffee!
Transcribe →277: When Your Body Forces You to Slow Down
Feb 1900:10:16Tap to summarizeI’ve been sick all week, and it completely disrupted my plans, my workouts, and the momentum I thought I was building.In this episode, I’m talking about what it feels like when your body forces you to rest — and why we often only “allow” ourselves to slow down when we’re physically unwell. If you’re feeling behind, off track, or like you have to start over, this is your reminder: you’re not starting over. You’re continuing.Show Notes!🗒Enroll in the Irresistible You self-study course here! ✉Sign up for my free action plan & get on my email list! 📸Stay connected with me on IG @IrresistibleIcing 👩💻 Follow me on TikTok @irresistibleicing🔮Join the free podcast discussion group on Facebook 🛍 Shop My Amazon Storefront🎧Subscribe to the podcast free with the Amazon Music app. Sign up here for a free 30-day trial of Prime to try it out today! ☕Want to support the podcast? Buy me a coffee!
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