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Now more than ever, Lowes knows you don't just want a low price, you want the lowest price. And with our lowest price guarantee, you can count on us for competitive prices on all your home improvement projects. If you find a qualifying lower price somewhere else on the same item, we'll match it. Lowe's we help you save price Match applies to same item current price at qualifying retailers. Exclusions and terms apply. Learn how we'll match price@lowe's.com lowest price guarantee hi, this is Joel and Victoria. Thanks for listening to our podcast and thanks for supporting the ministry. If you enjoyed today's message, why don't you be a blessing and share it with a friend? We appreciate you and pray for God's very best in your life. Well, God bless you. It's always a joy to come into your homes. We know God has great things in store for each one of you and if you're ever in our area, please stop by and be a part of one of our services. I promise you we'll make you feel right at home. But thanks so much for tuning in and thank you again for coming out today. I like to start with something funny. I heard about this elderly couple. They were having a terrible time with their memory. They went to the doctor and he instructed them to start writing down everything they'd been forgetting. The next night they were watching television. The wife said, I sure would like a bowl of ice cream. The husband said, I'll go get it for you. She said, honey, you remember what the doctor said. You better write it down. He said, I'm just going to the kitchen. I'm not going to forget it. He came back a few minutes later and handed her a plate of bacon and eggs. She shook her head and said, I should have known it. You forgot My toast. Hold up your Bible. Say it like you mean it. This is my Bible. I am what it says I am. I have what it says I have. I can do what it says I can do. Today I will be taught the word of God. I boldly confess. My mind is alert. My heart is receptive. I will never be the same. In Jesus name. God bless you. I want to talk to you today about blessing people with your words. Our words have the power to lift people up or to push people down. We can say something to make them feel better about themselves or. Or to make them feel worse. It's amazing what a simple compliment will do when you tell someone, you look nice today, or great job on that presentation at the office, or I really enjoy working with you. Those simple words will put a spring in their step. It will brighten their day. It didn't take much time. It didn't cost you anything. Yet with your words, you just blessed their life. That's the power God has given each one of us every day. We should have a goal of finding at least one person that we can encourage. Be free with your compliments. Point out what somebody's doing right, not what they're doing wrong. There's already enough pushing people down. Let's make it our business to lift people up, to brighten their day, to make them feel better about themselves. I met a young lady in Nashville. She used to attend church when she lived here. She told how she was going through a very difficult time. Her marriage was breaking apart. She was very depressed. She felt so unattractive. At one of her lowest moments. She was leaving church on a Sunday, walking down the corridor with hundreds of other people. It just so happened Victoria came walking the other direction. Victoria had never seen her, never met her before. But as she passed by, Victoria stopped her, looked her in the eyes and said, you are so beautiful. Just five seconds. She moved on to Victoria. It was no big deal. She was just being friendly, being free with her compliments. But that young lady told me, Victoria will never know what she did for me that day when I felt the most unattractive, when the most unwanted. She breathed new life back into my spirit. Week after week, all through the day, she would play that phrase over and over. You're so beautiful. That's what helped her to stay. Encouraged. Proverbs 18:4 says, Your words can be like life giving water. Friends, people are thirsty. Everywhere we go, people are lonely. People are. They're hurting. They've been through disappointments. They've suffered heartache and pain. God has given us something to offer them. We have life giving water. With our words, we can bring healing. With our words, we can lift them out of depression. With our words, we can tell them, you're beautiful, you're amazing, you're talented. God's got a bright future in front of you. Those life giving words, we will break the chains of depression. They'll break the chains of low self esteem. When you go through the day speaking encouragement, telling people what they can become, giving compliments, you are living life as a healer. Your kind words are like pouring warm oil on the wounds. You may not know all that's happening, but God can take one compliment, one encouraging word and use that to begin the healing process and set that person on a brand new course. When I was in my early 20s, a young man came up to the gym that we didn't know and started playing basketball with us. He was a loner. You couldn't get to know him. He never talked. Even during the games, he would not interact. Most of the guys just ignored him because he was so unfriendly. But something down in here told me to reach out to him and make sure that he felt welcome. I found out that his name was Bo. When he would come in to the gym, I would always go over and say, hey Bo, great to see you today. He'd never respond. Very cold, very stoic. All he would do was hit his chest twice and walk away. I didn't really know what that meant, but I hit my chest twice and walked away too. This went on for a couple of years. I saw him four or five times a week. Hey Bo, great to see you today. Eventually, I stopped playing ball at that gym and didn't see him for over 25 years. About six months ago, Bo walked into church. When I saw him, I thought, where do I know him from? He looked so familiar, I just couldn't place him. He came up afterwards and said, my name is Bo. We used to play basketball together. That's the most I'd ever heard him speak his whole lifetime. He went on to tell how he was raised in the projects. At 14 years old, he started living on his own. Nobody wanted him. He felt no love, no acceptance. He said something that I'll never forget. He said the main reason I would come to the gym, Joel, was to hear you say, great to see you. Because nobody had ever told me they were glad to see me. What was Beau's problem?
