
God is not focused on what you're doing wrong. His love towards you is unconditional.
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Thank you for being here. You may be seated. So good to be in the house of the Lord. I'll never forget one Saturday afternoon when I was 16 years old. I walked in the kitchen and my father was grilling hamburgers. That Saturday afternoon, I. I was like, yeah, I'm hungry, dad. He said, great. He said, can you run to the store for me and pick up a few little items? I just need some mustard, some pickles, just a couple little items. I said, absolutely. I mean, I was 16 years old, just waiting to get behind the wheel. Any excuse to drive. And I was right there. So he went to give me his keys, and as he was giving me the keys, he said, now look, Victoria, he said, I want you to go straight to the grocery store. I. I want you to come straight back. And don't open the passenger side window. Don't roll it down because it's off the tracks. And he said, I have to get it repaired next week, so don't open the window. I took the keys from his hand and I rushed out the back door, jumped in the car, cranked it up, drove down the street to my best girlfriend's house and picked her up. I said, we're going to the grocery store. As we were on our way to the grocery store, about to leave the neighborhood, we saw some of our friends who lived in the neighborhood walking down the sidewalk. So we started waving. I said, let's pull over so they can see us driving. So we pull over. I said, roll down the window so we can say hi. She looks at me and she says, I thought you said the window was broken. I said, it's okay. It'll be fine this time. This one time won't hurt anything. So she rolls the window down, and we talk to our friends. And I'll never forget, as I was driving off, she was rolling that window back up. And it was as if time stood still. That window shattered in 1 million pieces. I looked at that window. I couldn't believe it. Millions of pieces. I looked at my girlfriend. I said, you're going home with me. Listen, I'll never forget driving that car home, thinking, what am I going to tell my father? Drove up the driveway, walked in the back door, and there he stood in the kitchen with the biggest knot in My throat. I said, dad, I got to tell you something. I did everything you told me not to do. I said, dad, I shattered your window. Please forgive me. I couldn't believe what I had done. But you know, that Saturday afternoon as a 16 year old girl. And I'll never forget my dad's response to me as I looked at my father and he looked back at me and I'm sure he was disappointed. He looked at me with eyes of compassion. It was as if he looked past my failure, past my mistake. Somehow he saw a daughter on a journey and he showed me unconditional love that day. He didn't berate me, he didn't tell me how terrible I was. Somehow he found it in himself to look over my faults and show me his love. Can I tell you if an earthly father can do such a thing? How much more does our Heavenly Father look at us today through eyes of compassion and love? So often we feel like he's looking at our mistakes, counting our failures against us. But can I tell you? The scripture says when we were yet sinners, before we even knew what was right and what was wrong, he looked down through the corridors of time and he said, I love you unconditionally. That is the heart of the Father. Now, your story might not be the same with your earthly father, I don't know. But I can tell you it has helped me understand the love of my Heavenly Father. You see, that day I had to do something. I had to admit what I did. And then I had to ask for forgiveness. Then I took it one step further. I had to receive his forgiveness. Because, see, it was up to me. At that point, was I going to make a decision that my father loved me and that he indeed forgave me? And I could shake off the shame, shake off the guilt. Because see, there was something real important that I needed to do. I needed to have a relationship with this father in my life. And if I was going to draw back and not feel like I was good enough, I would have never come and asked him for the keys again. But guess what I did. I asked him for the keys again. And he gave them to me. I'm saying all that to say some of you have shrunk back. You're not asking God for the keys again. You're saying he couldn't possibly want that for me. How could I possibly achieve that? Man, I make a mistake all the time. I can't get to where God wants me to be. If I even ask him, will he even hear me? Can I Tell you, your heavenly Father is not looking at what you're doing wrong. He's looking at what you're doing right. He sees your two good moves. Yeah, you may have blown it. You may have even blown it yesterday. But can I tell you, when you come and you say, God forgive me, he sees us as a work in progress. We are sons and daughters in progress, and he's not holding that against us. See, I gotta tell you something. When I asked my dad for the keys again, he didn't say to me, well, don't forget what you did. Don't forget how you wronged me. He didn't come at me with guilt and condemnation. And I want to remind you today, if you're not asking for the keys because you feel guilty, maybe a little ashamed, maybe you can't even believe God would do that, that is not of God. That is the accuser. And those are the things you're going to have to shake off and make a decision today. When I ask God for forgiveness, he freely forgives me. He pardons me. Luke 12 says he takes great pleasure giving you the kingdom. That tells me he's got some keys for you today. You gotta ask him, don't walk timid before God. He likes boldness. He likes tenacity. Listen, God says, come boldly before the throne of grace so you can obtain mercy and find help in your time of need. See, there's the key right there. You gotta be bold and you gotta ask for forgiveness. You gotta receive it. You gotta forgive yourself. And then you gotta know that God's gonna help you get to where you need to be. Amen. He's a good father. He is a amazing father.
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pray the promises what God has spoken over your life. Those are powerful prayers. And that's when God shows up and does what only he can do. Thanks so much for being with us. Victoria and I pray for you and your family every day and we appreciate your prayer and support. Your generosity helps us take this message of hope to people around the world. A special thank you to our Champion of Hope partners for all you do to make the ministry possible. If you're not a partner, I hope you'll consider becoming one. But until we meet again, may the Lord bless you and keep you.
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Joel Osteen Podcast
Episode: The Unconditional Love Of God | Victoria Osteen
Date: May 16, 2026
Host: Victoria Osteen (with intro by Joel Osteen)
This episode centers on the experience of God’s unconditional love, using a personal childhood story from Victoria Osteen to illustrate the profound compassion and forgiveness offered by God—even when we feel undeserving. The message is an encouragement to let go of guilt, to boldly ask God for forgiveness and blessings, and to recognize that, just as a loving earthly father forgives, our heavenly Father’s grace is boundless.
Victoria shares a story from her teenage years about disobeying her father's instructions and breaking his car window.
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Parallels to God’s Forgiveness:
Encouragement to Listeners:
This episode delivers a gentle but powerful reminder that God does not demand perfection, but invites honesty, humility, and boldness in seeking Him. Listeners are encouraged to shed guilt, forgive themselves, and trust that God's love and forgiveness are always available—no matter what.
For those seeking a message of hope and restoration in the face of past mistakes, Victoria’s story and encouragement offer a relatable, uplifting perspective on God’s heart as a Father.
(Note: The remainder of the episode (from 07:21 onward) consists of resource promotions and ministry information, not core message content.)