This week is a conversation with Lacy Phillips, founder of To Be Magnetic. We get into emotional expansion—how to actually feel feelings instead of intellectualizing them—and the role of self-worth in making changes in our lives. We talk about what happens when we try to skip discomfort, how healing can be boring, and why slowing down is usually the fastest way forward. It was a formative conversation for me and I'm revisiting it this week in honor of her new book.