What to do when you're too upset to think straight

Summary

Life Kit (NPR)
Episode: What to Do When You're Too Upset to Think Straight
Host: Marielle Segarra
Guest: Sherene Rizvi, Professor of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences, Montefiore Einstein
Date: July 23, 2026

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Episode Overview

This episode explores research-backed skills for tolerating distress, focusing especially on those moments when one feels too emotionally overwhelmed to think straight. Host Marielle Segarra speaks with Sherene Rizvi, co-author of Real Skills for Real Life and an expert in dialectical behavior therapy (DBT). Together, they navigate immediate, actionable strategies for calming yourself, as well as long-term techniques for accepting difficult situations. The conversation is practical, empathetic, and rooted in both science and personal experience.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

Why Distress Tolerance Matters

• Distress is part of life: Sherene Rizvi notes that much of our behavior is an attempt to avoid pain or distress—actions like drinking alcohol or lashing out only mask intolerable emotions (00:18).
  • “Distress is inevitable. Pain is an inevitable part of life. And so much of what we do are attempts to avoid distress and pain.” — Sherene Rizvi (00:18)
• Acceptance vs. avoidance: Rather than immediately trying to eliminate distress, learning to tolerate it is key, as most feelings—even the most intense—do eventually pass (01:19; 01:40).

Immediate Distress Tolerance: The TIP Skills (03:09)

TIP stands for four physiological skills you can use when you're overwhelmed.

1. T – Temperature (03:15):
   • Plunge your face (eyes and temples) into a bowl of ice water to trigger the "mammalian dive reflex," which slows heart rate and breathing.
   • Caution: Not for people with heart conditions or on beta blockers.
   • “For most people, I have to say, it is incredible in terms of how well it works.” — Sherene Rizvi (04:18)
2. I – Intense Exercise (05:04):
   • Do something to sharply raise your heart rate—jumping jacks, running stairs—for a quick biochemical reset.
3. P – Paced Breathing (05:40):
   • Focus on slow, belly breaths with longer exhales (e.g., in for 4 counts, out for 6).
4. P – Paired/Progressive Muscle Relaxation (06:21):
   • Tense then relax muscles, moving through the body, saying a cue word like “relax.”
   • “If you tense your muscles as hard as you can and then relax, you get a greater sense of relaxation.” — Sherene Rizvi (06:34)

Making Moments Better: The IMPROVE Skills (09:00)

For when you can’t change your situation, these seven skills help make distress more bearable—often in small ways.

1. I – Imagery (09:13): Picture a calming scene or your “happy place.”
2. M – Meaning (09:13): Reflect on what meaning, or sense of growth, can come from the hardship.
   • Both Sherene and Marielle discuss the personal meaning they derived from cancer treatment, including unexpected upsides like "magical hair" post-chemo (10:12–11:11).
3. P – Prayer (11:18): Connect with God, your inner wisdom, or simply a sense of guidance and love for yourself.
4. R – Relaxation (11:43): Do something simple and pleasurable that soothes you—tea, shower, music, or rest.
5. O – One Thing in the Moment (12:15): Focus your entire attention on a single present action, such as drinking tea, letting go of everything else.
6. V – Vacation (12:53): Grant yourself a short break (even 5–20 minutes) just to relax, “like watching a trashy TV show or flipping through a magazine.”
7. E – Encouragement (13:31): Be your own cheerleader: tell yourself, “You got this,” as you would to a dear friend.
   • “Some people find this really hokey, but...most of us are really bad at this...” — Sherene Rizvi (13:35)
   • “Even just saying it with that tone for me helps. Like, you got this. Of course you got this. You know, it's like I'm being my own friend in that moment.” — Marielle Segarra (14:09)

Longer-Term Skill: Willingness (15:01)

• Willingness vs. Willfulness (15:15):
  • Willfulness is resisting reality with “should” statements ("this shouldn’t have happened"). Willingness is accepting things as they are, with openness to experience.
  • “Willingness is this quality of moving towards acceptance with an open mind.” — Sherene Rizvi (15:15)
  • Marielle shares the reframing from “Why me?” to “Why not me?” for both bad and good life events, inspired by her own experience with illness (16:17).
• Non-judgmental acceptance: Inspired by Zen perspectives—appreciate both pain and its absence (“experience the non-headache”) (17:10).

Posture as a Signal to the Brain (18:07)

• Willing Posture: Open your chest, relax shoulders, sit with palms up (“willing hands”), and soften your expression (“half smile”). Small body cues can support mental openness and acceptance.
  • “It's almost like a signal to your brain, to yourself, to the world, I am open…” — Sherene Rizvi (18:07)

Addressing Skepticism and Limitations

• Sherene acknowledges not all techniques will work for everyone, and some may feel artificial or frustrating, especially when facing serious pain.
  • She frames these skills as tools—experiment, see what works, and remember they're not meant to solve root problems, but to help you weather tough moments (20:14; 21:42).

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Memorable Quotes

• “So much of what we do are attempts to avoid distress and pain. ...those behaviors are the result of not knowing how to tolerate what feels intolerable.” — Sherene Rizvi (00:18)
• “Whatever it is you're feeling, no matter how intense, no matter how awful...it will pass.” — Sherene Rizvi (01:40)
• “These are not skills to solve the problem—they're to help you go from 100 to 80 so you can think again.” — Sherene Rizvi (02:54)
• “Say to yourself what you would say to a friend. ...Most of us are good at encouraging others and not as good at encouraging ourselves.” — Sherene Rizvi (13:35)

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Timestamps for Key Segments

• 00:18 — Distress as inevitable; emotional avoidance
• 01:19 — Two options in distress: solve or accept
• 03:09 — Introduction of TIP skills
• 05:04 — Intense exercise explained
• 09:00 — Introduction of IMPROVE skills
• 10:12 — Drawing meaning from difficult events (cancer treatment)
• 13:31 — Encouragement as a skill
• 15:01 — Introduction of willingness as a long-term skill
• 16:17 — Personal story: reframing “why me?” after illness
• 18:07 — “Willing posture” and body language
• 20:14 — Addressing skepticism; these are tools, not solutions
• 21:42 — Recap of skills

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Key Takeaways

1. TIP skills instantly lower emotional arousal so you can regain your composure:
   • Temperature, Intense Exercise, Paced Breathing, Paired Muscle Relaxation
2. IMPROVE skills are small, in-the-moment actions to make tough times more bearable:
   • Imagery, Meaning, Prayer, Relaxation, One Thing in the Moment, Vacation, Encouragement
3. Willingness is a foundational long-term mindset for accepting hard truths and opening up to life as it is—supported by simple physical cues.
4. These tools are not solutions in themselves, but help regulate your body and emotions so you can cope while facing or solving problems.

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This episode blends actionable advice, real-life anecdotes, and expert insight—delivering a toolkit for listeners dealing with everyday frustrations or life's bigger storms.

Transcript

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[Sherene Rizvi]

Distress is inevitable. Pain is an inevitable part of life. And so much of what we do are attempts to avoid distress and pain. We drink when we're Anx or we lash out at people when we're angry. Those behaviors are the result of not knowing how to tolerate what feels intolerable in that moment, which is that emotional experience.

[Marielle Segarra]

You're listening to Life kit. I'm Marielle Segarra and you just heard from Sherene Rizvi. She's a professor of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at Montefiore Einstein. She co wrote a book called Real Skills for Real Life. And it's filled with distress tolerance skills that come from dialectical behavior therapy. That's a form of therapy that helps people understand the connections between their thoughts, their behaviors and their emotions. She says according to this framework, in moments of distress, we have these two options.

[Sherene Rizvi]

We could try to change the situation that's causing us distress, but sometimes we can't just remove the problem or solve the problem. And so in those moments, we have to learn how to accept the distress and respond in a more effective way.

[Marielle Segarra]

What do you think people get wrong about coping with distress?

[Sherene Rizvi]

I think first thing that people get wrong is thinking that I have to get rid of it right away. Their first impulse and instinct is to do something to make it stop. And I think the second thing that people get wrong is the idea that I need to do something to make it go away because otherwise it will last forever. And so one thing that we want people to learn is that actually whatever it is you're feeling, no matter how intense, no matter how awful it feels in this moment, it will pass.

[Marielle Segarra]

On this episode of Life Kit research backed skills to help you tolerate distress. And these skills can make sense in a lot of different situations. When you're stuck in traffic, when you got in a fight with your partner, when your teenager is rude to you, and when you're dealing with big life events like illness or death. Okay, so the first distress tolerance tool we're gonna talk about here from the book is something called tip. It's an acronym, tip, and it actually stands for four distinct skills that you can use in moments when you're so distressed that you just can't think straight. You say in the book, these are not skills to help you solve the problem, right?

[Sherene Rizvi]

Yes, exactly. And the idea is these are skills to help you go from, let's say a 100 on a scale of 0 to 100 to an 80, and then, then when you're at an 80, you might be able to flip through the pages and find something else to do.

[Marielle Segarra]

Okay, so TIP is an acronym. It stands for tip. T is temperature. What does that mean?

[Sherene Rizvi]

Yeah, temperature is actually one of my favorite skills. This is going to sound really weird, but it's making your body think, think that you have just dived into extremely cold water. And the reason we do that is because there's such a thing called the mammalian dive reflex, which is a reflex that all mammals have, that when we are submerged in cold water, it increases the likelihood of survival. And the reflex does things like slows down your heart rate, slows down your respiratory rate. Those are things that we also often need when we're in high degrees of distress and are physiologically aroused. So the way that we practice this skill is to get a large kitchen bowl, fill it with very cold water with some ice cubes in it so that it's pretty cold, you take a deep breath, and then you plunge your face, your eyes and your temples in particular, into the water while holding your breath and staying there for as long as possible. For most people, I have to say, it is incredible in terms of how well it works for people in terms of getting that arousal to go down. I should make a note, as we often do, that we don't recommend this for people who have a heart condition or who are taking beta blockers because the sudden decrease in heart could obviously be a problem for certain conditions. But if you don't have those conditions, it's definitely worth a try. And if you wear a smartwatch or something else that monitors your heart rate, you can actually look. You could do a little test to see your pre post heart rate when you practice the temperature skill.

[Marielle Segarra]

So that's T I is intense exercise. So are you running up the stairs really fast?

[Sherene Rizvi]

You're doing anything you can to get your heart rate up quickly. I taught this in a group just last week and we all stood up and did jumping jacks. So the idea behind that is that it's almost paradoxical, but in that moment of high agitation, high distress, you're actually revving yourself up. And then when you stop the exercise, that decrease in heart rate comes on, you feel calmer, the endorphins kick in, and so on.

[Marielle Segarra]

Interesting. Okay, P is paced breathing.

[Sherene Rizvi]

What does this mean when we're distressed. And in high anxiety, we tend to breathe from our chest, which is actually more hyperventilating and is the opposite of relaxing. Right? It gets us more revved up so we want to breathe from our belly area. The second quality of paced breathing is to slow your breath down. And the third component of paced breathing is that you want your exhale to be longer than your inhale. So you might practice this with your belly, for example, breathing in for a count of four and then breathing out for a count of six.

[Marielle Segarra]

And then we actually have one more P which is paired or progressive muscle relaxation. And that means like going through your body muscle group by muscle group, tensing the muscles as tight as you can and then releasing them.

[Sherene Rizvi]

Yes, exactly. And the idea is that if you tense your muscles as hard as you can and and then relax, you actually get to a greater sense of relaxation than if you just tried to relax without tensing the muscle first. And then the paired piece is to say the word relax or to say the word calm or some other cue word that you associate then with the relaxation piece.

[Marielle Segarra]

We'll have more Life Kit after the break.

[Sherene Rizvi]

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[Marielle Segarra]

You have another set of skills in here that go by the acronym improvement. You say in the book these skills are designed to make difficult moments better in some usually small way. Walk me through what IMPROVE stands for.

[Sherene Rizvi]

So I think about improve as being a set of strategies that are available to you as tools in your toolbox for those moments where you can't do anything about the problem right now. But maybe there's a way to make it a little bit better. And so the acronym stands for seven separate skills. The first is imagery in the moment of crisis and difficulty. Using visual imagery to think about something calming. Going to your happy place, bringing to mind a particular image that is soothing and relaxing to you. The M stands for meaning, and that's spending time thinking about what meaning you can draw from experience, no matter how hard it is. So this is really hard right now, and at least I'm learning that I can tolerate it.

[Marielle Segarra]

I found it helpful thinking about this after going through cancer treatment that, like, now I'm like, I have more trust that I can handle whatever comes in my life.

[Sherene Rizvi]

Yeah, I love that. And actually, I didn't know that about you, but I also went through cancer treatment, and I think that I use these skills a lot, but I actually think that I have that similar experience where I wouldn't wish cancer on anyone. And I did feel like it changed me in particular ways that I'm actually grateful for.

[Marielle Segarra]

Yeah, I'd rather that it hadn't happened, but.

[Sherene Rizvi]

Yes. Yeah.

[Marielle Segarra]

But since it did, you know, there is. There was something that I got out of it. I also got, like, really pretty wavy hair because I did chemo.

[Sherene Rizvi]

I did not get that. So I experienced distress over not getting this magical hair that people talk about.

[Marielle Segarra]

Oh, dang. Sorry.

[Sherene Rizvi]

I have to find other meaning. Yeah,

[Marielle Segarra]

okay. The P stands for prayer.

[Sherene Rizvi]

The P stands for prayer. And here you could pray to God if that's something that you do. But we also want this to be something that anyone could do, no matter how religiously religious or spiritual they are. And so we also say, pray to your own self, to your own inner wisdom, to ask for support and guidance and to give yourself love.

[Marielle Segarra]

R is relaxation.

[Sherene Rizvi]

Yeah. It's saying in this moment that's really challenging for me. I'm going to intentionally do something that makes me feel a little Calm and actually gives me a sense of pleasure in some small way. So what's my favorite coffee drink or my favorite tea that I can just sit quietly and drink? Can I take a relaxing shower or a bath? Can I take five minutes to just lay in bed and relax?

[Marielle Segarra]

O is one thing in the moment putting your full attention into just one thing that you're doing right now?

[Sherene Rizvi]

Yeah. So often when we're in high distress or we're freaking out about something, our mind is in a million different places. And in order to help us feel a little better in this one moment, what we try to do was to say, throw yourself completely into just one thing. For example, you're practicing relaxation by having a cup of tea. Just do that. Right. And when you start having thoughts about what's going to come next, let that go and bring your attention back.

[Marielle Segarra]

And then V is for vacation. It's like giving yourself a little mini 20 minute vacation.

[Sherene Rizvi]

Exactly. Most of us can't afford either time wise or financially to just take a vacation whenever we're in stress. But what is something that you could do for even five minutes or 10 minutes that makes you have that sense of I'm just taking a break. So maybe it's looking at a gossip website or a trashy magazine, or laying down on the couch and watching a 30 minute TV show. Anything that gives you a sense of I am just taking a break and I'm doing something fun and relaxing for myself.

[Marielle Segarra]

Okay, so the last letter is E. Encouragement. What does this mean?

[Sherene Rizvi]

It basically means learn how to encourage yourself and be a cheerleader for yourself. Some people find this really hokey, but actually most of us are really bad at this, which is the skill of being able to say to yourself, you can do this. Keep going. And I often say for people that have a hard time with this, it's. It's say to yourself what you would say to a friend. Because most of us are good at encouraging other people and not as good as encouraging ourselves.

[Marielle Segarra]

Even just saying it with that tone for me helps. Like, you got this. Of course you got this. You know, it's like I'm being my own friend in that moment and making

[Sherene Rizvi]

it a little bit lighter.

[Marielle Segarra]

Yeah, we'll have more life kit after the break.

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[Marielle Segarra]

You also have some distress tolerance skills that are more long term. And one of them I really liked was willingness. I feel like I haven't heard this before. When does it make sense to use this skill?

[Sherene Rizvi]

We have to accept really difficult, challenging things in our lives. But to accept it, we have to have a quality of willingness to go there as opposed to willfulness, which is how we often operate. So willfulness is saying, this shouldn't be this way. Why me? This shouldn't have happened. He shouldn't have done that. We are constantly having should statements, but saying he shouldn't have done that is actually kind of denying the reality that he did do that. So willingness is this quality of moving towards acceptance with an open mind. To say, I am willing to approach this instead of being willful and stubborn and refusing to accept what is it

[Marielle Segarra]

makes me think about going back to getting cancer. People would say to me, do you ever feel like, why me? You know? And I really didn't feel that too much. Like I wanted to turn it around to why not me? 1 in something like 8 women get breast cancer. So it was unexpected, but maybe not that unusual. And that framing actually helped me because it's like, if why not me for this terrible thing, then also why not me for some really exciting things that I want to do when I get better, you know, why not me, like finally go on that trip to Japan or why not me having kids? Why not me, like living in a beautiful space, you know?

[Sherene Rizvi]

Yeah. It's interesting because it reminds me of, I think this is more of a Zen practice or saying where it's kind of like experience the non headache or the non toothache, that when we have a headache or a toothache, our full attention is drawn to that and we might have those kinds of thoughts, why me? Why now? What about all the moments that we don't have a headache or a toothache? We don't say why me? In those moments. Right. And so can we learn to be willing to accept and embrace the reality of whatever life gives us? All of the positives and all of the negatives.

[Marielle Segarra]

Some of this is changing your thoughts, but then there's also changing your posture. Tell me about that.

[Sherene Rizvi]

So often when we are feeling willful, we would likely find that our body is tense in some way. Perhaps our shoulders are up, our jaw is clenched. And so there are ways that we could focus on changing our body. And, and by doing that, we can actually send signals back to our brain that, oh, this is not so terrible. So, for example, having what we say is a willing posture, which is kind of often opening up your chest, you know, sitting or standing upright, pushing your shoulders back and adopting willing hands is a phrase that we use where if you're sitting, you sit with your hands face up in your lap. And it's such a subtle and small thing. But if you notice what happens if you're sitting and you just place your hands gently on your lap, palms up, it's almost like a signal to your brain, to yourself, to the world, I am open, meaning I am accepting of what's happening. And the other thing that we do with our body is adopt what we call a half smile, where we very gently and sometimes very subtly turn up the corners of our mouth ever so slightly to adopt that more serene facial expression actually communicates back to your brain that things are okay.

[Marielle Segarra]

I imagine that this advice would be very helpful for some people and then it'll really annoy others who are like, yeah, but I'm dealing with something really difficult, or like, this isn't going to solve my problem, or it almost feels like, you know, toxic positivity or something. You know, like just put a smile on your face and. And then all these horrible things that are happening are fine.

[Sherene Rizvi]

Yeah, all things that I hear on a daily basis when I teach these skills. So a couple of different things that I say in response. So one is increasing the number of tools that you have in your toolbox. So I want you to have all of the tools, as many as you can possibly have. And that doesn't mean that you're going to use all of them, but you have them all and they're available to you. The second thing is that this is all an experiment. Gather data, try it. You have, you have these thoughts that this isn't going to work or it's just going to lead to some other terrible outcome. Just notice that. But, but try it, practice it and report back. Let me know how it goes. The third piece is this whole idea that we are trying to give people skills to manage distress, as we've been talking about, but also skills to social solve problems. So if you're in this horrible relationship that you feel like you can't get out of, how do you use the distress tolerance skills in moments when you need them to help you cope with a really difficult moment, but at the same Time. How are we going to either change this relationship or get you out of this relationship in a way that's more sustainable and also will lead to overall greater peace and happiness and less negativity?

[Marielle Segarra]

Yeah. These skills are not meant to solve your problems.

[Sherene Rizvi]

Exactly.

[Marielle Segarra]

Sherene, thank you so much for this.

[Sherene Rizvi]

Thank you so much for having me.

[Marielle Segarra]

All right, time for a recap. Let's go through the skills we learned. Takeaway 1 Tip skills. These are helpful in moments when you're so distressed that you can't think straight. T stands for temperature. Specifically, dunk your face in a bowl of cold water with ice to trigger your mammalian dive reflex, which will bring down your heart rate and get you breathing slower. I stands for intense exercise. Do some jumping jacks. Run up the stairs. P stands for paced breathing. Make sure your exhale is longer than your inhale. And P also stands for paired muscle relaxation. Squeeze a muscle, then relax it while saying a word like relax. You can do that in a sequence from head to toe. Takeaway 2. We have the improve skills. These are designed to make difficult moments better in some small way. I stands for imagery. Think of a scene that calms you down. M stands for meaning. Not everything happens for a reason, but this happened and it does have meaning in my life. P stands for prayer. Go inward and connect with the divine. And if you don't believe in God, try praying to your wisest self. R is for relaxation. Do something that you know reliably relaxes you. Drink some tea. Watch your favorite TV show from the 90s. Pet your dog. O is one thing in the moment. Focus completely on one thing that you're doing right now. V is vacation. Give yourself a 10 or 15 minute break from everything. No checking messages, no working, just vacationing. An E is for encouragement. Remind yourself you got this and mean it, because you do. Lastly, takeaway 3. Try the skill of willingness, which is useful when you're dealing with a longer term situation that's causing you distress and you find yourself denying reality, trying to control everything, or focusing on what should have happened instead. Yeah, you're right. They shouldn't have done that and this shouldn't have happened to you. But it did. Accepting that can be a helpful distress tolerance tool. One way to indicate willingness to your brain is to adopt a willing posture. For instance, sit with your hands in your lap, turned up toward the sky. It's a simple postural shift. Now, I want to be really clear. These tools are not meant to solve your problems. They're options for how to get through difficult moments. We can't always change the situations or conditions causing us pain, but even when we can, we still need tools to take care of our bodies and help us keep our heads on straight while we problem solve and change the world. Alright, that's our show. Before we go, we'd love your help. Would you please rate and review Life Kit in your podcast app? Tell us a favorite tip you've learned or which episodes you like the most. This episode of Life Kit was produced by Sylvie Douglas and Claire Marie Schneider. Our digital editor is Malika Garib and our visuals editor is CJ Ricolon. Meghan Cain is our senior supervising Editor and Lauren Gonzalez is our Executive Producer. Our production team also includes Andy Tagle and Margaret Serino. Engineering support comes from Jimmy Keeley. Fact Checking by Tyler Jones I'm Mariel Segarra. Thanks for listening.

[Sherene Rizvi]

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