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Gabby Dunn
The following podcast is a Dear Media production and welcome back to another episode of Long Winded. I don't have a crack today. You're gonna hate this. I have a Dunkin refresher. That's good. That's really good. I just went to go put on my shoes and Nardo took the opportunity to chew on the back of my tabby. Margiela tabby for an appetizer. So I have to take it right to the repair man asap. Oh my God. Luckily it's in the back. But like, what's his deal? He hasn't done this since he was literally a baby. I had to start him on steroids again because he had a flare up. He's doing fine. His coat is the most beautiful color it's ever been. It's looking more and more like Munchausen's every day. Except he did have a flare up of his probably non Munchausen's autoimmune, so I had to give him some steroids. It's making him incredibly anxious. I will be sorry to ask any advice because I know it's going to come flooding in and you're going to tell me all of these behavioral things I can implement. But I beg of you, if you know anything to help with separation anxiety, that's easy to comply with. Compliance is key. It. It doesn't matter if you cannot comply, so keep that in mind. Okay, so I'll start with another gripe of mine, the tooth gem. If you're so proud of your tooth gem, why don't you put them on the two front teeth? Why are they hiding in the back in the incisor? If you're so proud of your tooth gem, put them where we can see them. I want Bugs Bunny style. Let's draw attention to the two big ones right here. Symmetrical, dot, dot, gem, gem. What are you putting them in the way back for? Just in case you get a glimpse of something quirky. Don't take a risk on chance. Give us a 100% percent that we will see them front and center on your teeth. Are we cosplaying? Having braces? You didn't want them back then. You were afraid of them back then, but now you want them now. They're going to make you cool as an adult who has to grocery shop and fill your gas tank and maybe pay taxes. I'm not the irs. I'm not so curious. You do what you need to do that it's none of my business, but at as an adult. As an adult with your tooth Gems. You make the decision whether or not to pay your taxes with your wannabe braces that you wanted so bad. You wanted the dentist. You wanted the orthodontist to so badly remove them when you were around 13, 14, you couldn't do it again. Another back. Make up your mind. Which one is it? Tell me. And if you want to cosplay, that's fine. Move them to the front. Get a little design. Let me see that sparkly smile. They're taking trident level ding. To a new gradient. We're not talking just a white smile. We actually need a sparkle on the sparkly smile. Well, we have a lot in the news this week. A really crazy amount. Those Idaho murders. Terrible, depraved, disgusting. Evil. Actual psychopathic, sociopathic. Oh, one time. What did I. I googled the word. What did I Google? Okay, I'm taking a detour. I won't. I'll save it. I'll save it for another day. I got to get it out. You guys get it. This. This guy is so fucked up. He's. He's actually the devil. He's not even like just a criminal anyways. He's the one that went into those college kids house. House and killed four of them while they were sleeping, stabbed them. And this guy Brian, I don't know what the fuck his last name is. Kolderberger was studying criminology at the time with. He was during the semester of forensics, I'm pretty sure. Like he knew what the fuck he was doing. Like he was studying criminology to pull off and enact this real life murder. It's so sick and twisted. I don't know what kind of depravity could lead you to this. There's really. Anyways, so it's like he pled guilty to try and get off on the death penalty. And then thinking of the death penalty without any context. You hear these, these horror stories of people on death row about to get the death penalty, but they've been wrongly convicted. So we believe. And I'm sure, like, that's a new idea around here and the criminal justice system, we're letting off P. Diddy pd. P. P. Diddy is walking free. But there's other people wrongly convicted on death row anyway, so you're like, yeah, just as a person, as a mere mortal, I don't know if it's totally fair to. To be able to have to predict, affect the fate of somebody else in a life or death kind of way. What am I, Jesus Christ? What am I, the Virgin Mary? I Don't know if she had any power, but she's definitely a main character in the Bible, in the folklore. She made it all the way from BC into now. We know who she is. So she had to have some kind of power. What am I? What am I? God? To determine the fate of somebody else's life? Yeah, I think so. I think so. In the case of Brian Koldberger, because he pled guilty to get. To get away. Oh, here comes a helicopter. He pled guilty to try and get off on the death penalty. He did it. He doesn't want the death penalty. So just because you admit the crime, which, mind you, there was very specific DNA evidence, he was not getting off anyway way. There was no fight to fight. He had no defense. He went in there right away, pled guilty. Please don't kill me because of it. Why? Just because it was your idea this time to plead guilty and to admit you did it doesn't mean you should get a lesser sentence. Thank you for making my job easier. Now definitely you're getting the death penalty. Cuz I know it was you. There's no. There's no. Beyond a reasonable doubt because he played God in this instance where he chose to brutally stab four kids to like, can you even. Can this even exist in the world? And then those families will never know why. I feel like our first question is always like, you know, you Google like, what was the motive? No motive. He's just sick and fucking twisted. 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But it's like it's just not going to happen for you, bro. You just like, you're not identifiable. You don't have the face, you don't have the star quality. Every time his name even comes up, I have to do the process of elimination on which one is he? Because I can't automatically do face to name recognition. Like, okay, Jeff Bezos. So it's not Elon Musk. Obviously we know his crazy ass. Okay, it's not Zuckerberg. That's Facebook. He has the curly hair. And where's that new chain? Okay, it's not Steve Jobs. He's dead. And then where's the turtleneck? Oh, okay, so it must be this faceless guy who does Amazon, which we know, we all know how that's going now. You see them in their own cars. They don't even drive Amazon marked trucks. That's how we're getting our deliveries at 4am oh, and so here comes this bald headed teed up. He's on way too much testosterone. Unrecognizable man. Tiny man. The last time we saw someone like him is when Joe Rogan popped up. Well, there's only room for one tiny bald head teed out and he's already dominating the YouTube space. You will never be Joe Rogan, no matter how fat your neck gets. And I've told you once, and I'll tell you again, the protein is bad for your kidneys. Your creatinine is rising. You're due for dialysis tomorrow. It's not good for you. Lay off. This isn't the way you were supposed to look. But he really tried to make it a thing, this wedding, broad daylight. Mind you, who's getting married in broad daylight besides me and Robbie. But that was the only time slot left at the courthouse. And it was only her and I. We didn't have our only five celebrity. Not even friends. They were acquaintances. It's like I wish the guest list would have been a little more diverse. I wish there would have been like a guest. Like someone who was really shocking. Like, I can't believe they went like a Meghan Markle. I just want her to out herself already. I want her true colors to shine through. Please. Where was she? We knew Oprah was going to be there. But it's like you're telling me Bezos and see Lauren Sanchez. You're telling me your friends. You've shared quality time with your good friend. You've had a Kiki. You've had a kickback over maybe a nice French wine with Brook Snader. This is your close friend. This is who's at your wedding. Also watching all of the paparazzi pics of. Of the guest list in their designer dresses and sunglasses. Completely ruining the outfits going in and out and in and out and in and out of this gondola waiting for a banana peel from Mario Kart. It just. It's giving loser. It's giving big L. So you have no friends. Just say you have no friends. And this and this wedding that you wanted to make Frontline News was a total flop. A big flippity flop. You wanted it to be like the blue cruise space launch, but you left out a big part. Space and Katy Perry. Who's going to be the mess? Who's going to stir up the idiocy of interviews with Good Morning America? Why wasn't Katy Perry there? She's going through a lot, I feel. And practicing those robotic dance moves. It just. It just wasn't it. He'll never be the face. He'll never be. He'll never. He'll never have a story. Elon Musk is a story. There's whether it's not in. Not in a good way. But he's interesting. He's fascinating. What is going on in his toddler like brain that makes him want to. I wish there was called something because it has to be a personality thing. When you like just want to sew your oats so your genes are in. Everything that walks the earth is. Maybe it's the. It's creating one race. But I feel like it goes further than that when it has to be your seed. And I. I bet he's the only one just who has the balls and the money to express it. I'll go out in a limb and say all men feel like this. They think it's their duty that they themselves will populate the earth as some kind of a king. It's like some kind of power. Whatever. 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So there's something else I've been dying to talk about. In that is Sabrina Carpenter's album cover. I know it's tired. It's been beat to death on TikTok. But I got to say my piece can't. I have an opinion? It's my turn to talk. And we cannot be looking to people like Sabrina Carpenter and Sydney Sweeney for to lead the way for feminism. Sabrina Carpenter, Sydney Sweeney are not the feminist icons of our generation. That is for Julia Fox. She practiced what she preaches. She dresses for the female gaze. Everything she does is for the girlies, period. Dot. There's just no other way of explaining it. And it seems like she never has a boyfriend or a girlfriend either. She keeps it really private or yeah, maybe she's just not doing it. She practices. She lives a life without men. She also frequently talks about it, but. And she just is it. They are no Julia Fox. Sabrina Carpenter is not setting back women hundreds of thousands of years like everybody is claiming she is. She's just like, not. She's immobile. She's not taking us a step back. She's not taking us. She's not taking us backwards. Because she's pretty much just like not even there in the feminist category. She's a businesswoman. She wants to make money. And that's just. That's just what it is. Now, we've heard so many definitions of satire. If it was truly satire, it would be X, Y and Z. Now all the purists are crying feminism. This is akin to being a drag wife. Please, please at least come up with an argument that makes sense. This is not like glamorizing the drag wife life. If you are a drag wife, you wouldn't even. Your husband would not even let you leave the house. And especially not partake in a photo Shoot. Such as this, where Sabrina Carpenter is pictured on her knees with a faceless man pulling her hair. At least he's faceless. At least he knows what it's like to be a woman for once. Invisible. If this was. If this was like the same thing has being a trad wife, they don't have voices. They wouldn't be able to sing. Their larynx doesn't work under the man's thumb. She cannot. She can't have a credit card, and she cannot talk back. The husband is fully Dr. Evil and she's. Scotty. Scotty, no. She tries to say something. Scotty, no. She tries. Oh, but the lasagna noodles, they're not done yet. Scotty, no. I said no. This is what's going on. This is not Sabrina Carpenter. She's, you know, she's like. She's in the milieu. She's in the environment that, like, men are stupid, men are dumb. He's a man child. She's over it, but she's also part of the problem. So she's, like, kind of in on it. It's like where culture is, you know, she's tapped in. She's doing it. It's just not that deep. And by the way, she never claimed it was satire. I don't think it's satire at all. I think sex sells, baby. Sex, drugs and rock and roll. Please, please. Whatever she does, that's what's going on. It's a marketing tactic. You think she's making. First of all. First of all, let's just be grateful she got out of those opaque tights. Don't get me started. I need to give it up. I cannot. Let's be gr. She got out of that sparkly toddler onesie. Let's just celebrate our little wins. She was at a fashion show recently. I think it was Dior, where she just, like, looked normal. She wasn't, like, putting on a 1950s. But I can't with the pin up. That's what she was doing. It's, like, also old and tired, and I actually don't think. I think I can't do the pin up. This could be personal, but I feel like it's not sexy and it's contrived. And it really was a representation of its time where women were still fully, absolutely, definitely, totally controlled by men. Like, that image to me was made by a man. The big busty breast bras. Not in, like, a fashion Madonna way, but, like. And this is what a man wants to look that way. Diaper. It's probably like infantilizing in their pedophilia, diaper looking, high waisted underwear. It's just, it doesn't feel like it's for me. Okay? I like them. I like my things slinky. I like you to know where things are and where they aren't. Whatever that means. But. But that's what she was doing. So thank God she's not doing that anymore. She's going into a different direction again. None of her choices. This all her team and it's working. She's upon. She's there to make money and they're telling her what to wear, what to do, what to say. And look at her audience based on where the money's at. She's the one who even said she was like, oh well, you guys went crazy for those Juno positions. When she would tap dance her way. She would sparkly tap dance her way into a 69 in her concert while singing the Juno song and be like, have you ever tried this one? And like, and like hump the floor. Everyone went wild on Tick Tock. It was a Tick Tock trend, whatever. But now you can't handle this album cover when she's on her knees because she's dressed differently because it's not packaged in the way that you want. What's the difference? Her brand has always been short and horny. She's still doing that. And now you're mad. Anyways, maybe it's the. It's the hypocrisy, okay? But I don't think, I don't think I. Now all the feminists are like so left there, right? The feminists now people who literally, I don't think at all give a about about feminism all have a take. It's like, yeah, maybe it's not. I don't even know. Sexually liberated. Are we sexually liberated if we're still having sex with men? I don't know. That's my question. Which obviously that's the light. That's the pretentious lesbian in me talking. You can do whatever you want with your body, but whose idea is that? Yours or the man's? And then we'll gaslight ourselves. I'm sure it can be. Sure it's your idea. Sure, that's fine. For the sake of getting past this five minutes. It's your idea. So anyways, so let's. So it's her idea to get on her knees. So even if it's not we're doing it. It's like, okay, so what? So it's a little performative. He talked her into it. There's like the dom submissive. I'm. Anyways, she was in the 1950s in her sparkly tap dances and now the album cover is like, now there is reproductive rights and sex education. At least she can go get an STD test. This is a form of sexual freedom. Now she can protect herself and at least treat herself from that dirty dick that she doesn't know if she, if it's her idea or if it's his idea on which to engage yet. So at least there's that. So I think, yeah, it's at the beginnings of sexual liberation anyways. Who gives a fudge? We are not looking to her to be our, our pinnacle of feminism, nor Sydney Sweeney in her bath water layoff. She was at Jeff Bezos wedding. We know what she's doing. She wants to make her buck. She wants to make all the bucks. She wants that billion dollar bath water, which maybe it could happen for her. I'm not sure. It seems like it could. People are like, this is sex work. Are you deranged? Are you actually ok, of all, are we, Are we still talking about sex work like that? And third of all, it's her. It's a joke. It's not actually her bath. I mean, the whole thing isn't a joke, but it's like, oh, come on, you know what's, what's going on. She's exploiting your uncles, your perverted uncles and fathers buying her bathwater. There was a demand, apparently. It was like another influencer's idea first. It's like they're setting women back. They were never going to set us forward. We have to, we have to pick up the slack. And that's okay. That's what we're. We stay in our lane and they stay in theirs. We know what's going on, we know what's expected. But don't, but don't do the horseshoe, whatever that means. You have an idea over on one side of the horseshoe. That's basically so. Oh my God, I'm such a feminist. And that means that you can't do anything regarding your sexuality, that you have to stay inside and not show any part of your tits or be on your knees in the name of selling an album. Okay? Then it does the horseshoe and then you're basically on the same playing field. Okay, you guys get it? So just, just, just let him be. And that's on that. I think that's on that. I gotta give her a stir. It's a Duncan refresher. Ah, yes. Something has escaped me a bit. We know Sydney Sweeney. We know she's a pick me. There's no, there's really no other point. There's no defending that. We know she knows. Obviously she's capitalizing on it. One sure sign. One evidence A is she has a Bronco. I think Broncos are pick me. Nothing personal. Robbie loves a Bronco. A Bronco. And I think she's a pick me. My wife. What can I say? They have a terrible crash rating. So you're putting your safety in danger by buying one? By stepping foot in a vehicle that goes out of its way to not look like a car. It's giving cybertruck in a different way. It's giving Tesla. It's. It's all the same. It's taking up the road. It draws attention. This is the broncos. Sydney Sweeney outwardly works on her Bronco. She wants to be noticed and that's fine. And that's totally okay. The Bronco, the Bronco, the Tesla, the cybertruck alike are no way. Mo Robbie and I were at dinner and all of a sudden there's a distraction. The whole side of the street that was eating outside this restaurant stopped what we were doing to pay attention to the show, which was the Waymo doing a six point. It turned onto a street where the ambulance was and it couldn't get past something it needs to learn how to do. And it actually did a pretty good job. It wasn't. They didn't. They could have done it a little narrower the software, but it really did a great job. We all clapped for it. Like, wait a second, am I riding for Waymo? Wait a second, am I Waymo's biggest fan? Then I was like, what car is the Waymo? And it's the Jaguar. Kind of a low key flex because it's not plastered all over the place. First of all, wasn't Tesla supposed to be the Waymo? Wasn't Tesla supposed to be this the first self driving car but midway it just dropped the ball and forgot about it and now it's been outed that it's plastic, it's good for nothing and nobody likes them and nobody likes its owner. So then it's just, we're altering its back, but it just gave up halfway. You can't even finish the finish line. So Waymo and Jaguar like yeah, I've been kind of like working, not in secret, just like low and slow to do the first self driving car. And apparently this is the T on Tesla. Self driving cars. They're so cheap. They don't want to pay for the good software that Waymo has. Waymo has lasers and cameras and Tesla doesn't want to pay for the lasers. They're like, oh, these cameras will be fine. It'll be just good enough. 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Gabby Dunn
Okay, well, so besides all of that, let's get into the Diddy. I feel like nobody's really talking about it. Like there's not enough outrage for me that mainstream media is not covering it at all. My tick tock is still all Love Island. What a dark, toxic place that turned into really fast. Not even bringing joy. But I would like to have any Love island cast of Season 7 here to join me on Long Winded. This is, this is your bid. But it really took a turn. I don't know, like the online toxicity, the bullying, like people calling cps. It's like, ugh, this is. It's really bad. I don't know what happened or what the deal is. Toxicity of online, I guess. But anyways, so nobody's talking about Diddy because they're all so far up Love Island. Love Island's ass that you don't know that this when, when we. When. Remember. Remember where you were. I was maybe in the car when. When Cassie came out with the charges against Diddy. We saw the video. He had the, the. He had the chance to flee the country. Like remember he put out that apology video on his Instagram. That was a half assed apology. He wasn't even sorry. He could have left the country but he didn't think that he would get in trouble. He didn't think he would get charged. This is the kind of person he is. He's a full blown narcissist. DSM 4. And he did it again and he got off again. And he's Right. He's not wrong, but it's like he's not learning a lesson from this. People are like, well, it's not nothing that he was charged with the two lesser accounts of the five. Yeah, it is nothing. He's getting away with everything. You think he's going to learn, it's going to be more fuel to the fire. He's going to have more victims. Cassie and Jane Doe are going to be afraid for their lives. It's, like, overwhelming if you don't know what the fuck is going on. Diddy was acquitted of three of the five charges. The three major big ones, sex trafficking of Jane Doe and Cassie and racketeering, conspiracy. This would have put him in jail for life. He was only charged with the lesser counts of, like, traveling prostitutions, like, over state lines, which is giving sex trafficking. Like, to say that Cassie and Jane Doe were not coerced is. It's. It's not even just like, okay, you're dumb. It's beyond that. We don't believe women at all. They. They're like, oh, yeah. With reasonable doubt. They were totally consenting to this. After seeing the video of Diddy beating the out of a woman, a young woman, and dragging her by the hair back to the room. Definitely not coerced at all. Sure, she wanted to be there. Haven't we all lied to our boyfriend because we didn't want to hurt his feelings because we don't know what they're gonna do or how they're gonna act? You're like, oh, yeah, baby, I love your beef stew. That's all I want for dinner tonight. Please don't kill me. We've all sent text messages like that. Not the kill me part. But you're afraid he's gonna. He's gonna be mad at you, and who knows what he's gonna do to you when he already punched the wall for less than that. But you get in this cycle of abuse, this is that times a thousand, because it's probably still, like, their lifestyle that they've gotten used to. They've probably just been gaslit and manipulated enough. In them, there's. There's a power differential. He's, like, the most powerful man in the music industry. Cassie's in music. This is supposed to be her career. You're saying she was not coerced? Are you. Are you deranged? Are you okay? The jurors were eight men, four women. So we just, like. We just still don't believe women. It's. It's really devastating. Like, you give you Give a mouse a cookie and they're gonna ask for some milk. You offer a cookie and then you deserve to get beat in the hallway. You're not allowed to change your mind. It's like they don't think that women, that anyone can say yes and then say no. So Cassie and Jane Doe are now afraid for their lives again because Diddy is basically walking free. They're like, no, he's not walking free. Still getting charged over nothing. I mean, maybe they say he'll do like 10 years. It depends on the judge's sentencing, on, like if he wants to make like an example out of him or whatever. I guess it's a new judge, so a lot is riding on it, on how fair of a judge he'll be. So I don't think he can take any of his criminal history into account, which he doesn't have much because he's been acquitted of everything. He maybe killed his ex wife. He shot someone else in the face in a nightclub. He lit someone's car on fire, which is arson, a predicate act for racketeering, conspiracy, which he was also let off on, even though he was guilty of all of the predicate acts. I mean, there's just no saying. There's just no saying actually what happens. Because we know that Diddy likes to pay people off, or he has numerous times in the past, eg, the hotel video, $50,000 and that resurfaced. Think about all the other videos from hotel's surveillance that were actually destroyed because he paid them off. Did he pay off the jury? I don't know. I don't know. But something seems very up and you just don't know. Like with him, I mean, it's all praise God. This is like what God wants, you know, like somebody could make a mistake like this and that. It's like this is beyond that. Women still just like, don't. Don't have a voice. They. They have to be afraid for their lives now because we don't know what he's capable of. We do know what he's capable of, and he doesn't do his own. He's hiring people to kill other people. Like we know that. So hopefully there's some kind of a witness protection program or something that's going to keep these women safe. Like, it's terrible. Also, we thought. I. Originally we were like, no way. We thought it was going to be a huge takedown, like Epstein level. We thought all of these celebrities were going to be involved, which there's no doubt that they still Are. But I'm sure there's just like, blackmail floating around that they're afraid to say anything because maybe their careers are still at stake with him. He knows. I. I don't know. But it's like, there's more celebrity in this dumbass. Blake Lively v. Justin Baldoni that's somehow still going on. Nobody cares. Like, celebrities can be subpoenaed for that, but not for this Diddy trial. I don't know. People are like, the prosecution was overconfident. Like, I don't know how all of that works. Also, also put me in coach. So, you know, the statute of limitations for the domestic violence for the video, it expired within a year, which is batshit fucking crazy. That's not just domestic violence. I'm sorry. That is attempted murder. He, as a man, is kicking a woman who's down on the ground, defenseless, in her vital organs. Her liver can bleed out, her lungs, she can't breathe. I mean, it's all like, right here. He was kicking her abdomen to kill her. He was not going to stop. He was throwing huge objects, like, I think a huge vase at her. Like, how can you say this was not to kill her? This is definitely a crime of passion. How it happens. Attempted murder has no statute of limitations. Like, how I feel like that was the first thing that was so obvious to me. Maybe like, they thought, you know, they'd be dismissed immediately, but that makes the most sense to me. But again, like, it's like we just probably would have made excuses for him. Not we, but everybody else. I don't know. I think we all just thought this was a for sure thing. And now that it's not, it's really terrifying. Oh, God. Somebody was like, stop talking about Love Island. Why don't you talk about the. The bbb? I'm like, what about a bbl? Don't tell me what I want to talk about. Love island is equal. It's not equally as important, but it's what's fresh on my mind. I also need to zone out. But then that's getting toxic, like I said. So what is it? What? How do we. How do we relax these days? How do we consume something that's light and easy? But anyways, anyways, the bbb, the bbl. Awful. Now people who need assistance are not going to get it even more. We do not care about old people in our country, and they're the ones we're all going to get there. Like last night when I had my earplugs in because I have to Sleep with earplugs. I have really bad tinnitus. Tinnitus, whatever. The tinnitus. If you nasty all the time, which somebody had the audacity to ruin me and my life and say that it's like a direct link to dementia. And I'm like, I need to put. I need to get a POA right now and put in my will, like, I cannot do this dementia thing and like, Robbie will have to figure out a way to like, put me down. So I need to go to the doctor and fix it. But then I'm like all worried about being old. We're all going to get old and there's going to be no resources. We feel invincible, but it's just going to be like that. You're going to be ugly. There's going to be no money for you and nobody's going to care about you. This is what the BBB is doing. And then it acts like it's all big and cares about the working class with like, oh, we're not taxing tips, obviously. Obviously the tip. The tips were never taxed. I tip solely via Venmo in, in cash. I support, I actually support the working class and service providers. I'm not putting that on for somebody else to claim and to have to get taxed on. No, this isn't your idea. You're not doing anything for us. And then alligator Alcatraz. It's like, this is so fucked up. I mean, the most inhumane shit for Trump even to be like joking about escaping from alligators. He's like, yeah, you have to run like this and like go zigzag. Like, this is so sick and twisted. They built this in eight days. It was like $400 million money they could have spent in actually helping others or somehow finding like a due process way, like finding people who are going to be deported. More time. Everyone deserves due process. Or, or, you know, like, I don't know. There's so much other stuff you can do with that money in regards of helping people that you say you care about. But instead you're building a literal, like, people are like, this is a concentration camp. I did see a tick tock that there's like incinerators. But then I tried to fact check and there's no facts. But it's like, but it's like sick that you kind of see that and you're like, what the fuck? Like, I don't know if this is actually true. Like you're even questioning it. And everyone's like, yeah, building that in the middle of hurricane season where they know we're going to have a humanitarian crisis. Mind you, all the people that are like, move. Like the labor workers moving in supplies, the security guards, like they're putting everyone at risk to literally die in a flood in this hurricane. You can't get in resources. And they already started filling it. I saw and like I, I listened to one thing that was like, oh, this is supposed to be a deterrent from people. They just want, you know, immigrants to self deport so they don't have to go here. But then they're like with the court dates and arresting people at their court dates and making it. It impossible to do it even the right way. Like they're doing everything they can to make sure they're sent to a detention center. It's so sick. It's so sick. Even the name is like. It's just. It's disgusting. It's inhumane. It's really awful. Oh my God. Okay, well. Okay, well, that's it, you guys. So until next time, I'm long winded.
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Dominique Saksa
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