When people say they want to know you, they often mean they want to know the version of you that they are most comfortable with.

In this episode, Stacey explores the gap between authenticity and comfort. What we reveal, what we hold back, and why intimacy often requires more friction than we're willing to tolerate.

Because somewhere along the way, we learned that showing up fully was a risk not worth taking.

Mentioned in this episode:

Ryan Dunlap - Former hostage negotiator and founder of Conflictish. Check him out on Instagram or YouTube
Book: "How to Untie a Balloon" by Ryan Dunlap

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