Why isn't setting sexual intentions a thing?

You set goals for your career, health, finances, relationships. But your sex life? That's supposed to just... happen naturally?

That's bullshit. Everything that matters requires intention. That includes your sex life.

In this episode, Stacey walks you through how to set sexual intentions that actually mean something —not vague wishes, but real, specific intentions you can act on.

In this episode:

Why setting sexual intentions is a great idea
Questions you should ask yourself
Knowing what you control vs. what needs partner buy-in
Pitfalls and ways you could f*ck it up

Download the worksheet.

Willing to share? Pop over to Substack. And share one of your intentions. Because when you say it out loud, even to strangers on the internet, it becomes more real.

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