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Marriage Unhindered
Hosted by Relevant Radio · EN
Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air Monday through Friday at 5PM CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.
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Helping Women Find Freedom
2w ago00:49:26Tap to summarizeRachael Killackey of Magdala Ministries joins Doug to discuss the often-overlooked issue of pornography addiction among women. Together, they explore why women struggle with pornography, the underlying factors that can contribute to addiction, and the hope available for healing. They also discuss the role of forgiveness in the recovery process and offer practical guidance for husbands who want to support their wives with compassion and encouragement as they work toward freedom. Listener questions and comments: Veronica - I first viewed pornography when I was 7 because I found my dad’s magazines. MTV made it worse. It really hurt my marriage when my husband and I watched it together. (19:45) Mary - I am a recovering porn addict, and it is difficult because it is everywhere. I had to delete all my social media accounts. (24:29) Keri - My daughter is online making money from porn. She wants to stop, but she likes the money. She cannot love a man, and it is affecting the entire family. How can I help her? (29:15) Margaret – I’m almost 70 years old. My dad worked in the porn industry, and all of us children were affected by this. None of us had a healthy marriage. It’s difficult to fight for virtue, but it’s so worth it to help your own children. (46:00) Resources: Magdala Ministries https://www.magdalaministries.org/ Men and Pornography Addiction https://relevantradio.com/2026/04/men-and-pornography-addiction/
Transcribe →Should you change your name after getting a divorce?
2w ago00:48:46Tap to summarizeShould you change your name after a divorce? What do you do when your wife has a chronic, incurable illness, and most of the responsibilities at home fall on you and your children? How do you cope when your wife feels guilty and worries about the burden placed on you? Do struggles with pornography make it difficult to give full consent to marriage? Doug goes to the mailbag, answering these questions and more. Listener questions and comments: Pete - My friend is so hurt from the separation that he is withdrawing from everything in his life. What do we do? (9:34) Ronda - Regarding a name change after a divorce, you should do what makes you feel more comfortable. (13:44) Rose - I kept my name after the divorce because I wanted to have the same name as my kids. (17:02) Jeff - My wife had an ex-husband and had kids with me, and now they have the old husband’s name. It’s a mess. (20:58) Mary - I kept mine because I am a stander and we are still married in the eyes of God. (23:36) Sarina - My mom changed her name, and that’s how I met my husband. (36:19) Mary - It’s important to realize that marriage is sacrificial and it doesn’t always lead to happiness (38:03) Angelica - I was married for 16 years, and I took my name back because my in-laws didn’t like me. I didn’t think it was fair, and I explained it to my son. (40:02) Resources: https://www.federalregister.gov/documents/2026/05/13/2026-09479/excepted-fertility-benefits?mc_cid=583286c936#open-comment It’s Your Turn Now https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=urgp4IiOXDk Reclaimed: Win the War of Freedom, Self-Mastery, and Holy Purity https://scepterpublishers.org/products/reclaimed-win-the-war-of-freedom-self-mastery-and-holy-purity?srsltid=AfmBOorMA4RbYh_WzayDVdBX3vpx7hGA7-OpnEEYKLuUlxpeZ4EPp1lp&variant=46653355524273
Transcribe →Faith Begins at Home
2w ago00:50:18Tap to summarizeFr. Carter Griffin joins Doug to discuss his book Forming Families, Forming Saints. Together, they explore how human and spiritual formation help cultivate virtue and shape families into communities of faith, fostering the growth of future saints. Listener questions and comments: Len - I just bought the book! Lots of wisdom. I will order 8 more! (37:39) Resources: Forming Families, Forming Saints https://stpaulcenter.com/store/forming-families-forming-saints
Transcribe →Teaching Modesty with Wisdom
2w ago00:50:30Tap to summarizeShould your daughter be allowed to wear a bikini? Is it possible to be too busy to work on your marriage? Doug answers these questions and more. Listener questions and comments: Renee - I grew up in a strict dressing household, especially swimwear. It's a parent's responsibility to teach modesty in girls. (14:30) Resources: Men, Women and the Mystery of Love: Practical Insights from John Paul II's Love and Responsibility https://www.amazon.com/Men-Women-Mystery-Love-Responsibility/dp/0867168404 Dressing with Dignity https://tanbooks.com/products/books/dressing-with-dignity/?srsltid=AfmBOoocXLgN919qBGeP-WJ3T95Zc36pwitsKTWiVOuJ_tMFFfvRwPuI Love is a Radiant Light: The Life & Words of Saint Charbel https://www.amazon.com/Love-Radiant-Light-Words-Charbel/dp/1621384322
Transcribe →Intimacy Through Different Lenses
3w ago00:50:26Tap to summarizeDoug explores two very different perspectives on marital intimacy. On one side is a young woman who is terrified of consummating her marriage. On the other is a couple who is cohabitating because they fear divorce. Listener questions and comments: Connie - I have been married for 30 years and debate whether divorce is an option. We have three adult kids and my husband is an alcoholic. (10:09) Anne - Commenting on the 30-year marriage. My marriage is similar because my husband was an alcoholic. It's been prayer and trusting God that has helped. I prayed for many years. (23:13) Marina - My 24-year-old son is experiencing anxiety. He's very fragile right now. How can I help him? (26:49) Jessica - Does the Church intend to marry people who want a Josephite marriage? (38:24) Resources: Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/
Transcribe →Finding Love After Loss
3w ago00:50:29Tap to summarizeDoug unpacks the challenges of getting married after the death of your spouse and what to do when it feels like everything is going wrong. Listener questions and comments: Karen - My spouse has drug and alcohol problems and is not able to get help for himself. I'm exhausted from this. (5:30) Resources: Searching for and Maintaining Peace https://bit.ly/4wkqb7F Trustful Surrender to Divine Providence https://bit.ly/3R7CdC3
Transcribe →Healing Hearts & Building Better Men
3w ago00:50:31Tap to summarizeDoug shares practical guidance on how individuals and couples can begin the difficult process of recovering from an affair, rebuilding trust, navigating the emotional challenges, and working toward healing and restoring their relationship. Doug also shares ten classic novels boys should read and unpacks dating advice for men. Listener questions and comments: Daniel - How do you go about dating a woman in a Catholic way? (30:53) Mary - Comment for Daniel: Treat a woman as a friend. Sometimes it’s hard to not go into everything as a potential date. (37:14) Charlie - Sherlock Holmes, LOTR and Hardy Boys are great books. (38:13) Joseph - You do such a great job with the callers. Keep up the good work! (40:40) Andrew - I decided to stop looking for a girlfriend in college because of my studies but then a week later I met my wife. Don’t give up! (43:22) Resources: Searching for and Maintaining Peace https://bit.ly/4wkqb7F Trustful Surrender to Divine Providence https://bit.ly/3R7CdC3
Transcribe →Intermittent Explosive Disorder
3w ago00:50:22Tap to summarizeAre you married to someone with an explosive temper? If so, how do you deal with it? Today, Doug unpacks what it’s like to live with someone diagnosed with Intermittent Explosive Disorder. Listener questions and comments: Joe - My wife has a bad temper. Do you have any helpful suggestions? (20:44) Tilly - I have a 53-year-old nephew who lives at home and he has anger management issues. (48:15)
Transcribe →What Happily Married Men Do Well
3w ago00:50:30Tap to summarizeDoug shares 6 things that happily married men do well. He also gives dating advice and unpacks the four types of love. Listener questions and comments: Steve - My wife doesn’t feel an emotional connection. What should I do? (30:50) Mary - Start by complimenting your spouse and kiss each other for 10 seconds and dance in front of your family. (47:00) Resources: 6 things happily married men do well You listen to her You express appreciation often You prioritize quality time with her He champions her dreams and supports her growth He takes responsibility and repairs the damage early He embraces evolution and adapts together Ways to show you are listening Repeat the heart of what she says Ask questions with genuine curiosity You do not immediately defend yourself Your body language says you are present You respond to the emotion, not just the facts You remember what matters later
Transcribe →Protecting Relationships from AI
4w ago00:50:28Tap to summarizeDoug explores modern relationships from every angle—from the dangers of creating an AI soulmate to offering practical dating advice for those seeking a real human connection. PLUS: The Friday rant. Listener questions and comments: Tracey - Monica said that people with personality disorders have trouble with relationships. Could you expand on that a little? It speaks to our daughter and we want to know how to approach her. (23:35) Victor - We deal with AI cases in law enforcement and lots of it leads to self-harm and even suicide. (35:51) Danielle - I have a relative who has taken a half million dollars from her husband and hid it from the IRS. He is saying he didn’t know anything about it. They want help. What should I do? (42:03)
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