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In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Pete Cohen explores the transformative concept of "Stop To Start"—how taking intentional pauses can open the door to clarity, healing, and true progress. Pete reflects on the major stop moments in his life—from the unexpected meeting of his wife during a volcanic ash cloud in Croatia to facing profound loss with the passing of his wife, parents, and other life-altering experiences. These moments, though painful, became turning points that reshaped his life. You'll hear about: Why we need to pause before we progress The dangers of being busy just to be busy Pete's decision to step away from social media—and the liberation it brought The power of auditing your life across health, relationships, purpose, and service Reconnecting with the past to realign with what truly matters today A special reflection on legacy, presence, and the question: What are you really here for? Plus, an introduction to Pete's secret wellness weapon—reishi mushroom-infused tea and coffee Key Takeaway: "If you want to start something new, meaningful, or different… first, you need to stop. Stop to reflect. Stop to reconnect. Stop to make space for what really matters." Questions to Reflect On: What do you need to stop doing in order to start what truly matters? Where are you right now in your life audit—your energy, your relationships, your purpose? What legacy are you creating with how you're living today? Join the Conversation: We'd love to hear what resonated with you. Join our growing community in our WhatsApp group—a space for those committed to living more intentionally. https://chat.whatsapp.com/IGAlsmC9N47DFamONmqXWG Resources Mentioned: Learn more about Pete's recommended reishi-infused tea and coffee https://www.mi365.me/coffee Watch the short film and expert interviews on the power of Ganoderma Connect with Pete for coaching or support Rate & Review: If this episode spoke to you, please consider sharing it and leaving a review. Let's help more people learn to stop… so they can start living fully.

In this heartfelt episode of the mi365 Podcast, Pete Cohen brings together a circle of lifelong friends — Billy Schwer, Andy Selling, and Michelle Humphrey — for an open and deeply human conversation about friendship, connection, and the importance of being in each other's corner. Alongside them is Toby, Michelle's 18-year-old son, standing at the beginning of his adult journey, surrounded by people who genuinely want to see him thrive. Together, they explore how friendships evolve over time, the balance between independence and connection, and the healing power of truly being seen, heard, and supported. In This Episode 💬 The Real Meaning of Friendship: Why true friends don't just celebrate you — they call you out, lift you up, and stand beside you through it all. 🧠 The Relationship With Yourself: What it means to be your own best friend, and how self-acceptance and forgiveness shape every other relationship. 🥊 Resilience and Reinvention: Former World Champion Billy Schwer shares his journey of failure, faith, and finding purpose beyond boxing. 💚 Listening Without Fixing: From Billy's work with The Samaritans to Michelle's art therapy practice, the group unpacks the art of listening and holding space. 🪞 Honest Reflection: Pete opens up about his past — learning to show up more for the people who matter, including himself. 🧩 Generations in Conversation: Toby shares his perspective as a young adult navigating uncertainty, purpose, and belonging in the digital age. 💡 Technology and Connection: A real debate about whether phones are pulling us apart — or keeping us connected in new ways. 🕊️ The Power of Presence: From family care to lifelong bonds, the episode reminds us that sometimes friendship is simply being there. Key Quotes "The best things in life are free — and friendship is one of them." — Billy Schwer "You can't have a deep friendship without vulnerability." — Michelle Humphrey "Maybe the most important relationship you'll ever have is the one with yourself." — Pete Cohen "Companionship is underrated — just being with someone, comfortably, in silence." — Andy Selling Guests Billy Schwer – Former World Champion Boxer, Mindset Coach, and Samaritan volunteer. https://billyschwer.com/ Andy Sellins – Educator, sportsman, and lifelong friend. Michelle Humphrey – Art Psychotherapist working in the NHS and private practice. Toby – 18-year-old apprentice and aspiring MMA fighter, exploring purpose and identity. Rupert – Longtime friend and deep thinker, bringing insight from Jungian psychology. Themes We Explore Friendship and authenticity Mental health and emotional awareness Vulnerability and connection Generational wisdom Grief, growth, and transformation The art of listening The courage to show up for others Takeaway Message Friendship is life's heartbeat. It's not about how often you talk — it's about knowing someone's in your corner when it really matters. This episode is a reminder to pause, reach out, and tell the people you love that you appreciate them.

Episode Overview In this deeply personal and soul-stirring conversation, Pete Cohen sits down with Paul for a reflective exploration of The Hero's Journey — not as a myth, but as a lived experience. Together, they peel back the layers of masculinity, stillness, loss, and inner transformation. From Joseph Campbell's timeless teachings to modern myths like The Matrix, Gladiator, and Lord of the Rings, Pete and Paul uncover what it really means to answer "the call to adventure" in our own lives — the call to wake up, let go, and come home to who we truly are. They talk about men's circles, spiritual awakening, grief, and the courage to face one's truth without distraction. What emerges is a rare and honest conversation about resting in being rather than doing, about presence over performance, and about why our deepest healing often begins when we finally stop running. Key Themes The Hero's Journey and the path of inner transformation The courage to rest, pause, and simply "be" The masks men wear and why vulnerability is sacred Joseph Campbell, myth, and meaning in modern life Letting go of the "destination mentality" Grief as a doorway to awakening Relationships as mirrors for our healing Finding strength through men's circles and authentic connection Memorable Quotes "I'm just resting in being — and that's rare in this world." "The hero's journey isn't out there. It's the one within." "Stopping isn't dangerous — it's where the magic begins." "Healing isn't a quick fix. It's a deep calling to become more real." "It's not about what I do for the world. It's about what I do for myself — and the impact that has on the world." Guest Paul is a mentor, spiritual guide, and member of A Band of Brothers — a men's circle dedicated to helping men and young people face their truth, heal ancestral wounds, and live with authenticity. Contact Paul here; www.meetingsinstillness.com www.Paulhurcomb.Org About the Host Pete Cohen, known as Mr. Intention, is a mindset and performance coach, author, and global keynote speaker who helps people live intentionally and thrive beyond survival. DM Pete with your reflections or stories @PeteCohen_ Listen If You're Exploring: How to live with more intention and self-awareness What it means to heal from grief and loss The role of men's groups and vulnerability in transformation How myth and story mirror our own inner evolution Why slowing down might be the most radical act of all

Guest: Liz Baron Cohen — acupuncturist, psychotherapist (transpersonal), Five Rhythms teacher, author, plant-medicine facilitator, trauma-informed therapist… and one of the kindest humans I know. Episode theme: How Liz is meeting a stage 4 ovarian cancer diagnosis with courage, curiosity, and a mission: to build a bridge between Western oncology and complementary care—and to reclaim joy along the way. Donate here: GoFundMe — Aliza's Healing Journey Quick Take Liz spent her first year post-diagnosis pursuing non-medical routes; the tumours grew (didn't spread). She then started chemotherapy—and feels stronger on it than expected. She's fundraising to rent a home hyperbaric oxygen chamber (£1,300–£1,500/month; purchase can be £48k–£100k). Having it at home means daily use for Liz and opening her doors so local cancer patients who can't afford clinic sessions (£150 each, ~3x/week) can benefit too. Core insight: it's not "alternative versus" Western—it's both/and. Let's get the two worlds holding hands for patients. Deep work: reclaiming her name ("Elisa" = joy), learning to let love in, setting boundaries for empathy, and living for herself—beyond titles and roles. Listen Highlights (Chapters) 00:00 – Why this conversation matters; introducing Liz. 01:09 – Diagnosis (June; ~14 months in). What she tried first, and why. 03:14 – Starting chemo—and the surprise: "I actually feel really good on it." 03:45 – Why hyperbaric oxygen? Costs of clinics vs. home rental; sharing access. 05:20 – Work on pause, reality of bills, and pouring inheritance into healing. 06:26 – Liz's mum, a pioneer (70s aerobics, early whole-foods); family history. 07:27 – Chemo fears, misinformation, and nuance beyond Instagram hot takes. 08:31 – The dream: integrating complementary & Western medicine. 10:15 – BLISS in Notting Hill: a creative health centre (healing meets culture). 12:21 – Pete's story about Hannah: "Draw Your Future" & envisioning outcomes. 13:30 – Liz's north star: reclaiming joy (and what joy really is). 16:45 – Alignment: the projected self vs. the inner world. 17:52 – Radical generosity & being part of each other's stories. 20:39 – "Alternative" vs. "complementary" and why labels get in the way. 21:43 – Hitting emotional bottom; grief, daily tears, and what moved through. 23:17 – The warrior in her; Jewish ancestry and survival threads. 24:22 – From fighting to surrendering; allowing support. 24:52 – The true cost: £150k+ spent; redefining luxury (to sit, walk, eat). 27:59 – Family constellations: restoring the flow of love in systems. 29:05 – Who am I without titles? Identity after stopping work. 33:14 – "When you're ill you have one problem." Perspective reset. 34:18 – "I can see the spirit in your eyes." What that means to Liz. 35:20 – Spirit having a human experience? Indigenous circles & being heard. 38:00 – Realising spirit is there to help her, too. 39:07 – Why telling our stories matters (and stops sleepwalking). 40:12 – Sitting with the underdog; human connection as medicine. 41:49 – Trust issues, patriarchy, Western medicine—and choosing chemo. 43:26 – Chemo-sensitivity testing (~£5,000) and personalising treatment. 49:20 – "Empathy without boundaries is self-harm." 51:08 – What the cancer taught her: joy, trust, letting love in. 52:13 – How to reach Liz & how we can help (together). 📝 Note: Timestamps are approximate to guide your skim & re-listens. Key Ideas & Quotes Both/And Healing: "The only people who suffer when the two worlds split are the patients. My dream is to get them holding hands." Joy as a Practice: "My name, Elisa, means joy. I'm reclaiming my name." Receiving Love: "I knew spirit existed to help others through me. I didn't realise spirit existed to help me, too." Boundaried Empathy: "Empathy without boundaries is self-harm." Perspective: "When you're well, you've a thousand problems; when you're ill, you've one." How You Can Help Liz (and Others) Donate to the Hyperbaric Fund: Help rent a home chamber so Liz can use it daily and offer sessions to local cancer patients who can't afford clinic prices. Goal: cover a 6-month minimum rental (est. £1,300–£1,500/month). Donate here: GoFundMe — Aliza's Healing Journey Bridge-Builders Wanted: If you're an oncologist, nurse, researcher, integrative clinician, or complementary practitioner, reach out to help convene a joint event/working group for practical collaboration. Resources & Contacts Email: liztheurbandoctor@yahoo.co.uk Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aliza_bc/ GoFundMe: <a class="decorated-link" href= "https://www.gofundme...

Episode Summary In this deeply reflective episode of the Hero Podcast, Pete Cohen is joined by longtime friend Paul for an open, heartfelt conversation about what it means to be guided—and to guide others. Together they explore the essential role of mentors, the power of presence, and how authentic support can transform lives. Drawing from personal experiences, they discuss spiritual awakening, healing from trauma, grief, and the importance of stopping to truly meet oneself. This episode invites listeners to think about who has guided them, and how they might become a guide in someone else's life. Topics Covered The difference between a teacher and a true guide Why presence leaves a lasting imprint Spiritual embodiment and awakening Learning through grief and loss Creating space for others without losing yourself Living in alignment with universal intelligence Radical self-honesty and emotional responsibility Key Quotes "A great guide doesn't tell you what to do—they help you discover who you really are." "Presence is more powerful than information." "You can only pass something on if you truly embody it." "The work is learning to stop, reflect, and listen to your own needs." Mentions and References Andy Sibson and Andy Sellins (mentors) Dr. Ray Sylvester Raphael (spiritual guide) Joseph Campbell's Hero's Journey Muji and ashram experience Gabor Maté – Authenticity vs. Attachment 12-Step Recovery (Adult Children of Alcoholics) Connect with Pete Website: www.petecohen.com Instagram: @petecohen_ LinkedIn: Pete Cohen Connect with Paul Paul Hurcomb Conscious Golf Group (Facebook) – for golfers seeking deeper conversations and connection through golf www.meetingsinstillness.com www.Paulhurcomb.Org

In this profoundly honest and soul-stirring episode of the Mi365 Podcast, Pete Cohen is joined by spiritual teacher and lifelong golfer Paul Hurcomb for a deep dive into golf as a mirror for life. What begins as a chat about The Masters and favorite players quickly evolves into a powerful exploration of identity, ego, emotion, and personal transformation—through the lens of the game they both love. From childhood golf memories to elite performance coaching, Pete and Paul reveal how golf exposes our deepest thoughts, insecurities, and patterns, and how the game can be a tool for spiritual growth, presence, and healing. In This Episode, You'll Discover: Why golf is unlike any other sport – and how it mirrors our internal world How golf reveals your emotional patterns, resistance, and unconscious beliefs The concept of "Conscious Golf" – playing from presence, not pressure How trauma and ego show up in performance (and in life) Pete's raw reflections on grief, loss, and learning to stop The importance of letting go of outcome and playing from joy How to be with emotions like rejection, frustration, and fear The relationship between self-worth and performance What "the second before the swing" reveals about you Zen teachings, stillness, and what it means to truly listen Powerful Quotes: "Golf is like a mirror — it reflects your inner world back at you." – Paul Hurcomb "Every round of golf is your life playing out over 18 holes." – Pete Cohen "When ego is lost, universality exists." – Tea bag wisdom (and now a life mantra) "Golf can't give you peace. But it can show you where you're not at peace." "You don't need a better plan. You need more discipline with the one you've got." – Jack Nicklaus to Rory McIlroy "The ball doesn't move. You do. That second before you swing… that's the moment of Zen." "There's only one way in life — yours." Who This Episode Is For: Golfers looking to connect deeper with the game (and themselves) Coaches, athletes, and performers navigating mindset and emotional regulation Anyone interested in mindfulness, self-inquiry, or conscious living Those processing grief, change, or a desire to stop and reflect Listeners ready to explore the longest journey – the one within Connect with Pete & Paul: Pete Cohen Website: petecohen.com Paul Hurcomb Conscious Golf Group (Facebook) – for golfers seeking deeper conversations and connection through golf www.meetingsinstillness.com www.Paulhurcomb.Org Call to Action: Loved this episode? Let us know your thoughts. Whether you're a golfer or not, we'd love to hear what resonated most for you. Share this episode with someone who needs to hear that golf — and life — is more than just a scorecard. Contact Paul here; www.meetingsinstillness.com www.Paulhurcomb.Org DM Pete with your reflections or stories @PeteCohen_

In this episode of the Mi365 Podcast, Pete Cohen explores the power of the 1% rule—making small, consistent changes that lead to significant transformation over time. He challenges listeners to invest just 14 minutes and 24 seconds of their day (1% of a 24-hour period) into personal growth and self-improvement. Pete discusses the importance of shifting perspectives, identifying key areas for growth, and overcoming the common obstacles that prevent us from making progress. He shares insights from Atomic Habits by James Clear and the philosophy of "Kaizen"—continuous improvement. Key Topics Covered: ✔️ The Power of 1% Daily Improvement: Small, intentional actions create a compounding effect over time. ✔️ The Importance of Perspective: Real change happens when we see things differently, not just when we're told what to do. ✔️ Slowing Down to Reflect: Taking time to pause and assess where we are and where we want to be. ✔️ The Three Key Areas of Growth: Health & Energy Relationships (including the relationship with yourself) Wealth, Work & Service ✔️ The Gap Between Where You Are & Where You Want to Be: How to bridge that gap through small daily investments. ✔️ Overcoming Resistance to Change: Why we naturally avoid difficult things and how to push past initial discomfort. ✔️ The Power of Starting: Once you start, momentum makes it harder to stop. Action Steps: ✅ Pick One Area – Choose one part of your life (health, relationships, or work) to invest 14 minutes and 24 seconds in each day. ✅ Commit to Small Steps – Focus on small, consistent changes instead of overwhelming transformations. ✅ Get Started Today – Don't wait for motivation; action creates momentum. ✅ Join the Conversation – Share your biggest takeaway from this episode in the Mi365 WhatsApp group Resources & Links: 🔗 Join the Mi365 WhatsApp Community – https://chat.whatsapp.com/IGAlsmC9N47DFamONmqXWG 🔗 Discover Pete's favorite superfood-infused tea & coffee – Take a look at the healthy coffee that I drink and recommend that is infused with one of the most powerful super foods on Earth. If you scroll down to the bottom you'll see how you can order some for yourself. https://www.mi365.me/coffee Final Thoughts: Change doesn't have to be overwhelming. Small, intentional actions each day create lasting transformation. Are you ready to invest 14 minutes and 24 seconds into your future? Let's get started! 📅 Subscribe & Stay Inspired! Don't miss the next episode of Mi365 Podcast with Pete Cohen.

Episode Summary For nine years and 570 episodes, Mi365 has been a journey of transformation, growth, and personal development. But now, it’s time for something new. In this special episode, Pete Cohen reflects on the evolution of Mi365 and why this marks the beginning of a new era. With deep personal insights, powerful questions, and a renewed mission to help you turn intentions into actions, this is more than just another episode—it’s an invitation to grow, evolve, and design your life with purpose. If you’ve been on this journey since the start, or if this is your very first episode, this is your chance to stop, reflect, and step into the next phase of your personal and professional transformation. What You’ll Learn in This Episode The journey of Mi365 from 2016 to today—why change is necessary The importance of stopping and reflecting before moving forward How grief, challenges, and transformation have shaped Pete’s new approach Why 14 minutes and 24 seconds a day is all you need to create lasting change How to shift from survival mode to thriving with intentional thinking The power of community, coaching, and taking action Key Questions to Ask Yourself How do you feel about where you are in your life right now? What changes have shaped you over the past few years? Where do you want to make progress—your health, relationships, or work? What intentions have you been meaning to act on but haven’t yet? Are you ready to design your life with intention, rather than by chance? Powerful Insights from the Episode "A great life doesn’t happen by chance. It happens by design." "Stopping isn’t failure—it’s the first step to real transformation." "The world has changed, and so have we. Now is the time to step up and create the future we want." "Intentions mean nothing without action. Let’s make the shift together." Sponsor Mention This episode is brought to you by our favourite Ganoderma-infused coffee and tea—a powerful superfood that helps boost energy, reduce stress, and support overall well-being. If you want to enjoy your daily 14 minutes and 24 seconds with the same coffee Pete drinks, click the link in the show notes to learn more. 🔗 Discover Pete’s favourite superfood-infused tea & coffee – https://www.mi365.me/coffee Join the Conversation & Get Support This isn’t just about listening—it’s about taking action. Join our free WhatsApp group—a space for intentional thinkers committed to growth, accountability, and making positive changes together. 🔗 Join the Mi365 WhatsApp Community – https://chat.whatsapp.com/IGAlsmC9N47DFamONmqXWG Call to Action What’s your biggest takeaway from today’s episode? Share it in our WhatsApp community. Subscribe to the podcast so you don’t miss this new era of growth and transformation. Take action—spend just 14m 24s today reflecting on how you want to show up in life. A great life doesn’t happen by chance. It happens by design. Let’s do this.

Episode Summary In this episode of Mi365, I dive deep into imposter syndrome—what it is, how it manifests, and most importantly, how we can break free from it. Despite our achievements, many of us still feel like we’re not good enough, that we don’t truly deserve success, or that we’ll be "found out" at any moment. But what if these thoughts weren’t facts? I share my own experiences with imposter syndrome, how it shaped my early years, and how I’ve been working to overcome it with the help of my coach, Dr. Ray Sylvester. We explore the origins of imposter syndrome, the patterns that keep it alive, and the steps you can take to shift your mindset and step into your full potential. If you’ve ever struggled with self-doubt, perfectionism, or feeling like you don’t deserve your success—this episode is for you. Key Topics Discussed Understanding Imposter Syndrome The origins of imposter syndrome (first identified in 1978 by Dr. Pauline Clance & Dr. Suzanne Imes) Why high achievers often feel like frauds despite their success The impact of perfectionism, overworking, and avoiding new opportunities out of fear My Personal Journey with Imposter Syndrome How childhood experiences shaped my self-doubt The fear of being "found out" that followed me for years How the loss of my parents and wife forced me to finally stop and reflect How Imposter Syndrome Shows Up in Your Life Negative self-talk and the constant need for validation Struggling to accept compliments and downplaying success Feeling like your achievements are just luck rather than skill Breaking Free from Self-Doubt Why awareness, auditing, and acceptance are key to change How my work with Dr. Ray helped me uncover the deeper patterns behind my imposter syndrome The power of being present rather than living in survival mode An Invitation to Thrive The world keeps us distracted—how do we slow down and truly own our success? Why intentional thinking and intentional thriving are the way forward Building a global community of people ready to embrace their true potential Action Steps for You ✅ Audit your thoughts – Notice when self-doubt creeps in and where it comes from ✅ Acknowledge and accept – Recognize the patterns that keep you stuck ✅ Take action – Find the support you need to step into your full potential Take a look at the healthy coffee that I drink and recommend that is infused with one of the most powerful super foods on Earth. If you scroll down to the bottom you’ll see how you can order some for yourself. https://www.mi365.me/coffee Join Me on This Journey I’m committed to showing up, sharing my journey, and supporting you in breaking free from self-doubt. If this episode resonated with you, reach out—I’d love to hear your thoughts. 🔗 Follow Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/petecohen_ 🔗 Follow Me on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/petecohenbusinessspeaker/ 🔗 Follow Me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Itspetecohen 🔗 Follow Me on Youtube: https://bit.ly/2WXOkos

Episode Summary In this deeply personal episode, I reflect on my journey of growth, loss, and rediscovery. After nearly stopping the Mi365 podcast, I’ve realized how much I love this medium—and now, I’m back with a renewed commitment. This episode is all about what it really means to thrive, beyond the busyness and stress we often mistake for success. I open up about some of the most challenging moments of my life—losing my parents, my wife’s illness, and the survival mode I’ve lived in for years. But I’ve also discovered the power of awareness, intentional living, and true presence. This is my invitation to you: join me on this journey to thrive. Let’s explore what’s possible when we stop surviving and start truly living. Key Topics Discussed Returning to the Podcast with a New Perspective Why I almost stopped Mi365 and what brought me back How my perspective has completely changed since starting in 2016 The Power of Pain and Growth "What hurts instructs"—how life’s hardest moments have shaped me Learning from personal loss: losing my father (2018), mother (2021), and wife (2023) The stop moment that forced me to truly reflect on my life What Thriving Really Means Thriving isn’t just about working harder—it’s about being present The role of self-awareness in redefining success How books like Awareness by Anthony de Mello have changed my perspective The Importance of Support and Coaching The role of my coach and mentor, Dr. Ray Sylvester, in my journey Why having people who "have your back" is essential for growth How coaching helps bring clarity to what we truly want Overcoming Imposter Syndrome and Survival Mode Feeling like I wasn’t good enough and learning to break free from that mindset Recognizing the stress and fear I’ve lived with for years How childhood experiences shaped my self-perception An Invitation to Join Me on This Journey I’m not here to tell you how to live—I’m here to explore with you Let’s work together to create a life of intention, purpose, and fulfillment Building a global community of people who want to thrive, not just survive Action Steps for You ✅ Take a moment to reflect—what does thriving mean to you? ✅ Identify where you might be stuck in survival mode and what it would take to shift out of it ✅ Find a support system—people who truly have your back Take a look at the healthy coffee that I drink and recommend that is infused with one of the most powerful super foods on Earth. If you scroll down to the bottom you’ll see how you can order some for yourself. https://www.mi365.me/coffee Join Me on This Journey I’m ready to do the greatest work of my life—starting from the inside out. If you’re ready to thrive in your health, relationships, work, and overall happiness, let’s do this together. 🔗 Follow Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/petecohen_ 🔗 Follow Me on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/petecohenbusinessspeaker/ 🔗 Follow Me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Itspetecohen 🔗 Follow Me on Youtube: https://bit.ly/2WXOkos