In this episode, Diane talks with trauma therapist and parenting expert Maggie Nick about the hidden cost of growing up as the “good kid” - the responsible, high-achieving child who never caused trouble but often learned to ignore their own needs. Maggie explains how this pattern can follow many adults into motherhood, showing up as perfectionism, people-pleasing, anxiety, and the pressure to keep everyone else happy. Together they explore “good kid trauma,” why even loving homes can unintentionally create relational shame, and how these early scripts shape the way we parent. If you’ve ever struggled to relax or felt responsible for everyone else’s emotions, this conversation offers a compassionate path toward raising emotionally healthy families.

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Maggie Nick, LCSW, is a trauma therapist, parenting expert, and author of Good Kids: Why You Suffered in Silence, and How to Break the Cycle (out January 27, 2026). A recovering Good Kid herself — and a former burned-out, overachieving, people-pleasing perfectionist, pushover, and shape-shifting chameleon — Maggie helps people make sense of the invisible cost of growing up as the Good Kid nobody ever needed to worry about, and why so many high-functioning adults still feel anxious, exhausted, and responsible for everyone else. She is the founder of Camp Lovable and the creator of Good Girl Rehab, a membership for women who are done earning rest, done apologizing for having needs, and ready to stop believing they are too much, too needy, or too hard to love. Known for translating complex psychology into language that feels validating, accessible, and deeply human, Maggie’s work helps adults heal themselves — and break cycles for the next generation.

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