Alyssa and Benny Hart are back — and this week we’re dragging one of the most toxic dating habits of all time: making your new partner pay for your old partner’s crimes.

Because let’s be honest… Just because your ex cheated doesn’t mean a three-hour text delay means your new boyfriend is also a cheater. Just because your ex ghosted, breadcrumbed, love-bombed, or weaponized “I’m busy” doesn't mean your current partner deserves a full FBI investigation every time they go silent for a second.

In this stormy, vibey, hilarious episode, we break down:

Why you STILL react to tiny triggers from past relationships
How to tell the difference between “intuition” and “trauma speaking”
Signs you’re accidentally punishing your new partner
How to spot someone who hasn’t healed before you date them
The psychology behind projection & emotional residue
How to date with self-awareness instead of paranoia
Why your new partner shouldn’t be paying your ex’s emotional credit card bill
Have Benny and Alyssa fallen for this? Tune in to hear them share...

Alyssa and Benny keep it bold, unfiltered, and a little unhinged — with thunderstorm background vibes to match the emotional chaos.If you’ve ever spiraled over something tiny, blamed someone for something they didn’t do, or realized you’re dating someone who’s still mad at their ex… this episode will feel like therapy you need!

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