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NLS 622: LOVE FOUND in Near-Death LOVE STORY You Won’t Believe! They Met DURING NDE! with Scarlett L Heinbuch
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Scarlett L. Heinbuch shared her unique near-death experience at age four, which instilled in her a profound sense of love and awareness. Later, she had a shared near-death experience with a dying man named David, who miraculously recovered after 12...
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Welcome to the Next Level Soul Podcast where we ask the big questions about life.
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Is this all there is? What is my Soul's mission? We attempt to answer those questions and more by bringing you raw and inspiring conversations with some of the most fascinating and thought provoking guests on the planet today. I am your host, Alex Ferrari. Now, before we dive into today's conversation, I want to invite you to experience something truly transformative. Next Level Soul tv. Our spiritual streaming platform where seekers from around the world can awaken, heal and expand. We've curated a powerful collection of life changing documentaries, deep dive interviews, original series, audiobooks, courses, master classes and live events all focused on conscious personal transformation, ancient wisdom and and the soul's journey, this isn't just content, it's a calling. Whether you're exploring your spiritual gifts, seeking answers from the beyond, or just craving something real in a noisy world, Next Level Soul TV was made just for you. And here's the best part. It's commercial, free, available around the world and growing every week with new soul expanding content. So if you're ready to go deeper, head over to NextLevelSoul TV and start streaming your awakening. Now, let's begin today's episode. Disclaimer. The views and opinions expressed in this podcast are those of the guest and do not necessarily reflect the views or positions of this show, its host or any of the companies they represent. Now today I welcome Scarlett Heinbach. And Scarlet's story is something I have never heard in all of my days of doing next level Soul. She met her soulmate during a near death shared death experience. And not that she met him on the other side, she did, but they both came back and they both lived happily ever after. It is an amazing and touching story. I cannot wait to share this with you guys. So let's dive in. I'd like to welcome to the show Scarlet L Hind Book.
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How you doing, Scarlet? Alex. I'm well. How are you, Alex? I'm doing.
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I'm doing well. Thank you so much for coming on the show. You know, we're going to talk about how you died and how you came back and what you saw and what happened. And your story is. I've spoken to easily over 100 near death experiences at this point in my career. Yours stands very apart from everybody else because of the uniqueness of it. But before we jump in to when you died and came back, what was your life like before, before your near death experience?
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It's very interesting because the near death experience, the first, well, the real one I had was when I was 4 years old. So I was a child. And having that experience as a child is a very unique type of thing because when you're that young, Alex, there's no before or after. There's only the experience that day that shapes you and you just, you just accept it. So would you like me to share a little bit about that?
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Please. Yeah, yeah, exactly.
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Well, I, you know, it was June and I'm not shy about my age because I'm grateful that I've lived this long. But this was 1964 and back in that day you had to wear these little rubbery kind of things on your head because I guess it was a hygiene issue to keep your hair in place and also not get in your face. So it had little scallops on it. So I'm wearing this very. And it pulled your. Your hair. So we were out swimming and my older sister, who's only 13 months older, and I were both in the shallow end of the pool. My 18 month old brother was off in a little kiddie pool and my mom was there. It was crowded, hot summer day and I was bobbing back, back, back, and then my feet didn't touch the bottom and I didn't know how to swim. And there, you know, mom just was trying to keep an eye on us. There was a lifeguard, the whole nine yards. But that didn't stop what happened next, which was I started swallowing water and I feeling. And I just couldn't get any grip. So then I. I just kept swallowing water and then everything went dark. And then I'm aware that I'm hovering at the edge of the pool and I'm seeing the physical me on the bottom of the pool with that little pink scallop cap and I'm aware that that's me too. So I never had any doubt about being out of my body and that there's a consciousness out outside of my body, even if I didn't even have any understanding of those words or language. But in any case, I'm hovering there. I'm now surrounded by just this incredible feeling of peace and love and safety. Just in my childhood wasn't like that. It was pretty turbulent. So being in that air, just that whole space of love and peace was so compelling. I didn't want to come back from it. And again, being four years old, it's hard to have words. But the knowing that came into my mind about life and awareness and my mother. I could feel my mother's awareness that I wasn't there. And she later told me about. She's a nurse, but she, she looked around, didn't see my little pink cat bobbing, and then came to the pool and saw me on the bottom of. That's when she dived in and got me out. And she told me later, she said, you know, you were blue and not breathing and for a while you weren't with us. But being a nurse, she knew how to revive me, which is what she did. But here's the thing. I knew, I knew I had a choice. I didn't have to come back. But I was aware of her feelings. I was aware of this life journey. I knew it was not going to be easy. But I love my mother so much that I knew she would never ever get over this if I, if I didn't come back, her guilt, her feelings, her love for me and her just, just her mother's heart would be broken. So I knew I had that choice. And I chose to come back out of love for my Mom. And so that's what happened. So I wake up on the side of the pool on my side. I'm spitting up water and I'm back. And I never had one doubt that now having that experience of being out of my body and floating in that love and that light and that peace, that. That was very real too. But here's the thing. At four years old, I didn't understand that. That portal, now that's the word I use because that portal to the other side didn't close. So what happened was, as the years went on, I was able to just get out of my body. I was able to astral project terms I didn't even know. Now we're talking again. The 60s. This is way before you had terms like near death experience or of body experience. So there wasn't any language for this. And there certainly wasn't much support, you know, when you're explaining, oh, I'm at Grandma's and I'm floating all around the house in my sleep. So. But that's what happened. And you know, so having had. And the after effects. I had so many of the after effects as a child that many adults report, like having psychic awareness that knowing that intuition, um, unusual things happen, seeing, seeing spirits. Now that was terrifying at 4 years old and 5 and 6 and 7.
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So let's slow down for a second. There's a lot going on here.
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I want to. There is a lot going on.
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There's a lot going on here. So before we keep going on, let's, let's. Okay, second. So when you. So when you were floating above yourself at 4, I have spoken to children or adults who were. Who had died as a child. And what I find fascinating is that you're saying something similar where you understood. You just under. You just knew what these things were, even though you didn't have the vocabulary right stand consciousness or the grandeur of the universe or the soul and all of this stuff. Were you at. Even at 4, were you religious? Were you already being, you know, kind of going, is there a family religious or spiritual at all?
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Well, my parents were not. My grandparents were. They went to a Baptist church. And when I was a child, I always wanted to go with them to this. So there wasn't any particular understanding of religion except that I always felt a kinship with, with the creator of a universe that I somehow just knew existed. And so I, I guess I just felt like, well, there is something far greater. I do remember my mother trying to teach us about awareness. And she took us out one time. We were really, really small and had us look at the sky. And she said, who do you think created? And we're, we're thinking, well, I guess she said, this is the creator, you know, God or whatever name you want to use. And I just remember feeling that sense of awe that there were stars in the sky, this enormous sky, and I was just this one little person on this planet in it and who created all of that. And I couldn't even comprehend that, that it was like trying to understand infinity. I knew it intuitively that there was infinity, but again, I didn't have the language, but I just knew it. You know, that's like, oh my gosh.
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Yeah. The concept of infinity is even difficult for an adult to grasp, let alone a four year old. But what I find interesting is that you understood everything that was going on. When you said that you knew you had a choice. That was an instinctual, like something inside of you was saying you have a choice. It wasn't a voice. There wasn't any specific beings or anything around you at that point. Correct.
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Correct. It was just a knowing. It was a knowing that in my spiritual journey, whatever choice I made would be okay for my spirit. But whatever choice I made had consequences for others. And that was the knowing too.
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And so it's hard to describe it as a moral choice that you're making at 4 years old. I don't even know if moral is the right word, but it's an awareness that you do. Your life impacts others and every single choice you make impacts others. And so that awareness flooded me at 4 years old. And I will say to this day, it has stayed with me. I'm aware that I don't make a choice in a vacuum. Every choice I do make impacts others. And I was also aware that others are part of me and this family. We're all family. And so, and having all that love around you, it was, it felt like a responsibility to be a loving community member in this planet, in this human family that I was a part of and that I was related to and that every choice I made impacted others and vice versa. And I had a responsibility or choice again to determine how I was going to behave in the world. Was I going to be loving, was I going to be kind, was it going to be helpful? And, and I came back from that experience with just an open heart, full of compassion for others and care and a healing gift from a young age where I just felt such empathy for others. I was acutely aware of people's suffering. I could sense it. It didn't matter how old they were. People, adults just gravitated toward me, asking me questions about things in their lives that were happening. And I just knew things that there's no way that I could have known. And so, you know, but I just, I didn't know that that was not everybody's experience till I got older and realized not everybody's operating from the state of awareness at any age. And so it was a little, little, little tough.
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It's even nowadays, even tougher, that's concerned. So you kind of insinuated and please correct me if wrong when you were saying like when you died this time, did you any other near death experiences in your life?
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Well, not quite. I had the shared near death experience. And that's the, the healing thing and the love story and the very unusual next kind of thing.
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All right, so we'll get to that in a second. But so when you came back as a four year old, you had, you came back with gifts. Yes, psychic abilities. You came back with the ability to Go out of body at such a young age. I have to ask you, why do you think this happened to you in this life at that age? Because again, speaking to so many near death experiencers, I hear the stories like, well, my life was off track and this kind of threw me back onto track or I was lost and then I found my path by this near death experience. It was also an exit strategy. Like you have exit points. Like, hey, do you want to just end this and start, start a fresh one? Like, are you done with this one? Did you just like, not like the scenario of this? And, and there's exit ramps throughout your life. You have a choice to like, hey, do you want to go? Do you want to come? It's up to you. Why do you think that happened to you at 4? Because at 4, I'm assuming you weren't lost and your life wasn't like, oh my God, a four year old, My God. It was like, okay, why do you think the universe gave you that gift in many ways at four?
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Well, that's a great question and I have pondered it and I, I, I put this out there and I, you know, I, I wrote about it too. When I grew up in an alcoholic home with my father having severe depression and untreated depression and, and drank to, to manage it. That made our home life extremely challenging and scary for a sensitive child, which I already was. So when this experience happened, it wasn't a way that I could have left because it was not safe in my home. It did not ever feel safe for me. So this was being floating in that, that, that bubble of peace and love and safety again. It was like, this is home, this place is not home. But being here is hard. And so it did give me a choice about the exit point because who wouldn't want to stay as a child in a cocoon of safety and love? But again, that love is the key because there's something about safety and love versus loving the human in this earth experience, which was, who was my mother and my sister and brother and my extended family. I love these people very much. And even my father, I just, I knew he was wounded and I didn't know how to help him, but I just knew that this life was not going to be easy. And yet I couldn't, I didn't have to stay in it, but I also knew me not staying in it was going to also, like I said, hurt a lot of people too, in ways that would create that ripple effect throughout time. And to me, the higher calling to love was to step into it and to show up in this life and even as a child is knowing that maybe I could make a difference, maybe I could bring love back, the kind of love I was experiencing back to this earth and have a chance to share it with others, to help them understand that we are more than our bodies, that we have a choice about loving one another and helping each other and just showing up. And, you know, your question's really good. And as we're talking, I'm thinking about it a little bit more because you're asking a question that not many people have asked. And. And that's really. You know, it was love for my mother, but it was also love for my father because again, he was suffering and I didn't. Again, these aren't terms you have, right. I didn't know the term depression. I didn't know the term alcoholism. I didn't know any of these things, but I did know human spirit, and I knew my father had a wonderful spirit, but it was somehow not able to come out because of what had happened in his life. So, again, this. This is kind of like the healer's call, I guess, even at a young age, that if I chose to. To go on, I'd be okay, but they would not. And so there was a reason I was here.
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And it's a very selfless approach to it, too, because you could have just been in this safety and this love and this. I. That's all I hear on the other side, generally, is everything's just love, ultimate love. You can't feel it. You understand everything. You know, everything. It sounds heavenly, quote, no pun intended. It sounds wonderful. And down here, it's a bit rougher. This is a tough school that we're all in, so that shows, even at that young age, you had the ability to. Or at least the opportunity to understand that at a very deep level, more than your intellectual mind could ever have grasped at that age. It seemed like again, and I've heard this before, and you're. You were able to understand this knowing was so far beyond the physical, intellectual capability of your brain. You were. It was something so much deeper. And that you were exposed to that at such a young age is. Is fascinating to me. Now, you say you come back with psychic abilities. You come back with being able to go out of body. When you go out of body, I'm assuming it just started to happen. And so you started to train your. I'm assuming you later in life, you trained yourself, you discovered it, or you figured out, hey, I'm going to go out of body and you know, things like that. Did you, when you spontaneously jumped out of your body, what did you think? Because generally speaking, it's not normal people.
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No, you're right. And just about again, when these things happened, it was usually in a sleep state. I would be, and, and so when we're talking about, we're talking about period statement states of unconsciousness, for example, I was unconscious at the bottom of a pool and, and conscious outside of it in that out of body, near death experience. And so when I'm sleeping, I'm also in an unconscious state. It's different than a near death experience with your body shutting down. But, but you're out, you're unconscious. So that's key to what happened next. And, and so that's what would happen. I, I usually have these out of body experiences not through willfulness but through, through sleep. And so I'd find myself floating around, floating down the steps at my grandparents, going somewhere or just floating around or being able to see places anywhere. It's just like my mind's eye, instantaneous.
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But it wasn't a dream.
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No. Oh no. I was very aware.
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Yeah, you were very different. It was very different than a dreamlike state.
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And, and there was a time when people, I have family members who told me later that they saw my spirit out of body. And that was. Yes, my cousins revealed this at a family reunion. Again when I was a small child, we spent a lot of time at my grandparents. Again because of the turbulence with my family, my immediate parents and so one day I was, my grandfather and my cousin were having a late lunch and they put me down for a nap. So I was pretty young I guess still. And this was shortly after that experience.
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My cousin reported that they looked up and saw me standing in the kitchen peeking around at them. And grandpa was startled and he said, you're supposed to be in bed and clapped his hands like that. And then I disappeared right in front of their eyes. While they were both so unnerved, they jumped up and ran to where I was and, and I was sound asleep in the bed and it was, the bed was high so I had to do little steps to get up to it. And there was no way I was faking it. I mean I was sound asleep and grandpa was so unnerved and upset. He, he told my grandmother about it later. He didn't understand how this could have happened and he was just really upset. And my cousin was, she was about four years older than I, so she, you know, was still a kid and herself. So she, but she didn't really think that much of it. She was like, well, we saw her. We don't know how. But again, there's acceptance when you're a child that the adult mind that wants to tear everything apart or how did this happen? Where the kids are like, well, this happened. Okay, so where life is. Yeah, but, but apparently it was very unnerving for him. And you know, so to hear, you know now and we know that term by location, where you can be one place and someone can see you in another. Again, these terms weren't around then, but so was it. That's what happened.
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Yeah. So it's interesting because this is an out of body experience, but this is also biolocation.
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Yes.
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Sounds very yogi esque. A lot of yogis are known for that power to be able to biologate themselves while they're meditative, to be across town, another part of the world, anywhere you want. You could project yourself as you were going through all of this experiences, the out of body and I'm assuming The psychic abilities. You're saying that you were seeing. You were seeing ghosts. And so now, now you're medium. You're a medium as well. So now you're a psychic out of body medium, death experiencer. I'm just. I'm just checking off the credentials as we go through this, as I'm unpacking this. Scarlett. Okay, you're a medium too. So you're seeing as. How old were you when you started seeing, you know, spirit, the.
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Right. Right after four. Yeah.
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Nobody around you that's. Can guide you through this.
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No, it was terrifying. And lots of times I saw just scary faces. I didn't even know who they were. And this would happen at bedtime and went in the dark. So I was scared of the dark. And, you know, that's one of the things I look back on and realize that no one told me I could say no or tell them to go away or put up a shield. No one knew this because again, what do you say? I saw these scary faces. Oh, well, you're just. Whatever. It's always dismissed. But it wasn't dismissive in my mind because I was. I was frightened. And then when. When someone in our family would die, I'd have a visit that was frightening. So these weren't things I sought out. I had never been one to. To seek out or. But because I had that unusual sensitivity. And a lot of times it was in that either unconscious state, the contact through dreams, or in a conscious state when I was partially falling asleep. And. But the awareness is so shifted that, you know, it's not a dream. It's very different from that. And you know, and then, then I had the telephone call from a deceased relative in a time when this was before that was even discuss. This was in the 70s. Would you like to hear a little more about that?
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Yes.
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Okay. Well, my aunt, my mother's only sister, who was significantly older than her and was more like a mother figure, died at 50 years old. And this was in 1975. And she was. My mother was just heartbroken. The mom just took it so bad. She went into a terrible depression. It was very sudden. Her sister had breast cancer that was diagnosed too late. And back then in the mid-70s, treatments weren't very advanced. And it was just, boom, diagnosis. And then she's gone. And my mother again just went into this terrible spiral. So one night I heard. I had a dream that my aunt was there. And this was just days after she passed. And. And she was standing there and she didn't look good. She Looked scary to me, kind of like maybe she was decaying in their physical form. And I'm. This is again, horrifying. But she was. She was saying, please tell your mother to stop grieving. She's holding me back. And that was the message. And I woke up from that with heart pounding, feeling frightened. And why would I see my aunt looking like this? You know, because most of the spirits either, even if they look scary, it wasn't like a physical decomp, and that's what it was looking for.
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It wasn't Raiders of the Lost Ark, no.
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So later I learned more about why that happened. In the etheric body, when it shows up, it may look like it as it's piecing out from the physical existence to whatever the spiritual, etheric space, but that's how she appeared to me. And again, it was not a. A good thing in terms of my response. I was frightened. But I did share the message with my mother. And then my grandmother, her mother told. Told her too, that later that week she also had a visit from my aunt in her bedroom, where she saw my aunt looking okay, but the same message. And grandma was wide awake. And she said. She came to me and said to tell you please to stop grieving. You're holding her back. So Grandma was sensitive. She was a Pennsylvania Dutch woman. She was very tough, but she had that Pennsylvania Dutch. She'd grown up with a powwower, which is the term that. The healing terms that the Pennsylvania Dutch use. And we can get into all that later. But. So there was a awareness and understanding that, you know, things than the normal realms. So. So when my aunt showed up and grandma told my mother that mom still could not get out of her depression. So about a few months later, I was at home. And this again was 1975. Back then, they had the rotary dial phones that plugged in, so the. The, you know, no one even knows what that looks like anymore, but that's what we had. And we lived in the country at that time and. Which meant we were on a party line, meaning, you know, you could share the phone with anybody, could kind of listen in unless they. The people who operated the phone kind of cut it off. So. And sometimes connections weren't as robust as you would like anyway. But it was the middle of the day. I just gotten home from school late afternoon, and I was home by myself, and the phone rang. So I picked it up, and I hear this crackling on the phone line, like static, crackly. And then I heard my aunt say my name, and I recognized her Voice even through the crackle. And I. I said, aunt. Her name is Marguerite. I said, Marguerite. And she said, hi, honey. And I said, aunt Marguerite, you're dead. She said, I know. Crackle, Crackle, please tell your mother to stop grieving. She's holding me back. Well, I can't tell you the line wasn't dead because what happened was I slammed the phone down. I was so freaked out, I had goosebumps. My whole body was chilled because again, electrostatic reaction, magnetic, whatever it is, with that kind of contact with another realm. But I'm not parsing that out in my brain. I'm just having the experience. I'm a teenager. I'm scared. I'm having a phone call from my dead aunt.
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How?
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In the middle of the afternoon. I'm not asleep. This is not a dream. And I ran outside. Pointless. I mean, it's not like her spirit was going to chase me, but it was just a panicked reaction. I had never at that time heard of phone calls from a deceased relative. I didn't even know that was even possible. Now you see all the books about it and so it's all. All in. But not back then.
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So the phone line didn't go dead? It was dead originally, but anyway, sorry especially.
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Yeah.
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But so with all of this stuff happening to you at this age and now you're a teenager and this is weird stuff seems to have been going on with you yet. And again, how did you psychologically start to process this? Well, started take a toll because there's no one guiding you. I've heard people go through this, but then the grandma comes in or mom comes in. Oh, you've got the gift now. Oh, this happened to your grand. Like there was. It doesn't seem like any of that has ever happened to you. You had to deal with this and also be. Deal with the teenage being a teenager.
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Right. Own thing itself and growing up in the turbulent home. So one of the things that I always considered my saving grace was a desire to learn. And so I would try to read, research, find everything I could about what was happening. And in the mid-70s, that's when UVA had started the work with Dr. Ian Stevenson doing research into reincarnation. And also at Duke University, JB Ryan had started the. The whole thing. And I think that was in the 70s or 80s. I'm trying to. No, it was the 70s. So again trying to understand what they called parapsychology. And. And so I began to learn more about this and, and learned that for example, when they would use like the the Zener cards or whatever at. I'm not any good at that kind of thing. What I did do was I volunteered at a crisis center, an after school center. I did after school tutoring. I was a peer teen counselor for peer groups. So I tried to do things that were helpful.
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And at the center where I volunteered, there was a man there who was a retired engineer who was very interested in the work that Stanford was doing in remote viewing at that time. And so we would do remote viewing experiments to try to see if we could locate runaway children. And so I'm not an artist, so we would try, but what I could do was kind of get a sense of the children's feel feelings. And so I'd send them a message to call, come home. And we began to have some responses. Now again, it could have been unrelated, you know, but kids started calling home shortly after we were trying to contact them remotely. So and that was again as a teenager to me that was a trying to help and Heal, help and heal seemed to be everything that I was doing. I also was a hard worker because our home life was turbulent. My way of coping was to work hard. So I worked two jobs in high school. I worked at A Dollar General, if it's okay to say. I worked in the afternoons and early evenings. And then the other times I worked at a hamburger stand in town. And I learned how to make change. So I can still do that today. How to count up. No one can do that with the computers and everything telling you, but these were skills. I'm very practical. But everything I did and then volunteering, so I kept myself busy and I kept myself with things that would helped me to ensure my freedom by working and saving money and helping people along the way. And you know, like, I'm 16 and I have my first bank account and I bought my own car. These were things being very independent. And I'm not going to say that I was fearless, but I knew, I just knew that things were going to be okay and even if they weren't, they were still going to be okay. And I think that was because of that near death and experience at 4. I knew if things ultimately would be okay. I knew, I knew I would be and that if something happened in this life and that I, I left it whenever I was still going to be okay. So why not do those things and take that chance or make that decision and try these things? I'm not going to say everything's gone great or that I didn't make bad decisions because I'm still a human being. And when a child grows up in an alcoholic home or in a turbulent situation, you know, you, you have work to do on your own wounds to heal and, and, and your own blind spots. And so that's. As a human being, I just still had to work on that. Having, as I've said to others, you know, having a spiritual awareness and a connection doesn't make you exempt from life's pain or making bad decisions or, or being with people who. Other who do make bad decisions. And now you have to, to cope with that. How are you going to cope? Your question is always, what am I going to do in this situation that is going to show some love and care and, and help my spirit evolve? And so these are questions that I hold. I'm not going to say that I don't always get it right or that I do always get it right. But, but I'm aware when I don't. And, and I'm also aware that even when I don't it's okay. There may be a spiritual lesson for somebody else in that moment, but there's always a lesson for me. And that's did I do my best here? Did I. Did I bring love to this situation? Where did I fall short? And. And what can I do better next time? It's. It's an ever evolving growth process.
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So, Scarlett, you've had a weird life.
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I. I knew that sums it right up story.
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I'm saying that with all the love in the world, it's a life so far.
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It is a weird.
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It's about to get weirder.
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I will fast forward 41 years at this point. I'm a single mom. I have two sons with disabilities. I'm in a PhD program in public policy and administration, having gotten my master's in public health to help my kids. And I'd also gotten certified in Reiki to help my children. So again, that was a healing thing. I didn't want to be a nurse. I just wanted to have some skills to help my. Help my boys. And also found that this healing and working with energy in that more formalized way was. Was really helpful for others and also very soothing for me. So I've done the Reiki. As I mentioned, growing up in an alcoholic home doesn't exempt you from. From things and also increases your risk, too. One of the things that I had done at that time was I felt I was drinking too much. And we're talking 20 years ago now when this happened. It'll be 20 years this fall. And we, you know, so I felt I was drinking too much. So I had taken myself to some, you know, 12 step recovery meetings and. But I'd stopped going because I was a busy grad student. I was also teaching at the college where I was in getting my graduate work done. And it was a marriage and family relationships class, which was very interesting. And so I was having all kinds of things, but I was broke. I was broke. So I had gone to this meeting and I'd heard about this man who had gotten desperately, desperately ill that everybody knew, but I did not. And his mother had been called to come in from San Francisco after on going into the fourth week to come to Richmond because her son was. She'd gotten the call to come say goodbye. So I got a call to go to that meeting that night. And I stopped for a friend of mine who was picking up a coin to celebrate 20 years for her. So I said I'd go. And I see people I haven't seen in a long time, and they're all standing around crying. And. Because his mother had just gotten back from the hospital to come to this meeting to thank everybody for all they had done to help her son and give him good community while he had been here, because he had just come out from the west coast to do a contract job, but now he was dying. And so she said she'd signed the funeral directives that day. We went on, had the meeting, and people are just really upset and. And. But something about her really touched my heart. And even though I didn't know her son, I just knew as a parent how hard it is to lose a child and at any age. And so, you know, at the end of the meeting, I went up to her, and I was going to say, hey, I'm really sorry about this. But instead I said, I don't think you should give up hope. And to this day, it's one of those moments where. Why did that come out of my mouth? Because my head immediately kicked in with, what are you saying? She's already told you she signed the funeral paper. Neighbors, they told her he's not going to survive, and she's here to say goodbye, or already did. And. And. But Spirit was in charge at that moment. So I asked her for permission if she would like to go pray, maybe do some Reiki with him, telling her, I certainly can't promise a thing, but if you want me to do maybe and go hold his hand, I've had some experiences with the other side. I'm not afraid if people are going to pass. And. And I would consider it, you know, a way of extending fellowship, to go show up and just be there with him if she would like that, with full respect. And she said, well, he's Jewish. And I said, well, I understand. I'm not going to be disrespectful to anyone. This is not a religious thing. This is just, you know, a spiritual matter. And she said, well, she said she would give permission. And, you know, assuming he's still even with us the next day. So I left the meeting wondering why it even offered this, because he was desperately ill. And again, when I say desperately ill, he had a very rare form of vasculitis, which meant that all of his systems have shut down. He was on life support. He had not regained consciousness from the paralytic coma. He'd been in for going on four weeks. His what had been in respiratory arrest, one of the lungs had collapsed. He had double pneumonia. Sepsis.
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Bad shape. Blood clots. His heart was out of rhythm and his kidneys had been destroyed from the granulomas from the, the vascular, vascular illness he had. And they were also in complete kidney failure. And the problem was is that they would not regenerate because of the nodules and scars that had occurred. So and to top it all off, back then when someone was in an unresponsive coma, they didn't do the trach. So he'd been doing the throat ventilator and then the feeding tube. Well, with the lung collapsing and the oxygen issue, he had not gotten enough oxygen. Then he had an encephalopathy. So his brain, brain injury. So the likelihood of him surviving was at that point almost impossible. And even if he did, he might have, you know, persistent brain injury and would have to be on dialysis for the rest of his life. And if he survived, didn't look good.
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And. And later, we learned any one of those things could have taken them out, but the combinations, we've been told was not survivable. So. But I didn't know all that going in.
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And what I find funny is, like, you know, I could just do a little Reiki and maybe, like, I find it. I mean, I. I. No disrespect to the Reiki masters out there, but this sounds like a desperate situation for this. This soul. I don't think Reiki is gonna do it.
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Reiki was not no Reiki. Reiki is a great, great stress reliever. I've seen it do some pretty amazing things. But this. When I walked into the room to see him in. And again, I'd never seen anyone in total kidney failure, so I didn't realize that the body is completely bloated. So he had that. And he had, you know, all the tubes in his nose and throat and neck and everywhere, and. And the catheter bag was bone dry because he just failed. The kidney failure was so extreme, he wasn't producing anything. And it was. It was awful. You know, being a nurse's kid, I'd grown up with medical terms and. And heard stories, but I'd never seen anyone that close to death, aside from my father, who had died years before. But seeing on the ventilator and. And just seeing this com. This complete stranger who looks so vulnerable, and it was just really, really open my heart. And mom had always said, you know, when someone's in a coma, talk to them like they're awake and never assume that they can't hear you. So. So that's what I did. I went up and introduced myself to him as Bad, because he didn't know me, and I told him my name and why I was there and that met his mother and his friends and that a lot of people loved him. And if he had some unfinished business and wanted to stick around, I was here to try to help him if he could and wanted to. And if he didn't, I was here to help him just go if he wanted to go, and just know that he was loved and everything would be okay. So I. I did ask his permission to work with him. And a lot of people are saying, oh, you know, you don't have to ask permission to do healing. Well, yeah, you do, because everybody has a spiritual journey, and people don't want healing foisted on them if they don't want it. It's disrespectful. And I've. I've. You know, I try to respect everyone's energetic space and what they want and don't want. And it's not up to me to determine what someone's journey is. It's up to them. But I had shown up, and I asked his permission, and I stood there and waited, and I felt a puff of air. And then I thought, okay, well, he's letting me know it's okay to work with him. So I took his hand, and again, he had all the IV lines and pulse oximeter, all the stuff. So I'm very careful to not dislodge anything. And the nurse in the ICU had put her chair right outside the door, keeping a close eye. So I said what I call affirmative prayer, which is just affirming his. His healing, you know, in a very positive way. So I did that. I did the Reiki treatment. He didn't respond. And I thought, well, I guess this is. This is it. And I took his hand again to say goodbye and close up with the prayer. But I did feel. I. I felt a lot of love and connection with him in the spiritual way, and. But I didn't know him. And I just said, you know, if you're gonna go, it's okay. But I could feel his feelings. I could feel some shame and pain. And I was like, oh, man, he's. He's not. It was sad. It was like, he's not in a good place. So I said, I don't even know why I'm telling you this, but I am. If you decide you want to stick around, I'll make you a promise, and I'll come back, and I will continue to work with you as long as you want me to. So that was my promise and with the understanding. And I said, if you're here tomorrow, I will come back. Because I didn't know if he would be. I was kind of shocked he was still alive that day. So I went home and. Oh, well, at the end of that session, let me just say what was unusual was I was holding his hand. He had no grip because of the coma. And I. I couldn't take my hand away. It was like it was fused to his for a moment. And that's when I realized the spirit was reaching back. I was like, okay, so. So I repeated I'd be back tomorrow if he was still here. So I did. I came back. And I came back for 12 days. And then about the fourth day is when we had our shared near death experience and he had not. Yeah. Did you want me to? Yeah.
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Yeah. So what happened?
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Well, I went in to do the. The healing session as I had been doing. And I took his hand to say the prayer. And that's when he. I no longer was in my body. I was out of my body in another realm. But this time I was conscious. I wasn't asleep. I was in another realm in that place of love and peace and safety and indescribable knowing and awareness. Like when I had had my near death experience at 4 years old. But this was even beyond that. It was, it was. I describe it as like having billions of little dice dots of liquid love light. It's not wet, but I don't know any terms and to describe it any other way. And my hand was holding the hand of the spirit of this man. And there, his body, he was hovering out of his body that was in the coma. And that's where we met here. There he was. And it was like my heart totally open. And I knew him. It was like, oh, I love this man. I've always known this man, always, forever. And he's the person, he's the spirit I've always loved forever. And I have in this awareness. And I knew everything about him, everything. And he knew everything about me. And we were just embraced in this love together while he's in his near death experience, hovering out of his body, ready to go. And I don't know what decision he's going to make, Alex. But this love was so huge that it wasn't selfish at all. If he was going to go into the light, into that tunnel, because again, he was hovering. If he was going to go, that would be joyful for me because that's what his spirit would want. And that would be giving him such incredible peace. There's not a selfish bit in this kind of love. It's so unbelievable. But that's where we were embraced in this heavenly love. That's the best way. This forever love, this forever time with this spirit that I know is my beloved. Well, what do you do with that? Next thing I know, I'm flocked back in my body. I'm standing at the side of his bed. He's still unconscious. He's still desperately ill. He's still clinging to life, God knows how. Literally God knows how. And I'm looking at him now, still bloated, still unconscious, still. Still this. And I'm like, how have I just met this soul mate who is dying that I don't even know who's a stranger in this life. And yet I felt this incredible bond of love with this being. I don't even know what to do with any of this. It. There's no way you can process the feelings, the emotions, the. I'm an analyst by nature, too. On top of all this, I'm very analytical. I want evidence. I want to understand things. And I could not wrap my head around this at all. It was. It was so confusing and. And it was like being in two worlds at one time. You know, experiencing that love while I'm conscious like that, it just. And then to. To meet this way. And then. Then as a human being, then I was like, oh, but I don't really want him to go. My spirit might be all that lofty, but my human self is like, I've met this. This soulmate I want to meet. I want to know him. I want to have this. This experience, but it's not my choice. So I continue to work with him over the next 12 days. And in that time, we had another unusual experience where. And this is where I see things when I'm falling asleep. And while he was in his room, his kid, he was improving. He started to improve. Obviously he was living, and he continued to hang on and get a little bit better. But they said his kidneys would never, never come back, you know, ever. You know, they might regain a tiny bit of function. But that's. But that's it. Because of the scarring. Well, one night, again, you know, falling asleep, I. I feel like I'm in his room, and I look down and I see him on. In the cot in the icu, and I see four beings that look to me to be blue in color. They're very tall. They look like a medical team. And they're, like, in blue scrubs, but their skin is blue. Everything's blue. And they're at each side of the cot, and I see one that I call the lead doctor, because that's what looked like to me. And. And the lead doctor is. Has, like, a holographic tray in front of them with, like, blue kidneys on it. And I see these kidneys being descended into his body. This is what I'm perceiving it as, right? And. And so they go into his body and I'm like, what is going on here? Are they giving him an etheric kidney transplant? Am I dreaming? And. Except that the lead doctor looks up and see. And nods and, like, he can see me hovering there in the corner of the room. And I'm like, oh, my Gosh, he's aware of my presence.
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So then I kind of fell asleep after that, wondering what in the heck happened. I woke up super early the next morning at 6:30 again, just like I saw these beings. Was that a weird dream? Except I get to the hospital and the man, the stranger's name is David. And David's kidneys starting to regain and ramp up in function significantly. So I'm like, I don't know what's going on here, but I do my Reiki work and I had used aromatherapy music to help with the brain, keep the brain stimulated. You know, all kinds. I was using oils on his feet and acupressure points, all kinds of things to just help expedite. So this is way beyond Reiki. And we're also, you know, again, this the power of the spoken word. There's a lot of power in that, particularly when people are unconscious. It's almost like a hypnosis. You're affirming healing. Anyway, the nephrologist who was examining his kidneys came in. And the doctors and nurses at that point, and he was in a Catholic hospital in Richmond, started calling him miracle boy because his kidneys began to ramp up and exponentially each day increase, so that by the end of 12 days, his kidneys had returned to 100% full functioning, with no. No medical explanation of how that happened, because it was not possible, given the level of damage that was all documented. So at the end of that period, he regains consciousness, he wakes up, and we get to meet for the first time in life. And you talk about awkward because he woke up and he knew everything about me. He knew he was going to marry me. He knew he was wildly in love. This is what he says. And he, He. He knew all this even though he didn't even know me. He'd never met me. And until, you know, I told him, reminded him my name. He didn't even know my name. He just knew he knew me on every level. So he didn't have the conscious memory of the meeting on the other side, but he had the after effects and the spiritual memory, which is not unusual for someone in a deep coma with heavy medication affecting recall, but he had the spiritual recall. So he didn't tell me any of that at the time, of course, but he, you know, I'm just still flummoxed about what had happened. And, you know, he was in the middle of a divorce. I didn't know anything about him at the time, and I. I just was like, I don't see how any of this, you know, I don't understand any of this. So he got better. He flew out to the west coast to go see his mother over Thanksgiving or right before Thanksgiving, and his extended family out there, he came back. And then he got sick again from the medications. They treat it like cancer. And he had too much of the immunosuppressant. And so he was back in the hospital again, again with double pneumonia and nearly dying again. So at that point, I went to go see him and did some conscious healing work with him on his lungs. And, and, and, and that's when he said, you know, I'm. I'm gonna just. Can I tell you I love you? And I was like, well, yes, I love you, too. I don't know what we're supposed to do with any of this. And honestly, Alex, I didn't even know who was going to live. And I. I was, you know, upset about that because I wanted him to live. But I had a friend who I had been Talking to. And he said, you know, you got to have a glimpse of love if you even got it for two minutes. That's more than a lot of people ever get in a whole lifetime. So don't be selfish. Accept what you get. It's not up to you. It's up to, to God or your creator, your choice. But you got a glimpse of love and maybe that's all you get. Maybe that's supposed to be enough. And I was like, maybe that is supposed to be enough. Because what I glimpsed in conjunction with another being. When you have that kind of love and a shared near death experience, you know, it's one thing to have it when you're just by yourself in a near death experience, but when you have it with somebody else together, there's something that is so profound about that, that, that, that's what makes this, our experience so unusual. And that's when I'm, I didn't even have words for that. And that's why I came up with the term shared near death experience, because we shared it together. And it's different from a shared death experience because he didn't die. He didn't complete the process. He came back and later he told me he had a choice too, and he decided to come back. And his body had a miraculous healing. Again, it is unexplained.
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And for you or did he come back for somebody else for.
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He came back and he said, you know, he said he was going to marry me. And I, I like, okay, you know, as I mentioned, I was teaching the marriage and family relationships class. So I was like, I told my students, you don't want someone who's going to be newly divorced, who's has a catastrophic health situation, who might be having financial issues, you know, whatever. Then one night, one day when I had still gone to go visit him, he was in the step down unit and he was saying how, how awful things had been and why he was going through this process. And, and, and I, I just looked at him and I took his hand, I said, you know, you have nowhere to go but up. And we both sat there and laughed. We just laughed. I was a broke, single mom. He was catastrophically ill. And, and that's like, I guess we're just gonna meet here now and do this journey together. Well, so that's what happened. So we got married ago. This fall is the 20th anniversary of that encounter in the hospital with him. He did make that stunning recovery. His kidneys have been great for the past 20 years. There is no medical explanation and his meta, his. I'm a, I'm a stickler for facts. And so his medical records have been reviewed by multiple doctors and our story was featured on the TV show the Unexplained with William Shatner in the first season. It was only a three minute clip and of course they focused on the blue beings and said that I was a great healer, which I'm not. It's really, it's not about me. It's. There's a spiritual force and we had a unique spiritual experience. It doesn't mean that I haven't had good experiences working with people who are also hovering out of body near death and had some pretty stunning recovery subsequently to that. But what makes our experience unusual is that we got to share it together. We met on that other side in that, that bubble of love and came back. And we have been together this whole time now for going on 20 years. And that. And his health has stayed pretty consistent. I mean, we're getting older, so we have older people, health issues, which are normal. But he is a walking miracle. And the other thing is the prognosis from what he had is it is a chronic condition. People who do survive it, who don't even have the catastrophic levels that he did maybe live eight years. So we're going on 20.
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That's on a me. I mean, Scarlett. That is an amazing story. All I see is like, you know, a movie. My head as a filmmaker, I'm like, oh, this here. And, oh, well, we'll cast Scarlett Johansson as Scarlett.
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Oh, perfect. Okay.
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No, it's a beautiful, beautiful story and it's just something that I haven't heard before. It's so unique in the near death space. I just, again, hundreds and hundreds of people I've spoken to about this. Your story is very, very unique and very powerful and very reaffirming to people about the other side and also about soul mates and about, you know, finding that connection we all strive for in this life. To find a connection with another person that can witness this ridiculous experience that we're all going through, you know, and be there as a witness, you know, more, more than your parents, more than. Or it is a very specific bond, you know, like I have that with my wife. Like, oh, okay, where you been? You know, all right, let's just, let's just go, you know, kind of. So have, do you have a message for people who are either going through a, a death cycle with a loved one, meaning that some, that someone they are, they are loving is going to die or or they themselves are understanding that they're going to die soon and they're afraid and they're watching this as something to hold on to as they're as they're going through this process. What message do you have for for those people?
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The message I would have for for people going through facing death either way, on any side of it is to remember the truth of who you are, that you are a spiritual being, that people like me are giving you this message for a this time to understand that you're going to be okay, that there is love, nothing but amazing love for you.
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And to please remember also that we are all of us are human and we're all going to pass. Pass on you know we all are. This too shall pass is a scripture that people listen to. All of what we're experiencing will pass. It is hard to lose somebody in life. It's hard to to face our own mortality. But for those who us who have, we know what is on the other side and we're all giving that collective voice. You hear the same thing, we're saying the same things. Our experiences might differ in certain ways, but the universal truth is we're all giving a message of love. That our consciousness exists and continues to exist for eternity. And to think of about it this way, we are just one being on this very small planet, in one galaxy, in a cosmos of trillions or more galaxies that's expanding that we cannot even comprehend. And there's something so huge that is in charge of all of this. It's not us. And we have to believe that however turbulent this earth journey has been, there is an incredible love and consciousness on the other side. That it's almost like going to sleep and waking up, up into that other place. And, and that your loved one who might be going now ahead of you is just going ahead. And they're going to be there when you get there. And if you're going first, you will be there when they get there. And that, that love and that consciousness is still going to keep you connected. And love, love always lives. It never dies. Your physical body does, but your love lives on and your consciousness lives on. And you can, can you can trust that, Trust it. And I hope that people are hearing what I'm saying, will listen not to the words but to the spiritual truth in their hearts. Because that's what I'm trying to, to give. It is a message of hope, but it's a message of healing and it's a message of love and to have a little faith that they, that their lives mattered, their spirits are incredibly important and that they will live on.
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Beautiful, beautiful message. Scarlett, where can people find out more about you and the work that you're doing and getting this stuff out there in the world?
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My website, which I think you'll, you'll post. It's just my name, Scarlet heimbook.com and I did write that book, we met on the other side and I did it to include resources, documentation and just, just to tell the story because it's a lot that happened over those periods and, and I'm very honest about my humanity and I want people to know, you know, I'm not a saint. You don't have to be a saint to have a spiritual experience or a near death experience. You just have to be willing to be open to, to love and, and the journey and see where, where it takes you. But they can go to my website. I've posted every interview I've had, any information they have. I'm not doing healing work right these these minutes. But I do tell people, and I mean this sincerely, I can't often respond back because the TV show aired all over the world and continues to and I, I can't respond to everybody. But if you do send me a message, I will promise you I will read it. I will pray for you. You will be on my prayer list in the morning and in the evenings and you can be assured that that will happen even if I can't get back to you personally. So they can find out everything about me on my website and more than they probably want to know in my book.
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Fair enough. Fair enough. Scarlett, do you have any parting messages for the audience in general?
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Well, just that I'm grateful for anyone who's listened to what I've had to say and that I hope that what I didn't have to say inspires them to know that love will show up and find them in the most un unexpected ways on this side and on the other.
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It's been such a pleasure and honor speaking to you. Thank you so much for sharing your experience with all of us and I, I do appreciate everything you're doing to help awaken this planet. So thank you again.
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Thank you Alex.
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I want to thank Scarlett so much for coming on the show and sharing her story with all of us. If you want to get links to anything we spoke about in this episode, head over to the show notes at next levelsoul.com forward/622 now. If this conversation stirred something in you, there's more waiting. You can listen to this episode completely Commercial free on next level Soul TV's app where Soul meets streaming. Watch and listen on Apple iOS, Android, Apple TV, Roku, Android TV, Fire TV, LG and Samsung apps anytime, anywhere. Begin your awakening at Next Level Soul. Thank you so much for listening. As I always say, trust the journey. It's there to teach you. I'll see you next time.
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