Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

The Raw Truth about Sex Work, Shame, and Autonomy with Ex-Webcam Girl and Author Breezie Axelrod

Season 6, Episode 747: The Raw Truth about Sex Work, Shame, and Autonomy with Ex-Webcam Girl and Author Breezie Axelrod. What happens when a woman loses everything — her financial stability, her family support, even access to her own bank accounts — and the only thing left is her body and her will to survive? The Webcam Girl Next-Door is Breezie Axelrod's raw, unapologetic memoir detailing how she went from full-time caregiver to webcam performer after her father's sudden abduction and a devastating family betrayal left her financially stranded. No ID. No recent work history. No safety net. What followed wasn't fantasy — it was survival. Told through her real, unfiltered journal entries, Breezie documents the emotional, sexual, and psychological realities of entering the webcam world out of desperation. The book pulls back the curtain on digital intimacy, power dynamics, shame, empowerment, and the complicated truth behind subscription-based adult platforms. This isn't a glamorized "sex work success" story. It's messy. Vulnerable. Sometimes dark. Sometimes funny. And fiercely honest about what it means to monetize desire when the alternative is losing everything. Get the book "The Webcam Girl Next-Door" (affiliate link): https://amzn.to/4utjCPh Topics: – The raw realities of webcam performance – What people get wrong about online sex work – Survival sex vs. empowerment narratives – Digital intimacy and the illusion of control – Family betrayal and rebuilding from nothing Emotional connection is often more valuable than explicit content, men who wanted to participate often just wanted a genuine human connection. From Caregiver to Webcam Performer Memoir Independence and Platform Evolution Connecting with Regulars Beyond the Sexual Respecting Different Sexual Preferences Setting Boundaries in Sex Work Business Struggling Without Resources and Support Pioneering Women's Advertising Network Online Long Distance Connection and Heartbreak Cultural Shame Around Sexuality Why Women Cheat, Men Cheat, and Repression of Desires and the real harm of denying our human sexuality Fighting for Sexual Empowerment and Independence Powerful Men Protected by Wealth and Influence want to control women who are making money off themselves as entrepreneurs Society's Unsustainable System Will Collapse Women's Rights and Respect in Relationships Why Women Leave and Men Need to Evolve Projection? Perceptions? Insights. Shame, and Sexual Repression in Society Women Are Giving Up on Men Women do not mutilate yourself and cripple your pleasure! Keep all those genital parts for maximal pleasure. Don't steal your own enjoyment by doing harmful alterations to your genitals. Beach House Views, Dark Romance Stalker Suspense Thriller by Ruan Willow: Get Ruan Willow's new dark romance suspense thriller fiction novel "Beach House Views" for only $0.99 (for a limited time only) universal link https://mybook.to/beachhouseviews ⁠Support the show and get exclusive content⁠ Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters ⁠https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow The Arousal Package Novella witch story: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thearousalpackage Universal link: https://mybook.to/thearousalpack Ryze coffee use code podna15 to get 15% OFF at (affiliate) https://www.ryzesuperfoods.com/ Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://offers.feeliate.com/to92wTJh Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 ⁠⁠https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow⁠ Ruan's Book: Beach House Views: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/beachhouseviewsbook https://mybook.to/beachhouseviews Copyright Pink Infinity Publi...

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Adam Darrow, From Threesomes to Ethical Non-Monogamy, One Man's Journey Beyond Jealousy and Societal Induced Shame

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This is a replay to get the video version of the episode onto podcast apps that previously only had the audio version. Season 6, Episode 746: From Threesomes to Non-Monogamy: One Man's Journey Beyond Jealousy and Shame with author Adam Darrow about his edgy, honest, and raw memoir "Seek the Risk" (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/3KrboVR This was an enlightening conversation and one many should listen to. Expanding our boundaries may seem difficult, and it doesn't pan out for everyone, but either way, valuble lessons are learned about oneself, one's limitations become clearer when faced with new challenges, and what we are willing to do for love becomes obvious. A question to ask yourself, well, more than one, what cultural shame is holding you back? Why should we allow culture to decide what is acceptable and what isn't? Would you ever stare normalcy in the face and give it the finger and do what you want? Even if it cost you relationships? Can you withstand the heat of a cultural assault from a judgmental mob of societal norm enforcers? (even if they are your friends and family?) Or would you just stand up tall, point your chin up, and say FU and just do it? When Adam Darrow met Jane at forty, he thought he was the adventurous one. After all, he'd spent his twenties competing in extreme sports and had explored threesomes—that made him pretty edgy, right? Then Jane, a PhD psychologist who spoke five languages, told him she didn't do boyfriends (and she meant it). Drawing from his background in extreme sports, Darrow spent two and a half years transitioning into non-monogamy, followed by three challenging years of emotional work before finding equilibrium. The journey wasn't easy. He didn't think he could do it. When his partner Jane publicly announced their arrangement on Facebook in 2009, Darrow watched his life wildly transform. His best friend called him derogatory names. But over time, he discovered something unexpected: jealousy could be channeled into motivation to become a better partner. What initially felt emasculating became an opportunity to overcome deep-seated insecurities like imposter syndrome and validation-seeking. His memoir chronicles this transformative experience through vulnerable storytelling that includes explicit extreme sexual details and uncomfortable emotional truths, as well as healing and growth. How did keeping emotions bottled up nearly break him? The book explores that question while advocating for moving beyond societal shame around sexuality, relationship conformity, and focusing on personal authenticity rather than rigid beliefs about relationships. Estimated Timeline: Adam Darrow's Journey Into Non-Monogamy 00:03:40 - PhD Psychologist with Unconventional Past 00:06:43 - Extreme Sports Skills Applied to Non-Monogamy 00:09:13 - Separating Sex from Emotion in Relationships 00:19:57 - Managing Jealousy Through Don't Ask, Don't Tell 00:22:26 - From Jealousy to Compersion in Open Relationships 00:25:11 - Breaking Through Shame and Choosing Each Other 00:28:42 - Walking the Beach: Questioning My Limits, book excerpt 00:33:17 - Understanding Nesting Couples and Non-Monogamy 00:39:43 - Letting Go of Control in Relationships 00:46:22 - Vulnerability and Authenticity in Memoir Writing 00:51:51 - Writing the Book and Her Reaction 00:58:17 - Identity Beyond Sexual Acts, sexuality 01:06:44 - Overcoming Jealousy Through Personal Growth 01:11:27 - Healthy vs Unhealthy Jealousy in Relationships Connect with Adam Darrow: Link to the books website www.seektherisk.net Substack seektherisk.substack.com Email for folks to contact Adam at adam@seektherisk.net insta: @seektherisk Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

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Fated Mates and Spicy Scenes: A Deep Dive into Paranormal Shifter Romance Writing with Author Adeline Bryant

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Season 6, Episode 745: Fated Mates and Spicy Scenes: A Deep Dive into Paranormal Shifter Romance Writing with Author Adeline Bryant, plus excerpt from Adeline's Book "Fated", narrated by podcast host and narrator Ruan Willow. The excerpt is at the end, but also it is its own episode on the podcast in episode 744. Author Bio: Author's website. https://addiewrotethat.com/ Get the book "Fated" (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/4uhcQvP Adeline Bryant is an award-winning indie author of emotionally raw stories that explore identity, belonging, and the cost of choice. Armed with a doctorate in education and an endless supply of imagination, she's always been fascinated by the transformative power of stories and the bonds they create. Adeline lives in Minneapolis, MN, with her husband and their two feline overlords. When she's not writing, she can usually be found devouring books, rocking her signature red lipstick, and shamelessly belting out Taylor Swift songs. She firmly believes that every great story deserves a bottle of wine and a healthy dose of magic (and smut) Discussion Topics: Romance Author, Indie Author, Honey And Jalapeno Book Fair, Minneapolis, Paranormal Romance, Fated Mates, Male-Male Romance, Book Excerpt, Character Development, World Building, Writing Process, Emotional Storytelling, Indie Publishing, Book Events, Creative Writing, Author Interviews, Writing Community, Smut In Romance, Character Arcs, Storytelling Techniques Quotes from Adeline Bryant "I think it's really healing for especially women to read these kinds of things." "Just do things. Keep reading. Keep reading smutty books." Summary: Adeline discusses her debut novel, "Fated", a paranormal romance featuring wolf shifters and a spicy male-male love story between an alpha wolf and a beta. Discover what inspired her to transition from reading thrillers to writing romance, the importance of including sensuality in storytelling, and the challenges of indie publishing. Adeline also reveals her unique approach to world-building and how her characters came to life. She wrote a bible for the world the wolves live in! As we prepare for the upcoming Honey and Jalapeno Book Fair in Minnesota, Adeline shares exciting details about her character-inspired candle collaboration and the immersive experience she aims to create for her readers. Enjoy the chat about the transformative power of stories, the joy of indie publishing, and the importance of embracing creativity. Just gotta dive in and write that book! Ruan's Book: Beach House Views: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/beachhouseviewsbook https://mybook.to/beachhouseviews Copyright Pink Infinity Publishing 2026. All Rights Reserved.

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Spicy Paranormal MM Wolf Shifter Sex Scene Excerpt from Fated by Adeline Bryant

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Season 6, Episode 744: Spicy Paranormal MM Wolf Shifter Sex Scene Excerpt from the book "Fated" by Adeline Bryant, narrated by Ruan Willow. Listen to the interview with the author Adeline Bryant in episode 745. Adeline's website. https://addiewrotethat.com/ Get the book Fated (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/49EpwED Author Bio: Adeline Bryant is an award-winning indie author of emotionally raw stories that explore identity, belonging, and the cost of choice. Armed with a doctorate in education and an endless supply of imagination, she's always been fascinated by the transformative power of stories and the bonds they create. Adeline lives in Minneapolis, MN, with her husband and their two feline overlords. When she's not writing, she can usually be found devouring books, rocking her signature red lipstick, and shamelessly belting out Taylor Swift songs. She firmly believes that every great story deserves a bottle of wine and a healthy dose of magic (and smut).

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Beach House Views Excerpt Home Tour Sex

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Season 6, Episode 743: It's launch day! Beach House Views is live and it's on sale for only $0.99! Get it here: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/beachhouseviewsbook Ebook $0.99 https://mybook.to/beachhouseviews Book Blurb: A gripping story of desire loaded with lust, betrayal, and survival where nothing is truly as it seems. Love can turn dark when obsession takes over. Juniper and Bridge miraculously find their dream house. It's on the beach! The house is eerily perfect, and the couple can't help but be drawn to its charm and the allure of its famous previous owner, a best-selling author, world-renowned. It seems to be the ideal place for them to start a new chapter in their lives and maybe make a top-notch nursery for that baby they've so desperately been trying for. During their tour of the beachfront home, Juniper finds a mysterious object in the kitchen, a hidden key in an odd place, hinting that there may be more to this picture-perfect place than meets the eye. Blinded by the gorgeous scenery and happiness with her husband, she doesn't have a clue about the shocking secret the key holds. Mysteries pop up that make it undeniable that something odd could be lurking in the house. Their world crumbles when they find the beach views they didn't want. The terrifying fixation spirals into a dark twisted fantasy, shattering their illusion of safety. The nightmare violates their freedom as his chilling plan is revealed. Tropes: Dark romance, spicy intimate open door, suspense thriller, voyeurism, adventurous intimacy, swinging friends with benefits FF, FM, MMF, cats https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow

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Kaela Luna: From Corporate Editor to Award-Winning Trans Niche Content Creator, Giantess Videos

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Season 6, Episode 742: Kaela Luna, From Corporate Editor to Award-Winning Trans Creator, adult performer. Winning an award for your passion project instead of your mainstream work can completely change how you see your career. That's exactly what happened to Kaela Luna, trans adult performer and content creator, when she took home Best Content Creator at the 2026 Trans Erotica Awards. #trans #sexuality #sexualitypower #sexualhealth #mentalhealth #adultindustry Before building her creative empire, Kaela spent years in a soulless corporate video editing job. Transitioning into sex work gave her the freedom to channel those technical skills into projects that actually matter to her, including niche giantess content that demands clever work with angles, sound design, and visual effects. As one of very few trans women creating giantess material, she's found it both personally rewarding and nicely profitable. Kaela connects creative fantasy to psychological healing, arguing that kinks like giantess content offer real therapeutic value by reversing power dynamics in safe, consensual ways. She is in New York rather than chasing industry pressure elsewhere, and the decision paid off. https://kaelaluna.com/ Discussion topics: Adult Performer Kaela Luna Wins Content Creator Award Winning Best Content Creator Award Exploring Giantess Content and Size Fetish Community Creating Custom Content That Resonates Personally From Fantasy to Content Creation Balancing Mainstream Success with Passion Projects Platform Struggles and Content Creation Challenges Repressed Shame and External Judgment Control Backfires: Why Restrictions Create Resistance Human Kindness Overcoming Fear and Prejudice Why Judge Others' Life Choices? Patriarchy's Pushback Against Female Empowerment Art, Sexuality, and Human Nature Balancing Content Creation and Platform Restrictions Podcast Host Ruan Willow: Get Ruan Willow's new dark romance suspense thriller fiction novel "Beach House Views" for only $0.99 (for a limited time only) universal link https://mybook.to/beachhouseviews⁠https://pinkinfinitypublishing.com/honey-and-jalapeno-book-fair-a-minnesota-book-fair/ ⁠⁠Support the show and get exclusive content⁠⁠ Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters ⁠⁠https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow⁠ Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at ⁠https://www.kiiroo.com/⁠ ⁠https://offers.feeliate.com/to92wTJh⁠ <p class="e-10270-text encore-text-body-medium" data-encore-id= "text" data-slate-node="element" data-slate-fragment= "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...

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Spicy to Non Spicy Character-Driven Romance and the Freedom of Indie Publishing with Author Starr Z. Davies

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Season 6, Episode 741: Spicy to Non Spicy Romance: Character-Driven Romance and the Freedom of Indie Publishing with Author Starr Z. Davies. We chatted about the Honey and Jalapeno Romance Bookfair that I am hosting in Minnesota May 17th, 2026, and that both of us will be attending as authors at the Big Wood Brewery in Vadnais Heights, MN, learn more: https://pinkinfinitypublishing.com/honey-and-jalapeno-book-fair-a-minnesota-book-fair/ Author Bio: STARR Z. DAVIES is an award-winning author of over 20 tales that span dystopian realms, epic fantasies, and echoes of forgotten histories. Dubbed the "Character Assassin," she weaves stories where heroes are tested by fire—both emotional and physical. From her woodland home in northern Wisconsin, she crafts worlds while surrounded by her greatest allies: a supportive husband, two imaginative children, and a curious menagerie of robotic pets. When not conjuring new adventures, she dabbles in home enchantments, swims like a siren, battles through video game quests, and devours books like ancient tomes of power. Connect with Starr: Kickstarter for Stormcrown (launches on Tuesday): https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/szdavies/stormcrown?ref=4mzuls Website: https://www.starrzdavies.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/s.z.davies/ Books (affiliate links): Stormvalor https://amzn.to/4tP57Vp Fractured Empire Series: https://amzn.to/4tYevpS Topics of Discussion: Writing Across Romance Spectrum Writing Age-Appropriate Content as Authors Writing Sex Scenes Into Your Story Cutting Scenes That Don't Feel Genuine Navigating Genre Labels and Reader Expectations Amazon's Censorship of Sexual Content Amazon's Unfair Author Review Policies Dealing with AI Accusations and Online Bullying Creating Characters Over Twenty Years Ago How Language and Fantasy Changed My Writing Path Writing Fast and Managing Multiple Projects Social Media Presence and Book Fair Preparations Key Takeaways: • Intimate scenes should emerge organically from character authenticity rather than being added to meet genre expectations. Both authors write what feels true to their stories, not what readers demand. • Indie publishing offers creative freedom that traditional publishing restricts, allowing authors to explore mature themes without censorship or pressure to fit commercial standards and limitiations. • Genre classification for romance blended with fantasy is different for Romantasy, romantic fantasy, and fantasy romance. Each of the blends is inherently subjective, making marketing challenging because readers interpret the same work differently regardless of authors' content descriptions. Podcast Host Ruan Willow: Get Ruan Willow's new dark romance suspense thriller fiction novel "Beach House Views" for only $0.99 (for a limited time only) universal link https://mybook.to/beachhouseviews ⁠Support the show and get exclusive content⁠ Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters ⁠https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://offers.feeliate.com/to92wTJh Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 ⁠⁠https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow⁠⁠ Ruan's book Beach House Views https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/beachhouseviewsbook directly from Ruan https://payhip.com/b/pMxn3 Credit bundles are an easy, thoughtful gift and can be purchased at the last minute! Try out Libro FM (affiliate link) https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinmid=25361&awinaffid=2065431&ued=https%3A%2F%2Flibro.fm%2Fgift Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing LLC. All Rights Reserved.

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Reigniting Passion: "The Sure Thing" Practice for an Optimal Sex Life with Guide Elana Auerbach

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Season 6, Episode 740: Reigniting Passion: "The Sure Thing" Practice for an Optimal Sex Life with sensuality guide and educator Elana Auerbach. Guest Bio: Elana is a lover, mother, author, mentor, activator, and priestess. While Elana has a wealth of professional experience guiding people deeper into their bodies and their pleasure, The Sure Thing comes directly from her personal life. After years of frustration and failed gimmicks to try to re-spark the passion in her 20-year marriage, Elana created The Sure Thing. She wrote this book because she wants everyone to have access to this life altering practice. Website: https://surethingexperiment.com/ FB: facebook.com/ElanaAuerbachAuthor IG: https://www.instagram.com/elana.auerbach/ A guided journey to connect with your wild, sensual self, your passion, and desire! https://guide.surethingexperiment.com/wild-sensual-self Get the book "The Sure Thing: A Pleasure Practice to Revive the Spark" (affiliate link): https://amzn.to/4ugZIpY Get Ruan Willow's new dark romance suspense thriller fiction novel "Beach House Views" for only $0.99 (for a limited time only) universal link https://mybook.to/beachhouseviews ⁠Support the show and get exclusive content⁠ Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters ⁠https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://offers.feeliate.com/to92wTJh Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 ⁠⁠https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow⁠⁠ Ruan's book Beach House Views https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/beachhouseviewsbook directly from Ruan https://payhip.com/b/pMxn3 Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing LLC. All Rights Reserved. Discussion Topics: From Passion to Purpose: Reclaiming Intimacy Rekindling Intimacy Through Shabbat Rituals Reviving Intimacy Through Weekly Commitment Writing a Book About Reviving Intimacy Addressing Jealousy in Long-Distance Relationships Understanding Your Inner Pantheon and Self-Awareness Building a Weekly Pleasure Practice Habit Menopause, Body Changes, and Reclaiming Pleasure Sexuality and Confidence Growing With Age Scheduling Intimacy: Building Connection Together Building Your "I Know What I Want" Muscle Sex as Duty vs. Personal Pleasure Unlocking Creative Flow Through Sensuality Exploring Your Body and Sexual Pleasure Exploring Diverse Gemstone Toys and Designs Vivacious Viv: Reclaiming My Wild Self Women Breaking Free from Societal Roles The Sure Thing Love Experiment Connect Through Events and Online Community Key Takeaways: Responsive desire, which develops through safe and present connection, is completely valid. • A scheduled "sure thing" can dissolve years of emotional buildup in weeks, consistency matters more than spontaneity for reconnecting in long-term relationships. • Intimacy is a learnable skill requiring regular practice, not something that should be left to chance or assumed to naturally flourish after decades together. • Menopause marks a transition to continued vitality, not decline, reframing aging as an opportunity rather than loss is key to maintaining desire and self-worth.

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Bisexual MILF and Model LaLa Tada Mattress Actress, Swinging, and Life as a Mom, and Pet Owner

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Season 6, Episode 739: Replay to bring the video version to podcast audiences. Bisexual MILF and Model LaLa Tada Mattress Actress, Swinging, and Life, career, her Psychology and Healthcare Degree, Lactation consulting, family, and pets. She has a hairless cat! Listen to the fun and intriguing conversation with LaLa Tada as she shares her unique journey into the adult film industry and the swinger lifestyle. Discover how LaLa's path, filled with twists and turns, led her to embrace her true self and find empowerment in her career and personal life. LaLa Tada opens up about her beginnings in the adult industry, her experiences with OnlyFans, and how she balances her professional life with her family. She candidly discusses the acceptance of her work in Las Vegas versus other parts of the country, and how her psychology degree influences her parenting style. Explore the dynamics of Lala's relationships, her adventures in the swinger lifestyle, and the importance of setting boundaries. Learn about the various fetishes she's explored, including pee and fart fetishes, and how she navigates the challenges and joys of her career in the adult film industry. Don't miss this enlightening and empowering conversation that celebrates sexuality, personal freedom, and the journey to self-discovery. Video version https://youtu.be/7wzP2ps_ftU - 02:07 - How did you end up where you are today? - 07:11 - I am a Board Certified Lactation Consultant - 09:00 - Do you like what you're doing? - 09:53 - Do you feel like living in Vegas it's a little bit more acceptable - 13:44 - Do your kids know what you do or do you hide it - 17:54 - Your psychology degree colors how you interact - 18:29 - So does your husband still like to shoot stuff with you - 22:09 - Do you like the label of milf? - 26:11 - Where do you see yourself going in the future - 29:36 - Do you have certain people that you frequently work - 34:05 - Pee is sterile, right? If it wasn't, you'd have bladder infection - 35:52 - What other fetishes have you done - 40:13 - You've done photo shoots with rope - 40:39 - Would you be willing to talk about your experiences in the lifestyle - 43:48 - How do you generally find people? - 46:35 - Do you really have a hairless cat? Yes, I do and other pets - 52:57 - The rabbits have modified their burrow to stay warm in all weather LaLa Tada's website at https://www.lalatada.com/ Quotes from Lala Tad Da: "My journey, like I always say, was not linear by any means. There's all kinds of twists and turns and ups and downs." "I get to express myself in ways that I feel like I wasn't able to prior to, like, you know, deciding to go all out with this." "I'm 41. I don't mind sharing my age. I celebrate it." Quote from Ruan Willow: "I bet your kids are growing up without shame about sexuality and I think that is just huge." Podcast Host Ruan Willow's Books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Holiday Smut Audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thesmuttylittleholidayaudiobook

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Dani Synclair, Adult Performer, on BDSM, Fetishes, and the Freedom of Self Expression

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This video was previously aired as an audio, it is being replayed to broadcast the video version. Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow podcast, season 6, Episode 738: A deep dive into the alluring world of BDSM relationships, impact play, and adult content creation with the enchanting Dani Synclair. Standing tall at 5'9", this ebony pro switch and OnlyFans siren shares her journey from personal exploration to professional success in the realm of kink. Discover how a simple foot fetish led Dani to embrace her desires and transform them into a fulfilling career. Connect with Dani: Instagram at danisynclair.xo Twitter/X at DaniSynclair In this episode, Dani opens up about her experiences in the dungeon, the connections she forms with clients, and the fascinating stories behind their fetishes. From the psychological aspects of kink to the importance of communication and consent, Dani reveals the intricate dynamics that make up her world. Learn about the various kinks she enjoys, her creative process for content creation, and how she navigates the complexities of being a public figure in the adult industry. With a focus on self-care, mental well-being, mental health, and sexual health, Dani emphasizes the importance of understanding one's own boundaries and desires. Whether you're curious about BDSM, an aspiring content creator, or simply interested in the stories that shape our intimate lives, this episode is packed with insights and inspiration. Tune in for an unforgettable conversation that celebrates the beauty of self-expression and connection. Quotes from Dani from the interview: "The most enjoyable part is meeting people, whether it's clients or other creators in the industry." "It's like a whole mental thing where it's not just the feeling of getting spanked." "Once your face is out there, you can't get rid of it. It is there forever." Timeline: 00:00 - Ruan Willow introduces Dani Synclair, a professional BDSM switch 02:55 - Do you find most people have like, a story that led to the fetish? 06:32 - Talk a little bit about the dungeon that you go to 10:04 - Now what kind of kinks do you engage in there 15:56 - If someone asked you what you like about spanking, what would you say 21:45 - How did you become involved in Impact play at such a young age 27:48 - I'm very claustrophobic, so that sounds very terrifying to me 31:00 - Do you do filming too? Yes. So I do the whole content creation 36:00 - Now is this when you first started doing this kind of thing 37:58 - Do you prefer one over the other? Doing the videos versus the live events 41:42 - Do you get a lot of piracy or do you just have no idea 44:07 - Do you have any regrets of what you've done so far 46:48 - Do you do a lot of editing yourself? Yeah, I do 48:42 - The future 50:07 - When you're traveling it's literally just for work 52:56 - How do you get your brain ready for a scene before you do it Clip from the end of the episode: Servicing the Workmen audiobook at https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventuresaudiobook In ebook and paperback https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures New book, dark romance, thriller, suspense, stalker, lots of sex and erotic spicy storytelling, Beach House Views, now only $0.99 https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/beachhouseviewsbook

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