Season 6, Episode 740: Reigniting Passion: "The Sure Thing" Practice for an Optimal Sex Life with sensuality guide and educator Elana Auerbach.

Guest Bio:

Elana is a lover, mother, author, mentor, activator, and priestess. While Elana has a wealth of professional experience guiding people deeper into their bodies and their pleasure, The Sure Thing comes directly from her personal life. After years of frustration and failed gimmicks to try to re-spark the passion in her 20-year marriage, Elana created The Sure Thing. She wrote this book because she wants everyone to have access to this life altering practice.

Website: https://surethingexperiment.com/

FB: facebook.com/ElanaAuerbachAuthor

IG: https://www.instagram.com/elana.auerbach/

A guided journey to connect with your wild, sensual self, your passion, and desire!

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Discussion Topics:

From Passion to Purpose: Reclaiming Intimacy

Rekindling Intimacy Through Shabbat Rituals

Reviving Intimacy Through Weekly Commitment

Writing a Book About Reviving Intimacy

Addressing Jealousy in Long-Distance Relationships

Understanding Your Inner Pantheon and Self-Awareness

Building a Weekly Pleasure Practice Habit

Menopause, Body Changes, and Reclaiming Pleasure

Sexuality and Confidence Growing With Age

Scheduling Intimacy: Building Connection Together

Building Your "I Know What I Want" Muscle

Sex as Duty vs. Personal Pleasure

Unlocking Creative Flow Through Sensuality

Exploring Your Body and Sexual Pleasure

Exploring Diverse Gemstone Toys and Designs

Vivacious Viv: Reclaiming My Wild Self

Women Breaking Free from Societal Roles

The Sure Thing Love Experiment

Connect Through Events and Online Community

Key Takeaways:

Responsive desire, which develops through safe and present connection, is completely valid.

• A scheduled "sure thing" can dissolve years of emotional buildup in weeks, consistency matters more than spontaneity for reconnecting in long-term relationships.

• Intimacy is a learnable skill requiring regular practice, not something that should be left to chance or assumed to naturally flourish after decades together.

• Menopause marks a transition to continued vitality, not decline, reframing aging as an opportunity rather than loss is key to maintaining desire and self-worth.