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Chuck Wood II and I chat about a really, really important topic in ministry: Being on the same page with your spouse.

Quotes:

* If we have active disagreement, we at least know where we stand. But if we have passive indifference… that can lead to a whole lot of other things that never get dealt with.”

* “When you’re single, you just throw your gear in the back of the Humvee and take off. But when you’re married, it’s like getting on a C-130—you don’t just throw your stuff in; you latch it down.”

* “If you’re in ministry as a family, that doesn’t mean that everybody’s going to do the same things.”

* “Different is not bad. Different is actually good.”

* “Live with your spouse in an understanding way—that requires listening, not just trying to vision-cast.”

Season 9: On Pioneering/How to Stick, Episode 16

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