It's always their fault.

Everyone’s got a narcissist story these days. IT’S ALWAYS THE FAULT OF THE NARCISSIST!

Someone said to me a few years ago that a narcissist is essentially someone who hasn’t healed their trauma. And they aren’t interested in healing it.

But what if this isn’t about how evil and awful the narcissist is? What if it’s about you and the 8000 red flags and signs you ignored, telling you this wasn’t right?

In fact, that’s the only thing it’s about: How you chose wrong and how blaming someone else is keeping you stuck in a cycle of victimhood and re-traumatization.

In this episode:

The price for being a victim and not taking radical self-responsibility
Scorpions gonna sting. Narcs gonna narc. Do you play with them anyway?
Why is there “chemistry” with a narcissist or someone who may not be good for you?
Does that mean that all “chemistry” now can’t be trusted?
99.9% of relationships have this flaw
The most important juncture in any relationship
The reasons why people stay where they know it’s not good for them
How to break free and choose better: and choose YOU.

COME TO ANAMI LAND!

We’ll be opening our private, exclusive Anami Land membership community in the coming weeks.

This will be a place for people who’ve taken our salons to keep going in there work. And for those of you who’ve been hovering on the outskirts of Anami Land, it’s open to you too.

People have been asking—begging—us to create a dating site for ages.

This will function as that, a community for like-minded Anami enthusiasts—singles, couples, men and women—everyone looking to take their lives, growth and relationships to the next level.

Go to kimanami.com/anamiland to signup on the waitlist and be notified of when we open the doors.