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Welcome to Placemarker4Perversion, hosted by Mistress Audry Lu Black. Join me as we leave behind the mundane and draw back the velvet curtain to learn new things and explore the philosophical depths of kink. This inclusive space dismantles rigid expectations, welcoming seasoned sensualists, the “just curious”, and tenderfoot trembling on the threshold. You'll find a sanctuary here.
Even after 25 years of wielding the lash and enjoying sculpting consensual behavioral modification techniques, Mistress Audry Lu Black knows the pursuit of understanding is an unending dance—and her kink. What can want teach us? How are lust and longing powerful tools for self-actualization? From Plato to pegging, fisting to Freud. We’ll learn together from experts, philosophers, voices you have never heard, and guardians of ethical play.
Join us to explore power, vulnerability, and consent, where the human mind meets ethical kink - one knot, one caress, one whispered word at a time.

Mistress AudryLu Black has a chat with Lady Delisha about her hat kink. In this engaging conversation, AudryLu Black and Lady Delisha explore the intriguing world of kinks, with a particular focus on hats in attraction and identity, the power of transformative roleplay, and the playful nature of kinks. Content warning: insertion playFeatured toy: Strap on Me, Strapless Strap onhttps://strap-on-me.us/products/vibrating-strap-on-remote-controlledCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this conversation, AudryLu Black and the Feral Gargoyle delve into monster fucking, exploring its definitions, the importance of consent, and the personal journeys that lead individuals to find attraction in monstrous figures. They discuss identity, kink, and the power dynamics involved in monster play. In this engaging conversation, the Feral Gargoyle and AudryLu delve into the unique aspects of the monster community, exploring identities, the intersection of kink and comfort, and the fascinating world of fantasy-themed sex toys. They discuss the challenges of finding like-minded individuals, the creativity of independent artisans, and the importance of understanding one's own desires and preferences in sexual wellness. They discuss the crafting of unique BDSM tools, the cultural influences on kink practices, and the importance of consent and interpretation in intimate relationships.Resources in today’s episode: Bad Dragon https://bad-dragon.com/Bunny Flogger https://www.bunnyflogger.com/Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab https://blackphoenixalchemylab.com/Newey Cobalt Designs https://nuicobaltdesigns.com/collections/nui-cobalt-fragrancesToday’s toy is Monster Maws, silicone sex toys made to look like the open jaws of a monster with the tongue sticking out, intended for insertion.Content Warning: discussions around consent and power dynamicsCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren, and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Play with Casey GarnerMistress AudryLu Black talks with Casey Garner about the importance of play and what it does for us psychologically, mentally and emotionally. They’ll also discuss transitioning play into the bedroom with a little kink. Resources in today’s episode:The Gamemaster’s Handbook of Proactive Roleplaying by Jonah Fishel, Tristan Fishel https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/65212673-the-game-master-s-handbook-of-proactive-roleplayingUnfuck Your Boundaries by Faith G. Harper https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/46231474-unfuck-your-boundariesPeter Grey definition of play – self-chosen and self-directed. Play is intrinsically motivated; the means are more valued than ends. Play is guided by mental rules, but the rules leave room for creativity. Play is imaginative. Play is conducted in an alert, active, but relatively non-stressed frame of mind.Midori definition of play unique definition of BDSM. It is childhood joyous play with adult sexual privilege, and cool toys. Content Warning: Knife play, blood play, incest, discussions around consent, and medical information "California Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist #144510 and Registered Associate Professional Clinical Counselor #15609, supervised by Kelly Van Amberg, LCSW #92157." http://caseygarnertherapy.carrd.com Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Play with Casey GarnerMistress AudryLu Black talks with Casey Garner about the importance of play and what it does for us psychologically, mentally and emotionally. They’ll also discuss transitioning play into the bedroom with a little kink. Resources in today’s episode:The Gamemaster’s Handbook of Proactive Roleplaying by Jonah Fishel, Tristan Fishel https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/65212673-the-game-master-s-handbook-of-proactive-roleplayingUnfuck Your Boundaries by Faith G. Harper https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/46231474-unfuck-your-boundariesPeter Grey definition of play – self-chosen and self-directed. Play is intrinsically motivated; the means are more valued than ends. Play is guided by mental rules, but the rules leave room for creativity. Play is imaginative. Play is conducted in an alert, active, but relatively non-stressed frame of mind.Midori definition of play unique definition of BDSM. It is childhood joyous play with adult sexual privilege, and cool toys. Content Warning: Knife play, blood play, incest, discussions around consent, and medical information "California Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist #144510 and Registered Associate Professional Clinical Counselor #15609, supervised by Kelly Van Amberg, LCSW #92157." http://caseygarnertherapy.carrd.com Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

How To Talk To Your Medical Advisor About Your Kink and BDSM with Nurse JessMistress AudryLu Black sits down with Nurse Jess to discuss how to talk to your medical advisor about your kink and BDSM.Content warning: blood, sexual assault, sex trafficking, and medical information. Featured toy: OFFICIAL Hitachi Magic Wand Original Model HV260 https://hitachimagic.com/We apologize for the sound quality in the first half of the production. It does greatly improve in the second half.Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Mistress AudryLu Black sits down with author and playwright Dana Hammer to discuss all things menstruation, specifically menstrual poverty, preparedness and of course, period sex.Content warning: Child abuse, blood, physical and sexual assault, body and gender dysphoriaLinks to some of Dana Hammer’s bookshttps://www.amazon.com/Cannibals-Guide-Fasting-Dana-Hammer/dp/1953971512https://www.amazon.com/Best-Friend-Athena-Dana-Hammer-ebook/dp/B0BHH74MNM/ref=sr_1_1?crid=VNNPD8I77YNG&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.MCH_4impkKgzJVEO21YSsRsJSGtStzKexrC9PHp2ZgEvo222xxH3HA_A12vQWsMweORK0qXpJuUujGSYjBkmeVcjVOlzKfc4rfcKOHaQmqwmb4kRf-f8s51GfOS9N2F2GftE6sQ7ZFRAqder3g1wCw.DsUjeraQinUMAHeRAHzO6SAyrzvPp1Ntep1XnmDDzRs&dib_tag=se&keywords=My+best+friend+athena&qid=1744153260&s=books&sprefix=my+best+friend+athena%2Cstripbooks%2C127&sr=1-1www.danahammer.comAlways period panties: https://www.always.comClit suckler: https://www.tracysdog.com/products/og-pro2-clitoral-sucking-vibratorCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Join Mistress AudryLu Black and adjunct professor Dr. Martin Young as they discuss their favorite philosophies and how they relate to kink.For further reading recommendations by Dr. Martin Young:https://madwizard.com/recommends.htm Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Part Two: The Fat Troublemakr Mistress AudryLu Black sits down with the Fat Troublemakr to discuss the myths around fat sex and the importance of accessibility in kink. They also talk about how to make sex more accessible and fun for all body types using resources like the wedge or a liberator. https://www.liberator.com/liberator-wedge-sex-pillow.html https://womanizer.com – duo 2 submersible https://hitachimagic.com https://tracysdog.com/collections/clit-sucking-vibrator Content warning: Fat phobia, abuse, disordered eating, and feeding abuses Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Part One: The Fat TroublemakrMistress AudryLu Black sits down with the Fat Troublemakr to discuss the myths around fat sex and the importance of accessibility in kink. They also talk about how to make sex more accessible and fun for all body types using resources like the wedge or a liberator.https://www.liberator.com/liberator-wedge-sex-pillow.htmlhttps://womanizer.com – duo 2 submersiblehttps://hitachimagic.comhttps://tracysdog.com/collections/clit-sucking-vibrator Content warning: Fat phobia, abuse, disordered eating, and feeding abuses Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Mistress AudryLu Black delves into sexy talk with her guest, Stina French. Stina hosts the online monthly series Listen to Your Skin and is the editor and publisher of the Listen to Your Skin Anthology and Take the Fruit. In today’s episode, language is kink, from sexting and whispering sweet nothings to safe words. In this episode, they cover it all.Content Warning: Self-harmLinks:https://www.thegreatbritishbookshop.co.uk/products/take-the-fruithttps://www.thegreatbritishbookshop.co.uk/products/listen-to-your-skin-an-anthology-of-queer-and-self-loveListen2YourSkin live events at IG@listen2yourskin.com