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Placemarker 4 Perversion Podcast
Hosted by Audry Lu Black · EN
Welcome to Placemarker4Perversion, hosted by Mistress Audry Lu Black. Join me as we leave behind the mundane and draw back the velvet curtain to learn new things and explore the philosophical depths of kink. This inclusive space dismantles rigid expectations, welcoming seasoned sensualists, the “just curious”, and tenderfoot trembling on the threshold. You'll find a sanctuary here.
Even after 25 years of wielding the lash and enjoying sculpting consensual behavioral modification techniques, Mistress Audry Lu Black knows the pursuit of understanding is an unending dance—and her kink. What can want teach us? How are lust and longing powerful tools for self-actualization? From Plato to pegging, fisting to Freud. We’ll learn together from experts, philosophers, voices you have never heard, and guardians of ethical play.
Join us to explore power, vulnerability, and consent, where the human mind meets ethical kink - one knot, one caress, one whispered word at a time.
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Losing Power, Finding Self with Mistress Natalie
Mar 101:14:54Tap to summarizeIn this conversation, Mistress Audry Lu Black and Mistress Natalie delve into the complexities of power dynamics within BDSM relationships. They explore the balance between ego and submission and the human needs that underpin power exchanges. The discussion also highlights generational shifts in attitudes towards power and intimacy, advocating for a more holistic approach to self-care and emotional well-being in the context of BDSM. In this engaging conversation, Mistress Natalie and Audry Lu Black explore various aspects of BDSM, including role-switching, favorite toys, the importance of communication, and the definitions of dominance and submission. They emphasize the significance of negotiation and the ongoing nature of power exchange dynamics, highlighting the need for safety and mutual understanding in relationships.Today’s resources include:Square Peg Toys silicone bvtt plugs https://www.squarepegtoys.com/shop/Rattan switch https://amzn.to/3M1anEHIlan Lev method – gentle, hands-on bodywork and movement practice https://ilanlev.org/en/MITPISA is a form developed to make any kind of scene negotiation easier and ensure that safety issues are addressed. We recommend using this form when negotiating pick up play, or before the execution of any scene, even one that was more thoroughly negotiated at some time earlier than the actual play date. https://kinkcollective.net/Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger
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Wanna Learn More Network with Evey Winters
Feb 1601:19:10Tap to summarizeIn this conversation, Mistress Audry Lu BLack sits down with Evey Winters to explore what happens inside isolationist spaces—how the promise of belonging can quietly harden into rigid, black-and-white thinking. They unpack “red pill” ideology and the way it rejects nuance, demanding absolutes where real human experience lives in the gray.Together, they also turn toward survival and truth: why believing survivors matters, how sexual assault trauma reshapes lives, and the exhausting, often brutal obstacles survivors face when they try to seek justice. This is a conversation about listening without defensiveness, holding complexity without flinching, and choosing empathy over easy answers.Content warning: sexual assault, sexual abuse and deathToday’s resources include:Have a Gay Day: https://haveagayday.org/Wanna Learn More Network: http://www.wannalearnmore.com/Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger
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The Only Consultant, Taxes and Titties with Katherine Studley
Feb 101:00:23Tap to summarizeIn this conversation, Mistress AudryLu Black sits down with Katherine Studley—a tax consultant who works fluently in the spicy economy—to unravel the quiet complexities of filing taxes as a sex worker. They talk about the realities that rarely make it into polite financial advice: stigma, discretion, and the very real labor of keeping your livelihood protected in a world that isn’t always kind or fair.Katherine breaks down why treating your work like a business matter—how clean organization, separating personal and professional finances, and, in some cases, forming an LLC can be acts of both self-respect and self-defense. Along the way, she offers clear, practical guidance on staying compliant, avoiding common mistakes, and building financial systems that don’t rely on shame or secrecy.Most importantly, she models what so many in this industry need but rarely receive: a judgment-free space where questions are welcome, realities are acknowledged, and taking care of yourself is not only allowed but encouraged.Important links:www.IRS.govhttps://stan.store/theonlyconsultantCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger
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Big Clit Energy and the Orgasm Revolution
Jan 1501:12:49Tap to summarizeIn this layered exchange, Mistress Audrey Lu Black and Eve Hall approach intimacy with both curiosity and command—unpacking “Big Clit Energy” as a philosophy of confidence, communication, and embodied awareness rather than a slogan. They move through sexual health with clarity and care, touching on pelvic floor wellness, fantasy, and roleplay as tools for connection, not performance. The conversation widens to include nonverbal language, the difference between sex and intimacy, and the persistent orgasm gap—examined without shame, but with precision. Kink appears here as a framework for consent, boundaries, and deeper dialogue, while trauma is acknowledged as something that deserves patience and education, not silence. What emerges is an invitation to self-care, playfulness, and honest conversation—because fulfillment, like confidence, grows where attention is paid.Some truths linger in the body long after the conversation ends.Content warning: sexual traumawww.pleaseme.onlineOn her website, you’ll find:An intimate toy store with a dedicated kink and BDSM-friendly sectionTrusted sexual wellness affiliates and product recommendationsContact information for sexual health coaching, intimacy coaching, and Physical Therapy servicesCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger
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Odyssey of Kink with Lady Sheba
Jan 100:57:31Tap to summarizeIn this conversation, Lady Sheba moves with the kind of confidence that comes from lived knowledge—speaking as a dominatrix, educator, and artist who understands both the psychology and the poetry of her world. She traces the quiet power of makeup as ritual and signal, reflects on her stewardship at the Carter/Johnson Library, and honors leather not just as material, but as memory—stitched deeply into LGBTQ history and survival. Woven through it all are reflections on representation, mentorship, and how kink relationships continue to evolve with more intention, care, and community than ever before. Lady Sheba’s photographic installation will be on view at the Carter/Johnson Library & Collection in January 2026. Some legacies don’t just ask to be seen—they invite you to look closer.https://carterjohnsonlibrary.com/https://cjlcleather.com/Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger.
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Intuitive Topping with Maeve McBride
Dec 1501:12:14Tap to summarizeThis conversation, between Mistress Audry Lu Black and Maeve McBride, delves into the intricate connections between sexuality, kink, and personal empowerment. They explore how societal norms shape our understanding of worth, the intersection of birth and kink, and the importance of education in fostering acceptance and safety in vulnerable experiences. They discuss the significance of boundaries in professional settings and the emotional labor involved in client relationships. The conversation also highlights community dynamics, representation, and the transformative impact of kink on personal growth. In this engaging conversation, Audry Lu Black and Maeve explore the importance of sexual education for future generations, the intersection of kink and societal norms, and the role of fashion in self-expression. They discuss the significance of community building and education within the kink world, highlighting events like KinkFest that celebrate diversity and learning. The conversation also delves into personal kinks and boundaries, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's desires and the nuances of consent.https://www.kinkfest.org/home.phpBook: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der KolkCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger
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Little Love with Jules Brats-a-Lot
Dec 101:16:39Tap to summarizeIn this engaging conversation, Jules Brats-a-Lot and Mistress AudryLu Black explore the complexities of identity within the kink community, particularly focusing on the experiences of 'littles' and the dynamics of age play and age regression. They discuss the importance of community, representation, and the stigma surrounding these identities, while also exploring the joy and nostalgia that come with embracing one's own little space. The conversation underscores the importance of self-expression, the beauty of individuality, and the value of achieving clear goals in adult life, all while maintaining a light-hearted and authentic tone.https://lumbersnackster-designs.square.site/Content warning: electro-play, scarification, age regressionCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger
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Black and Cyan: An Impactful Meeting of Minds
Nov 1501:02:18Tap to summarizeIn this episode, recorded live at DomCon NOLA, Mistress Audry Lu Black interviews Mistress Cyan, FemDom powerhouse founder of DomCon and owner of Sanctuary in Los Angeles. They discuss embracing the intersection of professional domination and lifestyle BDSM. Their conversation includes what we can learn from each other, how we all deserve community and the role of professional doms within that community.Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger
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Torture Garden with Paul Faust
Nov 101:16:57Tap to summarizeIn this conversation, Mistress AudruLu Black and Paul Faust discuss his journey in the kink community, focusing on the events produced by Faustian Society and the aesthetic of Torture Garden. The dialogue explores the cultural differences between kink in Europe and America, the legal challenges faced in the U.S., and the complex relationship Americans have with sexuality. Faust emphasizes the importance of community accountability and the need for collaboration over competition in the kink scene. The conversation also touches on the commodification of kink and the influence of corporations on kink events, highlighting the evolving nature of the community and its events.The next Torture Garden LA is on Saturday, November 15th, at the Globe Theatre at 10 pm. This is an 18+ event with a strict fantasy/fetish dress code.Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger
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Pretty Penny the Hucow
Oct 1501:05:03Tap to summarizeMistress AudryLu Black and Pretty Penny the Hucow delve into the unique aspects of Hucow culture within the kink community; explore themes of body positivity and the intersection of hypnosis and kink. They also discuss the significance of costumes in providing permission for exploration and the role of community events in fostering creativity.Content warning: Feeding kink and blood playFeatured toy/resource: Anal hook cow tailhttps://tailsoffantasy.com/products/cow-tailCredits: Producers Maypop, Mimic, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger.
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