Research shows that couples who bring playfulness into conversations about sex report greater satisfaction and emotional connection. A well-timed joke can lower defenses and make high-stakes topics feel safer. Today, we’re diving into how humor works inside relationships, and how it can be an effective tool, when used appropriately, to enhance sexual communication.

I am joined once again by Jenny Zigrino. You’ve seen her on late-night television, in film and streaming specials, and lighting up social media with bits that are bold, self-aware, and sharply observant. You can see her in the new show Crowd Control on Dropout TV and her most recent Don’t Tell Comedy special is out now.

Some of the specific topics we explore in this episode include:

Why does humor lower sexual tension?
When does humor help sexual communication, and when does it derail it?
Is being funny actually sexy?
What do sex and stand-up teach us about staying open instead of defensive?
How can you blend humor with honest sexual communication?

You can check out Jenny’s website to connect with more of her work.

Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology.

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