43:I[185,["/_next/static/chunks/0sxns9k8ywops.js","/_next/static/chunks/1z5eijs5qdv02.js","/_next/static/chunks/2eylv_sshoiot.js","/_next/static/chunks/3owl5o1y-37u7.js","/_next/static/chunks/0agcep-t686m_.js","/_next/static/chunks/09e73exje0qtu.js","/_next/static/chunks/1nsk8jrr9fqe6.js"],"SendEmailButton"] 48:I[45269,["/_next/static/chunks/0sxns9k8ywops.js","/_next/static/chunks/1z5eijs5qdv02.js","/_next/static/chunks/2eylv_sshoiot.js","/_next/static/chunks/3owl5o1y-37u7.js","/_next/static/chunks/0agcep-t686m_.js","/_next/static/chunks/09e73exje0qtu.js","/_next/static/chunks/1nsk8jrr9fqe6.js"],"SignupCTA"] 3b:["$","h1",null,{"className":"max-w-[22ch] font-display text-[clamp(32px,4.5vw,48px)] font-medium leading-[1.05] tracking-[-0.02em] text-[color:var(--fg-1)] text-balance","children":"People Pleasing Is Wearing You Out — Here's Why"}] 3c:["$","div",null,{"className":"flex flex-wrap items-center gap-x-4 gap-y-1 font-mono text-[12px] uppercase tracking-[0.1em] text-[color:var(--fg-3)]","children":[["$","time",null,{"dateTime":"2026-06-29T10:00:00.000Z","children":"June 29, 2026"}],["$","span",null,{"aria-hidden":true,"children":"·"}],["$","span",null,{"children":"00:34:06"}],false]}] 3d:["$","p",null,{"className":"max-w-[60ch] text-[18px] leading-[1.5] text-[color:var(--fg-2)]","children":"With Susan Podbielski: The fear response hiding behind being \"too nice\" — and how to break it"}] 44:T5cc,

People pleasing isn't a personality flaw — it's a fear response rooted in childhood, perfectionism, and the deep need to stay loved and safe. You keep saying yes, over-explaining, managing everyone's comfort, and somewhere in the process, you've lost track of what you actually want.

Susan Podbielski is a licensed psychotherapist and NYU Langone Fellow who spent a decade in clinical practice — after burning out as a network TV producer — helping high-achieving women break this pattern for good. This episode gives you the roots, the real costs, and the first practical steps back to yourself.

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