Today’s Scripture is: Proverbs 27:6

**Today's devotional is in response to listener requests.**

When a relationship feels powerful, fast, and deeply affirming, it can be hard to slow down and discern what’s real. This episode unpacks the difference between emotional intensity and genuine love—helping you recognize red flags, trust your intuition, and move toward steady, grounded connection.

In this episode:

*Why intensity ≠ intimacy

*The psychology behind fast attachment and emotional acceleration

*Subtle signs of love bombing and relational urgency

*How to evaluate consistency over chemistry

*What it means to build safe, sustainable connection

Go Deeper:

Episode 178: How to Recognize Toxic Tactics, and Stop Taking the Bait

Episode 24: Boundaries, the Spectrum of Toxicity, and a Note About Evil

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