In this episode, HeHe shares a quick life update before re-airing one of our most-loved conversations while she’s on maternity leave and it’s one that still matters a lot.

This episode pulls back the curtain on hospital-sponsored childbirth education and why so many expectant parents leave those classes feeling more confused, constrained, or quietly uneasy instead of truly prepared. We talk about how bias shows up, why informed consent is often glossed over, and what gets left out when education is tied to the same system providing your care.

This is an honest, empowering conversation about why independent, evidence-based, out-of-hospital childbirth education can change how you experience pregnancy, birth, and advocacy. It’s about understanding your options, protecting your autonomy, and reducing the risk of trauma by being informed before decisions feel urgent.

If you’ve ever wondered why traditional birth classes didn’t quite sit right, or you want education that trusts your intelligence and centers your voice, this episode is for you.

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00:00 Introduction and Welcome 01:36 Re-airing Popular Episodes During Maternity Leave 02:51 The Importance of Out-of-Hospital Childbirth Education 03:50 Biases in Hospital-Sponsored Childbirth Education 05:52 Informed Consent in Childbirth Education 06:50 Outdated Hospital Policies and Their Impact 09:54 The Role of Bias in Childbirth Education 14:30 Conflict of Interest in Hospital Childbirth Education 16:02 Join The Birth Lounge for Comprehensive Childbirth Education 18:26 Conclusion and Call to Action
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