Ins and Outs for 2025

Summary

The blondEST Podcast Episode Summary: "Ins and Outs for 2025"

Episode Overview

In the January 13, 2025 episode of The blondEST, titled "Ins and Outs for 2025," hosts Savanna Boda, renowned as The Dallas Aesthetician, and her co-host Tyler dive deep into their personal resolutions and reflections as they usher in the new year. The episode blends Savanna’s expertise in medical aesthetics with their dynamic friendship, offering listeners a candid and entertaining exploration of habits to embrace and those to shed in 2025.

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Dynamic Duo: Savanna and Tyler’s Banter

From the outset, the chemistry between Savanna and Tyler sets a lighthearted and engaging tone. Their playful exchanges, such as Savanna’s humorous recounting of New Year’s Eve antics and Tyler’s remarks on Savanna’s dance moves, create an inviting atmosphere for listeners. This rapport not only entertains but also underscores their genuine camaraderie, making the discussion of personal ins and outs feel relatable and authentic.

Notable Quote:

• Savanna [00:18]: “I was trying to get him to hang out with me this New Year's Eve. Last year, we went out and got pretty messy.”
• Tyler [05:16]: “It would not be a safe space for anyone if I blurted out how I felt all the time.”

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Savanna’s "Ins and Outs" for 2025

Savanna articulates a comprehensive list of behaviors and habits she plans to adopt or abandon:

1. Outs:

   • Poor Quality Clothes: Savanna emphasizes transitioning to a capsule wardrobe with high-quality staples to combat overconsumption and align with timeless fashion.
     • Savanna [09:58]: “Capsule wardrobe.”
   • High Screen Time: Reducing excessive phone use, particularly scrolling through TikTok, to foster better mental health.
     • Savanna [10:35]: “I need to stop that.”
   • Chain Coffee Shops: Steering clear of generic brands in favor of supporting unique, small-owned businesses.
     • Savanna [13:35]: “Chain coffee shops, out.”
   • Sad Music: Limiting exposure to melancholic tunes to maintain a positive mindset.
     • Savanna [21:00]: “Sad songs and sad music. It makes you sadder.”
   • People Pleasing: Prioritizing her own needs over obligations to others to enhance personal well-being.
     • Savanna [20:00]: “People pleasing... canceling last minute is worse.”
   • Caring About Celebrities: Diminishing the obsession with celebrity lives to focus on more meaningful personal interests.
     • Savanna [22:14]: “Caring about celebrities, out.”
   • Bath and Body Works Products: Avoiding products with toxic fragrances and promoting eco-friendly alternatives.
     • Savanna [34:07]: “Bath and Body Works, out.”
   • Not Giving People Straws: Advocating for environmental responsibility while expressing frustration over limited access.
     • Savanna [35:00]: “Not giving people straws is out.”

2. Ins:

   • Unisex Fragrances: Encouraging the use of non-binary scents to promote individuality.
     • Savanna [14:11]: “Unisex fragrances.”
   • Wicked-Themed Crocs: Acknowledging unique fashion choices, despite personal preferences.
     • Savanna [14:24]: “Wicked Crocs.”
   • Plastic Surgery: Addressing the taboo nature of cosmetic procedures while supporting personal autonomy.
     • Savanna [14:33]: “Plastic surgery, in.”

Notable Quote:

• Savanna [12:03]: “Teeth are out. Bad breath is out.”
• Savanna [27:13]: “Rainfall, shower heads. Worst decision I ever made in my house.”

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Tyler’s "Ins and Outs" for 2025

Tyler complements Savanna by sharing his own set of resolutions:

1. Outs:

   • Poor Quality Clothes: Similar to Savanna, Tyler aims to invest in durable, timeless pieces.
     • Tyler [09:35]: “Capsule wardrobe.”
   • Saying Yes to Unwanted Things: Committing to declining obligations that don’t serve his interests.
     • Tyler [09:58]: “Saying yes to things you don’t want to do.”
   • High Screen Time: Reducing time spent on social media to improve mental health.
     • Tyler [10:35]: “Scrolling on TikTok for hours.”
   • Chain Restaurants: Preferring established, high-quality eateries over trendy, fleeting options.
     • Tyler [12:37]: “Trendy restaurants, out.”
   • Chain Coffee Shops: Aligning with Savanna’s stance by avoiding generic brands.
     • Tyler [13:35]: “Chain coffee shops, out.”
   • Plastic Surgery: Discussing the nuances of cosmetic enhancements.
     • Tyler [24:35]: “Plastic surgery, out.”
   • Overconsumption: Mindfully considering purchases to avoid clutter and waste.
     • Tyler [16:16]: “Thinking before making a purchase.”
   • Chain Coffee Shops and High Screen Time: Emphasizing quality and mindfulness in daily habits.
     • Tyler [13:35]: “Chain coffee shops, out.”

2. Ins:

   • Reading Before Bed: Reintroducing the habit of nighttime reading to enhance cognitive functions.
     • Tyler [16:49]: “Reading before bed.”
   • Podcasts: Increasing engagement with podcasts to enrich knowledge and entertainment.
     • Tyler [16:49]: “Podcasts, in.”
   • Gym Membership: Although not yet started, committing to regular workouts.
     • Tyler [17:18]: “Working out.”
   • Gravitating Towards Meaningful Purchases: Focusing on acquisitions that hold personal significance.
     • Tyler [16:16]: “Thinking before making a purchase.”
   • Lash Growth Mascara: Incorporating specialized beauty products to enhance personal care.
     • Tyler [40:56]: “Lash growth mascara.”

Notable Quote:

• Tyler [16:49]: “Reading before bed. I used to do this a lot and I think I got away from it.”
• Tyler [07:21]: “Every time… I get a panic attack at the end of Dune 2.”

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Engaging Discussions and Insights

Throughout the episode, Savanna and Tyler delve into various topics beyond their ins and outs lists, providing deeper insights and personal anecdotes:

• Impact of Overconsumption: Both hosts discuss how excessive consumption, whether it be clothing, food delivery services like DoorDash, or habitual purchases, contributes to clutter and anxiety. Savanna advocates for minimalism and purposeful buying, while Tyler highlights the financial and emotional benefits of reducing unnecessary expenditures.

  Notable Quote:

  • Savanna [25:36]: “I think every day should be a special occasion.”

• Mental Health and Self-Awareness: Savanna emphasizes the importance of daily mental check-ins to foster self-awareness and emotional well-being. She shares her struggles with maintaining mental health amidst a busy schedule and the role of driving as a meditative practice.

  Notable Quote:

  • Savanna [21:00]: “Positivity. The more you make yourself positive, the better life is.”

• Environmental Responsibility: Both hosts touch on eco-friendly practices, such as reducing reliance on products that harbor bacteria (loofahs and washcloths) and advocating for sustainable choices like biodegradable straws.

• Social Interactions and Authenticity: Savanna and Tyler discuss the significance of genuine compliments and the detrimental effects of superficial social interactions. Savanna recounts awkward experiences when complimenting strangers, underscoring the need for meaningful human connections.

  Notable Quote:

  • Savanna [49:35]: “Just give a handwritten card to say thank you.”

• Personal Growth and Resilience: Savanna shares her personal journey of overcoming lack of support from her parents, emphasizing self-reliance and the importance of emotional and physical support systems.

  Notable Quote:

  • Savanna [53:31]: “I didn’t have the emotional or physical support from my parents.”

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Concluding Reflections

As the episode wraps up, Savanna and Tyler reinforce the value of intentional living and personal growth. They encourage listeners to embrace positive habits, let go of detrimental ones, and prioritize self-care and authenticity. The conversation seamlessly blends humor with heartfelt advice, making the episode both entertaining and insightful.

Notable Quote:

• Savanna [55:35]: “Happy New Year. Slay the day away. Go to the dentist, please. And don't eat fish on a plane.”

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Final Thoughts

"Ins and Outs for 2025" offers a comprehensive look into Savanna and Tyler’s aspirations for the coming year. Their candid discussions on personal habits, mental health, and social interactions provide valuable takeaways for listeners aiming to cultivate a more intentional and fulfilling lifestyle. By intertwining their professional insights with personal anecdotes, The blondEST delivers a rich and engaging episode that resonates with a diverse audience.

Transcript

[Savannah]

Hi, guys. Welcome back to another Monday with Tyler and Savannah.

[Tyler]

Hi.

[Savannah]

Hi.

[Tyler]

You've never started an episode like that before.

[Savannah]

It threw me off your new me bestie.

[Tyler]

Yeah, I know. It threw me off.

[Savannah]

So today for us is actually New Year's Eve, so we're gonna do. I kind of talked to y'all about my ins and outs a few episodes ago, but I. I came up with some more, and I made Tyler actually, like, sit and make a list. But we're excited. I'm trying to get him to hang out with me this New Year's Eve. Last year, we went out with one of our friends who is actually not even a skin better rep anymore. She's like, executive of key accounts, which is pretty cool. But we went out with her and her husband and then my husband, of course, and Tyler and I got pretty messy. Yes.

[Tyler]

Savannah stayed sober because there were so many people there that knew me, knew her, and so she was super self conscious the entire time.

[Savannah]

Like, yeah, I didn't want to be like, oh, my God, I saw the Dallas esthetician on New Year's Eve.

[Tyler]

Blackout.

[Savannah]

She was, like, twerking on the dance floor.

[Tyler]

You're so funny for that because, like, on New Year's Eve, you're, like, sober as, like, anything. And then at your son's two year old birthday party.

[Savannah]

I didn't get blackout, but I did get. I didn't get.

[Tyler]

No, but you were having fun.

[Savannah]

Yeah, Well, I spent a lot of money on this party, so there was a lot of alcohol and, like, no one was drinking. Like, first of all, all of everyone that came is canceled. Like, nobody was drinking. Yeah, everyone's like, we went out the night before. We went out the night before. Like, everyone was, like, hungover, and so no one wanted to drink. And I was like, I dropped, like 3K on this.

[Tyler]

Like, it was also, like, 11:00am yeah. Anyways, that may have played into it.

[Savannah]

A little bit, so I was just pounding back the Bloody Marys. And also, you know your girly cannot resist a Bloody Mary. Yeah, I love a Bloody Mary. Like, even if I'm not in the mood to drink, like, I will drink a Bloody Mary.

[Tyler]

The idea of a Bloody Mary repulses me.

[Savannah]

There's never not a good time to drink a Bloody Mary.

[Tyler]

I hate tomatoes.

[Savannah]

I think you should try one.

[Tyler]

I have tried one before, and it tastes like a V8, but with alcohol. Disgusting.

[Savannah]

So good.

[Tyler]

Like, horrible.

[Savannah]

Also, side note, what happened to V8s? Or is it just because we don't watch, like, TV? TV anymore? That we don't see the V8 commercials.

[Tyler]

I don't. I don't know a time where I did see a V8 commercial.

[Savannah]

I used to see them all the time when they slap you and like, should have had a V8. Well, they hit your face. At least I just did.

[Tyler]

Your shoulder. No. I don't know.

[Savannah]

Really?

[Tyler]

Was that like, like Disney Channel, Nickelodeon V8.

[Savannah]

I mean, it was everywhere. Oh, every network I have.

[Tyler]

My childhood walked out, so that's crazy.

[Savannah]

Because you actually had a good childhood.

[Tyler]

I know.

[Savannah]

And I didn't. And I remember everything.

[Tyler]

I think it was all the gardening I did from 18 to 21.

[Savannah]

Yeah. No thoughts up there.

[Tyler]

Yeah. Fried everything prior to that time.

[Savannah]

Well, I miss your. Actually, I don't miss your gardening era because I'd get in the car and I would just start talking to you and you would say nothing.

[Tyler]

Really?

[Savannah]

Yes. Like, you already are a slow responder. And I'm so fast paced that, like, that's like one of my pet peeves about you is that you think before you speak. And I don't.

[Tyler]

As she should too. That should be on the ends for 2025. Like, thinking before you speak.

[Savannah]

No, because when we're besties, you can. Everything goes. Say what you want to say. Like, I'm not like, you know, like your girlfriend's like, you know, friggin mother. That you need to, like, think before you respond.

[Tyler]

That's true. I think I'm just a methodical person.

[Savannah]

Sometimes I just want you to say how you feel. Like, I'm like, how does this perfume smell? And this is Tyler. If you're watching the YouTube.

[Tyler]

I'm thinking.

[Savannah]

It'S not bad. I kind of like it. Like, why can't be like, I wonder what I think it smells like.

[Tyler]

See, like a perfect example. This morning, she was trying on sunglasses for this outfit, and she tried on this pair and she was like, what do you think? And in that moment when she asked me what I think, I'm imagining all the different silhouettes of sunglasses. I'm imagining different colors. I'm like, thinking in my head.

[Savannah]

I thought you couldn't visualize pictures in your head. So which is it?

[Tyler]

I'm. But you know what I'm saying? I'm like.

[Savannah]

I'm like. Because he can't even right now if you ask him to envision an apple, he couldn't.

[Tyler]

I think I can. I think there's a scale.

[Savannah]

Okay.

[Tyler]

And I think I'm not, like, vivid.

[Savannah]

Okay.

[Tyler]

But I think I'm like, like 20. Like, it's like a hazy.

[Savannah]

Okay.

[Tyler]

But that's what I'm doing. Like, when you're asking me, I'm, like, thinking about what else is out there to compare it to.

[Savannah]

Yeah, I just need a quicker turnaround with your answers.

[Tyler]

I think I'm gonna start gardening again. No, that's how I ended up in the ER like, 70 times.

[Savannah]

Yeah, let's not do that. But anyways. Yeah, I think Tyler should just blurt out how he feels like I do. Yeah, life's more fun that way.

[Tyler]

It would not be a safe space for anyone if I blurted out how I felt all the time.

[Savannah]

You already offend me every day, and you think about it before you say it, so I don't know about that one.

[Tyler]

I think I put it in a nice way, though.

[Savannah]

Anyways, tonight, me, you, Alice in Wonderland.

[Tyler]

That sounds horrible.

[Savannah]

Okay.

[Tyler]

I mean, I don't want to watch Alice in Wonderland.

[Savannah]

Have you ever seen it in its entirety?

[Tyler]

The old one?

[Savannah]

Yeah.

[Tyler]

Yeah, I have.

[Savannah]

It's great. It's so.

[Tyler]

It's a movie.

[Savannah]

It's a great movie.

[Tyler]

It's a movie.

[Savannah]

Okay. Anyway, we can watch anything you want to watch. What do I have to do, Cut my arm off? Eat a piece of meat?

[Tyler]

No, I was just, like. I've been, like, really, really, really valuing being at home in my bed with my dog, and it has nothing against you.

[Savannah]

I will pant. I'll wag my tail.

[Tyler]

You do not. You have the opposite temperament of Murphy. Really, like, the exact opposite. Murphy is, like, the most go with the flow. Just, like, easygoing. You're sweet. He's sweet, but, like, I'm so easy.

[Savannah]

Go with the flow. They call me Go with the Flow Joe.

[Tyler]

Yeah, that's exactly what your nickname is.

[Savannah]

Well, I think you should ring in the New Year with your best friend.

[Tyler]

Let's go to Komodo.

[Savannah]

I would go out with you.

[Tyler]

Let's go to Komodo.

[Savannah]

Would you?

[Tyler]

This is where I get into trouble because I, like, say something she would not want to do.

[Savannah]

I would do it.

[Tyler]

I know you would do it. You were thinking about it. I saw on TikTok that apparently that's the place to go to this year. And like, a month ago, you were saying we should go there.

[Savannah]

Yeah.

[Tyler]

You're clairvoyant.

[Savannah]

I am clairvoyant. I know. Can we really, though? Can we really hang out, perhaps?

[Tyler]

Don't put me in. She's gonna make me look like a bad person right now.

[Savannah]

She's sad. I just want to spend New Year's with my best friend.

[Tyler]

I know, I know, I know. It's just.

[Savannah]

There's so many nights for you bitch to lay alone. So many nights. It's one night. And it's me.

[Tyler]

It is you.

[Savannah]

Your beautiful best friend. And I'm not dragging you out to the club. We can just cuddle and I'll watch any movie. I'll watch Dune.

[Tyler]

Do you want to know something weird about Dune? Have I told you this?

[Savannah]

No.

[Tyler]

Every time. Because I saw Dune 2 in theaters like two or three times. Every single time at the end I get a panic attack.

[Savannah]

Okay, so.

[Tyler]

But I love it. But I have to walk out of the theater. And I haven't experienced anything like that since those days. And it's the weirdest thing. Something about the end of Dune 2. I think it's just like. Have you watched it?

[Savannah]

Never.

[Tyler]

You've never seen Dune 1 or Dune 2?

[Savannah]

No.

[Tyler]

I will come over if we watch those two movies.

[Savannah]

Fine.

[Tyler]

But it's like six hours.

[Savannah]

That's fine. We will put Cyrus to bed at 7:30. And then we have till midnight. And you can leave right when the clock strikes 12:01. Deal. Handshake on it.

[Tyler]

I'm not handshaking anything. But you know, it's more likely than not that I'll come.

[Savannah]

I'm gonna pout.

[Tyler]

No pouting.

[Savannah]

I'm gonna pout. I'm gonna start crying. Anyway, Tyler hates me and it's fine. Okay. So do you want to show me your Christmas present?

[Tyler]

No.

[Savannah]

Okay, cool. Next up on the list. You. It was a question.

[Tyler]

What?

[Savannah]

Someone asked. He's not a flexor.

[Tyler]

What?

[Savannah]

I said he's not a flexor. Someone did ask in our Tyler. Q and A. But we'll do that on the next episode. Okay. My ins and outs. Do you want to go first? You want me to go first?

[Tyler]

I think you're going to be really passionate and it'll be a good end. So I think I should go first.

[Savannah]

Okay.

[Tyler]

Because she really thought about these.

[Savannah]

I did.

[Tyler]

I was woken up this morning at 8am by her husband and I was told to make this. So this was done in a rush. What should I start with? Should I go in, out, in, out or should I go ins, outs?

[Savannah]

Do they coincide? No. Then just do all of your ends and then do all your outs. But you have to explain each one.

[Tyler]

Or should I do outs first? I think it is like outs is from the previous year.

[Savannah]

Ends is for whatever your heart desires.

[Tyler]

What do you think?

[Savannah]

I don't care.

[Tyler]

Okay. Okay. My first out is poor quality. Clothes.

[Savannah]

Okay. Period.

[Tyler]

I think that, you know, and that kind of coincides with trends.

[Savannah]

Yeah.

[Tyler]

Like, I think everyone tries to jump on trends and then they get it at, you know, whatever, Zara or whatnot. And you know, I think 2025, I guess this is an in. I don't know if I have this on my ends, but instead of getting poor quality clothes, like good quality staples that will last you.

[Savannah]

Capsule wardrobe.

[Tyler]

Yeah, exactly. That's outs. Number two, saying yes to things that you don't want to do. The timing on that. Okay, I'm sorry.

[Savannah]

Well, the good news is it's not 2025. So I have. If you have one more day of saying yes to me.

[Tyler]

And that wasn't at you, that's a lot of people. Number three, high screen time. I don't want to be on my phone as much.

[Savannah]

Oh, I thought we're talking about, like being high.

[Tyler]

Oh, I kind of did a double oopsie. Well, high screen time. And then I also in a second point.

[Savannah]

I love high screen time. I love being high and watching the screen.

[Tyler]

No, like a high amount of screen time and coinciding with scrolling on TikTok for hours. I need to stop that. Yeah, like really bad. I put doordash. That is a big goal of mine.

[Savannah]

I DoorDash probably like 99 of his meals.

[Tyler]

Oh, yeah. First. No, 100% for sure.

[Savannah]

Yeah. Because he's banned from UberEats.

[Tyler]

So. Yeah. I think I would save a lot of money if I just didn't do that.

[Savannah]

Yeah.

[Tyler]

Even though I don't know because feeding one person is still expensive at a grocery store. Like it's. I feel like it's more economical if you have like a family of four, you know, and then you're buying groceries, then it's cheaper. But like for me to DoorDash, it's like 20 bucks. And to buy ingredients for an actually good meal is going to be like 20 to $30.

[Savannah]

Yeah. But it's good for you. Lowers your cholesterol.

[Tyler]

My next one, I put soda as water. I need to drink more water. Soda.

[Savannah]

You should have soda three times a week.

[Tyler]

Baby steps.

[Savannah]

Okay, maybe like once a day.

[Tyler]

Yeah, like once a day. And then I have water all the time throughout the day.

[Savannah]

Yeah.

[Tyler]

Not responding to texts. Part one. I don't respond to basically anyone except me. Except her. And then on piggybacking off that. Not responding to anyone on dating apps.

[Savannah]

Good. Because proud of you.

[Tyler]

I in 2025 or 2024, I think I maybe responded to three people out of thousands okay, No, I wasn't gonna go there. But, like, out of a good amount, number one.

[Savannah]

So that's so many hotties, too.

[Tyler]

Trendy restaurants I think are out. I think and are, like, actually good restaurants that are your staples that. You know what I mean? Like our Hudson House. That's not a trendy restaurant.

[Savannah]

That's trendy.

[Tyler]

I don't think so.

[Savannah]

Huh?

[Tyler]

I've been a. I've ate a Hudson House when I was, like, in high school.

[Savannah]

Okay, rich kid.

[Tyler]

No, but that's not the point. It's not even that expensive.

[Savannah]

Chili's. That was my delicacy.

[Tyler]

Yeah, but you didn't have friends, like, from around the metroplex. So, like, it makes sense that, like, you ate a farm on restaurants. But I was in orchestra, so, like, I knew everyone.

[Savannah]

Yeah, and you had your mom's credit card.

[Tyler]

Well, that's true. Outs. This is a general out for everyone. I've been on this train for 2024. But chain coffee restaurant or chain coffee shops, out. So disgusting. Okay, Nasty.

[Savannah]

Okay. I said if your favorite one opens a second one.

[Tyler]

I said this excludes La La Land. I excluded La La Land from that because while I don't think their coffee is as good as my little hometown coffee shop, their coffee's still way better.

[Savannah]

And make them expand. I'm gonna franchise seven locations just to spite you if you don't stay tonight.

[Tyler]

Honestly, I would love to get free coffees every day, so please do. So those are my outs. Because my last one was scrolling on TikTok for hours. But then I realized that it's kind of.

[Savannah]

Yeah, I feel that. And next, what's your ends?

[Tyler]

My N's are unisex fragrances.

[Savannah]

Okay.

[Tyler]

I think that everyone kind of.

[Savannah]

Okay. Binary fragrance.

[Tyler]

Non binary.

[Savannah]

Oh, yeah.

[Tyler]

My second end was Wicked. It'll always be, you should have got.

[Savannah]

The Wicked Crocs for Christmas.

[Tyler]

Yeah. Did you? You haven't talked about that.

[Savannah]

I don't want to talk about that. This makes me see red, but I will. My husband. I saw Wicked once. I've never worn Crocs. Do I look like a croc ass bitch?

[Tyler]

Like, does she look like someone who would ever put crocs on her feet?

[Savannah]

And, like, maybe if they were like the fluffy ones or, like a neutral color.

[Tyler]

But do they have fluffy crocs? I'm so out of crocs lore. I would not know.

[Savannah]

I don't fucking know. All I know is what my husband got me for Christmas this year was Crocs with a Wicked. What are they called? Little Badges. What are they called when they put the little things in the holes? I mean, I said, like, defy gravity. I had a little fake, like, Elphaba's like, hat.

[Tyler]

Yeah, hers was Elphaba too.

[Savannah]

Like, not even Glinda, not even Glenda.

[Tyler]

Like, like a pink version.

[Savannah]

I was like, is this a joke? And he was like, no, I thought you'd love these. And I was like, I'm not seven.

[Tyler]

No, they were. They were.

[Savannah]

And like, no offense, if you like that, like, totally slay for you, but like, that's just not my vibe. It never has been, never will be. And I don't even like Wicked like that. I saw it once, never talked about it again.

[Tyler]

Yeah, she didn't like it, so. No, you liked it?

[Savannah]

I like. No, I did like it.

[Tyler]

Just not enough to like.

[Savannah]

I'm not like a fan girl, first of all.

[Tyler]

Become a croc wearer for Wicked.

[Savannah]

Yeah. And I wouldn't have seen it three.

[Tyler]

Times like you, but my third inn was plastic surgery. Okay, Kind of a crazy take, but I don't know, I think it's a very taboo topic and I think if you want to change something and you have the means to, then you should do it.

[Savannah]

I love that.

[Tyler]

I said ins are under consumption. I think in all areas. Well, maybe I won't say in all areas, but in like buying stuff. And like, I think you should only buy things if they fellow hole of something. You need like, not have a million of the same thing just to have it. My next one is reading before bed. I used to do this a lot and I think I got away from it and now I scroll on TikTok for hours before bed, so.

[Savannah]

So it's not my fault you haven't had time to read. Your just priorities are wrong.

[Tyler]

No, because it's like we're not getting into that. So, yeah, reading before bed. At least a chapter. My next one is podcasts. I want more podcasts. I love podcasts. I love being in the car and listening to podcasts. It's like my favorite thing. It makes a drive go by so much faster than listening to music. So I put working out. I got a gym membership at the beginning of December and I still haven't gone one time. So putting working out on my ends. My next one was thinking before making a purchase kind of goes back to over consumption. Just, you know, really thinking about if you need it or not. Because I'm someone who like, I'll see something and I'll just buy it and then it'll stay with Tags on it in my closet for, like, three months. I think close friends stories should come back. Like, I feel like they're gone. You know what I mean? Like, I used to have, like, a million close friends stories, and now, like, I'm lucky if one person.

[Savannah]

Because everyone's an op.

[Tyler]

That's true. But I think, like, unhinged close friends should come back because Instagram now I feel like every Instagram story I see is.

[Savannah]

I think everyone's so scared because everyone speak, everyone screenshot stuff. And, like, you can, like, you know, it's hard.

[Tyler]

That's fair. No.

[Savannah]

And you should and lose everything if you say. You know what I mean?

[Tyler]

But that's why I'm saying, like, you should.

[Savannah]

I think they should come back who your friends are.

[Tyler]

You do?

[Savannah]

No, because one time I only had five friends on my private Twitter, and I said I was gonna serve anyone who came to my restaurant.

[Tyler]

Oh.

[Savannah]

And I got fired, obviously, for promoting underage drinking, but I was also underage.

[Tyler]

And you narrowed down who it was?

[Savannah]

Oh, yeah. It was Amy Gonzalez. Fuck you.

[Tyler]

Crazy name drop.

[Savannah]

I don't know what she's up to anymore, but she was my bestie. Like, that would be like you doing that to me.

[Tyler]

That's crazy.

[Savannah]

Yeah.

[Tyler]

Okay, but did she tell one person?

[Savannah]

And they told one person she called corporate rockfish.

[Tyler]

What'd you do to piss her off?

[Savannah]

Nothing. She's jealous of me.

[Tyler]

Hmm. Well, anyway, my point is, she can't.

[Savannah]

Save her from herself.

[Tyler]

My point is, is that I think unhinged close friend stories should come back. And I think that you should just be selective of who is on your list. Like, if you had a close friend story of just me, Lance, Maria, Lauren, like, you know, that wouldn't get out. Like, actually be selective.

[Savannah]

No, but that's great for you.

[Tyler]

And then I put actually going into the water.

[Savannah]

Aww. Getting wet.

[Tyler]

Yeah, getting wet. Because I am very much a person.

[Savannah]

Who sits by the pool.

[Tyler]

Sits by the pool.

[Savannah]

Maybe lets his little. He literally acts like he's who can't get wet. Oh, like the mermaids from, like, H2. Oh, I turn into a mermaid. That's you.

[Tyler]

That is me. So I put actually getting into the water.

[Savannah]

I love that for you. Okay, my ends. Wait, should I go withouts?

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

Okay, Number one is people pleasing. Because the more I people please, the less I please myself. And then I'm stuck with obligations that I don't want to do, and then I end up, like, canceling last minute, which is actually worse than just saying no three weeks Prior period. Sad songs and sad music. I feel like the more you listen to that kind of stuff, the sadder it's going to make you. Like, I noticed when I was, like, going through, like, all my trauma healing, I was listening to so many sad songs and it, like, made me feel sad and worse. And, you know, you are what you're around, whether it's friends, the environment you're in, the workplace that you're at, like, everything influences you subconsciously throughout the day. And so I think, you know, just being conscious of those little things that might not seem like they're causing issues in your personal life. They are. So just being mindful about what we're listening to and what we're reading, what we're watching. Basically everything. You know, I think just positivity. The more you make yourself positive, the better life is. Okay, then caring about celebrities, I don't go about a celebrity. I think we put them on these pedestals and they're all corrupt and they're all rapers and they're all bad people. And it's just there's. They're horrible people and it's time to stop caring about what they do. I don't give a shit what they do or what's cool to them. I don't care. Loofahs and washcloths, okay, these are out because they harbor so much bacteria. And they're not out if you're, like, the kind of person that actually, like, replaces them. But I swear to God, I know people that have had a loofah longer than they've had their boyfriend in their life, you know, for sure. And that's. That's grody. That's years. So if you're going to have one, replace it. But also washcloths, use disposable towels instead that are biodegradable and good for the environment. Okay? As I've grown up, and maybe this is because I was privileged enough to be able to go to the dentist growing up. So people like, not everyone can go to the dentist. Well, you should work somewhere that can let you go to the dentist, because not going to the dentist, guys, I didn't know that that wasn't common for people to go to the dentist. You know, people, like, people don't go to the dentist every six months.

[Tyler]

And honestly, I don't think six months is normal.

[Savannah]

Yeah, you're supposed to go twice a year.

[Tyler]

I thought it was once a year.

[Savannah]

No, no, it's every six months for a cleaning.

[Tyler]

And then once a year they do, like, The X rays and stuff like that. Okay, maybe that's what I'm thinking of.

[Savannah]

Um, you need to be going every six months, take care of your teeth. Okay, Nasty. Teeth are out. Bad breath is out. And then on the same vein, tongue scraping. Not tongue scraping. So you need to be tongue scraping. Yeah, there are a lot of people that don't tongue scrape. There's so much bacteria. And you guys, not only is it gonna make you hotter to have nice teeth, but also health. They say so many people, oral issues can be associated with gut issues, mental health issues. So many different things. You can die. Your mouth is the heartbeat of your heart.

[Tyler]

The mouth is your heartbeat of your heart.

[Savannah]

Yeah, I said what I said.

[Tyler]

Okay.

[Savannah]

So, yeah, I don't know, guys. Figured out how to pocket and set it. Like, that's the thing is everyone is so hard to say things to people like, oh, you're so, like, you know, hoity toity. Or like, not everyone can go to the dentist. But first of all, my podcast. My podcast is not for everyone, first and foremost. Second of all, it's basic hygiene. Third of all, a lot of people could afford to go to the dentist, but they'd rather go on a vacation, or they'd rather buy a dog or they'd rather buy a purse or freaking overconsumption. $500 at Zara. So I can tell you, I didn't have insurance for a couple of years because I own my own business, and I paid out of pocket, and I was not making the money that I have now, and it wasn't that bad. And I think it was like, 100 bucks. So prioritize your health instead of coming for me. Okay, next up. I just had to get that out because I feel like that's so annoying when people are like, not everyone can do that. And it's like, look at your choices and, like, it's your decisions that you make. Like, I'm not saying, go buy a Ferrari, saying go to the dentist. I think that's obtainable. Serving or eating fish on a plane. Criminal. Go to prison. When I was going to Hawaii and then I went somewhere else, I went to. They were serving salmon on a plane that I had to sit on for eight hours.

[Tyler]

When we went to Italy, there was fish.

[Savannah]

I just don't get it. Like, it's horrible.

[Tyler]

It's really bad.

[Savannah]

The whole plane smells like fish, and the circulating air just literally smells like a strip club on the plane. It's disgusting. Okay, next. Saving things for a special occasion. I used to do this a Lot. And, you know, you'd buy, like, a dress and then it would keep in the closet, and we go, I'm going to dinner with my friends tonight. But, like, it's not that special. I want to save it for, like, you keep putting it off and putting it off and putting it off. Or like, a special perfume, and then, like, you look at it 10 years later and it doesn't have, like, a dent in it or, you know, just so many things, like a bottle of wine that you save for way too long. You know, I think every day should be a special occasion. And I think you should just romanticize your life and, like, not wait for someone to tell you it's special and just do it for you. I hate that. I'll be like, I'm saving this for a special occasion, you know? And it's like, then the next. It's just never special enough. And then you never use it.

[Tyler]

I know. I live my life by love.

[Savannah]

You do.

[Tyler]

By not.

[Savannah]

Not saving things.

[Tyler]

Like, if I buy something and it's cute, I'm wearing it.

[Savannah]

Yeah, you're not. Like, I'm gonna wait. Like, if I maybe get invited to, like, this. A really cool, like, whatever. Yeah, I agree. A tit for tat mentality. So if you're like, well, you did this. Well, I did that. Like, I hate that shit. Miss me with that. Get far the away from me, six feet. You know? I hate that. Oh, I hate that. Lance. Okay. Buying something only because it's in. That's kind of what you were saying.

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

Like, if you. Okay, per example. And this is, like, so me, because I did this a little bit in 2024. But, like, I like cheetah in general. But, like, would I have bought a cheetah purse if it wasn't in? Probably not. I would have been like, that looks like a cigarette, mom.

[Tyler]

Which is what I said. Yes, many a times.

[Savannah]

But now I'm vibing with it. But, like, also, like, don't buy something just because it's in. Like, if you hate it, per example. Okay. I was shopping online, and I saw this shirt, and I was like, that sure is so hideous. I can't believe anyone would want that. And then I got on Instagram and I see an influencer that I follow wearing it, and I'm like, oh, my God. I like. You know, I like her vibe. I like her style. Like, if she thinks it's cute, then it must be cute. Then I get on TikTok and I see another girl that I follow in the same Shirt. And I'm like, oh, my God, now I want this shirt. And I had to stop myself. And I'm like. My first reaction was, yeah, why do I now want it? Just because someone else has it.

[Tyler]

Yeah. Like, did you see those? They were popular this year. Those, like, fishnet mesh shoes I wanted.

[Savannah]

I had them in my car 50 different times and I was like, I can't. They're so fucking ugly.

[Tyler]

Ugly. Disgusting.

[Savannah]

So ugly. I'm sorry.

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

Unless you love them genuinely. But I don't think you do. I think it was a social experiment.

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

So, yeah, that's that. Anyway. Rainfall, shower heads. Worst decision I ever made in my house I live in right now. I don't have any in the new house. Right.

[Tyler]

I think your shower may have one, but you also have the two regular shower heads.

[Savannah]

Thank God. I hate those. One, you can't get in there without having to wash your hair. Like, unless you're like, you know, like.

[Tyler]

Like the Matrix does.

[Savannah]

No, it's probably how I hurt my neck, honestly. Second of all, it feels like you're getting water boarded the entire time.

[Tyler]

Yeah. I hate, I hate.

[Savannah]

I can't shower. Can't breathe.

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

Can't fucking breathe. Okay. Third, I don't think it washes out shampoo and conditioner as well as it could. The water pressure is not great.

[Tyler]

Yeah. You know, and if it was great, it would be even a worse experience if you're just getting shot down.

[Savannah]

Fucking hate.

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

No, it's rain, fall, showerheads. Okay. Second one is a split car garage.

[Tyler]

Yeah. Well, you have some personal beef with that one.

[Savannah]

I have hit the ears of my Porsche like five times.

[Tyler]

And the side of your car.

[Savannah]

The ears.

[Tyler]

Side view mirrors.

[Savannah]

Yeah. I call them ears. They're like little ears.

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

Yeah. Literally, like, got it fixed. No, I hit it, got it fixed and then hit it 48 hours later. I had to go get it fixed again.

[Tyler]

Yeah. Now her husband just has to pull her car in and out.

[Savannah]

Yeah. I won't do it.

[Tyler]

She's not trusted. I mean, to be fair, yours is not. I swear, your garage is not an average size because, like, she can't. She can't pull into the garage without putting the side view mirrors in. Yeah, because her car, like. Like the garage is too narrow.

[Savannah]

And even with them in, they get hit.

[Tyler]

Yeah. Like you have. It is. It's a dangerous game to play pulling into her garage. No, but, like, if you had the.

[Savannah]

Size of garage, there's no need. There's never been a need.

[Tyler]

I mean, if it's a three car garage, then there is a need. No, like a, like you have a double door and then you have a single door. That's like very common.

[Savannah]

I think everyone should have their just wide open.

[Tyler]

But if the garage door is bigger, it's not a problem.

[Savannah]

But I just think in general, I.

[Tyler]

Don'T think there's such thing as a three car garage.

[Savannah]

Why can't you just have it all open? Why you just park where you need to park, bitch. Yeah, there's no need. Anyway, what is your garages at your.

[Tyler]

New house look like? I just got nervous.

[Savannah]

Better not be a split car garage and there better not be rainfall.

[Tyler]

Well, I know the doors are huge. Like the doors.

[Savannah]

Yeah, I still don't like them. I have beef. Okay, next is being a fake asshole. And that's self explanatory. If you don't like me, don't like me. I can't tell you how many times this year someone would accidentally send me a DM talking about me. Yet three weeks before they were in line to take photos with me and meet me and like we're all oh my God, I love you. Or like worse, they're in your DMs every single day commenting on everything, say how much they love you and then they send you a story of your own, talking shit about you that they meant to send to someone else. So just don't be fake. If you don't fucking like me, don't like me. That's okay.

[Tyler]

And if you're gonna be fake, don't be fucking stupid too.

[Savannah]

Yeah, don't be fake and stupid. Pick one.

[Tyler]

Pick a struggle.

[Savannah]

Struggle. Yeah, I hate fake people.

[Tyler]

That's like my favorite thing when people do that to you though. Me too.

[Savannah]

It makes my day.

[Tyler]

Like you will scroll in her DM and they're like, oh my gosh, your hair is so pretty today. Oh my gosh, I love your outfit. Where's that shirt from? Oh my gosh, do I put trio before thing? And then it's like she's so fucking annoying. I can't stand her. And it's like yesterday you told me I looked pretty and where's my shirt from?

[Savannah]

Maybe I'm fucking annoying and pretty. That's fine. I'd rather, I'd rather be pretty and fucking annoying than not annoying and not pretty.

[Tyler]

Yeah, but it's like, it's like how are you gonna say I can't stand her and then like you are. You were deep throating me yesterday.

[Savannah]

That's funny. Okay, next one. Because I have major beef with this top. Seasoned only bagels. If I'm ordering an everything bagel and only the top is seasoned and not the bottom half.

[Tyler]

Hmm.

[Savannah]

It makes me so upset.

[Tyler]

Interesting. I think I don't mind it because I eat the bagel all in one. But you're a splitter.

[Savannah]

I'm a splitter.

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

I like to eat like four little halves throughout the day.

[Tyler]

Yeah. Like I, I'm like, I'm like sandwich vibes. Actually, I usually get a sandwich as my bagel, so I eat it all in one. But I see your point. Because then you're like, you're only getting half of an everything bagel. The other side that you're eating is plain.

[Savannah]

Yeah, but your bagel place, they do the whole thing, top and bottom.

[Tyler]

My bagel place is again, my coffee shop. My bagel place. Support small owned businesses, not chains. You go to Einstein's.

[Savannah]

I don't like Einstein's.

[Tyler]

No, I know. I'm telling the people.

[Savannah]

Okay. I like small coffee shops.

[Tyler]

You hate my coffee shop.

[Savannah]

I hate your coffee shop. But I do like other small ones. Yes. Anyway, close up mirrors, nobody needs to see that close. Nobody.

[Tyler]

I agree.

[Savannah]

No one. It just causes problems. The only reason I do have to keep mine in my arsenal, but not always on my counter, is to get out tonsil stones. And if you don't think you have tonsil stones, your breath probably smells. And you do. Unless you had your tonsils removed.

[Tyler]

You couldn't get them out in a regular mirror.

[Savannah]

It's easier when you can see closer.

[Tyler]

Yeah. I just do not trust you with a close up mirror.

[Savannah]

I know.

[Tyler]

Like at all.

[Savannah]

Well. Yeah. It's like giving me a gun.

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

Okay. Roundabouts. I freaking hate roundabouts. They give me anxiety. They make my heart beat. One day I'm gonna be 70 years old and I'm gonna just stroke out during a roundabout. That's how I'm going to go. I hate them. They don't make sense. I don't think they're functional. I don't think they make anyone's lives easier. I think everyone's in a panic, going in a circle. I hate them.

[Tyler]

I don't.

[Savannah]

That's fine. I do a lot. Okay, next zoos. Unless it's a rescue center. I think keeping healthy animals captured and captive is fucked up. And the only thing that would make it okay is if, like they physically or mentally could not live in the wild without dying or being hurt. Like if they came in and they have a broken leg or like they have Like a disease or something, you know, where they need someone to like rehabilitate them and take care of them. That's the only time that I think, I think we should keep. Like you would have a zoo.

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

You could have the same vibe of a zoo. But the animals that are in the zoo should be injured.

[Tyler]

I think the vibe should change too.

[Savannah]

Yeah.

[Tyler]

I think their enclosures should be like four times as big in the area where people. It should almost switch. Like we're the ones in cages.

[Savannah]

Yeah.

[Tyler]

And they're in their natural habitat.

[Savannah]

I love that mindset.

[Tyler]

Like, because there's. They always look so depressed and it's like they should have like huge amounts of area and we should be on like a little tiny walkway to see them.

[Savannah]

I agree. Love that. Okay. Another out is Bath and Body Works. Because toxic fragrance. It's just gross. It's cheugy.

[Tyler]

Is it in?

[Savannah]

It's never been in.

[Tyler]

Oh, okay.

[Savannah]

I mean, it used to be like 2012.

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

But now it's not. Okay. And last but not least is not giving people straws. Like.

[Tyler]

Horrible.

[Savannah]

I have to beg my delivery people, anyone, to give me a straw. Nobody wants to give a straw. Nobody. Nobody wants to give you a straw. I don't even care if it's a paper straw. I just want a straw.

[Tyler]

I care if it's a paper straw.

[Savannah]

Well, I would rather have a paper straw than no straw.

[Tyler]

That's true.

[Savannah]

Okay, are we doing ends?

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

Are you paying attention to me?

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

Look me in the eye. Okay. Number one, not explaining yourself. I'm just gonna start doing things and just be like. Yeah. Because I feel like I over explain everything I do because I worry about people getting my intentions wrong. But I really don't care anymore. I'm just gonna be me. And if they have questions, they can take it up with God.

[Tyler]

With someone who's not you.

[Savannah]

Yeah. Don't ask me. Don't ask why I do what I do. I just do it. Okay. Another N for me is daily mental check ins. I think this is so important. And let's get serious, guys. For real. For real. We wake up, the first thing we do is get on our phones and we're being fed things from everyone else's life. Problems. Everyone else's life. Things that they have going on. Their thoughts, their opinions, the media, all of that. Okay. Then we get in the car and we're listening to music and we're not. What? Four hours have gone by and you haven't once talked to yourself or checked in with yourself? You get to work. You're dealing with customers all day or co workers or doing whatever. You're focused on work, okay? Not thinking about yourself. You get back in the car, you're listening to a podcast, you're listening to music, still not taking care of yourself, still have not checked in with yourself. Then you get home and let's say you're a parent, okay? Now you're with your children, your husband, you're focused on mom mode or whatever that looks like for you, and you're not with yourself. And then you go to bed and you wake up and you do it again. And that's why there's so many horrible, awful, shitty people that are not self aware because they don't give them time to be aware. And I think possibly a little bit of me being a Virgo is why I have been such a self aware person. But like every night when I lay down or if I'm driving, like I literally run through my entire day and every interaction I've had with each person and I dissect it. I am a little bit of an overthinker. Maybe don't go this extreme, but I just think about how I would have done things differently or how I could have been better in those situations or like how, you know, something might have come across that I didn't intend it to. I think that's a huge thing, is to just think, have conversations with yourself, drive in silence. Like, I really think life for me is so busy and like, it's hard because I'm always on my phone for work and I'm in clinic and I'm at home and all those things. So driving time for me truly is. And I think that's why my mental health went down a lot when I stopped driving, because I got scared of driving for a bit because I thought I was gonna die. If you guys remember that episode where I told you about how I got a hex literally put on me when I was 7 in New Orleans and she told me I was gonna die in a car accident after the third one and I've already had two anyway, so I told you I'm gonna die in a roundabout.

[Tyler]

I think driving should be in for you.

[Savannah]

It is. I'm gonna start driving again because it really helps me when I'm by myself in a car and just like thinking, you know, and just like talking to myself, like not out loud but just like in my head, like kind of just figuring things out. So I think just being more self aware and doing daily mental check ins will not only benefit you, but help all the people around you as well. Because I feel like that's such a big thing. I could have a whole podcast about how people just are so mindless and just go through the motions every day and, like, are not themselves and they don't know what's happening and they're just moving day to day. Okay. Doing way less in general. I've been doing the most since I came out of the womb, and I'm over it, quite frankly.

[Tyler]

We've. It's been a long road coming.

[Savannah]

Thank you. Reading more books. I think I'm gonna read more books this year because I think my IQ has gone down a lot. I think I'm, like, stupid. Like, I think I'm really smart when it comes to marketing in social media and skincare because I do it every day. But then, like, sometimes certain words I can't pronounce or, like, I don't know. I just think in general, like, older people that you meet, you'll know who keeps reading and who doesn't because, like, they still have the mental sharpness and clarity. Like, that's literally what keeps your brain young, is feeding and learning and information constantly being circulated. And even if it's like, you know, a fun book or whatever it is, I feel like just reading in general expands your mind and makes you smarter.

[Tyler]

You hate fun books.

[Savannah]

Yeah, I'm not going to read a fun book, but I'll read a book. Okay. Being unapologetically you just being me and you. Like it or leave it. Okay. Collecting things. As women, we have a natural instinct to gather. And I think we should gather. I think we should collect something. Like, growing up, I used to collect rocks.

[Tyler]

Now you collect shells.

[Savannah]

No, I collect seashells. And I also collect perfume. And like, same vein of, like, no over consumption. But also I think it's so cool when someone's passionate about something meaningful to them, like, whether it's like, you know, little.

[Tyler]

What are those little, like, having all the quarters from the States.

[Savannah]

Yeah. Like, things like that. Or like, you know, the little dolls that people collect or whatever you want to collect. You can collect anything. That's your choice. But I think we should all collect something. I think, you know, instead of, like, going out to drink after, you know, you accomplish something, you could be like, you know what? I'm gonna go buy myself a new blah, blah, blah to add to my collection. I think it would just. Just has so much lore, and I think people that collect things are so cool. But, like, you can't Just collect anything. Like there has to be something that you that is meaningful.

[Tyler]

I don't think I would have anything.

[Savannah]

Well, you could collect like classic books. Like the first gener editions of like certain books.

[Tyler]

Yeah. That would be of really expensive hobby. Well, like like thousands of dollars. Like $10,000 for a first edition copy.

[Savannah]

Maybe like a third edition. Maybe you can be like a fourth edition kind of guy.

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

Okay. Lash Growth Mascara. The total Lash mascara from Color Science. I love. I love a two for one. I'm also putting that in a two for one, a three for one. I am body wash. Unless it's. Yes. I'm all for products that do multiple things. I think it helps again with over consumption and just minimizing and having a really nice curated. That's my goal. When I get into the new house, I'm just gonna have like staples, you know, I'm not gonna have a million of everything.

[Tyler]

I am so excited for that, Savannah.

[Savannah]

I know.

[Tyler]

So excited.

[Savannah]

Me too. I think I'll find things easier that way too.

[Tyler]

I do. Yeah. I just think over consumption also breeds like anxiety.

[Savannah]

Yeah, no, for sure. But then I get anxiety when I get rid of stuff because then I don't have it and then I get like anxious attachments. I have a whole like. I think I might need to go on like hoarding. Buried Alive.

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

I'm not that bad. Like I won't not get rid of stuff. I just accumulate a lot of things.

[Tyler]

Yeah. It's like you ask me to come help you get rid of stuff and then when I'm passionate about you getting rid of something, you get upset with me.

[Savannah]

There's sometimes you're right and sometimes you're wrong. Next up is wearing niche fragrances I don't want to smell Born in Roma or Black Opium or Chanel Number five. I'm sick of everyone smelling the same. I think everyone needs to have a niche scent that just makes them special and makes you different.

[Tyler]

Mine is.

[Savannah]

Yes.

[Tyler]

Harmonizing Fire.

[Savannah]

Very good. I'm wearing today. Wait, Trey. Share. Yeah. Tracer. Okay. Bloody Mary is any time of day, obviously, because we're not judging people in 2025. And if I want a Bloody Mary at 8p, I'm going to do it and you're going to look the other way and mind your fucking business or driving to work.

[Tyler]

Okay, not what I meant any time of day.

[Savannah]

I meant mostly like past brunch time. It should be acceptable. Like you should be able to go to a dinner and order Bloody Mary without getting fucking looks like if you want to drink a Mimosa?

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

At 10pm yeah. You should be able to do that.

[Tyler]

Yeah. That's why I like an espresso Martini, because I feel like it truly is in any time of day drink.

[Savannah]

I know. And it's fucked up and it's not fair because that technically should be a daytime drink. Okay, next up is funky shaped candles.

[Tyler]

Okay. I was imagining birthday candles. I was, like, just imagining those, like, wiggly ones.

[Savannah]

No, like the Loewe candle.

[Tyler]

Okay. Cute.

[Savannah]

Just like, cool candles in a cowboy boot. Yeah. Like, just candles that are, like, little things that are just fun.

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

I just think why not make candles more fun?

[Tyler]

I agree.

[Savannah]

Take something that's already fun and make it even funner. Okay. Fish keeping.

[Tyler]

Disagree, but okay.

[Savannah]

No.

[Tyler]

Love that for you.

[Savannah]

Fish keeping is great for people with autism, anxiety, depression, and high stress. My mom got me a fish when I was having a lot of anxiety when I was like, seven and watching the fish swim. Very peaceful, very demure.

[Tyler]

I think they smell bad and that's okay. Yeah.

[Savannah]

But they also. There's a lot of things that smell bad that make us happy. Murphy probably doesn't smell great.

[Tyler]

He always smells great.

[Savannah]

I don't think that's true.

[Tyler]

He gets bathed every two weeks.

[Savannah]

Okay, that's fine. Anyway, my dogs don't smell great, and I love them. And they also get groomed every two weeks.

[Tyler]

Yeah, but they go outside and they. They, like, roll around like they're young. Like, Murphy goes outside, pees, and comes directly back inside.

[Savannah]

What a sad life.

[Tyler]

It's. What life?

[Savannah]

You all right? I already said this one, but tongue scraping is in. Everyone that's listening to this episode. Tongue scraper in your Amazon cart right now. Frozen yogurt. The last time I was happy was at yogurt story 2012. Getting the little popping juice balls in my froyo. Life was better when frozen yogurt was like, the craze. Everyone was happier. Life was good. That song, When I Met yout in the Summer. Bom bom bom bom Till my heart beats sound. We made love as the leaves turn brown and we could be together, baby.

[Tyler]

Wait, does this have a reference to.

[Savannah]

As the sky Turns Blue? It's just like how it makes me feel when I eat frozen yogurt.

[Tyler]

I thought he said frozen yogurt somewhere in the song. So I was waiting for, like, the time. I know.

[Savannah]

Just, like, it's the same vibe. It's like how you feel when you eat frozen yogurt.

[Tyler]

Yeah. Froyo used to really Be in when we were younger.

[Savannah]

It's in.

[Tyler]

Okay. It wasn't.

[Savannah]

I've been eating frozen yogurt pretty much every night.

[Tyler]

Yeah, it's funny because I have her personal email on my phone.

[Savannah]

I get a garden and I want frozen yogurt.

[Tyler]

So it'll be like, literally 10:30pm I'm, like, laying in bed, ready to go to, like, sleep, and then I just get, like, a little uber email, and it's like, thank you for fucking love.

[Savannah]

Minchies. Minchies. I'm keeping you in business. You're welcome. Okay. Going to the movie theater. I think since COVID we all stopped. But I also think, as the public, we should raise the standard of movie theaters.

[Tyler]

True. I think they kind of got trashy after Covid. But I also think movies haven't been good.

[Savannah]

Yes. Make movies great again.

[Tyler]

Yeah, no, that's really it. Like, movie theaters should come back in. I agree with that.

[Savannah]

Stop raping children. Stop drinking children's blood, and just focus on making good movies.

[Tyler]

Yeah, it's.

[Savannah]

Your priorities are wrong.

[Tyler]

Guys like Dune and Wicked are the only two movies I can think of that, like, have that same.

[Savannah]

Like, Star Is Born, Finding Nemo. I saw that in theaters, and that blew my fucking mind when I was eight.

[Tyler]

Yeah. But I'm just saying, like, pre Covid, like, I feel like there were always, like, big movies that, like.

[Savannah]

Yeah.

[Tyler]

Everyone loved.

[Savannah]

Oh, yes.

[Tyler]

And stuff. And like, the only ones I can think of are, like, Dune and Wicked.

[Savannah]

I agree.

[Tyler]

In the past, like, 10 years. Yeah, Barbie was huge. And Oppenheimer, but I liked that one. You watched it? Yeah, I tried to watch it, and I was really confused, but, yeah, I can imagine.

[Savannah]

After my dad explained everything to me after the movie, I liked it. I was like, oh, okay. It was way above my head at some points. Okay. Anyway. Changing tables and men's restroom, like, first of all, how sextus is it? But then also. What? Sextist?

[Tyler]

No, you're saying sex to, like, sending sex.

[Savannah]

I have always said it was sexist.

[Tyler]

No, sexist.

[Savannah]

Okay, well, learn something new. But then also, I have a son, so that's why I'm like. When my husband goes pee, I'm like, just take Cyrus with you and go change his diaper. And then he'll go in and he'll be like, there's no changing table. And I'm like, what the fuck? Patriarchy.

[Tyler]

Yeah, I guess that's true.

[Savannah]

But then also, like, if I had a little girl and I had a daughter, I would not. I mean, my husband. I would Trust. But you know what I mean. I just don't know how I'd feel about, like my daughter being changed in a restroom full of men. You know what I mean?

[Tyler]

Fair enough. I mean, I feel like it's fine.

[Savannah]

Like, boy on boy.

[Tyler]

Well, no, I feel like it's fine if they're with your husband.

[Savannah]

But anyways, just in general, I think there should be the option. And especially, like, ones like inside a bathroom stall. Not like, just like out in the open.

[Tyler]

I can't. I feel like those are out. I can't remember the last time I.

[Savannah]

See them all the time.

[Tyler]

Well, maybe it's a woman thing.

[Savannah]

In the airport, all of that.

[Tyler]

Yeah, it's a woman.

[Savannah]

It's just like right where you, like, wash your hands.

[Tyler]

That's crazy.

[Savannah]

Yeah. Like around that area, I feel like.

[Tyler]

In men's restrooms, if there is one.

[Savannah]

It'S in the big stall. So. Yeah. And I think that's good. Yeah. But that needs to happen because sometimes I'm in like high, high heels and a little teeny, tiny skirt and I'm like, it's just not the vibe to change a diaper and I'll do it, but if my husband's there, I'm going to make him do it. Took two to make this baby. I had to carry it for nine months. You can change the diaper and that's how I feel. Okay. Complimenting strangers. Okay. I think this is great. Do you remember when I complimented that person and they just completely straight up thought I was like a psychopath and ignored me in the mall? Do you not remember that? It was so awkward.

[Tyler]

Which mall?

[Savannah]

When we were at north park and I said something, I was like, you smell so good. You should get that one. We were smelling perfume and they just like stared me in the eye and walked away.

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

But anyway. Okay, that's fine. I think you don't know what someone's going through. And I know for a fact when someone, like compliments me, like yesterday I was at the stockyards and someone was like, your hair is so beautiful. Like, you know, it's one thing to hear it from your husband or like your co workers or like your best friend, but like when someone who has no needs, nothing from you, has no ties to you, no relationship with you, just genuinely compliments you, like, you know, that's genuine, you know, and it makes you feel really good because a lot of times, you know, like, I just, you know, be like, oh, you look good today, Ty. Not that you don't look good, but like, are you going to. You'll be like, of course you're saying that. She's my best friend. So I feel like when, like, someone who doesn't know you, no ties to you, can't get anything from you, doesn't want anything from you, just gives you just a generalized nice compliment, makes the world go round. And I think we need to do that more. I think people are, like, not talking to people like they used to. I think compliments go a long way. You don't know if someone was, like, maybe gonna, like, take their life that night. Not to be deep, but, like, you don't know. What if that, like, one thing. And that sounds silly, but truly, like, that one thing could have made them stay an extra day, and then maybe, like, something great happened and then they just don't do that to themselves, you know?

[Tyler]

You're 1000% right.

[Savannah]

Thank you. I know. Okay. Going to therapy is n. I think we need to start talking about our problems with someone licensed instead of telling the Internet, tick tock, trauma dumping on people. And also, just like you, not everyone needs to know your business. Okay. I think there's something about being quiet. I don't. Not everyone knows what I've been going through. Yeah, just you. Yeah, just you. So don't give me that look.

[Tyler]

No, it's. It's just a little. You can admit it's a little ironic. A little bit.

[Savannah]

There's levels of my problems. There's, like, levels.

[Tyler]

This one is a pretty high level that was shared.

[Savannah]

Really? What?

[Tyler]

All your parents drama.

[Savannah]

Oh, well, fuck them. Sorry, guys. Anyway.

[Tyler]

That'S why I'm, like, chuckling a little bit. Because you're like, you should not be going to Instagram to talk about your problems. And, like, rewind the clock. Three weeks ago.

[Savannah]

That was three weeks ago. I'm a different person now. We'll change.

[Tyler]

I agree completely.

[Savannah]

I mean, what they did. I. This is the thing, and I will say this, and this is, I'm letting this go for 20, 25.

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

I'm never talking about this again, but I will say it one last time here. People say so much about me. People lie about me, make rumors about me. All the things all the time. I don't care about 99 of them. The one thing that strikes a chord is when they say, my parents funded my business, my dad paid for it, etc, it's not, oh, Savannah. I don't care if they say, oh, Savannah had an investor. Savannah had, which isn't true. Everyone knows the truth, which is, I did it. Myself. But the reason the parent piece hurts me because I don't get upset. And they're like, oh, she had investors, or, you know, whatever. But then, like, her mom and dad paid for her business hurts me because not only did they not pay for my business or financially support me, they didn't support me emotionally. They didn't support me physically by helping me move boxes into my new space. They didn't believe in me. I mean, there was so much more than that. Like, the financial side was like, whatever. I didn't care about that. I just wished I had their emotional support and their physical support, and I didn't get that. And so that's why I got so triggered by that. That's, like, the one thing that. It's just, like, my kryptonite. Like, that's, like, the one thing someone can hit me with, and I just, like, see red.

[Tyler]

But now you won't care anymore because you can't give them the key right now of getting under your skin.

[Savannah]

That's the one thing that gets me. Because they don't know how hard it was to, like, not have your parents, like, believe in you, let alone not have their money. Like, I had nothing.

[Tyler]

Yeah. No, for sure.

[Savannah]

I didn't have the emotional, physical, or emotional, physical. What was the other one? Financial support from my parents. So that's why I got heated. And I was on my period, and I had a really bad week. There was, like. It was like, the perfect storm. It was so, like. There were, like, six things that had, like, been horrible that week. And then that was, like, the cherry on top. And then I just, like, exploded. And I'm human.

[Tyler]

My favorite thing is when she starts ranting on her stories, and, like, I'm, like, tapping through it. And Savannah's like, tyler, I know you're listening to this. I know you're upset with me for talking about this online right now.

[Savannah]

Yeah.

[Tyler]

Please forgive me.

[Savannah]

Anyway, therapy. Okay. And, like. Yeah, okay. Handwritten cards. I think handwritten cards are so chic and just so thoughtful and just make you feel cared for. Bring back handwritten cards. I can't imagine. I can't tell you guys how many gifts I got this year with no cards.

[Tyler]

That is crazy.

[Savannah]

No cards or just, like, happy New Year, Merry Christmas. Like, no. Like, nothing heartfelt. Like, I miss. Like, don't even get me a card. If that's. If you're just gonna have, like, the little greeting thing and then be like, love you.

[Tyler]

Yeah.

[Savannah]

Exo blank.

[Tyler]

Like, that's crazy.

[Savannah]

That's a slop yes. I've always been writing cards. Not just for holidays, but just, like, in general. Like, just give them to people to say thank you. Instead of sending that long text of how you feel about somebody, write them a handwritten card. Okay. And my very last one is blowing out your hair at home. I think at home blowouts are so fun, and they last a really long time. Unless you have greasy hair or oily hair like Tyler, then you have to do it every day. But I think, you know, it's time to learn how to do our hair and learn different hairstyles and not just do the same thing every day, period.

[Tyler]

Great list. Yeah. That was a lot.

[Savannah]

I know. I'm hungry now. How long was this? Oh, my God. 56 minutes. Well, guys, that's a wrap.

[Tyler]

We just spoiled y'all.

[Savannah]

Yes.

[Tyler]

Love you guys. Have a wonderful rest of your week.

[Savannah]

Happy New Year.

[Tyler]

Let us know, y'all. Let us know your ins and outs.

[Savannah]

Yes. On our YouTube video. Please start watching our YouTube channel.

[Tyler]

The quality is through the roof now.

[Savannah]

Through the roof. And you get to see our beautiful faces. We love you guys. Happy New Year. Slay the day away. Go to the dentist, please. And don't eat fish on a plane.

[Tyler]

I was about to say that. Love you guys.