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A
Foreign. Hi, guys. Welcome back to another week of the Blondest podcast. I am your host, Savannah Boda.
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B
And I am your host, Tyler Jacoby. Or did I say your host?
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A
That's okay.
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B
That's okay. At this point. Yeah. Without. When your voice was gone, you had to carry us.
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A
I mean, it's still not great.
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B
Yeah, it's. It's getting better, though. And. And then right after that, Lauren's voice went out.
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A
I know.
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B
Like a week later.
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A
It's crazy. I probably gave it to her.
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B
I wonder if it was laryngitis. Probably, but I didn't get it. I've never had that. Oh, Savannah. We. Did we talk about it. Yeah, you've. Savannah. There was a season that she had it, like, six times, but this time it's only going to be once.
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A
Yeah. We're manifesting. It's going to be great. Because this weekend is actually, for us, the Face Reality Summit. I have to speak a lot and talk to a lot of people, so I need to rest my voice. Probably not the best idea to record.
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B
Two days before, but, you know, Savannah refuses. She said, I've been doing this podcast for six years. I am not missing a week now.
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A
Yeah. I was like, if I can not miss a week through a divorce and childbirth and depression.
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B
I didn't even think about childbirth.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Did you bring Sarah to the studio? I feel like I remember a picture of that, but, yeah, I did, like, when he was, like, a week old. That's so funny.
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A
I'm dedicated to my craft.
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B
You are.
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A
But, yeah. So what's new in life? Well, everyone knows I'm single. Dallas is scary. The dating apps are scary. And honestly, when I was married, one of the things that I would do all the time because I never got to experience this, um, because I don't think, like, dating apps were really, like, a thing. When I got in a relationship at, like, 18, it was probably just, like.
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B
It was probably just 10 years ago.
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A
Yeah. So I would always use Tyler's dating apps because. Not like to talk to people on my behalf, but I pretend to be him.
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B
Yeah. Just the swipe.
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A
And I would, like, hit people up for him. And it was fun. So I did download an app or two, but I don't know. I think, honestly, most of the men are like, I think they're gay. I told you that. I'm like, the type of photos, it just gives me the ick. Like, I'm literally swiping like, he's gay, he's gay, he's gay, he's gay. Because, like, if you're taking pictures of yourself like that as a straight male, if you're posting selfies on your Instagram as a straight male, like, your photo should be, like, you with, like, a dead animal that you hunted. It should be a picture with your fucking family that they took, like, 10 years ago. And like.
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B
Or if it's a selfie, it should be, like, awful.
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A
Yeah, it should be, like, really good.
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B
You shouldn't know your angles.
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A
Yeah. Like, it shouldn't be, like, a really good crisp selfie. And then some of it. I'm like, these men are using FaceApp. Like, I can tell.
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B
Yeah.
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A
So. Yeah. And then also I have, like, I'm very old school traditional when it comes to stuff. And I feel like with dating apps, like, you're. You're never, like, intended. Like, God never intended you to actually, like, meet them. So I don't think it's like, your destiny. Like, that's not going to be much, you know, unless some of you guys on here have actually met your soulmate through a dating app. Disregard. But my philosophy with it is that you are not supposed to meet them. And maybe like, your soulmate, you just, like, met quicker because of the app and you guys would have, like, ran into each other at some point. Yeah, I don't want to get the besties upset because I know a lot of people have actually found really good relationships there, but for me, I just would rather meet someone and then also I'm just weird. Like, I don't find people attractive until I know their personality and, like, who they are. Like, if you're not conventionally attractive, but I really vibe with, like, your personality and, like, intellectually, where I'm, like, stimulated, then I'll think you're a 10, you know, but like, so it's. For me, it's not really, like, about looks. It's genuinely like, can I imagine myself having a conversation with you without wanting to slit my throat?
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B
Yeah. And like, dating apps is completely superficial at first, at least.
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A
But no, I'm definitely like a fall in love with your personality and then think you're like. Cause Tyler's seen some of the guys I've dated in the past. He's like, this man is so ugly. And I'm like, no, but, like, I thought he was the hottest person in the entire world because of his personality, and I stand by that. So I'll have to meet people out, which is gonna be hard because I either am working or at home, but I did get out on the town a couple times. And then got sick, and then got really sick. And I just hated it. Like the bar scene, it. It's just not for me. Like, I guess it'd be fun if you drink, you know, and you're drinking. But I don't have anywhere to stay in Dallas. I don't believe in like having a fucking sleepover. Like I'm not gonna sleep at like a friend's house as a 28 year old mother. Like, I'm going home, you know?
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B
Yeah.
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A
And so I'm. And one in general, I don't really drink. Like if I drink, I will have like a beer or a drink over the course of five hours, sort of.
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B
The half the drink will still be sitting there by the end of dinner.
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A
But the drink never gets finished. But I like to think that I can do it. I like to just have it as a prop. And I have to drive home an hour so I'm like, I'm not gonna get wasted. And also I'm pretty sure I'm allergic to alcohol and I just don't like drinking. You guys know my little marijuana to go to bed. That's about it. Yeah. So anyways, it was just like I like had the worst anxiety. Me and Lauren went out and I was just as. The second time, we went out twice the second time. Like, the energy was just so bad. Like it just seemed like a bunch of like lost people. And I was like, you know, like, I have a successful business, I have a child. Like I don't belong here. Like, it just seems like people that never grew up. I don't think it's always the case. Like, I definitely am not like a hater of fun, but I'm just like, if it's not benefiting you and you're. It's like a waste of time. Like if I didn't have a child, maybe, but it's like I'd rather be with my kid than do that. And like if I'm gonna hang out with the girls, like, I'd rather be at home and like PJ is like eating Taco Bell and kikiing than like be at a loud, disgusting bar with drunk, sloppy people. And it's just scary too. Like, it just scares me because people, like, even if I'm not drinking and driving, other people are. So it just gives me anxiety.
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B
Maybe you're seen as like nice dinner and then like a cocktail.
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A
But then Lauren said that you only get sugar daddies like that. And I don't need nor want that.
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B
Yeah.
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A
But I also don't want to marry or, like, I know I'm not gonna find my, like, next husband in a bar.
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B
Yeah. Like, Lonnie's like, no. I guess it's two opposite ends of the spectrum. Like, where's the middle?
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A
I don't know. I think, like, you have the frat.
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B
Boys that never grew up.
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A
Yeah, it's the frat boys that never grew up. For me. It's so true. It's, like, kind of sad. I mean, we're all, like, almost 30, and these men are still, like, playing the field, like, they're 21.
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B
Yeah, no, I got. It's sad because the day that I. You were supposed to go, and Lauren and Monet were there.
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A
Yeah, I didn't go to that.
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B
Ryan and I. Like, Lauren was like, just come. Like, blah, blah, blah. We showed up literally 20 minutes later. I was like, I have to leave. Like, I cannot do this scene.
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A
It is so bad. Like, it is actually so bad.
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B
Yeah, it's bad.
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A
Like, no.
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B
Like, a waste of an Uber.
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A
A waste of. A waste of a night, man. Like, truly. But I was telling Maria today we went to go pick out some of my fish for my fish tank. So I'm getting a saltwater tank in my home and in my house. And I was like, this is where I'm gonna find my future husband. Like, I'm just gonna keep going to the Dallas North Aquarium.
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B
Like, that's so funny.
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A
We'll run into each other while looking at, like, the puffer fish and then be like, oh, my God, you love puffer fish. That's crazy. Same. And then we'll fall in love.
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B
I feel like you're gonna meet your person abroad.
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A
I hope not, because I am not moving.
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B
No. Like, they would be visiting, too. I don't know where they would be visiting from. The States. But, like, maybe that's just.
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A
I don't know. I'm focusing on me. I have way too much shit to worry about right now. But it's funny because people that, like, don't know me personally, and they just hear, like, oh, she just got divorced. Like, think that, like, I'm, like, in my, like, healing. I've healed. Like, I processed all this. Like, I've been mentally divorced for three years. Like, I've been asking for a divorce for three years and kind of just put it on the shelf because, you know, it's just easier to function. Like, compartmentalizing is, like, one of the best things. Like, I literally pay this woman $11,000 for coaching, and she's like, you are the only person that does not utilize my number. Like, I have clients that, like, blow me up all day. And, like, you could. I'd never text her. Like, I only see her when I see her in person. And it's because I'm like, I don't have. Like, I do feel my emotions. I used to never do it, but. But I actually go to therapy now. For a long time. I didn't. And so just shove my feelings down. And, like, I've talked about this a million times. Like, it just made me like. I'm like, why am I depressed? And it's like, because you have not actually addressed anything that you're dealing with. But anyways, I just, like, put it on a shelf until, like, I have time to deal with it, which is also not great. But, I mean, I can't. I'm a very emotional person. When I allow myself to feel emotions, I'm, like, very hot and cold. Like, I can either fully feel everything or not. Like, Tyler and I, like, sometimes, like, let's have this conversation. I'm like, I literally cannot get into this with you right now. Like, we're tabling this. I have shit to do that I need to get done. Like, we can talk about our emotions and feelings. Like, when I have time to do that, which pisses him off. It pisses a lot. I mean, Lance would get pissed off. I mean, I have to be on. Like, I am responsible for a lot of people's paychecks and families. I'm responsible for my family. Like, I can't allow my emotions to dictate how I feel and how I perform. So, like, literally, I could get the worst news ever and, like, completely dissociate so that I could get whatever I need to get done and then I'll come back to it. Like, when I have the time to actually deal with it and feel everything I want to feel. Yeah, I had to learn that a very, very young age, how to, like, do that. So, anyways, back to what I was saying. Like, I pretty much genuinely do have everything I could ever want in life besides, like, love, and I've never had that. And truly, I don't think I've ever actually, like, been in love. Like, I've loved people, but I've never been, like, felt that, like, feeling that people feel. Like. I used to always ask my clients, I'm like, oh, like, you actually, like, really enjoy, like, the person you're with. They're like, yes. And I'm like, that's crazy. Like, I can't even, like, fucking fathom that. And that should probably be my first sign. But, you know, I just was stupid. And so it, like, shocked me that there were, like, actual, like, people that, like, are soulmates and, like, don't get sick of each other and, like, actually, like. Like, of course they're gonna fight and have problems. Every relationship does. But, like, at the end of the day, like, they really like each other.
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B
They want.
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A
They want to be together. Yeah. It's not like you're forced or, like, have to because you got pregnant or you don't know what else to do. And so that, like, really shocked me. And so anyways, for me, you know, it's just like, it's been a long time coming and, like, yes, I'm still building my business, but my business, I mean, it really and truly at this point, really runs itself. I have a big team now. Like, it's not like back in the day when it was, like, just me. So it's like, yeah, I have, like, the success in my industry and the recognition and I'm financially stable, but, like, I feel like, you know, all of that just feels dull and not enough, like, when you're like, don't have your person. And this year, you know, something that really hit home for me and, like, I think really made me realize how unhappy I was was when Tyler moved to Dallas and then got a boyfriend. Because I used to, like, he was like, my emotional support husband. Like, you know, I was getting all of that constant, like, love and attention and, like, togetherness, like, going to my doctor's appointment, like, just ev. We did everything together. Like, we were literally, like, attached to the hip. And then when I lost that, like, then I was really just with my ex husband. And that's when I was, like, really figured out that I was really lonely and felt very, very, very isolated and very alone. And, like, I just didn't have anyone in my corner. And, like, when I came home, like, I just felt more stress. And it became to where, like, I felt more at peace and happier when I was at work. Even if it was like, the fucking worst day at work. Like, it was better than being home. And that's like, when I really, like, knew, like, okay, I need to, like, actually, like, address this and deal with it, because if I don't, there's never a good time to get divorced. There's never a good time to have children. There's never a good time to get married. There's never a good time to start. Like, you're always going to find an excuse. You're Always going to say, well, after this holiday or after this event or once I hit this milestone or, you know, after we go on this vacation or whatever it is, and you're just going to, like, end up 70 years old and be like, why the fuck did I never start a business? Why did I stay in a miserable marriage? Because when you're 70 and you've already done everything and, like, your life, you know, you get to, like, reap what you sowed, you know, and, like, enjoy your riches and just relax, and that's when you're going to actually be like, oh, now I have time to deal with this. But it's like. And it's never too late. I know a lot of people that get, you know, divorced or married in their 70s, not have kids, but divorced and married and start businesses. But, yeah, you just don't want to wait till that point because, like, the time is now. Like, I'm in my prime. I, you know, just had to make that choice. And, like, I do want other children. And that's like, the other big thing was, like, I didn't feel like it was right to bring another child in this world in a relationship that wasn't steady. And I wouldn't do that out of, like, my need for another child and my want and desire for another child so badly that I'd subject them to that. So, yeah, I'm definitely not rushing into anything, playing the field, seeing what's out there, terrified. But, like, you know, I think it. What comes. Comes when you're not looking for it. And hopefully it's at the fish store. But I do think it's a bit stressful. I was, like, talking to my mom, and I think just, men aren't men these days. Like, to be quite honest, and, like, just hearing this from my team and, like, clients for the past 10 years, like, I literally would be like, damn. Like, the grass does not seem greener. Like, I'd rather just stay in this relationship than, like, be with someone that's, you know, I don't know. I guess it's just like, you know, the devil you're dancing with. And so I think that's easier than, like, dancing with a devil. You don't know if that makes. Does that make sense? Like, I knew what I was involved in, and so. But, like, yeah. So anyways, yeah, no really scary out there. So basically, for me, my fear is, like, that I'm just gonna be, like, way too much for someone and not be, like. Because I'm not submissive. I am very bold I'm very fiery, I'm very who I am. And then I'm also don't need anyone financially. And like my mom was like, yeah, well at least for me, because my mom is like, if you think I have a strong personality, my mom's personality is like that times 10. Like she'll make you cry. Like my mom says what is on her mind.
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B
Yeah, we both grew up with moms like that.
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A
Oh yeah. Like very strong women. And so for me, like my mom, like she didn't, she was a stay at home mom, so she wasn't, she wasn't intimidating in the fact that like, yeah, she has a strong personality and she doesn't need a man financially. And I feel like just traditional gender roles. Men need to feel like they have the upper hand a bit. Like not in like a controlling way, but they need to feel secure in their like manlihood. And how do they feel that way? By being the strong one and by being the financial provider. And so when I take both of those things away from a man and I'm not gonna like dominate them, but like I'm also not their little bitch. Like I, if I wanna go do something, I'm gonna go do it. Like, you know, I'm always gonna be respectful about it. But I'm not one to be, not speak my mind. Like if you piss me off, you're gonna hear about it or you're not.
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B
Gonna rely on them.
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Yeah, and I'm not gonna rely on them. Yeah, well, at least for me, like, you know, I have a strong personality. But your dad provided financially, so it was like give and take, you know, so like we both had that power dynamic and then so I just worry because these days the men are not men enough or secure enough in who they are and they think they're the prize and that they need to be chased. And I don't think, like, I don't like games. I'm way too old for that. I have a child. And so that's the other thing is like I don't like my time is. I'm not trying to be a bitch, but my time is so fucking valuable. Like even haven't given you a minute of my energy. Like I could have been making money or I could have been with my son. So if you're not serious or adding value into my life, like, I'm not entertaining that for funsies. Like I don't have any desire for that and maybe I should just try. I don't. Just seems like a fudgeing waste of time. You know, it just really. It really does. Like, I have tried to be like, hey, Savannah, like, it's okay. Just, like, you know, just go on a couple dates. Like, you haven't dated in 10 years. Just see what's out there. But then I'm like, that's just a waste of my time also. But I also think it's good. But it's also like, I don't know.
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B
You're in an internal battle right now.
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A
I am in an internal battle, but I don't know what to do. I'm just gonna chill out and see again what happens, happens. I was very disappointed with the dating apps, but I did match on Raya, which you can't talk about.
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B
The game can be fun.
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A
I don't like games.
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B
The game could be fun if you make it fun. Just don't let you be the one getting played. You. You should be the one playing, and then you can have fun.
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I only know how to be, like, a wife. Like, I just. I don't know. I'm just very sincere and genuine, and, you know how I am. I'm open. I'm such an open book with clients, with anyone who's just met me, like, anyone I meet. So, like, I go deep fast. And, like, I'm not a surface level, superficial person. And also, like, I'm not 22 and 23 without a child. Like, I have also a child involved. So it's like, I'm not dating without intention.
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B
Yeah, of course.
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A
And I want more children.
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B
Yeah. I just don't think you should give too much of yourself to a person.
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A
Oh, for sure. No, no, no, no. Like, I'm not like, let's get married, second date.
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B
No, no, no, no. But I mean, just, like, your energy. Yeah, I feel like.
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A
But, you know, on me, I'm very all or nothing. So I'll either, like, completely avoid them and ghost the fuck out of them, or I'm, like, actually, like, interested and intrigued.
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B
Maybe 2026 is the year of moderation for you. We love moderation.
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A
I don't like that word. I don't think that's a positive word.
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B
It is a positive word.
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A
I like the word abundance.
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B
Abundance is good.
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A
Yeah.
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B
In moderation.
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No, abundance is always good in abundance. Don't try to put me in your box.
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B
I'm not. Some things are good in moderation.
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A
I don't think that's true.
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B
Like, you don't want to eat a whole wedding cake by yourself. You only want a bite. Or you'll be smelling.
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A
But that's different.
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B
No, that's. Some things in life should be.
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A
Yeah. Like a wedding cake. But like dating, you know, I think you should have your full heart in dating. And if you're not, then you're not emotionally mature enough to be on dates. Like if you want to just go fuck people and hook up, like get on a hookup app, you know?
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B
No, for sure.
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A
But like, if you're not gonna give somebody, it's not fair to them. I don't think if you're like. That's why I'm saying, like, I'd rather just. If I'm not interested, I'm not gonna go on a date just to go on a date because that's a waste of their time and money. I'm not gonna make them pay for my fucking meal if I know I'm has seen nothing with them. Yeah, I don't think that's fair. So that's what I mean by dating with intention. Like, I'm not gonna put my time and energy and a night away from my child or my business if I actually don't see something going forward.
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B
For sure. I completely agree with that.
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A
Yeah.
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B
My point was more like slow and steady.
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A
You can go slow and steady for sure, but not string people along. Go out for funsies.
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B
No, no.
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A
I'd rather bash my head against the table. Yeah. So we'll see how it goes, guys. But yeah, I'm really excited.
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B
This is new.
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A
It's new, it's new. I have so many exciting things happening. The house is getting closer. The spa should be open any month now. I won't say any day, but any month now.
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B
Any month now.
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A
Any week now.
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B
Honestly, we, I, I have no words for it. It's just like a. Never ending. Like they're like, oh, beginning of October, that's for sure. And then they're like, well, mid October. And they're like, well, maybe end of October. And now we're somewhere in November.
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A
But it's stunning and it's beautiful and I mean it really is like a high end finish out. So they're really. The team is just amazing and taking their time. So I'd rather have it done right than like rushed. So, yeah, I'm very hopeful and excited that we'll be in there before December 1st.
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B
We will be.
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A
I hired.
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B
Oh my God.
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A
I'm gonna burp out of the hiccups. A nanny and a house manager because I was gonna just hire. There's these things called mommy helpers where they do both, but I met this lady who is like, just, she knows how to run a household. But Cyrus, like, she's so sweet and amazing and she drops. Helps drop up Cyrus in the morning. But Cyrus, like, requires just, like, a little bit more attention and, like, there's a lot to do. Especially, like, not really right now, but, like, for the new house, this just would be. It'd be way too much. Like, it would just. I feel like Cyrus, it wasn't a her thing. I just feel like Cyrus would have been like a checklist item of. Okay, when you take the trash out. I need to drop Cyrus off. I need to take him here. When I'm like, you know, I'd pay anything for my child. I'd rather him have someone who just focuses on him and, like, doesn't have to worry about anything else around the household. Like, his nanny literally makes, like, weekly plans of, like, books they're going to read, shows they're going to watch. And, like, nobody would be able to do both of those things, especially when they're not working 24 hours, you know, because the house manager's there for seven hours a day and then the nanny's there for like five or six. So that's another reason why I needed to, because I'm like, I need, like. And so they have some, like, overlap and stuff. But Tyler found an amazing agency. So thankful. That was like, one of the biggest things I was stressing about because, like, yeah, hiring for my spa is, like, obviously stressful too. But it's different when it's your home and it's your child. So I'm really, really happy about them.
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B
They're amazing.
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A
Like, I. They, like, literally have already, like, mother bared me. They've given me advice on life. Like, they are just so great.
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B
That was so funny that literally her house manager's second day, she was like, clocking Savannah's tea. Like, she, like, sat Savannah down and gave her, like, like some life advice. And I was like, pop off.
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A
She was right.
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B
And she was so sweet. Like, they're. They're very sweet.
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A
Yeah, they're sweet, Christ loving women.
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B
I know Savannah was trying to go through care.com and I was like, girl, we don't know.
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A
My favorite is. I'm sure she's gonna hear this on the podcast, but I don't care. She should feel ashamed. My favorite was getting a DM from the lady who helped. She was my nurse when I gave birth to Cyrus, if you guys remember the fucking story. She's the one that came in and was like, oh, my God, mama. You know who you look like. I was like, who literally just had a C section. I'm on fucking drugs. And I was fat. Okay? She goes, rebel Wilson from Pitch Perfect. Like, rebel Wilson has lost weight. She's a beautiful woman. But she literally said, rebel Wilson from Pitch Perfect. Who played the character? She didn't say who played the character? Fat Amy, but we all know she was. Her name was Fat Amy. And I'm like, if you're not telling me post birth that I look like Megan Fox or Kim Kardashian, like, shut your fucking mouth. And so she DM me. I was like, I was your, like, nurse at the hospital and you gave birth to Cyrus. I'd love to be your nanny. And I'm like, you are the reason I lost weight. So thank you, but no, absolutely not. Like, no. I was like, the balls. I was so mean.
- [24:20]
B
Yeah. Anyone? Everyone wants to watch her child.
- [24:24]
A
Oh, I've gotten multiple offers and I'm like, that's scary.
- [24:27]
B
No, I got, I got, I get. I don't want to be mean, but like, I get emails. Like, they're like, trying to apply for SBA or Cyrus's nanny. And I'm like, this isn't like an open position.
- [24:37]
A
It's like, yeah, no, his nanny is like, she's certified in a lot of different, like, children behavioral therapies. She's like done child development for years. And she's just, she reminds me, honestly a lot of my mother in law. And my mother in law, ex mother in law is phenomenal. The best, like, the fucking best thing that could ever have happened to my son.
- [24:58]
B
Yeah.
- [24:59]
A
Like, she's just an angel from heaven above. Like, Cyrus loves her. She's a preschool teacher. She's so good with child development. Like, she's just great. So I really felt like the nanny that I chose, just like right off the bat, I was like, they are like long lost twin soul sisters. Like, they're just very, like, child centric.
- [25:18]
B
Yeah. And she's just so on it. The nanny is just so on it when it comes to, like, Cyrus. Like, I've never.
- [25:27]
A
She's patient, she's kind. She teaches him about the Lord. I mean, what else could you want? Like, she loves him like it's her own son already and it's only been like two weeks, so.
- [25:38]
B
No, I know. I called her yesterday and she was like. I was like, I really just need, like, your mileage that you've driven this week. And she was like, okay, I'll try to look at it. I'm going to pick up my baby boy right now. And I was like, oh, that's so sweet.
- [25:52]
A
I have great, great, great team. So, yeah. And then we hired front desk, we hired social media, which we've talked about. And then we hired Lydia, who is going to be doing managing some stuff in the beginning while Alyssa's on maternity leave. And then Alyssa will start managing, and Lydia will start doing some injections. So I think we're going to start with, like, Botox. I want to get peptides at SBA so badly. I'm on a couple peptides. I finally, like, the month of October was able to be consistent with them because I just been traveling all the time. I want to take them. So I was like. I couldn't really tell if I was getting, like, any changes because I was not consistent because they have to be refrigerated, right? Yeah. But now this. I actually skipped it yesterday and today. So, like, clearly, even if I'm home, I'm forgetting it's hard because you don't see them, like, my medication.
- [26:42]
B
How often do you have to do them?
- [26:44]
A
Five days on, two days off.
- [26:45]
B
Oh, my goodness. That's a lot of.
- [26:48]
A
Yeah. And there's, like, three different ones. I'm on A G, H, K, C, U, which is, like the beauty peptide for, like, hair, skin, everything. And then I'm on TB4 and cerebrosalin, which is, like, good for, like, wound healing, inflammation, like cells. And then the other one starts with a B, and that one's for, like, new blood vessels and stuff. But. Yeah.
- [27:16]
B
Is this new or has this been around for a while?
- [27:18]
A
I think it's new. Like, the peptides have always been around, but I think, like, people actually like doing it. I think, like, the whole Ozempic thing just kind of opened the gates to people doing, like, injections at home. Because before, I'm sure, like, you'd have to go to, like, a office or something, but now you can just get it and do it at home.
- [27:36]
B
Interesting.
- [27:37]
A
So, yeah, it's been good. I feel good. I feel less inflamed, less stressed. Yeah. That's really all the updates I have for this episode, guys. So I'll see you next week.
- [27:51]
B
Love you guys, guys.
- [27:52]
A
Love y'. All. Bye.