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The BPD Bunch
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SEASON 7 AIRING NOW! The BPD bunch is a talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️🩹
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I Thought BPD Recovery Would Make Grief Hurt Less... I Was Wrong
Apr 800:04:04Tap to summarizeHey…This isn’t the video we planned for today.This past week, I lost my dog. And I needed a little more time than I expected to get back on my feet.I thought about just skipping this upload entirely, but there was something in this experience that felt important to share. Especially when it comes to what recovery from BPD actually looks like in real life.There’s this idea that recovery means things won’t hurt as much anymore. And I’ve found that it’s not exactly that simple. A lot of emotional contexts can and do change drastically in recovery, and it's possible to get to a point that feels emotionally stable most of the time.But one of the universal human truths is that if you care a lot about someone or some creature, losing them will be painful. No amount of recovery will erase the grief process. And there's nothing abnormal or disordered about you if you feel the pain of loss.So this video is a bit different from the usual, it’s just where I’m at right now and something I didn’t think we talk about enough.Thank you for being here, seriously. I’ll be back to our regular episodes next week.If you do want the more in-depth version of what’s been going on, I shared that over on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/i-had-to-put-my-155040984(this one is available to free members as well!)❤️ Xannie_____🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!________Disclaimer:This video is for education only and is not meant to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.
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Apr 100:34:52Tap to summarizeSo… what even counts as “BPD” anymore?Last week, we explored how the Alternative Model for Personality Disorders (AMPD) moves away from strict categories. This week, we’re taking it further:What does BPD actually look like in this model, and do you even need the label at all?We break down the core of BPD through self and interpersonal functioning, how traits shape the “borderline” pattern, and why diagnoses like BPD and NPD might not be as separate as people think. If you’ve ever felt like the DSM didn’t fully capture your experience, this might hit differently.This is Part 2 of a 2-part series.⸻Featuring:Dr. Carla Sharp — Clinical psychologist and Professor at the University of Houston. Director of the Developmental Psychopathology Lab, with a focus on personality disorders, mentalization, and adolescent development.Dr. Frank Yeomans — Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at Weill Cornell Medical College and Director of Training at the Personality Disorders Institute. Internationally recognized for his work in Transference-Focused Psychotherapy (TFP).Dr. Alex Stein — Clinical psychologist, researcher, and advocate known for her work on attachment patterns and “favorite person” relationships in BPD.⸻Subscribe to see what these traits actually look like from a lived experience perspective! 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!________Disclaimer:This video is for education only and is not meant to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.
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BPD & Empathy - The BPD Bunch S5E3
Oct 16, 2024Tap to summarizeIn this episode, Xannie, Katja, Jack, Madhurima and Jay explore the complexities of empathy for those of with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). The Bunch discuss cognitive and affective empathy, the importance of recognizing personal limits, and how to offer support to others without losing yourself in the process. Come bac k on Friday as we wrap up this topic, with a discussion on the "Borderline Empathy Paradox." October 23rd we'll be back with a new discussion topic, BPD & Seasonal Affective Disorder. Can't wait until then? Sign up for our "BPD Buddies" or "BPD Besties" tiers on Patreon to get early access to an exclusive extended cut of next week's episode NOW! https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch 🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨ 🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________ Terms from this episode: Schizotypal Personality Disorder: This is a mental health condition where a person might feel very different from others. They may have unusual thoughts, beliefs, or behaviors, and they might struggle with forming close relationships. People with this disorder often feel uncomfortable in social situations and can seem odd or eccentric to others. The DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) STOP Skill - a technique used to help individuals manage overwhelming emotions and distressing situations. STOP is an acronym that stands for:Stop - Pause and take a moment to recognize your current state.Take a step back - Create distance from the situation to gain perspective.Observe - Notice your thoughts, feelings, and surroundings without judgment.Proceed mindfully - Decide on your next steps based on the awareness you've gained.The STOP skill encourages individuals to take a moment to breathe and assess their emotional state before reacting impulsively. By using this skill, they can make more thoughtful and effective decisions in challenging situations, ultimately fostering emotional regulation and healthier responses.Checking the Facts - a DBT skill designed to help individuals assess the reality of a situation and challenge distorted thinking patterns. This skill involves examining the facts surrounding a distressing thought or emotion to determine if it is based on reality or assumptions. It encourages individuals to ask questions like: What is actually happening? What evidence supports or contradicts my thoughts? By clarifying the facts, individuals can reduce emotional distress and make more informed decisions. This process helps combat cognitive distortions, leading to a more balanced perspective and improved emotional regulation. ________ About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us! ________ Disclaimer: Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.
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The BPD Bunch S3E10: BPD & SHAME
Jan 24, 2024Tap to summarizeCome along with us as Xannie, Georgette, Raf, and Lena delve deep into a raw and honest exploration of shame and how it affects people with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). The Bunch delve into the complex relationship between judgment, shame, and self-defense mechanisms. They also challenge societal expectations and judgments that may not be fair, and discuss the importance of learning to embrace self-compassion and your core values. Whether you're personally dealing with BPD or just curious about it, this episode encourages you to think about the impact of shame and consider the changes you want to make on your journey of growth and healing. Next week (Jan 31) we will be back with our last full episode for the season, all about "Dating with BPD" Can't wait? Join our BPD besties or BPD buddies tears on Patreon and watch are Patreon exclusive extended version of episode 11 Today! patreon.com/thebpdbunch Other themes or subtopics covered in this episode: Shame and identity, overcoming negative self-narratives and parenting struggles. ________ About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us! ________ Disclaimer: Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Instead, we hope that by sharing our stories and what was helpful for us, you can gain some insight and direction into your own recovery ❤️🩹
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The BPD Bunch S3E9: BPD & Boundaries
Jan 17, 2024Tap to summarizeJoin Xannie, Mo, Solène, Madhurima and Lena as they delve into the complexities of setting and respecting boundaries while living with borderline personality disorder (BPD). The Bunch explore the nuances of limits versus boundaries, the impact of shame on setting boundaries, and the importance of self-respect in relationships. They also share practical tips for navigating and enforcing boundaries, emphasizing the ongoing journey of understanding and implementing them. Boundaries can be challenging to navigate, whether you have BPD or not If you struggle to set boundaries, or recognize those of others, you're not alone. Tune in to this episode and consider which nuggets of wisdom you can take with you on your journey. Next week (Jan 24) we will be back with episode 10 on "Shame" Can't wait? Join our BPD besties or BPD buddies tears on Patreon and watch are Patreon exclusive extended version of episode 10 Today! patreon.com/thebpdbunch ________ About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us! ________ Disclaimer: Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Instead, we hope that by sharing our stories and what was helpful for us, you can gain some insight and direction into your own recovery ❤️🩹
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The BPD Bunch S3E4: BPD & Trauma
Nov 1, 2023Tap to summarizeJoin Xannie, Lena, Raf , Darren, Céline, and Katja in this heartfelt discussion on BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) and Trauma. Lena, a practicing therapist, provides valuable insights into the connection between BPD and trauma. The cast share their personal experiences, exploring how their BPD journeys have been shaped by traumatic events. Gain a deeper understanding of the emotional impact and complexities surrounding BPD and trauma in this thought-provoking conversation. Come back on Friday for info on trauma-informed therapies and strategies for coping! Next week (Nov 8th) we will be back with an episode on BPD & Music! Can't wait until then? Join our BPD Besties or BPD Buddies tier on patreon to watch episode 5 NOW! patreon.com/thebpdbunch Find more from Lisa at www.consciouslylisa.com ________ About Us: The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us! ________ Disclaimer: Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Instead, we hope that by sharing our stories and what was helpful for us, you can gain some insight and direction into your own recovery ❤️🩹
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BPD Bingo - The BPD Bunch BRUNCH
Mar 25, 2023Tap to summarizeGrab your favorite brunchy beverage and join Xannie, Mo, Celine, Lena and Andrea as they play a game of BPD Bingo! Check out our community feed on youtube for a copy of the blank bingo board so you can play along! Consider supporting us on patreon! Patreon.com/thebpdbunch About Us: The BPD bunch is a weekly YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us! Disclaimer: Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Instead, we hope that by sharing our stories and what was helpful for us, you can gain some insight and direction into your own recovery ❤️🩹
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