Presented by Julie Busteed

We’ve been looking at some of the proverbs Jesus said. Here’s another proverb from his Sermon on the Mount.

Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you (Matthew 7:1–2).

Those words make me pause every time. I find it easy to assume I’m not a judgmental person. But when I slow down and examine my thoughts—the quiet commentary running through my mind, the subtle remarks I may make—I realize I’m not as innocent as I’d like to think. And that’s when confession and repentance become necessary.

Jesus isn’t telling us to abandon discernment. We are called to think wisely and evaluate situations carefully. There’s a difference between discernment and judgment. Discernment seeks truth. Judgment often seeks to elevate self. You and I are not to judge others to build ourselves up. Every one of us has areas to grow. Every one of us has blind spots.

Jesus continues with a vivid picture: Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye (Matthew 7:3–5).

It’s such a striking image—a tiny speck versus a massive plank. And yet, how often do I focus on the speck?

For me, it’s usually the small, internal judgments—the quiet criticisms that serve no real purpose. They don’t help the other person. They don’t help me. In fact, they only create unnecessary stress and tension in my own heart.

Why am I so concerned about someone else’s issue, especially when I may struggle with something similar? Perhaps that’s exactly why I notice it so quickly. Sometimes what irritates us most in others reveals something God wants to address in us.

Jesus’ words invite humility. Before I point out someone else’s flaw, I need to allow the Lord to search my own heart. Remove the plank. Do the work of repentance. Ask him to soften my spirit. Pray as King David prayed: Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me and lead me in the way everlasting (Psalm 139: 23-24).