No doubt you’ve heard the cliché, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” Contrary to that little couplet, words can indeed hurt and they can hurt deeply. And you know, once words are spoken, they can never be unspoken. One of the most Christ-like things we can do is to think before we speak so our words don’t hurt others.

I’ve been encouraging all of us to make it a habit to think before we speak, and to help us remember to do that, we’re offering you a bracelet which simply says think. By wearing it, it is my hope we will all get better at thinking about what we’re going to say before we say it.

Using the acronym of think, we’ve seen our words should be T – true, H – helpful, I – inspiring, N – necessary, and finally:

K stands for kind: We need to think about how we can say what we have to say in a kind way.

How many times have words been spoken to you in an unkind manner, and while the message itself was not necessarily a problem, the words or the tone of voice used to send the message were very hurtful. Oh, how important it is for us to think before we speak. Ask yourself, “How would I feel if someone said that to me?”

Anxiety weighs down the heart, but a kind word cheers it up (Proverbs 12:25).

When you’re getting ready to speak, ask yourself if the words you will speak will cheer someone up, encourage an anxious heart. In Proverbs 15, we read a gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. It is amazing to see the difference it makes when you think before you speak, and you choose words that are gentle and kind. Those words become words of life, and they are pleasing to the Lord Jesus.

What do you think? Can we get serious about thinking before we speak? It will make us more like the Lord Jesus, and we’ll be a much more effective witness for him. If our think wristband will help you to think before you speak, then please contact us and we’ll send it to you.