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All right, let's keep rolling with the 10 elements of a godly man, because that's what we've been studying all week this week. And we're going to be keeping it going next week. But so far we've looked at element one, a godly man has surrendered his life to Christ. Element two, a godly man is selfless. And element three, a godly man strives for holiness. Element four of a godly man is this. A godly man is repentant. A godly man is repentant. Now let me just go and tell you what repentance is not, okay? Repentance is not. I'm really, really, really, really sorry. And I mean it this time because that's what people think. People think that repentance is like saying sorry, but like extra fervently with a lot more words and a lot more gusto. But that's not what it is. Repentance is a sincere, that's important, a sincere 180 turn away from our sinful desires and actions and towards God. So we are going there, this direction and we were literally turning 180 degrees and going the opposite direction now. And repentance has to include heart change, it has to include mindset change, it has to include behavioral change, and it has to include a real demonstration of remorse and again, actions contrary to previous actions. If you don't have those things, you're not really repentant. And what normally gets in the way of us repenting of our sins and sinful behaviors? Us, we do. We get in the way. We get in the way because we think we're special. We think we're unique. We think there is no one else that's like us. We think that our sins have a viable excuse attached to them. Well, if you only knew what they did to me first. You know, well, if God didn't want me to be gay, then why do I have homosexual desires? Well, if you drink too, if you had to deal with my wife again, on and on and on. We love to just give these excuses as to why we don't have to do the things that God is telling us to do through his scripture. But here's the reality. We can never successfully repent of our sins and sinful behaviors if we don't acknowledge them first. Because duh. And to drive that point home today I'm going to bring in the Apostle John. And the Apostle John's just a gangster. Like, can we say that he wrote a gospel, which is awesome. Also, Emperor Demetian tried To kill him by boiling him alive in a vat of oil. And he came out completely unscathed. So he's like, all right, just put him on the isle of Patmos so I don't have to deal with him anymore. And that's where he wrote the book of Revelation. And he also gave us a tremendous letter which is First John. So First John has a lot of stuff in it, a lot of great stuff, but it mainly seems to be concerned with false teaching concerning Jesus. That's kind of an overall theme of that letter, First John. So I want to read First John 1, verses 8 through 10. If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say we have not sinned, we make him a liar and his word is not in us. So, guys, that removes all excuses, okay? I feel like it's. It's necessary to Repeat this again. First John 1, 8, 10. If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say we have not sinned, we make him a liar and his word is not in us. Again, enough with the excuses, guys. Hey, here's all the reasons why I can't repent. Here's all the reasons why I can't change. At what point did you think that was currency, fellows? At what point did you think that that was a good idea to lean on your excuses, right? That hasn't worked since you were a kid. Okay, but John in this passage is giving us a three step process, really, to being a godly repenter. Number one, admit we have sin. Number two, confess those sins. Number three, study the word of God. It's right there in the passage. If we don't admit that we have sin, it's impossible for us to repent. So that's step one. Step two, confess those sins. Okay, now I've acknowledged that I'm a sinner. Here's my specific sins. Here's my specific sinful behaviors. Now I need to confess those things, right? Confess those to your brothers. And then step three, study the word of God. Okay? Because if you say that you've not sinned again at the very end of verse 10, and his word is not in us, how do we know that we're a sinner. How do we know that we need a savior? How do we know that we can't possibly repay the sin debt we owe to a holy and just God? You study the word of God, you don't get your theology from TikTok or for some, you know, random dork pastor on YouTube or something like that. We study the word of God and we treat it as if it is actually the word of God. So element four of a godly man. A godly man is repentant. You guys should chew on that today. If you got some areas of your life that you need to repent on, you need to repent of. Right now is that time. If you're waiting for a sign, this is it.
Podcast Summary: The Daily Blade #62 - Kyle Thompson: "A Godly Man is Repentant"
Episode Overview In Episode #62 of The Daily Blade, hosts Pastor Joby Martin of the Church of Eleven22 and Kyle Thompson of Undaunted.Life delve into the fourth element of a godly man: repentance. This episode unpacks the true meaning of repentance, distinguishes it from common misconceptions, and provides a practical framework for genuine transformation. Through biblical insights and personal reflections, Kyle Thompson emphasizes the importance of a heartfelt and actionable repentance in the life of a Christian man.
The episode is part of an ongoing series where Pastor Joby Martin and Kyle Thompson explore the ten foundational elements that characterize a godly man. So far, they've discussed three elements:
Transition to Element Four: Repentance Kyle transitions the discussion to the fourth element, stating:
"Element four of a godly man is this. A godly man is repentant."
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Common Misconceptions About Repentance Kyle begins by clarifying what repentance is not. He addresses a prevalent misunderstanding where repentance is equated to merely expressing deep remorse or saying "sorry" fervently.
"Repentance is not...people think that repentance is like saying sorry, but like extra fervently with a lot more words and a lot more gusto."
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The True Essence of Repentance According to Kyle, genuine repentance involves a sincere and comprehensive transformation that includes:
"Repentance is a sincere...a sincere 180 turn away from our sinful desires and actions and towards God."
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He emphasizes that without these elements, one's repentance lacks authenticity and depth.
Kyle identifies several common barriers that prevent individuals from truly repenting:
Self-Centered Excuses: Believing oneself to be unique or special, thus justifying sinful behavior.
"We think we're special. We think we're unique."
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Rationalizing Sinful Desires: Using personal desires as excuses for behavior contrary to God's teachings.
"If God didn't want me to be gay, then why do I have homosexual desires?"
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Externalizing Blame: Attributing problems to external factors instead of taking personal responsibility.
"If you drink too, if you had to deal with my wife again, on and on and on."
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Kyle stresses that these excuses are ineffective and outdated, urging listeners to confront their sins honestly.
To reinforce his message, Kyle references the Apostle John's teachings, particularly from the book of First John. He recounts John's resilience and steadfast faith, highlighting his contributions to the New Testament despite persecution.
Key Scripture: First John 1:8-10 Kyle reads and interprets the passage, underscoring its relevance to repentance:
"If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say we have not sinned, we make him a liar and his word is not in us."
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Teaching Points:
"John in this passage is giving us a three step process, really, to being a godly repenter."
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Kyle summarizes the three-step process for genuine repentance:
Kyle transitions from theory to practice, offering actionable steps for listeners aspiring to embody repentance:
Step 1: Admit Sin
"If we don't admit that we have sin, it's impossible for us to repent."
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Step 2: Confess Sins
"Confess those to your brothers."
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Step 3: Study the Word of God
"You study the word of God, you don't get your theology from TikTok or for some, you know, random dork pastor on YouTube or something like that."
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Kyle challenges listeners to prioritize studying scripture over secular influences, ensuring that their understanding of repentance and godliness is biblically grounded.
Concluding his discussion, Kyle urges listeners to reflect on their lives and identify areas needing repentance. He emphasizes the urgency and importance of taking immediate action rather than postponing repentance in hopes of a sign.
"If you got some areas of your life that you need to repent on, you need to repent of right now is that time. If you're waiting for a sign, this is it."
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Kyle's heartfelt appeal serves as a call to action, reminding men of their responsibility to embody repentance as a cornerstone of godliness.
Episode #62 of The Daily Blade offers a profound exploration of repentance as the fourth element of a godly man. Through biblical exposition, practical guidance, and sincere exhortation, Kyle Thompson provides listeners with a clear understanding of what true repentance entails and how to implement it in their lives. By addressing common misconceptions and offering a structured approach rooted in scripture, the episode serves as a valuable resource for Christian men striving to live authentically and righteously in their daily walk with God.
Notable Quotes:
On the Essence of Repentance:
"Repentance is a sincere...a sincere 180 turn away from our sinful desires and actions and towards God."
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On Overcoming Excuses:
"Enough with the excuses, guys. Hey, here's all the reasons why I can't repent. Here's all the reasons why I can't change."
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On the Three-Step Repentance Process:
"John in this passage is giving us a three step process, really, to being a godly repenter."
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Call to Immediate Action:
"If you're waiting for a sign, this is it."
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Join the Conversation: For those inspired by this episode, Pastor Joby Martin and Kyle Thompson invite listeners to attend the 2025 Men's Conference in Jacksonville, Florida. Secure your seat at mensconference.com and engage deeper with a community committed to living out godly principles.