Let's talk about self-hatred. 😔💭

It’s something we all deal with at some point.

When battling self-hatred, it’s easy to get caught in an endless cycle of thinking about ourselves. 🔄 (The same goes with too much self-love.)

We know our mistakes and secrets better than anyone, and we assume if others knew everything, they'd hate us, too. 💔

But here's the truth: some people know us better than you realize, and they still love us. ❤️

More importantly, God knows everything about us — even things we haven't done yet — and chooses to love us anyway. ✝️💖

Remember C.S. Lewis's wisdom: "True humility isn't thinking less of yourself. It's thinking of yourself less." 🧠✨

Both excessive self-love and self-hatred keep us focused on ourselves rather than on God and others. 🙏

When self-hatred flares up, here are some things that might help:

✔️ Recognize your identity comes from outside yourself.

God calls you His beloved child. 👑💙

✔️ You're not allowed to hate what God loves, and He says you're worthy of love because Jesus paid for that love with His precious blood. 💞🩸

✔️ Talk to someone.

Don't hide your feelings. Talk to friends, parents, or pastors who can remind you of God's grace. 🗣️🤝

✔️ Seek confession and absolution.

There's a comfort in hearing someone say, "Jesus died for that. You're still loved." ✝️🤍

✔️ Look for the good God works through you.

God not only loves you, calls you worthy of love, but then He does things worth loving through you. 🌱✨

Self-hatred is a daily battle because we sin daily, but remember this truth daily — God says you’re worthy of love and you are worth more than gold and silver. 💰💖 You are worth the precious blood He shed for you. 🩸🙏

Contributor Rev. Harrison Goodman is the Higher Things Executive Director of Missions and Theology.

Contributor Amelia is a college student and HT’s assistant webmaster.

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