In this episode of The Estranged Heart, Kreed explores the complex emotional landscape of parental estrangement, focusing on the psychological impact of the phrase 'it's a them problem, not a me problem.' The episode offers insights into armor formation, the costs of defensiveness, and pathways toward genuine peace and self-integration.

Key Topics

The psychological impact of the phrase 'it's a them problem, not a me problem'

The formation and function of emotional armor in parental estrangement

The costs of defensiveness on relationships and self-knowledge

The importance of curiosity and self-inquiry in healing

Pathways to genuine peace and wholeness beyond blame

Chapters

07:14 Understanding the Armor of Estrangement

16:44 The Complexity of Responsibility in Estrangement

21:16 Exploring What Lies Beneath the Armor

26:05 The Costs of Staying Defended

31:40 Curiosity as a Path to Healing

37:52 Conclusion and Call to Action

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Disclaimer: Kreed Revere is not a licensed therapist. Nothing in this podcast should be considered or taken as therapy. If you need therapeutic support, please seek out a therapist near you.

EP250: It's a THEM Problem, Not a ME Problem!