Podcast
The Family Business with The Alessis: A Christian Parenting and Marriage Podcast
Hosted by Steve and Mary Alessi | Pastors | Christian Parenting and Marriage Mentors · EN
Find out why family is EVERYBODY'S business!
The Alessis are a rapidly growing family of pastors who all work on the same church staff - and they face the same problems found in any family business.
You’ll hear powerful conversations showing you how to build a happy marriage, a healthy family and a multi-generational legacy founded on Biblical principles. Now with over 200 episodes, thousands of downloads and over a million YouTube views, we invite you to join our Podience and learn why family is everybody’s business.
For more information on our Christian family and marriage podcast, our ministry and how we help build strong Christian families, check out https://alessifamilybusiness.com.
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Good Parents, Bad Kids? How to Discipline Your Children With More Grace and Less Guilt
6d ago00:50:45Tap to summarizeAre you at your wit's end with a child who just won't listen? Does it mean that you're a bad parent - or are disobedience and emotional meltdowns just a natural part of a child's development? In this episode, Stephanie Alessi Muina and her husband Chris sit down with their mom, Mary Alessi, to get some advice and help on the chaotic journey of raising young kids—giving you valuable strategies to use when when your child is pushing the limits and rejecting your authority. We'll discuss why age-appropriate behavior isn’t the same as permissive parenting, and how proactive, loving discipline builds character (for both kids and parents).You’ll hear practical wisdom on balancing different parenting styles, avoiding the trap of passive parenting, and the importance of showing kids grace—while never shying away from holding the line. This episode will encourage you to stay committed to your family's values, and raise kids that will thank you for giving them healthy and strong boundaries! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterTEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLYYou can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business! Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYListen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning DevotionalFollow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha MunizziWatch The Mary and Martha Show
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Wife vs. Mother vs. Daughter: The Difficult Balancing Act Every Man Must Manage
2w ago00:45:19Tap to summarizeWho really comes first in a man’s life—his wife, his mother, or his daughter?Step into the heart of family life with Steve and Mary Alessi as they pull back the curtain on the “priority puzzle” every husband and father faces. They share honest, sometimes emotional reflections on balancing love and loyalty between these key women, drawing from personal stories of raising daughters, caring for aging parents, and watching children marry.You’ll hear why putting your spouse first isn’t just biblical or psychological wisdom—it’s the glue that holds everything together, setting the tone for peace and security at home. The Alessis discuss common pitfalls, like letting guilt or ego steer your decisions, and offer practical tips for resetting family order in a way that honors everyone.Find out how clarity in family roles can bring freedom, unity, and lasting joy to everyone under your roof.Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterTEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLYYou can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business! Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYListen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning DevotionalFollow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha MunizziWatch The Mary and Martha Show
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Pressure Or Purity? How to Help Girls Develop a Healthy Self-Image
3w ago00:44:41Tap to summarizeHow can today's young women handle the pressure to conform to the world's standards of beauty and self-worth?In this episode, sisters Gaby and Stephanie dive deep into how Instagram, TikTok, and influencer culture impact confidence, modesty, and purity—especially for girls and young women.You'll discover why the pursuit of "being pretty” can lead to insecurity, how social media poses and trends influence even the youngest girls, and why real-life character, kindness, and confidence matter more than online perfection. These two sisters get real about their personal battles with body image, comparison, and the lure of online validation, offering actionable advice for building self-esteem and authentic relationships.Whether you're a mom, daughter, or mentor, this conversation arms you with tools to set boundaries, foster confidence, and help the next generation find their value in their character and personality —not in their online image. If you want practical guidance on parenting through the pressures of social media, or encouragement for your own journey to true confidence, this episode is for you.Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterTEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLYYou can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business! Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYListen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning DevotionalFollow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha MunizziWatch The Mary and Martha Show
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How to Handle a Waiting Season (Flashback Episode)
4w ago00:29:04Tap to summarizeEver feel stuck in life’s waiting room, wondering when your "next" will finally arrive?In this flashback to Season 3, Lauren Alessi and Mary Alessi dive into real talk about the messy, in-between seasons—whether you’re waiting for a new relationship, career move, or just something to change. Drawing from their own journeys, they break down why it’s normal to feel agitated in these pauses—and how it can actually mean you’re gearing up for growth.The fun fact behind this flashback? Lauren is now officially done with her single season! Lauren married the love of her life, Daniel Burgos, in April 2026, and soon she'll tell you what it's like on the OTHER side of this waiting season. With laughter, transparency, and some tear-jerking moments, this conversation challenges you to embrace the season you’re in—and take real ownership of your attitude along the way.Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterTEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLYYou can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business! Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYListen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning DevotionalFollow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha MunizziWatch The Mary and Martha Show
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Twins, Pastors, Partners in Crime? Mary & Martha Share Unforgettable Stories (Mary & Martha Show)
Apr 2200:34:39Tap to summarizeWhat's it REALLY like to grow up with an identical twin? In today’s special cross-over episode, we have some exciting news: our podcast family is growing, and you are getting a first look! Not only has the Alessi family now branched into three different podcasts — including the lively “The Mary and Martha Show” with Mary Alessi and her twin sister, Martha Munizzi—but this episode features a sneak peek at one of their favorite twin-themed conversations.You'll hear Mary and Martha as they hilariously recount childhood adventures, the reality of growing up as identical twins, and how their unique bond shaped their lives. From switching places at school and testing the limits of high school mischief, to reflecting on their journey in ministry and friendship, this episode is packed with nostalgic stories, laughter, and a fresh perspective on faith, family, and finding your own path.Want to hear more from The Mary and Martha Show? Pick your favorite app and subscribe here! YouTubeApple PodcastsSpotify Other AppsSupport the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterTEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLYYou can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business! Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYListen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning DevotionalFollow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha MunizziWatch The Mary and Martha Show
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Israel, Iran and US: Why Your Mindset Toward the Middle East Matters (God and Government Series)
Apr 1500:45:44Tap to summarizeFeeling unsure about how to respond to the headlines about Israel, Iran, and the Middle East conflict? In this episode, the Alessis take a pastoral perspective and break down the real story behind the chaos—examining not just politics, but the spiritual and humanitarian battles at play. They pull back the curtain on how Israel is surrounded by enemies and outnumbered by billions, yet persists against the odds.Drawing from their personal trips to Israel and firsthand encounters, Steve and Mary will show you how Christians can support Israel without guilt, how media narratives can twist your viewpoint, and what it means to see this land through the lens of God's Word instead of headlines. Get ready to rethink everything you thought you knew about the Middle East conflict—and discover why prayer and perspective matter now more than ever.Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterTEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLYYou can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business! Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYListen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning DevotionalFollow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha MunizziWatch The Mary and Martha Show
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Pastors, Protests and Politics! How, When and Why We Decide To Speak Up (God and Government Series)
Apr 800:48:23Tap to summarizeShould preachers address political issues from the pulpit? In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi pull back the curtain on the tension pastors face when faith, politics, and cultural issues collide as they answer this controversial question.You'll learn how political pressure has ramped up since COVID, and what it really means to preach truth without dividing a congregation. Sharing their own convictions, the Alessis reveal why speaking up on certain principles—not just staying silent—matters for the health of both the church and the nation.You'll find out where they draw the line between biblical values and political activism, how they guide their church through heated social debates, and why listening to the right voices (and turning off the wrong ones) is a must for healthy spiritual growth. Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterTEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLYYou can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business! Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYListen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning DevotionalFollow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha MunizziWatch The Mary and Martha Show
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How to Stop Losing Yourself in Parenting (But Still Prioritize Your Family)
Apr 100:47:10Tap to summarizeIs it possible that your greatest blessings - your spouse and your children - could also drain your spirit and prevent you from pursuing the hobbies and interests that give you joy? Parents often find themselves struggling to grow as individuals when their family responsibilities take over their lives - but finding the balance between personal growth and focusing on your marriage and parenting can be really difficult. In this episode, Stephanie Alessi Muina and her husband Chris take a honest look at how they are maintaining a sense of self-worth and identity while also giving their children - and their marriage - the best chance at success. You'll find a ton of effective and practical strategies that you can apply to your own life as you grow as a person, a parent and a spouse.IF YOU LIKED THIS: Remember to subscribe to hear from ALL of the Alessi family members - we have different hosts from the family every week who give you multiple perspectives on parenting, marriage, family dynamics, and building a legacy that lasts! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterTEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLYYou can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business! Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYListen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning DevotionalFollow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha MunizziWatch The Mary and Martha Show
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How to Handle Seasons When It Feels Like God is Delaying Your Dreams
Mar 2500:55:46Tap to summarizeEver wonder if God’s still in your corner when your dreams seem stalled?In this transparent episode, Stephanie Alessi Muiña and her husband Christopher Muiña dig into what it really means to trust God during slow seasons of growth—whether you’re wrestling with closed doors, struggling with burnout, or navigating tricky family relationships. You'll hear firsthand experiences from marriage, parenting, business, and ministry, revealing how the timing of God isn’t always what you expect, but His process shapes your perspective and aligns your heart.Through these stories of perseverance and decisions between pushing doors open versus simply waiting, you’ll find encouragement to embrace your season of “development.”You'll get clarity and understanding on how adjusting your viewpoint can turn frustration into gratitude, and how joy often grows through the discomfort.Get ready for honest conversation and real talk on letting God guide your growth—at His pace, not yours.Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterTEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLYYou can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business! Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYListen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning DevotionalFollow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha MunizziWatch The Mary and Martha Show
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Mar 1800:55:46Tap to summarizeMarriage is definitely worth the wait - but do you know what to focus on while you're preparing to marry the love of your life? In this episode, hosts Gaby Alessi Calatayud and her husband Christian make their debut as a couple on The Family Business and give you an honest, behind-the-scenes view on the first few weeks of newlywed life. Sharing their journey from childhood friends to marriage, you'll hear them reveal the challenges of waiting for the right timing through dating and engagement, honoring family, and genuinely submitting to God's plan as they try to set the foundation for a blessed marriage. Whether you're dating, engaged, or just starting out in marriage, Gaby and Christian offer encouragement and practical wisdom for every stage. With candid stories, laughter, and lessons learned, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking real insights into how to nurture your potential or current marriage partnership. Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterTEXT THE FAMILY BUSINESS DIRECTLYYou can connect with us via text to ask family questions and get updates on The Family Business! Text FAMILY to 302-524-0800CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYListen to the Alessi sisters' daily devotional podcast My Morning DevotionalFollow Our New Podcast with Mary Alessi and her twin sister Martha MunizziWatch The Mary and Martha Show
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