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The Female Dating Strategy
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Welcome to the Official Podcast of The Female Dating Strategy, once dubbed the ”meanest female-only place on the internet”. Join Patricia and Rose on a journey into finding personal power while dragging the scrotes by their ever withering hair follicles. Part social commentators, part ruthless strategists, these Queens will dissect dating, relationships, sex, pop culture & politics to their most raw & real parts. Get Ready to LEVEL UP SIS.
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The Secret Palermo Bodega
1w ago01:01:16Tap to summarizePatricia shares a useful metaphor to an open heart, but only partially open. That is until a visitor earns access to the full treasures of the secret bodega. No scrotes allowed.
Transcribe →A Pocket Full of Maybes
3w ago01:05:56Tap to summarizeWhy online dating is weird, and why the same strategies applyWhat does it mean to be a woman - an FDS queen - in the era of the internet? How do we date and approach online dating as a strategy? What approaches do we take and what are the means by which we vet and protect ourselves? Patricia and Rose host a freewheeling discussion of life, love, and FDS tactics online and on the ground!Are you interested in participating in a documentary series about being a woman in the world of the internet? Please reach out with an email to us and we will forward it along to the documentary crew! contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.comAlso email if you want a PDF of the FDS Handbook!
Transcribe →Freeze, Flight, Faun. Are There Better Options?
May 3001:00:01Tap to summarizeWhat to do in situations that are not outright violent, that fall under the umbrella of plausible deniability, but that leave you feeling uncertain or fearful? Patricia and Rose discuss the four F's: Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn, and how we can learn to say "no" with our whole chest."Isolate, Inebriate, Intimidate, Repeat": article link from the Journal of Interpersonal ViolenceThich Nhat Hanh youtube video on helping hungry ghosts
Transcribe →The Not-Dating Female Strategy
May 1200:51:41Tap to summarizeSometimes the best dating strategy is not dating at all. Here are 3 introspection questions you can ask yourself to figure out how that looks for you.We loved getting all the episode ideas as well as co-hosting offers from you! It will take us a moment to get back to everyoneLet us know what you think via Spotify comments or email as at contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.comLove you queens! Scrotes die mad
Transcribe →A Quick Catch-Up: What Would YOU Wanna Talk About?
May 100:02:17Tap to summarizeLet us know!contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.comlove u, see you next week
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The Perils of Pretty Privilege with Savannah
Apr 2100:54:54Tap to summarizeFDS OG Podcast Queen Savannah makes an appearance to offer her insights on pretty privilege and challenge the narrative. Is it really a privilege? Savannah and Rose discuss lesser-known facets of what pretty privileges signify for both the pretty and the plain.If you would like to be featured on the show to share your dating or level-up lessons with the community, please shoot us an email at: contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.comScrotes be mad and take it out on pretty ladies
Transcribe →Overriding your Body's 'No' with your Mind's 'Yes'
Apr 400:57:59Tap to summarizeLadies, never date a philosopher - unless you want a masterclass in whataboutism, sealioning, gas lighting, and debates about your needs and boundaries!Want your dating lessons to be featured on the show? Submit your Roast-a-Scrote to: contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com
Transcribe →My Kink is Shaming
Mar 2100:59:08Tap to summarizeIn this episode, Patricia & Rose examine shame as a tool that shapes social norms and etiquette, and its usefulness in particular situations, often those involving men and male entitlement. Do we need to bring back shame as a social consequence? Is a Shame Renaissance on the horizon? Can or should FDS Queens embrace shame as a necessary behavioral corrective in dating and courtship?Share your thoughts in the comments below!
Transcribe →Breaking News: Men Are The Ones Who Can't Handle Their Feelings
Mar 1400:59:39Tap to summarizeJoin us today as we embark on a journey to men's emotional regulation, or lack thereof.Scrotes die mad but it's actually tragic Join the conversation by commenting on SpotifyAlso, apologies for missing a week. Life happens sometimes, but we are here and aim to keep the consistency ♡♡♡
Transcribe →You Are Entitled to Sexual Attraction
Feb 2000:52:49Tap to summarizePicking up on an ongoing conversation the previous FDS queens began - please revisit the classic recording, "We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to Lie" (May 5, 2021) - Patricia and Rose delve into the joys of sex and intimacy. They touch on the role of social media, the influence of porn, and the importance of sexual education in advocating for one's own pleasure.
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