Forgiveness is a radical act—it’s not about holding someone’s offense over their head like a debt, and it’s also not about forgetting what they’ve done. So what is forgiveness in and of itself?

In part one of two in this miniseries on forgiveness to reconciliation, Darlene Brock and Julie Bender debunk several misconceptions around what real forgiveness entails, revealing a much simpler approach that removes the pressure and pain normally associated with it. You’ll learn how your relationship with God plays a critical role in truly forgiving someone and a sample prayer that you can use when you’re not sure where to start. We’ve also included a graphic of the prayer below—scroll down to screenshot and save it for easy reference.

Join us next week for part two of the series, where Darlene and Julie unpack the process of reconciliation.

Quote of the episode:

“So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift” (Matthew 5: 23-24).

Resources

Mentioned

Join the Re|engage Marriage Enrichment and Restoration course
The Forgiveness Prayer (F-R-E-E)
- Face the truth of the sins against you and grieve the hurt
- Release your wounds to God and ask for healing
- Entrust your claims for justice to God
- Exalt God for offering peace through Christ to all

Related

Check out the Smart Living book series here, and be sure to follow us on social media!
Facebook
Instagram
Twitter
Pinterest
#gritandgracelife

Forgiveness to Reconciliation: Part 1 – 283