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I know you're angry. It's Tuesday and it has no feel. The weekend was fun. You're still hungover from the eating and next weekend is too far away. What will you do with your day? It's time to get ticked off. Complain with your gripe. Right now, your friend Uncle J Train is here to tell you that you're right. It's a ticked off Tuesday. Ticked off Tuesday. You're angry and you don't even know why. Enjoy this podcast. It'll help you get to Friday.

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Hello and welcome to the J Train Podcast. This is Jay Train, Jared Freed coming to you live from Delray Beach, Florida. That's right, every Tuesday is a ticked off Tuesday. Are you mad? Are you angry? Do you have a complaint? Do you want to be heard? Do you want to be seen? Send your complaint, any complaint, anything you want. There's nothing too frivolous. There's nothing too small. Every complaint shall be heard. You shall be seen. J train podcast@gmail.com jtrain podcastmail.com the best way to get on this show is to sign up for the Patreon. Patreon is my favorite podcast to tape. Listen. I love all my children, but not equally. Every Friday I do Coffee with J Train and the listeners can comment with their ticked off Tuesdays. On Coffee with J Train, those go to the top of the pile. It's five bucks a month. If you're listening right now, there's a new Coffee with J Train that came out on Friday. I haven't taped that, but I can tell you it's going to be all about going to Vancouver, taping from a seaplane, also going to Seattle. The general vibe of Seattle will be commented on. They seem a little uptight. It's okay. But we're going to talk about it. And that's, I mean, that's where my complaint is going to start. Today we start with my complaint. If you're new here, I do my complaint. We have a couple of ads. The ads are neutrophil and herobred. I always say this. If the ad, if the sponsor can help you, then use the promo code. And now you've helped show. There's other ways to help the show. Sign up for the Patreon. 5 bucks a month that goes directly to production, that pays for videos. The production of this show, the editing, the sound, all that stuff goes into comes out of Patreon. So five bucks a month. If you want to feel part of this show, I mean, you're part of it. You're Listening. If you're new, here's my complaint. I, I have a lot of lobby, front desk issues this week because I went to Vancouver, then I went to Seattle. I will say I stayed at two hotels that are worth staying at. The Douglas. And they're both, I think, autograph collection, which is my, my go to. If you're, if you've been around the jcu, the J, the J train cinematic universe, you know, I'm an autograph collection guy. Those are boutique hotels. Boutique. I don't know if that's a word, but I love saying it. Take that for a ride. Do me a favor. Take the word boutique. Say it right now. Say it. How good does that feel off your tongue? Boutique. Yeah, it's a little boutique. It's the boutique hotels that are generally in a, you know, a happening part of the city, wherever you are, they are taken over by Bonvoy. And listen, I think they're called the tribute hotels. No, they're not. Both. One was Bonvoy, one was Hilton because it was the Graduate Seattle, as well as the Douglas in Vancouver. The Douglas was, was an autograph, which is Bonvoy's version. Hilton has their version. I think it's called. I, I, I think I just said it and it just left my brain. Listen, I tend to not really believe that any of these companies are better than the other. They're all kind of creatively, and that's kind of where my, that's where my complaint will start today. These are creatively barren corporate entities that don't care about you. They care about a bottom line, and their business will get better if the bottom line suffers. Let's all stay real here. I like Delta, but I know I matter very little to Delta. I've made a choice. You have to commit to these companies to gain any benefit from them. And I would say to you, if you're not a traveler, if you're not someone who needs to travel for work, there's probably no reason to commit to any of these companies. You might have your preferences, but, like, what you get from Delta is not, is marginal. If you're looking for a, you know, a direct flight from West Palm. And listen, this is me growing up. This is me growing up. That this isn't, this isn't me being a child. A child says, well, I'm a Delta guy. No, I am a Delta person because of very logistical reasons. You gotta commit. So I am a Bonvoy guy normally because I was performing at the Neptune Theater in Seattle. I stayed at the Graduate Hotel, which is Caddy Corner. I would love to know where Caddy Corner came from. Not gonna look it up. We got things to do today. Caddy Corner to the Neptune Theater is the Graduate Hotel. Okay? So my issues, so that's. I like these hotels, this autograph collection level of Bonvoy Hotel because they're a little bit nicer, they're a little bit different. They're priced really well, I would say right where I need them to be. 200 to 350, 250 to 400. I would say most autograph collection hotels, they do not have a turndown service. They do go a little bit extra as compared to a regular hotel. That's what I would say to you. I have gained a lot of value from the autograph collection of hotels. Okay, so I'm at the Douglas and I need the lobby, front desk people to be a little more human. And what I mean by that is I go down to the lobby. But before I headed up to my room, I'm leaving Vancouver and I'm leaving the next day. My flight is 7:55am Vancouver to Seattle. Why didn't you drive? I'd prefer to fly. I get down. I, I'm, I'm on my way up to the room and I. Before I get to the room, I go to the Uber driver. I say, hey man, how long does it take to get to the airport? He's like 20 minutes. But what time are you leaving? I said, I'm leaving. I don't know. My flight's at 7:55am what time would you leave? He goes, you can leave at 7 6am I go internationally. He goes, the roads are going to be empty. The, you know. Yeah, there's flights going out, but things move generally pretty quick. I would leave at 6am that Uber driver gave me more humanity than I ever got from the people at the front desk at the Douglas Hotel. Because I went up and I said, hey, I have an Uber tomorrow morning. What time would you go to the airport? They're like it says on the website, get there three hours early for an international flight. And I said, three hours? I go, so you're. And they go, and it takes a half hour to get to the airport. I said, so you're telling me to leave at 4am Is that, is that the time you're telling me to leave this hotel to get to the flight that leaves at 7:55, which means 7:25ish boarding? Oh, no, it was a 7:25 flight. They told me to leave at 4:00am to be there by 4:30 to get there. And then the other person said, and then it was a 6:55 boarding and the Uber driver. Here's the difference between the Uber driver and the front desk. The Uber driver asked questions, considered context, considered nuance, considered time of day and listen, the Uber drivers should know how long it takes at a certain time of day to get to the airport. They experience it daily. I think though the front desk, if you are going to give me an answer that doesn't get you sued, don't give an answer at all. Sir, I stay away from the airport conversation. I don't want to be blamed. I understand your flight's important to you. I, I'm going to back out. I'd rather that than here like a robot. Here at Bonvoy Corporation we say to get there three hours before because you might miss your flight. That is what the FAA tells you to do. I don't want that answer. I don't think any of us want that answer. It's a waste of time. And now I got to sit there. Oh really? I even said to them, I go, I go, I appreciate your help and I do appreciate their help, but I don't think it's actual help. I think you're just checking a box to say to me, leave at 4am for your 7:25am flight. That's an hour to Seattle and we are a half hour away, which you are not. You're 20 minutes away with no traffic is. I'm not talking, I'm talking to AI at that point. I wake up the next morning. Again, we're sticking with lobby issues. I wake up the next morning, there's no one at the front desk. I get up now because of the person at the front desk. I did a combination, I split the difference. Instead of leaving at 6am Which I really wanted to do for my 7:25am flight, I left 5:30. That gets me there at 6 and then I'm expecting the whole city of Vancouver to be leaving at the same time from the airport. Apparently I go downstairs to leave at 5:30. I get downstairs and now the lobby is on the sixth floor. It is the street level. You get in the elevator, you take it to the sixth floor, you check in, they have restaurants, they have bars and then you go up to your room. I get down to the lobby. Well, there's a decision to make. There's a decision to make. You have a decision between go downstairs directly to the car at 5:30am or what I do. I have Policies. I always check out of the hotel. You might know this. I've mentioned this on other podcasts. I'm not sure if it was this one. I check out of a hotel. I think it is good karma to check out of a hotel when you leave early or when you leave at any time of the day so that the hotel knows that room is free, can be cleaned and someone who gets there early might be able to check in early. I am paying it forward so that one day it comes back to your dear old Uncle J train. I really do believe this. It is good karma to check out of your hotel if you do not check out of your hotel. Maybe you haven't thought of this. I'm not going to call you evil, but if you have thought about this, you are evil. But maybe you haven't had it cross your noodle. Because when you cry when you don't check out of the hotel, that room stays empty until at least noon when you're supposed to check out, maybe even later. I, as the hotel would love a customer like me because now they know they have a room, they have supply, they can accommodate the next person who's going to go, wow. And my room was ready early. What a win for the Douglas Hotel. No, no, no, no. That's a win by the Douglas Hotel. And Jared, we did it together for that person. I go unrecognized. I come downstairs 5:30 in the morning, 5:20 so that I can check out. I go to the sixth floor, nobody there, a box that says key drop. Now what are we doing here? I'm there to do you a favor. Where's my partner? Douglas Hotel. Where are they? And no one will know. The person checking in at 2pm that says, hey, I'm just so tired from my flight. They oh, sorry, sir or ma', am, sorry, we have no rooms ready. It would have been ready if someone was there at 5:20 in the morning to check me out. And if you're not gonna be there, hey, on your way out, just to let us know if you're checking out early, I even said on the way. And they said, do you want a late checkout? I said, no, thank you. I'll be checking out early. At that point, I'd be writing that down. Oh, good to know. Thank you, Mr. Freed. I go by Jared. Mr. Fried's my father. So I see the key box. I'm immediately enraged because how do I pay this forward? There's going to be a room just sitting there. I go to the airport, I sit in the airport for the half hour that I would have been sleeping. The Uber driver was right. I had a nice coffee. I was very relaxed. No rush, no fuss, no muss. Again, again. I'm not mad. I'm not mad that I was there with extra time. I'm just saying it wasn't necessary. You might be like, jared, I guess this complaint is over. No, it is not. I get to Seattle. I get in the Uber. I take The Uber from CAC to the Graduate Hotel. I am there 9:30 in the morning. I'm hoping and praying that, you know, Father Karma is going to hit me right in the face with an early check in. I check in with a guy named Sam. Very nice. Sam says to me, we have a room ready. I said, father Karma, you have climaxed on my face with your good deeds. This is the win. I'm like, jared, that's why you check out. They were looking out for you. This is great. It's all coming together. Sam looks at me and says, so because you're checking in early, it's going to cost you $25 to do the early check in. This is a letdown. And again, this isn't Bonvoy. This isn't Hilton. They don't care about us. This is all of them. $25 to check in early when I am the checkout guy working with these hotels to help them make other customers happy. What is going on here? $25 is also an amount of money that of course I'm going to say yes to it. But what does it do for Hilton or Bonvoy or the Graduate Hotel? Are they really swimming in their Scrooge McDuck safe with all the cash they're making from early check ins? And the frustrating part is they know now there's value to checking in early. They have put a dollar amount on it and they do nothing for the people who check out to let them know the room is ready so they can clean it up and make some more money off of it. This is my plea. This is my plea. This is my. This is the thing. I am begging these hotels, and I'm begging because they don't have to listen to me. They don't give a crap about me. They care about the bottom line. But if I was a hotel chain, I would move from Bonvoy to Hilton. If Hilton took up this strategy, I would move my business. The J Train, the wizard of Haas Inc. Would move over. Here's my ask if you're going to charge us an early check in fee when we get there and you have a room ready. How about a little incentive to get people to check out? If you're making money off of this, why not make more money? Why not say, hey, Jared, and if you check out early, we're going to give you 20,000 points. Hey, Jared, if you check out before the checkout time, we're going to give you points that you can use towards your next stay or getting a free room in the future. Why not? Are you even thinking. Are you even trying to help these customers? Is there not a marketing department? Put it on the commercial. Put this on the commercial. Jtrain podcastmail.com, jtrain podcastmail.com I am ticked off. My God. Herobred. I like Herobred because it keeps you fuller, longer. Because there's more fiber and there's less carbs and less calories. Zero grams of sugar. Sugar. And it tastes like every other toast you would ever make in the morning. So what do you want? What do you want? Do you want the toast that has more carbs, more calories, less fiber, or do you want the toast that has less carbs, low 0 grams of sugar, more fiber? I want. I want the Hero bread. Hero. 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The people. Yeah, the COVID reminder. No one wants that. But 30 people an hour aren't waiting for a store pickup from Walmart. Don't need a special spot in front like their presidents from a visiting nation. Worse, if you do brave the spot and say it. You can't relax at any time. A passing customer can call you out if you got out of your car or there's the threat of being towed. Let's figure it out. Yeah, we talked about this. I think on last week's ticked off Tuesday these reserve spots, I haven't dealt with it. I am like new to the everyday driving game, so. But it does seem Frustrating. It should. Honestly, I don't know how that is towable. They towed you because you weren't in your car and you like, is it their rules? Is this like, I mean you talk about like a president from a visiting nation. Are they like the Vatican? They can just tow whoever they want for any reason. So I agree with you. To me it should be one spot because it's also a spot that like should move pretty quickly. The whole idea of having a like, like, oh, they're going to bring it out to your car is that it's efficient. Like there should be a button on the I'm picking this up there in 10 minutes, here in one minute. So that should happen pretty quickly. So that spot should be revolving. Honestly, it should be a drive through. This shouldn't exist. We figured this out. McDonald's figured this out. I'm sure they're not the ones who invented the drive thru, but whoever invented the drive thru, like that's what this is for. Put this in the corner, drive through, have someone with a walkie talkie waiting outside. Order number 52 is here. They'll be out in five. Stay here and idle. Jtrain podcast or gmail.com jtrain podcastmail.com Happy belated birthday. Thank you. My ticked off Tuesday is my sister's boyfriend's cologne. This is a tough one. It's not as tough as a woman who wears perfume. Let's make sure we're clear by that the male cologne thing. You're saved because, well, let's get into the email. Every time he comes over, it gives me an instant headache that doesn't go away for many hours. My sister's 17, her boyfriend is 18. I still live at home with our family. I can't just leave due to working from home. Also have medical issues, so it's not something I can really solve or I can easily avoid. I feel bad because he's a nice kid and he makes my sister very happy, but it drives me crazy and I just don't know how to ask my sister to tell him to wear less cologne when he comes over. I, I, you gotta ask her. Hey, I'm so sorry. The cologne. I would start with a little talking. PS Cannot wait for you to come to Utah in a few weeks. I'll be there. Yes, if you're listening right now, Salt Lake City, Tempe, Arizona, Louisiana. I'm coming, I'm coming. Jaredfree.com cannot wait to go to Utah. Love Salt Lake City. Here's what I would say to you and I'M literally praying I'm recovered enough from a surgery to help to come to your show. I hope you are recovered as well. I can't wait for the shows in Salt Lake. Great club, Wise Guys. One of the clubs that like comedians talk about. I would say this, you should say, I would start with a light. Hey, what's with the cologne? Is he wears, does he wear a lot of cologne? Is he a big cologne guy? I would say, is he a big cologne guy? And your sister. Oh, really? I don't, no, I don't know if he's a big cologne you wear or she'll go, he wears a lot of it. And now you can. I would then be able to judge whether we can do this as a team or I have to have an intervention with her. But you're going to go through the sister. It's either she's like, I don't notice it. You're like, well, I'm sorry, I got to like break this down for you. I. It's giving me headaches. I don't mean to be a pain in the ass. I would never say this otherwise. Can you ask him to like kind of like regulate it or like if he's coming over, let's go cologneless. Here's the thing, and it's tough to tell your 17 year old sister this. I don't think you should. Men only do things to fuck. Like, it is not only. I would say most male actions are done with the thought of making money or getting a woman to want to be into him to, to woo a woman like cologne. And listen, I'm speaking for myself. I, you know, why do I get dressed nice every day? I want to look presentable so that I can make money and have a woman look at me and go, you look great. That makes me feel good. That hits me right in the tus. So I'm telling you, if I'm saying that about me, this 18 year old kid, he's not that far away from me. So I'm kind of leaning into my 10% theory that most men, when they wear cologne, it's to attract a woman. So if his girlfriend who already likes him and is happy with him is like, hey, you know my sister, it also works for that, hey, my sister, you know, it's the cologne is really like giving her a headache. And I know, you know, listen, we don't want to like change. He's not going to take it as changing who he is. He's going to take it as an opportunity to make his girlfriend happy so that she will like him in the future. So I think you can lean into that knowledge to know that he won't be offended by it. I don't think, I think you're safe to say, hey, do you mind like turning the volume down on the. You know, the. I don't even know a name of a cologne. I use dupes. I, I look up, I'm using the Tom Ford. It's like tobacco vanilla. I love it. I'm. I like it. But I think, I guess I, I would think women. I, I don't. I, I don't wear it because I think it makes me less. That's my point. J train podcast gmail.com jtrain podcastmail.com here's the thorough one okay feather feather. On Sunday I was coming back from a wedding on Isla Holbox. I don't know Isla Holbox. I'm probably not even saying it right. Isla Hol. It's an island in Mexico. This place. Wow. Looks beautiful. Where is it you can get there from Fort Lauderdale for a hundred or for $229. It's 81 and Sunny island north of Mexico's Yucatan Peninsula in Quintana Ru State. It's part of the Yum Balam Natural Natural Nature Reserve and separated from the mainland of the Yalahau Lagoon which is home to flamingos and pelicans. The water looks beautiful. Well, I'm happy you had a good trip. It requires a taxi, ferry ride and 2 1/2 hour shuttle to Cancun Airport before 3 hour flights to get home. Yeah, that's probably why I wouldn't have heard of it. I. That is not really fitting my beach by noon policy. Which is I want to be able to fly somewhere I can be on the beach by noon. It looks like beach by 11pm Considering the planes, trains and automobiles, this is a 16 hour travel day. Yeah, not for me if you don't count the eight hour layover I spent in the airport, Weston and Denver. You had a day. Needless to say, it's a lot of work for me. Needless to say, it's a lot of work for me. It was 100% worth it to splurge on a first class ticket since I was going it was going to be a rough travel day. Last minute my fiance had to bail on the trip and I canceled his flights on the way back. The first two flights I had people sitting next to me who were the worst. They weren't bad people, but they clearly were clueless. The first leg. The guy sitting next to me was about 70. Touched my ball cap and every inch of my. Your ball cap? Like your, your hat. And every inch of my Bose headphones since he was trying to help me with the seat back screen. Why would he be touching you even though I said I wasn't listening? I was listening to a podcast. Yeah, I want less help that involves touching. I don't want any. I can't see a scenario where I'm looking for a stranger to take their hands and put them on me to help me with any. Anything unless I've maybe fallen to the ground. But even if I fall, I go, oh yeah, I'm good. You. No, no, no, I'm good. You can belay me from like inches away. You can do the hover hand thing that you do when like a woman's taking her bag out of the overhead compartment. She hasn't asked you to help, but you kind of want to look like you're going to help so you do like a.3 inches away. Like I'm helping, but I'm not move. He said every inch of my bows. I don't know why he's touching your headphones since he was trying to help me with the seat back screen even though I said I was listening to a podcast. He proceeded to drink the bottled wine that first class offers complained about it and the food got. And the food and got flight attendant to give him some canned wine and food from the back. He was just being a high maintenance mess and had enough chit chat sporadically that it was a hard. It was hard to fall asleep even though I had my headph most of the flights. That is the worst when someone tries to talk through the headphones. It's like, can't you see this is not happening for us. The second leg was much of the same kn. Neediness on the flight was much of the same neediness of the flight attendant. And the woman who was quite a bit younger than me had to be pushing £400. Okay, well, four. I don't think that's the case, but we'll. Okay, I don't. That's not really within the control. I don't know. I don't say this to judge her, but to explain the main issue I had with her, she tried to pull out the armrest tray table. Her body elevation was well above the height of the tray table, so she couldn't even get the half old section to lay flat. Okay, this is. I, I don't look at this person. Get mad at them like it's, you know, this has got to be a hard life to lead if you can't get the table out. So several times she tried to get it to come out and work and then dumped it loudly back into the armrest. She went through the cycle again a while later, jarring me awake. Then after not being able to go back asleep, I asked to get out of the bath, get out to go to the bathroom. She scoffed and rolled her eyes. Yeah, that's not nice. So hard that, like, it was the worst inconvenience. It took all of my effort to say I paid for my seat. So really don't act like you deserve to not get up when you were merely upgraded last minute. Oh, there's levels that you've placed on this, which due to booking my ticket on different airlines, I can confirm this since I only canceled the return flight at check in that day. I'm all for upgrades and have enjoyed a couple myself, but I'd love to see a better system of upgrades to include factoring in if someone has flown first class before and giving opportunity, giving priority to those people. Your seatmate doesn't act like a jackass and ruin the experience. Well, all of this is to say, here's where I'll. I'm going to push back on them being, you know, listen, they are what they are. The eye rolling when you want to get out to go to the bathroom. I don't even understand. I saw someone, it might have been on a podcast. I don't know where it was, where they were saying they were being polite by not going to the bathroom. I don't believe in that at all. If you got to go, you got to go. That's part of the whole flight thing, to roll your eyes at someone for doing what humans do during the flight. Like people go on the flight not wanting to go to the bathroom many times and you went once. The eye roll, whether they bought the ticket or not is really offensive. And it's like, you know, you just want to go to the bathroom and now what? What if you have to go again? This is. It puts judgment on any future thing which may not be in your control again in the way it's not in their control to be too big for the seat. So that's why. That's not even like a complaint to me. That's. I think you're being nitpicky. I think you're writing this after the eye roll so you're looking to take them down. We don't need to do that here. The eye roll on its own is a problem. If you're at window, you're really. To me, the only thing that annoys me about a window person is when we're landing and they don't put up the shade just so we can watch the show. That's all I ask out of the window person. If you got to get up five times, I feel for you. I'm not eye rolling you. Jtrain podcast gmail.com jtrain podcastmail.com we got one more. Happy birthday, Jared. Well, thank you. These are coming in after the birthday. My TikTok Tuesday is about T shirts with messages. I went to the gym this morning for an early workout to start my day, and there's a woman working out next to me and her shirt says, my one mission is to help sick kids with cancer. That's a lot. That's a lot. 8am you're looking at that shirt. You're like, man, I guess I'm not as big a hero as her. I came here to the gym and this was going to be my one good deed of the day. And it was for myself. And this woman's out here going to the gym and helping kids with cancer. What have I done today? Nothing. And I plan on doing nothing. I am a loser. This is a lot to deal with. Like, it's a nice message, but I think you only wear that shirt to make it seem like you're a really good person and everyone else around you isn't doing much as you to give back. It's. It's a look at me shirt. Listen, I'm happy for her. Here's the thing. The whole point of, like, the charity is to go and do it and you walk away and you go, oh, that felt good. I feel my tummy is full of hearts and bow ties. To wear the shirt after is a little like, hey, everybody, just in case you didn't know, I'm helping the sick kids. What are you doing today? Now I'm also thinking about sick children in the morning when I'm tempting to positively start my day again. As I said in the beginning, it's a lot to take in. Thank you for the safe space for all our complaints. Yes, any. As you can tell from some of these emails and these messages from the Patreon subscribers, complain about anything you want. I will find a way to make you feel seen and heard as I listen, I get it. You, you can't wear a Nike T shirt. You gotta wear a shirt that lets everyone know that they're oh look at me. I'm going to the gym in the morning. I'm a good guy. I'm healthy. No, you're not. Not as good as me. I'm helping sick kids and I'm going to the gym at a fuck you. That's like. That's what it feels like. I'm with you. That stinks. Jtrain podcast. Gmail.com. it is a ticked off Tuesday. Every Tuesday. Back next week, boom.