Podcast
The Nurture Network
Hosted by Jess Baldenhofer, MSEd · EN
Parenting today asks a lot of us.
We're raising children in a completely different world than the one we grew up in. We're trying to break cycles, understand big feelings, heal old wounds, navigate endless parenting advice, and somehow stay connected to ourselves in the
process.
If you've ever wondered, "Why is this so hard?" or "Am I doing this right?" you're in the right place.
The Nurture Network is a podcast for thoughtful moms who want to parent with more intention, confidence, and connection. Hosted by Certified Parent Coach Jess Baldenhofer of Mother Nurture Coaching, each episode explores the real challenges of modern parenting—from understanding behavior and setting boundaries to regulating your nervous system, breaking generational patterns, and staying rooted in your values.
This isn't a podcast about being a perfect parent. It's about becoming a more aware one.
Through honest conversations, practical tools, and fresh perspectives, you'll learn how to better understand yourself, better understand your child, and create a parenting approach that feels aligned with who you are and what matters most to your family.
Because parenting isn't just about raising children—it's also an opportunity to grow yourself.
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Learn more at www.mothernurturecoaching.com
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Disclaimer: The Nurture Network Podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. While I'm a Certified Parent Coach, I am not a therapist or medical professional. The ideas and tools shared here are meant to support your parenting journey but are not a substitute for professional mental health, medical, or therapeutic care. If you need personalized support, I encourage you to connect with a qualified licensed professional. You don't have to navigate life's challenges alone, and reaching out for help is often one of the most caring things you can do for yourself and your family.
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Becoming a Mother From the Inside Out
6d ago00:25:01Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailWe prepare endlessly for the birth of a baby. We rarely prepare for the birth of a mother.In this Season 2 premiere, I introduce the idea at the heart of everything that follows this season: matrescence, the profound identity shift a woman moves through as she becomes a mother. It is as significant as adolescence, and almost no one is guided through it.I walk you through the framework at the center of my work, the six pillars of Becoming Mother: Becoming, Origin, Generational Cycles, Partnership, Regulation, and Village. Together they map the inner work of motherhood, the part that so often goes unspoken. If you are pregnant, this gives you a clear sense of the inner ground ahead of you. If you are already deep in the middle of mothering, it gives you language for the woman you have quietly become, and an invitation to keep shaping her on purpose.This is the foundation of Season 2, Motherhood from the Inside Out. A season about coming home to yourself, trusting your own instincts, and learning to hear your knowing beneath the noise of everyone else's advice.I also introduce Goodnight Mom, a new short series I'm releasing alongside the main episodes this season. A few quiet minutes of company at the close of your hardest days.Continue the work:The Becoming Mother Collective is my free, private community for women who are pregnant and thinking beyond the nursery. It runs on a gentle weekly rhythm of reflection, conversation, and shared resources, and it is a small, intentional space where this work continues alongside other women walking the same path. If you are expecting a child in the next 3-10 months, please join us in the Becoming Mother Collective. Becoming Mother 1:1 Coaching is my private, one-on-one program for women who want to do this work personally and in depth. Together, we move through all six pillars at the pace of your own story, with guidance shaped entirely around you. The Collective is where this conversation lives. The coaching is where it becomes yours. Many women begin in one and grow into the other.You deserve to be nurtured.Before you goIf this episode met you somewhere real, follow The Nurture Network so the next one finds you too.Reviews are how other mothers find this work. If you have thirty seconds to leave one, it matters more than you'd think.And if a mom you love came to mind while you listened, send this her way. That is how this work travels.Ways to work with me:Website, resources, and support: https://www.mothernurturecoaching.comThe Becoming Mother Collective, my free, private community for women thinking beyond the nursery.Nurture Reset Live, a free monthly session to pause, reflect, and reconnect with yourself and your parentin.Free Parent Needs Assessment Call, for guidance in improving your relationship with your child.The NURTURE Process, my signature framework for getting to the root of all parenting challenges.Groundwork: The Foundational Coaching Experience for Aligned Motherhood, to build clarity, peace, and connection in parenting. ...
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Goodnight Mom: So You Yelled Today
6d ago00:04:43Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailFor the mom who lost it today and can't stop replaying it.I made Goodnight Mom for the hour no one talks about. After the kids are finally asleep, when the house goes quiet but your mind doesn't, and the guilt starts listing everything you think you got wrong.These aren't lessons. Nothing to take notes on, nothing to fix, no plan to do better tomorrow. They're short on purpose. A few minutes meant to be heard lying down, in the dark, on the days you have nothing left to give.Here's how to use them. Put one on when a hard day won't let go of you. Let me do the talking, so the voice in your own head can finally rest. Then close your eyes.You spend all day being the calm for everyone else. Let this be a few minutes of someone being calm for you.Before you goIf this episode met you somewhere real, follow The Nurture Network so the next one finds you too.Reviews are how other mothers find this work. If you have thirty seconds to leave one, it matters more than you'd think.And if a mom you love came to mind while you listened, send this her way. That is how this work travels.Ways to work with me:Website, resources, and support: https://www.mothernurturecoaching.comThe Becoming Mother Collective, my free, private community for women thinking beyond the nursery.Nurture Reset Live, a free monthly session to pause, reflect, and reconnect with yourself and your parentin.Free Parent Needs Assessment Call, for guidance in improving your relationship with your child.The NURTURE Process, my signature framework for getting to the root of all parenting challenges.Groundwork: The Foundational Coaching Experience for Aligned Motherhood, to build clarity, peace, and connection in parenting. ...
Transcribe →S1 Ep17: Motherhood, Mental Health, and the Power of Support — with Dowa Health
Nov 300:33:54Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailWhen support shows up, everything changes. In this powerful conversation, Jess sits down with Stella Falkner, founder of Dowa Health, to explore what happens when maternal depression and anxiety don’t end after the first year of motherhood — and how Dowa is transforming the way moms access care.Stella shares her deeply personal journey through maternal mental health challenges and how it led her to create Dowa, a wellness platform designed to meet mothers where they are — with evidence-based, on-demand tools and compassionate experts who understand the emotional, physical, and mental load of motherhood.Together, Jess and Stella explore why so many moms still suffer in silence, how to find real, lasting support, and what it looks like to feel connected again.If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed or unseen, this conversation offers a reminder that you’re not alone — and that support can start with one small step.Try the Dowa App for FREE for 2 weeks. Use code JESSB10 for 10% off when you upgrade.Join me on the Dowa app for a FREE Live Session, on Weds November 12, 730pm:Holiday Survival Guide for Moms: Managing Kids, Schedules & Stress, Register Here.Before you goIf this episode met you somewhere real, follow The Nurture Network so the next one finds you too.Reviews are how other mothers find this work. If you have thirty seconds to leave one, it matters more than you'd think.And if a mom you love came to mind while you listened, send this her way. That is how this work travels.Ways to work with me:Website, resources, and support: https://www.mothernurturecoaching.comThe Becoming Mother Collective, my free, private community for women thinking beyond the nursery.Nurture Reset Live, a free monthly session to pause, reflect, and reconnect with yourself and your parentin.Free Parent Needs Assessment Call, for guidance in improving your relationship with your child.The NURTURE Process, my signature framework for getting to the root of all parenting challenges.Groundwork: The Foundational Coaching Experience for Aligned Motherhood, to build clarity, peace, and connection in parenting. ...
Transcribe →S1 Ep16: When Joy Feels Out of Reach in Motherhood (and How to Find It Again)
Oct 1300:37:47Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailDo you love your kids but secretly struggle to enjoy motherhood? You’re not alone. In this honest episode of The Nurture Network, parent coach Jess Baldenhofer dives deep into why motherhood can feel so heavy—even when you love your child fiercely.You’ll learn what’s really happening in your nervous system when parenting feels overwhelming, how childhood conditioning and “performing for love” patterns disconnect you from joy, and how your kids can actually become your teachers in emotional regulation. Jess shares relatable mom-life stories, nervous system science, and powerful tools to help you move from survival mode to presence, connection, and real joy.If you’ve ever thought, “Why don’t I enjoy motherhood the way I thought I would?”—this episode will help you find your way back to yourself.Before you goIf this episode met you somewhere real, follow The Nurture Network so the next one finds you too.Reviews are how other mothers find this work. If you have thirty seconds to leave one, it matters more than you'd think.And if a mom you love came to mind while you listened, send this her way. That is how this work travels.Ways to work with me:Website, resources, and support: https://www.mothernurturecoaching.comThe Becoming Mother Collective, my free, private community for women thinking beyond the nursery.Nurture Reset Live, a free monthly session to pause, reflect, and reconnect with yourself and your parentin.Free Parent Needs Assessment Call, for guidance in improving your relationship with your child.The NURTURE Process, my signature framework for getting to the root of all parenting challenges.Groundwork: The Foundational Coaching Experience for Aligned Motherhood, to build clarity, peace, and connection in parenting. ...
Transcribe →S1 Ep15: Understanding Somatics: Parenting From Body and Mind (with Lauraine Mann)
Sep 1800:51:21Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailIf you’ve ever felt stuck in your head, overwhelmed by your child’s big emotions, or unsure how to stay calm in the chaos—this episode is for you.In this conversation, Jess is joined by psychosomatic practitioner Lauraine Mann to explore how your body holds the key to parenting with more calm, connection, and confidence. You’ll learn why unprocessed emotions get stored in the body, how your nervous system shapes your reactions, and simple body-based tools you can use daily to reset.What you’ll hear:What “somatic” really means and why it matters for momsThe nervous system’s role in handling your child’s big feelingsTiny, doable somatic practices to reduce stress in everyday parentingHow to redirect your child’s hitting or yelling into safe, body-based outletsWays to model emotional regulation and build your child’s resilienceThis is your invitation to stop overthinking, reconnect with your body, and discover the missing piece that can transform your parenting.Lauraine Mann is a Psychosomatic Practitioner based in New York, offering in person and virtual 1:1 and couples sessions. With a Master's Degree in Psychology, a Diploma in Somatic (Body-Based) Therapy, and over 20 years of experience in energy healing and meditation facilitation, she offers a compassionate and intuitive space where your inner experiences and outer relationships can be explored with curiosity and care. Lauraine's work invites personal, interpersonal, and societal awareness, supporting transformative change toward a more embodied, authentic, and fulfilling life.More info on Lauraine Mann: laurainemann.comFollow Lauraine on Instagram: @lauraine.mannBefore you goIf this episode met you somewhere real, follow The Nurture Network so the next one finds you too.Reviews are how other mothers find this work. If you have thirty seconds to leave one, it matters more than you'd think.And if a mom you love came to mind while you listened, send this her way. That is how this work travels.Ways to work with me:Website, resources, and support: https://www.mothernurturecoaching.comThe Becoming Mother Collective, my free, private community for women thinking beyond the nursery.Nurture Reset Live, a free monthly session to pause, reflect, and reconnect with yourself and your parentin.Free Parent Needs Assessment Call, for guidance in improving your relationship with your child.The NURTURE Process, my signature framework for getting to the root of all parenting challenges.Groundwork: The Foundational Coaching Experience for Aligned Motherhood, to build clarity, peace, and connection in parenting. ...
Transcribe →S1 Ep 14: Why Scripts Fail—and the Parenting Process That Works
Aug 100:19:35Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailIn this week’s episode of The Nurture Network, we explore why parenting scripts—that perfect response you rehearse in your head—rarely work. Instead, what transforms behavior is a process: a thoughtful approach rooted in values, presence, and emotional regulation.We dive into: • The difference between a scripted reaction and a values‑based process • Why rehearsed lines fail when your emotional regulation is low • How to create your own “parenting process”—step by step, value driven • Real-life examples where processes bring clarity, consistency, and confidence • How to shift from performing for your child to leading with intentionIf you’ve ever snapped at bedtime despite knowing what to say—or exhausted yourself trying to say the “right thing”—this episode is for you. Because great parenting isn’t about saying the perfect words. It’s about having a calm, grounded map to guide you in real time—even in the middle of the chaos.Listen to The Nurture Network wherever you get your podcasts—this one’s going to change how you lead in parenting.Before you goIf this episode met you somewhere real, follow The Nurture Network so the next one finds you too.Reviews are how other mothers find this work. If you have thirty seconds to leave one, it matters more than you'd think.And if a mom you love came to mind while you listened, send this her way. That is how this work travels.Ways to work with me:Website, resources, and support: https://www.mothernurturecoaching.comThe Becoming Mother Collective, my free, private community for women thinking beyond the nursery.Nurture Reset Live, a free monthly session to pause, reflect, and reconnect with yourself and your parentin.Free Parent Needs Assessment Call, for guidance in improving your relationship with your child.The NURTURE Process, my signature framework for getting to the root of all parenting challenges.Groundwork: The Foundational Coaching Experience for Aligned Motherhood, to build clarity, peace, and connection in parenting. ...
Transcribe →S1 Ep13: The Boundaries Behind Bedtime — with Ella Hanover
Jun 20, 202500:47:30Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailIn this episode of The Nurture Network, Jess talks with pediatric sleep coach Ella Hanover about why sleep is one of the first—and hardest—boundaries parents set. Together, they explore how sleep challenges go deeper than bedtime routines, often triggering guilt, self-doubt, and identity shifts in early motherhood.Ella shares her expert insights on how sleep is a turning point in the parent-child relationship, how to confidently lead with love and boundaries, and why prioritizing your own rest is essential—not selfish. Whether you’re navigating newborn sleep or toddler transitions, this conversation offers both emotional validation and practical tools.In this episode, we cover:Why sleep is often the first parenting “hard no”How to hold boundaries with love and confidenceWhat sleep reveals about your evolving identity as a parentWhy your needs matter—and how to honor themEncouragement for parents feeling exhausted or unsureConnect with Ella at: https://www.ellagracesleepsolutions.com/ Find Ella on IG at: https://www.instagram.com/ellagracesleepsolutionsBefore you goIf this episode met you somewhere real, follow The Nurture Network so the next one finds you too.Reviews are how other mothers find this work. If you have thirty seconds to leave one, it matters more than you'd think.And if a mom you love came to mind while you listened, send this her way. That is how this work travels.Ways to work with me:Website, resources, and support: https://www.mothernurturecoaching.comThe Becoming Mother Collective, my free, private community for women thinking beyond the nursery.Nurture Reset Live, a free monthly session to pause, reflect, and reconnect with yourself and your parentin.Free Parent Needs Assessment Call, for guidance in improving your relationship with your child.The NURTURE Process, my signature framework for getting to the root of all parenting challenges.Groundwork: The Foundational Coaching Experience for Aligned Motherhood, to build clarity, peace, and connection in parenting. ...
Transcribe →S1 Ep12: Peaceful, Conscious, Mindful: A New Era of Parenting
Jun 13, 202500:14:29Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailIn this episode of The Nurture Network, Jess explores why modern parenting looks so different from the way we were raised. From peaceful parenting to conscious and mindful approaches, today’s parents are trying to break generational cycles and raise emotionally attuned kids—often without a clear roadmap.We’ll look at the history of parenting styles, the roots of control-based discipline, and why this generation is shifting toward connection, regulation, and self-awareness. Jess unpacks what these changes mean for parents, children, and the future of our communities.If you’ve ever wondered why parenting feels so hard—and so important—right now, this episode will ground you in the deeper “why” and help you feel less alone in the messy, meaningful work of raising humans.Before you goIf this episode met you somewhere real, follow The Nurture Network so the next one finds you too.Reviews are how other mothers find this work. If you have thirty seconds to leave one, it matters more than you'd think.And if a mom you love came to mind while you listened, send this her way. That is how this work travels.Ways to work with me:Website, resources, and support: https://www.mothernurturecoaching.comThe Becoming Mother Collective, my free, private community for women thinking beyond the nursery.Nurture Reset Live, a free monthly session to pause, reflect, and reconnect with yourself and your parentin.Free Parent Needs Assessment Call, for guidance in improving your relationship with your child.The NURTURE Process, my signature framework for getting to the root of all parenting challenges.Groundwork: The Foundational Coaching Experience for Aligned Motherhood, to build clarity, peace, and connection in parenting. ...
Transcribe →S1 Ep11: The Parenting Spiral: Why You Feel Stuck (and How to Get Out)
Jun 6, 202500:16:58Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailDo you ever end the day feeling defeated, wondering why parenting feels so hard—especially when you're trying to do it differently than you were raised? In this episode of The Nurture Network, Jess Baldenhofer breaks down the real reason so many moms feel stuck in a parenting spiral of guilt, shame, overcorrection, and self-doubt. We’ll explore how our childhood experiences, nervous system responses, and the pressure to “get it right” collide in moments of challenge—and what to do about it. You’ll hear a personal story that brings this to life, and learn how reconnecting with yourself is the key to breaking free and showing up with more compassion, confidence, and clarity.Before you goIf this episode met you somewhere real, follow The Nurture Network so the next one finds you too.Reviews are how other mothers find this work. If you have thirty seconds to leave one, it matters more than you'd think.And if a mom you love came to mind while you listened, send this her way. That is how this work travels.Ways to work with me:Website, resources, and support: https://www.mothernurturecoaching.comThe Becoming Mother Collective, my free, private community for women thinking beyond the nursery.Nurture Reset Live, a free monthly session to pause, reflect, and reconnect with yourself and your parentin.Free Parent Needs Assessment Call, for guidance in improving your relationship with your child.The NURTURE Process, my signature framework for getting to the root of all parenting challenges.Groundwork: The Foundational Coaching Experience for Aligned Motherhood, to build clarity, peace, and connection in parenting. ...
Transcribe →S1 Ep10: Mindful Parenting Through Hard Times with Reshma Kearney
May 23, 202500:54:06Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailIn this heartfelt episode, mindfulness guide and solo mom Reshma Kearney shares her powerful journey of parenting through unimaginable loss and how mindfulness has helped her—and her children—navigate life’s hardest challenges. From caring for her grieving kids to finding balance in her own healing, Reshma offers practical tools, compassionate insights, and real hope for moms facing tough times. Whether you’re going through a major life shift or just seeking ways to stay grounded while supporting your family, this conversation will inspire and equip you to nurture yourself and your children with grace and resilience.Reshma Kearney is a trauma-informed mindfulness and healing guide dedicated to supporting parents navigating grief, mental health challenges, and the complexities of raising resilient children. Her mission is to remind moms that it’s okay to ask for help, to give themselves grace, and to trust that they’re doing better than they think. https://www.reshmakearney.comCrisis Text Line - Text: HOME to 741741A free, 24/7 text service for people in crisis, providing support via text messaging.Suicide Prevention Resource Center (SPRC)Offers a wide range of resources for individuals, including crisis intervention, prevention strategies, and helpful articles.American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) – Loss SurvivorsProvides support through local chapters, resources, and counseling for people grieving a suicide loss.Before you goIf this episode met you somewhere real, follow The Nurture Network so the next one finds you too.Reviews are how other mothers find this work. If you have thirty seconds to leave one, it matters more than you'd think.And if a mom you love came to mind while you listened, send this her way. That is how this work travels.Ways to work with me:Website, resources, and support: https://www.mothernurturecoaching.comThe Becoming Mother Collective, my free, private community for women thinking beyond the nursery.Nurture Reset Live, a free monthly session to pause, reflect, and reconnect with yourself and your parentin.Free Parent Needs Assessment Call, for guidance in improving your relationship with your child.The NURTURE Process, my signature framework for getting to the root of all parenting challenges.Groundwork: The Foundational Coaching Experience for Aligned Motherhood, to build clarity, peace, and connection in parenting. ...
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