Lately, I've been thinking about visibility differently, especially for highly sensitive, soul-led women.

For a long time, I measured visibility the way most entrepreneurs do.

Did the post perform?

Did someone book a call?

Did it make money?

But I think there’s another way to measure it.

Through Impact.

Years ago, a woman I’ll call J joined one of my New Moon masterclasses about calling in love.

After that class, she emailed me and talked back and forth for about a month. She would tell me about how she’s tired of being single and she’s ready to find real love, and stop dating the guy who wasn’t serious.

I told her how Radical Forgiveness healed my father wounds and I attracted love.

And she signed up for a healing package.

Through our work together, she healed a wound she had been carrying around regarding her relationship with her father.

After we cleared the energy…

She created a love list.

She began calling in the relationship she truly wanted.

A few months later, she emailed me to say she was married.

She said he’s the man she always asked the universe for.

She told me that she knew this was only possible because of the work that we did.

At first I was in shock!! Then I was smiling about all of this for like a month.

And every now and then I stop and think about something.

What if I had stayed hidden and never hosted that class?

What if I had convinced myself nobody was going to show up?

What if I had waited until I felt confident enough?

J’s story reminds me that visibility isn’t really about content.

It’s about connection.

It’s about allowing the people you’re meant to help to find you.

And every time a highly sensitive woman or soul-led entrepreneur hides her voice, keeps her stories to herself, or talks herself out of sharing...

I wonder whose life never gets touched because of it.

Maybe that’s something to think about today.

Much love

Essence

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