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Becky
episode was recorded in early 2026, prior to the events that have since unfolded. The conversation reflects the information and circumstances as they were at the time of recording. Maybe I'm just like weird. Maybe I'm crunchy. This is the Southern Tea with Lindsey Chrisley. I think it's so funny when you get Christmas cards and all of these people write their children's accomplishments on the back. I don't love them. A Southern girl and a boy mom who's trying navigate life while staying true to her roots. I am a functioning, non functioning human being right now. Join Lindsay each week as she swears to spill the tea, the whole tea, and nothing but the tea. That is the tea. Here's Lindsay. Good morning and welcome back to another episode of the Southern Tea podcast. How are we?
Lindsay Chrisley
Oh, good morning, Lindsay Chrisley. Should I say Christly? Since that's how your name is in my phone, why can't you spell? I don't know it. It's been a lifelong problem and maybe I've just gotten away with being a bad speller, that it's never really affected my life, that there wasn't ever a real need to change it, you know,
Becky
but like, are you proofreading emails and stuff before you send them out? Because if that's what you're presenting in a workspace, I'm genuinely concerned.
Lindsay Chrisley
There's spell check on computers. So I just. There's no spell check for people's last name.
Becky
How at this point my number could have been in your phone for years at this point and it never registered.
Lindsay Chrisley
You know, I don't know. The. The last name doesn't really pop up to. I have no clue. Honestly, there's no excuse.
Becky
Becky, when the group chat started popping off and everybody was calling out your spelling, I was like, oh wow. And. And the fact that not only was it like privately misspelled wrong, but then you decided to publicly post that.
Lindsay Chrisley
I'm not changing it. Once you're in my phone. You're in my phone. Your name doesn't change.
Becky
Wait, so it's staying misspelled?
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, for sure.
Becky
That's so embarrassing.
Lindsay Chrisley
Anyway, how are you? Good to be back on the Southern tea. Hi, everyone. How's everyone doing? It's Becky here.
Becky
Well, my hat says it all. Hot mess. It is a hot mess over here. Okay. Where do we even begin? Wow. Got back from New York and I'm like, where have I been for the last eight weeks of my life? Like, I feel like I have not seen this house, like, in its full capacity for two months, and now I'm really crashing out. Like, I cannot wait to get done with obligations for the week so that I can get my pressure washer out.
Lindsay Chrisley
You in this damn pressure washer. Do you like. Is it a good one? Is it gas or electric?
Becky
It's the one that you plug into the wall.
Lindsay Chrisley
That's so funny. It's electric.
Becky
Yeah, it's electric. Yeah.
Lindsay Chrisley
We. We should get you a gas powered one that's like heavy duty to really.
Becky
Yeah, but see, really drive it home. The problem with that is, is that I've tried to use Will's tools before or like apparatuses or devices, and I'm not strong enough to pull the gas thing to get it to go, which would then require assistance from someone else. And I just like, want to do it whenever I want to do it.
Lindsay Chrisley
They make electric start power washers that are gas powered.
Becky
What do you mean?
Lindsay Chrisley
Like, there's an electric start switch in it that like, turns it on. There's like a little battery that triggers like, where you don't have to put. I. You know what? Just stick with what you got. It's working.
Becky
Can you.
Lindsay Chrisley
Right. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.
Becky
Can you send me a link?
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, I can't. How is New York, though? Did you already talk about it on here?
Becky
New York talked about it a little bit. But, you know, like, these trips are absolutely crazy. I think people don't really realize what goes into doing a trip and like, what all we tried to get accomplished on a trip.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah.
Becky
And so by the time I left New York, I personally had recorded six episodes and did the Webbies and had a Sunday fun day, and I was just ready for my ass to be home.
Lindsay Chrisley
You had a Sunday fun day in New York City?
Becky
Yeah, with Madison and Alessandra. We went to brunch. We met the mayor, Zoron. Zoron. I thought he was coming out of Urban Outfitters. Madison claims that he was probably coming out of a doctor's office.
Lindsay Chrisley
You met him? Like, you said hello?
Becky
No, we didn't say. Well, Madison did, but I didn't know who that was. And I'm like, wait, what? I'm just trying to go to Urban Outfitters.
Lindsay Chrisley
Listen, I know we don't talk about politics in our. In our lives, but that man. There's something about that man that gives me hope in humanity. I just saw a clip of him today. He's opening up a. He's turning, like, a. A old juvenile detention center in the Bronx into an affordable grocery store for the community. It'll open next year. It's like 20,000 square ft. Anyway. Yeah, I would. I would be, like. I'd be. Is it called glazing? I feel like. Oh, my God.
Becky
That amazing.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, man. Like, there's just something about his aura that just gives me, like, hope, you know? It's cool.
Becky
I mean, there's definitely something about his aura as far as physical appearance that I would gl.
Lindsay Chrisley
Can I just. You are. You're. You are not. You are good financially. You are in an industry that requires technology. Why don't you have a camera set up? Like, it's, like, going in and out. It is blurry.
Becky
Like, not what. That's not what's happening. Try to provide a camera telling you what was happening in this current moment. Number one, I do need to buy a camera that is on the list of things that I need to do, but that is not what's happening with this video today.
Lindsay Chrisley
What is happening?
Becky
You just keep blinking.
Lindsay Chrisley
No, you're just. It's basically like someone put a blur over your face, like they're trying to hide their kid.
Becky
Okay, well, that's not what's happening. I have a light bulb that is malfunctioning in my kitchen.
Lindsay Chrisley
It's not the light bulb. It's your. It's your camera quality. Your camera quality sucks. Anyway, continue About New York. You saw Zoran in. In New York?
Becky
Yeah. We went to a bodega. I am really concerned with why there's cats at, like, all these bodegas. Like, why there's food items there.
Lindsay Chrisley
Do cats often carry diseases?
Becky
Yes. Yeah, do that.
Lindsay Chrisley
I don't know.
Becky
I mean, if it's a feral cat, I would not imagine that these would be, you know, ones that are going to the doctor and getting vaccinations.
Lindsay Chrisley
It's not a feral cat. It's a bodega cat. They're well taken care of.
Becky
Well, I mean, I just don't understand why they're there, and it's so scary.
Lindsay Chrisley
You. You screamed when you saw the cat.
Becky
How do you know?
Lindsay Chrisley
Who told you? Who told you? Madison literally just put it in the chat.
Becky
I. I did, because I was not expecting for a cat to just come out of nowhere like another human being. Okay. Like, I get it. The cat. Absolutely not. So we went to a bodega. We. Madison made us walk a mile because she's directionally challenged, and we were going the opposite direction of where we needed to be going. Let's see, what else did we do? Oh, yeah. I went to the airport. Kale and I pretty much argued on the podcast about our Uber driver almost hitting a hoverboarder. She claims that the person almost died. That is absolutely not what happened. There was, like, no death in sight. It was just kind of like a little.
Lindsay Chrisley
Okay. People get hit a lot in the city. I had a driver pick me up, actually, recently, and she was like, I hit some guy on a bike, and he told me not to call the cops. And I said, wait, yeah, welcome to New York. Yeah.
Becky
Not to call the cops.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah. Sometimes, like, when people. Multiple reasons.
Becky
Right.
Lindsay Chrisley
Like, health insurance, documentation, all the things, you know?
Becky
I mean, I could very well see why so many people would get hit. Like, the bike lanes in New York City are absolutely terrifying. You can't even get out of a parked car without. And. And people just don't stop. It's like they have zero to give.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah. Can I ask you something? Do you know who Weird Al Yankovic is?
Becky
No. Who's that?
Lindsay Chrisley
Madison, do you know who Weird Al Yankovic is? Okay. I was really hoping that you would. I saw him when I was in la. It just reminded me of, like, seeing something like. But if you don't know who he is, there's. It's really not worth even having a conversation about it. Interesting that you don't. I feel like we're the same age. We grew up exactly the same way, Becky.
Becky
There was nothing about our raising that was the same.
Lindsay Chrisley
No, I can't explain. I don't.
Becky
Weird Al Ankovich.
Lindsay Chrisley
I don't know how to explain who he is. You either know him or you don't. And I hope someone on this is.
Becky
That's why explaining it to me. It's because you don't know.
Lindsay Chrisley
No, I do know who he is. He's a singer. He's like, a comedian singer.
Becky
Okay, well, that was a start, Becky. To let me know, like, which path we're going down.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, but, like, if you don't know the name Weird Al. You don't know who it is. There's no, like, there's no connecting dots, you know? Anyway, I saw him when I was in la, but it was just so random. I saw him at, like, a cafe. He was just sitting there. We locked eyes and I was like, hmm, I know who that is. But I feel like in L. A you don't go up to celebrities, right? You just let them be.
Becky
I feel like I would never go up to a celebrity. My life. What, like is there.
Lindsay Chrisley
I went up to a celebrity. I went up to. I was at, like, this. I don't know how I got into this party. I went to the Kentucky Derby once in my life and I went to
Becky
this, like, Derby is crazy.
Lindsay Chrisley
It's. It. Kentucky Derry is one of the most wild experiences I've ever had in my entire life. By the way, first female trainer to ever win the Kentucky Derby. Won a couple weeks ago. I saw that. What was your horse's name? I don't remember.
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Lindsay Chrisley
But I went up to.
Becky
Wait, I need to.
Lindsay Chrisley
This is so chaotic.
Becky
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Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah.
Becky
That's not really an environment that I would be like, oh, yeah, Becky would be there.
Lindsay Chrisley
So for people in my tax bracket, we go to the infield. The infield. Is it, like, a shit show party of just, like, degenerates? Like, it's like a frat party on the infield. So I went to the Kentucky. I went to the Kentucky Derby because, like, I do things for the experience, right? Like, if. If it sounds like a story to tell, I'm. I'm in. I was young. I think I was still in college when I went. We drove there. It was so much fun. But I met Guy Fieri at a party, and I went up to him.
Becky
I don't even know who that is.
Lindsay Chrisley
All right.
Becky
You're like, how was your Mother's Day? I am officially done with you. No way. I can't let go of the Kentucky Derby thing. Like, okay, what did you wear to the Kentucky Derby? I wore.
Lindsay Chrisley
Or I wore orange pants and, like, a plaid suit jacket. I wore my hair in, like, a side braid and, like, a fedora.
Becky
No way.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, it was fun. Yeah, I do. I'll send them to you. I'll find them.
Becky
Make sure you send them to me. As far as Mother's Day is concerned, we celebrated on the Saturday because I had to fly to New York on Sunday, so that kind of sucks. But it was nice because Will came to pick up Jackson and took him to celebrate with his mom. So Jackson got the best.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, I went to a baby shower. What?
Becky
The amount of things that I saw on your Instagram story from your Mother's Day weekend has closed caused me a great deal of concern.
Lindsay Chrisley
Concern in what way?
Becky
Well, like, your friend's hair on the one Instagram story sleeping. I was like, where have y' all been? It's just crazy.
Lindsay Chrisley
It. It was one of the best days of my life, if I'm being honest. Top, like, top five experiences I've ever had was doing that bar crawl on Mother's Day, Becky. Which brings me to my point of what you were just talking about. I went to a baby shower, and my friend was like, oh, your Mother's Day looked insane. I want to do it next year. I was like, yeah, you should definitely do it. She turns to, like, her husband or partner and is like, oh, I want to do this for Mother's Day. He's like, it's your first Mother's Day. And I was like, you could celebrate on Saturday. It doesn't matter. Like, your kid isn't going to know what Day. Mother's Day is.
Becky
You know, I used to get hung up on that, though, before I was divorced. Like, everything needed to be celebrated on the day. And then when I got divorced, obviously, you just have to adapt, right? So you're not going to have your kid for every holiday. So you very much learn. Like, we can celebrate whatever the holiday is, but we don't have to do it on that specific day. And no one really knows and no one really cares.
Lindsay Chrisley
Great life lesson. You know, a little audible. I'm doing it again next year if you have any interest in doing it.
Becky
I don't. I am telling you in advance, I will not be accompanying you on that trip because it made me tired, like, looking at it. The visual. Yeah. I'm like, what the actual hell is going on? But no, when I was in the airport, I went to TGI Fridays. Like, actually, I shouldn't be telling people that because that's the only place that I go into the Atlanta airport. But I met these people. I was like, hey, what are you doing for Mother's Day? Are you a mom? And she was like, well, I just lost my mom this year, so this is my first Mother's Day without my mother. And I said, oh, my God, I'm so sorry. And so I said, but are you going somewhere? Like, you're in the airport. What are you doing? And she said, oh. She had just gone to three different cities in that day and never left the airport and then just flew. Flying from place to place.
Lindsay Chrisley
Head is spinning with ideas. That is so freaking cool.
Becky
I'm like, Becky and I go on tour, and it's just like, we're just in the airport.
Lindsay Chrisley
Literally. We should do, like, a full day of recording episodes in. In different airports.
Becky
Like, wouldn't that.
Lindsay Chrisley
And just, like, interviewing people in the airport.
Becky
Idea unlocked. That's a good one.
Lindsay Chrisley
Wow, that sounds like so much fun.
Becky
She never got past, like, she went through security of one place, and then she just went from city to city to city and then was going back home. And I'm just like, yeah, but I don't know if I could, you know, invest in flying from city to city to city to end up at a TGI Fridays, you know?
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, it. It is. It does sound like an expensive day because obviously flights are expensive. Drinks and food are so expensive at an airport for, like. For what reason? For actually no reason. Yeah, so maybe not because there's better ways we could waste our money.
Becky
I think that we need to get a camper van, you know, like the one that Somebody has to drive. But who's driving it?
Lindsay Chrisley
Maybe Madison. What about Hunter? How's Hunter doing?
Becky
Oh, I am not. He can draw a sting. I am not trusting that Hunter would be capable of driving us anywhere. Okay. All right.
Lindsay Chrisley
Tommy can drive. My friend that went dead to the park crawl. Yeah. If you guys are listening, you're like, what the hell? I went on a. I did say it. The last time. I think I went on a multi state bar crawl for Mother's Day. I posted a 16 minute vlog of it, if you have any interest in watching.
Becky
That's literally the most lesbian lit thing that I've ever heard in my life. A multi. It has more.
Lindsay Chrisley
Crawl has nothing to do with my sexuality. There was. There was over 500 people registered to do it. 375 people completed it. I might have been the only lesbian. I don't know. I didn't see any others.
Becky
You weren't. I. I feel like you weren't.
Lindsay Chrisley
Let me tell you this, though. The bartenders in Nashville were so hot, and I hope they listen to your podcast. If you are a bartender at the Mother's Ruins in Nashville, congrats.
Becky
Congrats for you.
Lindsay Chrisley
Congrats for those genetics. What'd you say?
Becky
Were you flirting with him?
Lindsay Chrisley
I wasn't. I would have.
Becky
Becky, if you're talking, you're flirting. It was a trick question.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, that was a trick question. Maybe I was. Wait, maybe I was.
Becky
Let me tell you what happened to me yesterday, okay? I take Oliver outside, and I'm putting him, like, on his little dog run thing. And those cords for the leash part are, like, very thick, and they're like that wiry material, right? So I go to get him on there, and I guess the. The wire got caught between my slippers. I fell, busted my hands up, busted my knees up.
Lindsay Chrisley
And I'm like, you have it on video?
Becky
No, I don't have it on video. I'm so upset that I don't, because that would be something that should. Should have aired on America's Funniest Home Videos. I was so stunned that I ended up where I ended up. And I'm like, any woman who is single out here genuinely needs a life
Lindsay Chrisley
alert or an apple.
Becky
I also didn't have my phone, so, like, I was just laid out, taken out by a wiener dog. I'm like, this is not normal.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, I would have. I would have paid money to see that, for sure.
Becky
I have to tell you.
Lindsay Chrisley
Some.
Becky
Some tea. So I had talked about with Madison when I recorded in New York about Like, going to court and Oliver and me getting him back. And then yesterday I was pretty much off of social media, but I started getting screenshots of this post where a specific someone posted out there that he had actually saved Oliver from the pound and Madison. Am I. Am I correct? Yeah. So allegedly he adopted Oliver from the pound. Completely fake narrative. And I just, I'm still trying to wrap my head around why, at the point of what has transpired, literally get off the Internet.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, but when someone has that kind of personality and mental illness, the Internet is his home.
Becky
I mean, I get it, but at the same time, I'm just like, if the roles were reversed, I think I would just be quiet.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, let. Let it die down a little bit. I don't know. But like, the validate like that, like engagement people, like, it's addicting. It's like, I get it, you know? How are you, by the way? How, like, are we in therapy? Are we healing? Are we just hiding?
Becky
I am not in therapy. I had a conversation with Madison and Alessandra about this. That, like, there's so much mentally going on that, like, talk therapy is not. It's not it for me.
Lindsay Chrisley
So shock therapy is next.
Becky
I mean, I don't know what I need to do, but the talking is not working.
Lindsay Chrisley
Okay, maybe. Maybe we get into a little meditation and breath work.
Becky
I had a guest on here and she was, like, showing me how to do the breath work and stuff like that. I could see where that would work. The thing about the situations that I've gone through, going to a therapist and talking about it and then not really saying anything to you and giving you the roadmap of, like, where you need to go, which I know is not what therapists are supposed to do. Like, I get it, but, like, I need help. That's why I'm here. All right, y', all, let's take a quick second to talk about Haya. I know as parents, sometimes random things keep us up at night. If you have ever done any research search on kids vitamins, you're gonna find a lot of stuff that will make you feel uneasy. And some of that stuff is that children's vitamins on the market today contain up to 7 grams of sugar per serving and are stuffed with artificial additives and petroleum based dyes. But Haya took the opposite approach. Zero sugar, zero gummy additives, just clean nutrition. This is the only vitamin Jackson has ever taken. And if you're asking what makes Haya different, it is truly how it's so thoughtfully designed they looked at what modern kids actually eating or not eating, and then they formulated around those specific nutritional gaps. Jackson takes the vitamins every single morning and then also does the daily greens plus superfoods. And it has just become a part of our every morning routine. We've worked out a special deal with Haya. Receive 50 off your first order or any of their products. To claim this deal you must go to haya.com southerntea this deal is not available on the regular website. Go to H I Y A H E a l t h.com/southal t and get your kids the full body support they deserve.
Lindsay Chrisley
So there's this. A friend of mine who I met through for the Haters. She is doing this therapy right now. It's like a massage, like pressure therapy where like they do a massage and then they incorporate like feelings of like releasing things from it. Maybe that's what you need.
Becky
No, I could totally get into something like that because I feel like that's like a twofer, you know, like, yeah, you get the, the massage, so it's like luxury. But then also you're healing your soul.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, I'll get you. I'll send you the therapy type and maybe Hunter can find you on a person that does it there.
Becky
But like, I genuinely need something else other than talk therapy. And it's so sad because I will completely disconnect from everything. And the Internet is just like a place that doesn't sleep. Right. And I feel like the Internet is New York City. Yeah, it is the wild, wild West. And so I will think that I get past something and then something gets posted. Like what got posted yesterday. And I was even hesitant to say anything about it because genuinely, I think people that have any sense can like read through what someone's doing. I also was told that comments were muted, like at the point that you have to mute comments on a post. Just do less.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, like, just let's all give us space to heal and not keep stirring it up, you know?
Becky
And I just.
Lindsay Chrisley
I think that you should. I think you should actually go on a retreat. I think you should go on like a Ayahuasca retreat.
Becky
I mean, I get it, but. And I want to, but I have not been home for. Literally I went from Dallas to home, then from home to Delaware, then from Delaware back home to kill. Being here, from here to New York and back home. All while this other stuff has been going on in the background. Yeah, all the while it is Will's business. Busiest travel part of the year. So I have Jackson all Week to myself. I'm like, at what point am I going to the retreat?
Lindsay Chrisley
True.
Becky
You know?
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, we'll start with the massage therapy and then. And then we'll go from there. We got to do something, girl. Come on. Come on.
Becky
The massage therapy is something that I really feel like I could tackle. Like, that is a task that I could tackle. The retreat right now is just not working. I have three dogs in this house.
Lindsay Chrisley
Is. And school's probably. School's probably almost over, right?
Becky
Yeah. And this is like, I just want to pick a bone with the school system. Okay. They have a teacher work day today. This is the last day or the last week of school. At the point that we're having a teacher work day on a Tuesday and we've got early release on a Friday. Let's just call it a wash. Like, why are we doing this?
Lindsay Chrisley
Tomorrow's the last day of school.
Becky
No, so they had school yesterday, which was Monday, and then they have a teacher, so they're out today. Then they'll go back Wednesday, Thursday, and half day on Friday.
Lindsay Chrisley
The half Friday is the last day of school.
Becky
Yeah, but half day for middle schoolers, they don't start school until 9 o' clock and they're getting on buses by 12:45. I'm like, call truancy on me because you're not going. Like, what do you mean?
Lindsay Chrisley
You're not sending him to the last day of school? Isn't that, like, an exciting time for kids?
Becky
No, I feel like, Becky, you're not understanding. Exciting.
Lindsay Chrisley
I don't. I don't have kids in school.
Becky
Yeah, but Becky, that was over in, like, the 90s and the early 2000s. Like, kids going to school today is not the same of what we experienced at all.
Lindsay Chrisley
Interesting. I would be so sad to miss the last day of school. I would have been.
Becky
For what?
Lindsay Chrisley
I mean, we didn't have access to our friends and, like, entertainment, so, like, school was a part of that access to people. I also, like, grew up in, like, rural places.
Becky
Right.
Lindsay Chrisley
So, like, school was fun, where you got to see everyone.
Becky
I think now it's so changed because they literally, like, follow each other on Life360 and know exactly what they're doing, what speed limit their parents are going, when they can go to the trampoline park and meet up when somebody's having a sleepover, who's throwing the.
Lindsay Chrisley
We didn't even have trampoline parks.
Becky
We had nothing.
Lindsay Chrisley
We had roller rinks.
Becky
That's probably why we're so good.
Lindsay Chrisley
What is that? What is like, the end of school, like, does Jackson go to, like, summer camps? Does he do anything, like, fun in the summer? Do you have anything planned?
Becky
So I think I needed to get some of these work trips out of the way. Are you a type? No, actually, we're opposite people. I remember you saying you had already booked 13 flights for, like, the latter part of the year, and then Spirit closed down. Kale told me about that.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah.
Becky
So did you get your money?
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah. So, like, part of the. Part of the reason I agreed to do so many tour dates with her because I, like, fund myself to do them, is because there were cheap Spirit flights to go to these places. And so I agreed to do them. Spirit shuts down, so I can't backpedal on my agreeance of doing the tour dates. I spent, like, a couple grand having to rebook my. Rebook my flights.
Becky
I'm so sorry.
Lindsay Chrisley
That's crazy.
Becky
Anyway, sucks. But I think we're gonna go and do a beach trip. So Will and I discussed last year that maybe we would book a place for two weeks, and then I would take Jackson one of the weeks, and then we would have, like, the crossover in the middle, and then Jackson would never leave. So he would be at the beach for two weeks. But, like, it would be one vacation with me and one vacation with his dad.
Lindsay Chrisley
That's so, like, fun and smart.
Becky
So I think that that's what I'm gonna look into.
Lindsay Chrisley
What beach do you go to?
Becky
I either go to Orange beach in Florida or Jackson loves Jacksonville beach in Florida. I also love St. Augustine. I'm just undecided. Like, maybe. Maybe life is calling for a different adventure, you know?
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah.
Becky
Like, somewhere that I have not had, like, any memories with any man there, you know?
Lindsay Chrisley
Maybe you and Jackson. Jackson should do, like, a road trip.
Becky
And, like, Becky, I think that's taking it a little far. A road trip
Lindsay Chrisley
in, like, a camper or something. I don't know.
Becky
I know, but it would require another person because I can't drive it.
Lindsay Chrisley
I'll do it. Fuck it.
Becky
Becky's like, I just invited myself on Lindsay's family vacay.
Lindsay Chrisley
Can I bring Bex with me? That's Bex and Leah.
Becky
Becky, this is supposed to be relaxing.
Lindsay Chrisley
I can be a real. I am a very. I am a chameleon. Is that how you say that word?
Becky
Yes, chameleon.
Lindsay Chrisley
Right. So, like, I bring energy when energy is needed in a room. I can sit on a couch for 48 hours and not talk if that is the vibe that is needed.
Becky
But I Can Becky being required to bring energy into a room where energy is needed sounds exhausting.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yes, it can be exhausting, which is why I could sit on a couch for 48 hours and not do anything. I've been playing a lot of catan lately.
Becky
I don't know what that is either.
Lindsay Chrisley
We just live different lives. Lindsay. Chrisley. Okay, so beach, maybe no road trip, but maybe like go to a. Go to a new place that you can create new memories.
Becky
But then also there's like the tour dates that are coming up. And so I'm trying to logistically figure out all of that. Jackson's going to the lake this weekend with Will's family. Apparently they're running a 5k. Don't really know. Not my idea of fun. A 5k on a Saturday morning does not sound like anything that I would want to be involved in. Maybe that's why we're divorced. I'm very much looking forward to this weekend to actually have zero obligations to do anything except power wash. Yeah. But, like, that's not an obligation.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah.
Becky
That's a desire.
Lindsay Chrisley
Should I just come this. Should I just pop in this weekend?
Becky
Yeah. Can you imagine? I wake up and look on my cameras and you're just standing at my side door with a backpack.
Jake Stauch
Yeah.
Lindsay Chrisley
Speaking of. Speaking of Torah, I don't know if we talked about this. You are going to the North Carolina, South Carolina dates?
Becky
Yes. Only the Carolinas.
Lindsay Chrisley
I was sad that we were no longer going to a show together, so I booked a ticket to come to the North Carolina, South Carolina dates. So we will. Yeah. I had so much FOMO that I booked it. I also, I really wanted to spend some time with you and I thought it would be a lot of fun. Even if I told Kale, like, I was like, any. If there's ever a. A show where you don't need me to participate in it, I will sit my ass in the audience happily. You know, and she looked at me like I was crazy. Like, why would.
Becky
Looking at you?
Lindsay Chrisley
You know, maybe just. Maybe just hoping to get like. But I'm really. I. I think the three of us together is going to be so fun.
Becky
So fun. But Kayl's gonna get so pissed at us because you and I are the type that would stay up until 4 o' clock in the morning giggling.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah. So tired are the energy that the three of us have when all three of us together. Obviously you people get pieces of it when they consume content from the two of you or. Or the two of us. Or the two of, like, Kale and I, but there's not that much insight into what it's like when the three of us are together. And it's going to be really interesting to see how that dynamic shifts and, like, flows.
Becky
Becky's just trying to start shit.
Lindsay Chrisley
I. I've been, like, thinking a lot, so a lot of we. A lot of people have been saying, like, Kale and I are just so mean to each other. And I'm like, it's a bit, right? Like, we do that. Like, it's fun to consume and enjoy. And I'm like, should I just switch it up and just be nice all the time?
Becky
I don't know. Wait, well, are y', all, like, in a fight?
Lindsay Chrisley
No. No. We just, like, bicker when we're like, when we record karma and chaos. It's like, it's just how we are, right? Like, it's just like, why would you say that? Or, like, anyway and, like, cut her off and continue.
Becky
You don't do that to me.
Lindsay Chrisley
People think what I said.
Becky
You don't do that to me.
Lindsay Chrisley
I. Sometimes I just feel like you're in such a fragile state in life that I don't want to add to that, you know?
Becky
Could you imagine?
Lindsay Chrisley
Imagine I just started, like, being so mean to you.
Becky
Be like, I'm literally never talking to Becky again.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, we don't want that. So if. If you're listening, come to. Come to tour.
Becky
Wait, I need to ask you. I watched between the last two nights, and I know this sounds insane, it's only an hour and 34 minutes, I think, but I watched the crash on Netflix.
Lindsay Chrisley
Huh.
Becky
Did you watch it?
Lindsay Chrisley
I didn't watch it, but I have like a. Is it like something about. Yeah, I have like a group chat. I have like a Patreon that. I have people. I have a group chat with those people. And they were all talking about it and everyone was like, she definitely, definitely did it. I don't know what she did, but they were all saying, she definitely did it.
Becky
So the write up it says the Crash is a true crime documentary that revisits the July 2022 high speed car crash in Strongsville, Ohio. The driver, Mackenzie Shurilla, 17 at the time, drove her Toyota Camry into a brick building, killing her passengers, Dominic Russo, which was her boyfriend, and his best friend Davion. The film explores whether the crash was a tragic accident or deliberate, calculated double murder. Shrilla claims that she had no memory of the incident beyond turning onto the road where it occurred. Toxicology reports found no hard drugs or alcohol in her system, only a trace amount of thc. And it says, set against the backdrop of reportedly toxic relationship between Mackenzie and Dominic, the documentary examines the evidence, possible motives, and lingering questions surrounding the case. After watching it, I was so pissed off, Becky, at the parents. And just like the lack of. It felt like such a lack of remorse for these other kids lives, a lack of remorse for their daughter's actions, lack of accountability and parenting. The fact that they came up with. And I'm saying, you know, it could be true that she had some type. I think they called it like POTS or something where it caused her to have high blood pressure. Please tell me. Then when you're watching the documentary, you see the. The video of. I guess they got it from like street cams or whatever. She is driving at a normal speed, making a turn, maintaining lane, and then all of a sudden the car starts flying. It sounds like a whistle. And said that she never let off of the gas at 100 miles per hour for the five seconds, I guess that it was being clocked at 100 miles per hour. And drove into this brick building. Claimed she had no memory of it. They were able to pull that, you know, from. From where they investigated the car. I guess that the brake was never applied. That she was just straight on gas for. At 100 miles per hour.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah. I mean, what. What other reason than like under influence, which got ruled out or like it. It doesn't sound like it was like she was just driving recklessly and it happened. Like, it sounds like intentional.
Becky
No, it was like literally when she took the turn, when they're showing the video, she's like going around a turn and she's completely maintaining lane has slowed down to take the turn. And then all of a sudden, at 100 miles per hour, did she get hurt?
Lindsay Chrisley
Like, how did she not die?
Becky
She. She was injured, but she didn't die. And there was a theory, I believe, like, maybe the prosecution. You'll have to watch the documentary, but that, like, maybe she wanted to die. And so she was essentially for.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, that's what went through my head. Like she like, wanted to just kill them all. Like she wanted to kill herself. But my, like, same thing with that other. That other documentary that recently came out with the tech, with the. That like, texting scandal and like blackmail and like.
Becky
Yeah, yeah.
Lindsay Chrisley
Like, why do people agree to do these documentaries?
Becky
I think it's the same thing that we were talking about earlier in the episode of, like, why certain people can't stay off of social media. It's. It's got to be some level of narcissism or mental illness.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah.
Becky
And Madison, she's saying, get that check. Documentaries don't pay like that.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah,
Becky
yeah. That is not standard with documentaries. There's a really fine line of what they will pay for and what they won't. It's not like an episodic fee or like an upfront fee. You get paid for stuff like. Like back catalog of stuff. So if you were providing family photos and stuff like that, you will get paid for that part of it. But to maintain the integrity of the documentary, most documentaries do not pay for you to be on there. Yeah. I mean, I could just not imagine my child doing something, being convicted of double murder and then thinking it was a good idea to go on a Netflix documentary, not accept any accountability for anything. And just.
Lindsay Chrisley
Did she get convicted? Like, is she in jail?
Becky
Yeah, she got convicted.
Lindsay Chrisley
Oh, yeah. Maybe they thought, like, by doing the documentary, they'd get, like, her out of jail.
Becky
I don't know. I didn't obviously watch, like, people like that. It's. It's got to be some level of narcissism, so they're trying to gain some type of control or, like, you get on tv.
Lindsay Chrisley
I don't know.
Becky
Could you imagine, like, could you imagine being that mom that was bullying her daughter and just signs up to do this documentary, like, what do you think's gonna happen?
Lindsay Chrisley
And she. It, like, this happened in 2022. So she's been in jail for. Well, I don't know when the trial was. That's crazy.
Becky
Three. I think. I think it was in 23.
Lindsay Chrisley
I just. And, like, obviously you never know. You never know what you're gonna do or act or be in a situation until you're in it. So, like, we could all say whatever we want, but until you. Until you're innocent. But I couldn't imagine having a child and not feeling any type of remorse for, like, actions that they did that caused someone else harm.
Becky
That's what I can't wrap my head around. Addison said she got arrested in 2023 and got 15 years to life in prison.
Lindsay Chrisley
So she was young.
Becky
Right.
Lindsay Chrisley
She was probably 18. So, like, 15 years. She'll be out. Yeah, she was. Yeah.
Becky
But not that, like, it was actually really sad because one of the. The dads of the boy that passed away, he said that if what they decided was 15 years, then essentially he would accept it, but he wanted his child's life in the amount of years to be honored, essentially, and that he
Lindsay Chrisley
would be, like, 18 years like, he was 18 years old and he wanted her to get 18 years.
Becky
He said he would be more comfortable between 15 and 30. With 30 years versus the 15. Yeah, but I'm just like.
Lindsay Chrisley
And she'll probably get out early for whatever reason.
Becky
Right. I don't know how that works.
Lindsay Chrisley
I don't know either.
Becky
Said, how old do you have to be in Georgia to have a permit? 15?
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, I think it's 15 in Georgia. I think it's 15.
Becky
And then you get your license at 16. Is that right? I think that sounds right.
Lindsay Chrisley
That's how New Jersey is.
Becky
Why don't more.
Lindsay Chrisley
Except you can get your farmers. You can get your farmer's license at 16.
Becky
Farmer.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, like, I got my farmer's license at 16. If you have like a truck. What.
Becky
What are you.
Lindsay Chrisley
You just have to, like, live on a certain, certain amount of property or, like, it's just like a way around the system. Like, Leah also got her farmer's license when she was 15. You have to have, like, a farm vehicle. You're not allowed to have people in your car. You know, it's. It's so interesting. Like, people around here. Well, when I was growing up, like, I've been driving my whole life. Like, I've been driving something my whole life. So getting in behind a wheel was like, a lot easier of a transition because I was riding four wheelers, dirt bikes, tractors, literally anything. Like, even cars. Right. Driving cars on. In fields, on a farm. So. But yeah, it's. I'm not ready to be a parent, thankfully. I have a couple years to like, warm up into the idea of like, you are. Yeah, but, like, I'm not a parent to a conscious human of like, making decisions that could hurt other people.
Becky
Yeah, no, I.
Lindsay Chrisley
And that.
Becky
I get that. But I. I also think, like, the readiness comes with not having the choice. Like, your kids are inevitably going to grow up and you just kind of evolve through parenthood. Like, as your kids are growing.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, yeah. I mean, you could only hope that you just, like, raise them to be good enough humans to make good decisions. But, like, I was making. I was making bad decisions when I was a teenager. I would get in a car with anyone. Like, I wouldn't even, like, question it. I. I don't think. And I was like, a decent kid, so I don't know. I don't know.
Becky
Made good decisions. You know, just like a couple things, like, here and there as a teenager, but nothing my parents have said for forever. Like, if they could have had all me's, like, in that part of my life. Then they would have continued having kids, and I'm like, wow, like, what an honor. But also, I feel like I've been worse in my adulthood than I ever was as a teenager.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, I. Yeah, I. I would. I think it was just comes with the territory of how we. How we grew up, you know, like how I grew up. It was just. I could have been worse. I guess it could have been worse.
Becky
Okay, well, I have one last question for you before we go.
Lindsay Chrisley
Okay.
Becky
It is a viral tick tock question. You get to invite one person out for the day, and if they start bullying you, you win $10 million. Who are you inviting?
Lindsay Chrisley
Kate Austin.
Becky
Kate Austin.
Lindsay Chrisley
Do you know who Kate Austin is? Yeah. Yeah. Well, there's two K Austins on the Internet. I don't know if our K Austins are the same Kate Austins.
Becky
Is it the lesbian Kate Austin?
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah, yeah, the lesbian Kate Austin. You know who that is?
Becky
Yeah, I know who it is. Like, I don't know her. Like, I know.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yes, Madison said. Yeah, I'm literally shocked as well that you know who that is. Yes, I would invite her because she bullies me with that. Like, I. If even if I called her right now, she'd probably be like, what the do you want? She actually probably wouldn't even pick up.
Becky
I would invite you. You. I would invite you. Or possibly Alessandra and Kayla could be like, in the equal running with you. When it comes to bullying me, you
Lindsay Chrisley
know, my bullying is different, I think, but I will take that and noodle on it for a little bit and probably not change.
Becky
So I'm gonna justify my bullying because it's different.
Lindsay Chrisley
Feel like I bullied people I love, but maybe it's really just deep down because I was made fun of as a kid. So I don't know. We'll see. We'll unpack it.
Becky
That breaks my heart. Madison.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yeah. Kayla 100, I think probably would be a better choice. But you're not wrong. I do bully people. It's all I like, love to just, like, you know, get a little rough with someone and see.
Becky
I don't. I just. If someone starts doing some like that with me, I'm either gonna do one of two things. I'm either going to completely shut down or I'm gonna stay in that environment for the time that I'm there, and then I'm gonna leave and I'm gonna be so pissed off at that person and I'm gonna cry and then I'm not going to talk to them. For infinity.
Lindsay Chrisley
Then I think you chose the wrong person because you don't get that way with, like. I don't make you feel bad.
Becky
Yeah, but.
Lindsay Chrisley
Right.
Becky
You don't bully me in the same way that you bully Kale.
Lindsay Chrisley
True. Yeah.
Becky
You know what I mean.
Lindsay Chrisley
Well, but I've also. I have more history with Kale, so, like, I don't know. But we don't. We.
Becky
I could.
Lindsay Chrisley
I could bully you if you want me to.
Becky
No, I don't want you to bully me.
Lindsay Chrisley
Okay, well. Well, let's leave it at that. Let's leave it at that. And your answer is Kayla, not me.
Becky
I don't feel left out because I'm not being extremely bullied by you. Like, I think I'm fine. You can.
Lindsay Chrisley
Okay, we'll leave it as it is. We'll leave it a little bit of flavor here and there.
Becky
So if you guys want to play this game, this viral little tick tock game as well, you can leave it in the comments on who you would invite and make sure you tag your friends. Outside of that. I need to go and wake my kid up. I need to take my three dogs out, the ones that are not at the pound. And yeah, if you guys have not subscribed to the show, you can do that from any podcast app, wherever you get your pods. Always first at podcast one. We hope you guys have a great week, and we'll talk to you soon.
Lindsay Chrisley
Love you. Bye.
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Date: July 29, 2026
Host: Lindsie Chrisley
Guest: Becky
In this lively, candid episode of The Southern Tea, Lindsie Chrisley reunites with Becky for a catch-up session brimming with humor, real talk, and a touch of chaos. The conversation flows from wild NYC trip recaps to honest discussions about healing post-divorce, creative summer plans as moms, viral true-crime on Netflix, and the evolving dynamics of friendship, bullying (playfully, of course), and personal growth. True to the show’s vibe, no topic is off-limits, and nothing is left unsaid.
The episode’s tone is a playful mix of southern warmth, self-deprecating humor, and vulnerable, honest conversation. Lindsie and Becky navigate the messiness of modern adulthood, motherhood, blended families, internet drama, and personal healing with wit, empathy, and a refusal to sugarcoat reality.
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